The Dimah Podcast

RAMADAN MUBARAK FAMILY! You know, one of the most powerful things you can do is stay true to yourself. When you really understand who you are, what you stand for, and where your intentions lie, it changes everything. The world won't have the same impact on you anymore because you're no longer swayed by chaos or the opinions of others. It's like you're solid in your own skin. In the past, maybe when you were uncertain about where you were headed or unsure of who you really were, outside noise had the power to throw you off track. But when you know yourself, when you're comfortable in your own identity, nothing anyone does or says can shake that foundation. That's why it's so important to reflect on who you want to become. Take time to think about your growth and where you're headed. Instead of reacting to life and letting it throw you around, approach it proactively. When you know your worth and your path, you’ll feel a sense of peace that helps you navigate through everything with confidence and purpose. We love you all so, so much!

Have you ever noticed how in moments of stress, when you're feeling attacked or in the middle of a heated disagreement, it’s so easy to just lose your cool? When you let your emotions take over, nothing really gets solved. In fact, it often makes things worse. That’s where the saying 'cooler heads always prevail' comes in. It’s a reminder that when things get tough, it’s so important to stay calm. If you don’t, you’re just throwing more fuel on the fire, and that doesn’t help anyone. You can’t find any real progress or resolution if everyone’s just arguing for the sake of arguing. The key is to keep your composure, take a step back, and try to figure out a solution, rather than just adding to the chaos. It’s about thinking clearly and not letting the heat of the moment cloud your judgment. We love you all so, so much!

The energy you carry with you is so important because it directly impacts how you move through the world and how others perceive you. When you’ve taken the time to truly understand yourself—your strengths, your weaknesses, what you’re capable of—it gives you a sense of confidence that isn’t rooted in arrogance. It’s a quiet kind of confidence, a purity that comes from knowing who you are, what you’re about, and what you still have to learn. It’s not about thinking you’re better than others, but about having that peaceful awareness that you’re doing your best and that you’re open to growth. You’re aware of your flaws, and you don’t shy away from them. But you also understand your strengths and don’t downplay them. It’s a balance. You want the best for yourself, but you also genuinely want the best for others. This creates a kind of energy that feels real and grounded. People pick up on it—it’s magnetic in the best way. And here's the thing: when you hold this energy, it translates into every part of your life. The way you handle challenges, the way you interact with others, how you show up for yourself—it all shifts. People see the authenticity in you, and they trust it. They can feel that you're not trying to impress or fake it, but rather that you are constantly evolving and learning. And that energy? It makes everything you do feel more purposeful, more impactful. We love you all so, so much!

Change can be really scary, right? It’s so easy to get stuck in a funk because we’re scared of what might happen if we step outside of our comfort zone. We sit there, worrying that things might go completely wrong if we make that leap. The unknown feels overwhelming, and it’s so much easier to stay where we are, even if we’re not happy, just because it’s familiar. But here’s the thing: what if that one decision, the one you’re scared to make, is the very thing that could change your life in the best possible way? Like, we spend so much time afraid of change, afraid that it might not work out, but we forget that sometimes all it takes is that one leap to completely shift the direction we’re headed in. It’s normal to be scared—everyone feels that way at some point. But trusting yourself, trusting that you can handle whatever comes next, is key. You don’t always know what’s on the other side of that big decision, but that’s where growth happens. The biggest opportunities often lie on the other side of fear. So, yeah, it’s terrifying. But what if, in that leap, you’re opening yourself up to something amazing that you wouldn’t have gotten otherwise? It really all comes down to a decision—a choice to trust yourself enough to take that first step. It could change everything. We love you all so, so much!

In today's world, it's so easy to be influenced by others. Whether it’s social media, friends, or even strangers, there’s this constant pressure to fit in, be liked, or just be seen. It almost feels like you have to change who you are to match what’s "cool" or what everyone else is doing. But here’s the thing: letting yourself be too easily influenced can seriously mess with your character. It can start to shift who you are, maybe even without you realizing it. We’re surrounded by so many ideas and opinions every day, and sometimes we get so caught up in trying to please others or keep up with the crowd that we forget who we really are. You start adopting other people’s perceptions, wants, and expectations, and it’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. Your own values, the things that make you unique, can get pushed aside, and that’s when the impact becomes negative. It's important to stay true to yourself, even when it feels like the world around you is trying to pull you in a million different directions. Hold on to your morals, stay grounded in what you believe, and don’t let negative influences change your path. No matter what, remember the value you bring to the world—your individuality is what sets you apart. So, next time you're tempted to follow the crowd, pause and reflect on who you want to be, not who others want you to be. We love you all so much!

You know, it's easy to get caught up in things from the past—whether it's an old job, material stuff, or a time in life when you felt like you had it all figured out. But the truth is, holding onto those moments or things can weigh you down, especially when life keeps changing around you. Things will never stay the same, and that’s okay. If you're always looking back or measuring your worth based on what was, you're just setting yourself up for stress and frustration. The key is to focus on what brings you peace now, in this moment. It's about figuring out what truly makes you happy, not based on a time or a place, but from a deeper sense of joy that’s not tied to the past. Life is about evolution—your growth, your impact, and how you’re shaping the present. The more we embrace change and focus on creating peace within ourselves, the less we let those past things define us. It’s about looking forward, staying open to what's next, and finding happiness in where you’re at today. That’s where the real freedom is. We love you all so, so much!

Doing things your own way is so important because, at the end of the day, you are one of a kind. We live in a world that often pressures us to fit in, to follow a certain path, or to meet some set of expectations. But here's the thing—when you try to mold yourself into something you're not, you're losing touch with your true self. Sure, some people might not get it, and they might even push back. But if you're doing things in a way that feels right to you, that's where the magic happens. Everyone’s got their own perspective, their own strengths, and their own way of thinking, and that’s what sets you apart. If you constantly try to fit into someone else's idea of success or the "right way" to do things, you might end up playing small. And that’s not how you thrive. Doing things your way doesn’t mean disregarding others or being reckless—it’s about finding what works for you and staying true to that. When you trust yourself enough to follow your own path, even if it’s different from the crowd, you get to create something authentic. And authenticity? That’s what people really connect with. So long as your choices don’t harm anyone, going against the grain can be exactly what you need to stand out and really make an impact. In a world that often celebrates conformity, being your true, unique self is one of the most powerful things you can do. We love you all so, so much!

TDP Fam, first off, apologies for the delay in getting these videos out. Things have been super hectic on my our lately, but we're back and ready for some BIG changes!! In this episode, Adise talks about his journey of moving out of his childhood home. It’s not just about the physical move—it’s about learning to really appreciate the moments in life. It’s funny how we often fail to realize how special certain moments are until they’re in the behind us. We have this tendency to only recognize the value of something once it’s already gone. It's important to stay grounded, to stay present, and really soak in the moment rather than rush through life. And honestly, I think that’s something we could all use a reminder about. Life moves fast, and sometimes we get so caught up in the hustle that we forget to really be in the moment. We love you all so, so much!

The recent fires in Pacific Palisades have been absolutely heartbreaking. Entire neighborhoods have been wiped out, and it’s tough to watch such a beautiful area go through so much devastation. People are struggling to rebuild, and it’s hard to see what the future holds for the community, especially with the increasing threat of wildfires in California. The entire vibe of the place has changed, and it’s going to take a long time for things to feel normal again. And on top of that, there’s the TikTok ban that’s about to hit. It’s honestly pretty tough because we’ve built this incredible community of 15,000 followers, all grown organically, and it felt so real. The connections we’ve made with people over there were genuine, and the thought of losing that space—just like that—is hard to swallow. It’s like starting from scratch with no idea where it will lead. Looking ahead to 2025, there’s a lot of uncertainty, but also some potential. Change is hard, especially when it feels like so many things are up in the air. But maybe that’s the point—there’s always room to pivot, adapt, and find new ways to stay connected and keep creating. It’s a time for reinvention, even if it’s a little scary. Whatever happens, we’ll find a way to make it work, and hopefully, we’ll come out of it stronger. We love you all so, so much!

Have you ever stopped to think about whether you’re carrying emotional baggage? It’s not always something you can see, but it’s definitely something you can feel. Emotional baggage is like this invisible weight you carry around—sometimes without even realizing it. It shows up in how you react to situations, how you talk to people, and how you feel about yourself. If you’ve been hurt in the past, whether it’s from a relationship, a loss, or any kind of trauma, that emotional weight can start to add up and affect almost every area of your life. When you’re carrying around old wounds or unresolved feelings, it shows in more ways than one. You might notice that your mood shifts quickly, that you feel drained, or that it’s harder to connect with people. Even your physical appearance can be affected—stress and unresolved emotions can show in your body, whether it's tension, headaches, or just that overall feeling of being worn out. And emotionally? You might find yourself stuck in negative thought patterns, always expecting the worst, or becoming irritated easily, even with the people who care about you the most. But here's the thing—this emotional baggage doesn’t just stay with you. It affects everyone around you, too. It’s hard to spread positive energy when you’re weighed down by all this emotional clutter. You might notice that your relationships with family and friends start to feel strained. You could be unintentionally pulling others into your negativity without meaning to. It’s not that you’re a bad person—it’s just that unresolved emotions have this way of leaking into every part of your life. The good news? You can let go of that weight. It's a process, but it’s totally worth it. Releasing emotional baggage isn’t about forgetting the past or pretending like things didn’t hurt—it’s about choosing not to let it control you anymore. When you start letting go, you make room for more positive energy, not just for yourself, but for everyone around you. You can start showing up as your best self—one who is lighter, freer, and able to bring more good vibes into the world. So, if you’re carrying emotional baggage, take a moment to think about how it’s affecting your life. What would it feel like to let go of that weight? How would it feel to show up for yourself and your loved ones with a little more peace and positivity? It’s not an easy road, but it's one that's definitely worth walking. We love you all so, so much!

In this episode, Nila and Adise reflect on their New Year celebrations spent with loved ones and how it reminded them the importance of prioritizing quality time with the people who truly matter. With everything going on in our day-to-day lives, it’s easy to forget that it’s up to us to create time for family and extended relationships. We often get so caught up in our responsibilities that we forget what really recharges us is being present with the people we care about. They also talk about their next big moves—whether it's law school or going back for master’s degrees—and how they feel a lot more prepared for it now. After spending time in the real world, gaining experience, and learning valuable lessons along the way, going back to school seems like a much clearer and achievable goal. In this episode, Nila and Adise dive into everything from the challenges of balancing life and school, to the realizations they've had about what really matters in the long run. Whether you’re thinking about your own next steps or just looking for a moment of reflection, we hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired and ready for what’s next. We love you all so, so much!

Hey, TDP fam! It’s Nila and Adise here, and we are so excited to kick off 2025 with all of you. As we step into this new year, we’re reflecting on everything that 2024 brought us—the highs, the lows, and all the moments in between. From the lessons we learned to the unforgettable memories we’ve made, it’s been a year of growth, change, and connection. And now, we’re ready for this next chapter in our lives and on the podcast. We’ve both been thinking a lot about our New Year’s resolutions—what we hope to achieve, who we want to become, and how we want to show up in the world. Whether it’s personal growth, deepening our relationships, or taking the podcast to new heights, we’re so excited for the journey ahead. Thank you to each and every one of you who’s been with us on this journey so far. Your support means the world, and we can’t wait to continue sharing, growing, and creating alongside you in 2025. Let’s make this next year our best one yet! Here’s to new beginnings, fresh starts, and all the possibilities ahead. Let’s do this, TDP family! We love you all so, so much!

Sometimes, we really have to let certain chapters of our lives close in order to open new ones. And even if that chapter was amazing—maybe it was exactly what you needed at that time—there comes a point where it’s just... time. It’s like when you finish a book you loved so much, but you know it’s time to start a new one, even if you’re not ready to let go of the last one just yet. The thing is, new beginnings aren’t always about leaving something “bad” behind. They’re about moving toward something that’s going to serve you in a different, maybe even better, way. A chapter can be beautiful and meaningful, and still, its time can pass. What came before was exactly what you needed to grow or learn or feel, but now there’s something new on the horizon that’s going to bring you even more. And that's not just okay—it’s exciting. It’s kind of like outgrowing old clothes. You had that favorite jacket that fit perfectly, but now you’ve grown, or maybe your style has changed. Keeping it might hold some sentimental value, but that doesn’t mean you’re supposed to keep wearing it forever. There’s something fresh, something that fits better, waiting for you to try it on. Sometimes we have to trust that what’s coming next is just as beautiful, if not more, than what we’re leaving behind. And maybe, just maybe, it’s exactly what we need to keep moving forward. We love you all so, so much!

Sometimes, we can get caught in the trap of overthinking and internalizing everything. It’s easy to feel like if we just think hard enough about a situation, we can solve it, fix it, or control it. But the truth is, that mindset can actually do more harm than good. When we try to make sense of everything or figure out every little detail, we end up making ourselves anxious, stressed, and emotionally drained. It's like trying to fix something that isn’t even broken, or wrestling with things we can’t change. Overthinking can keep us stuck in a loop, replaying situations in our minds or imagining every possible outcome. This kind of mental chatter can prevent us from being present in the moment and enjoying life. And sometimes, by overanalyzing or internalizing, we start to take on burdens that don’t even belong to us. Not everything needs to be figured out or solved right away, and not everything is within our control. It’s really important to give yourself permission to let things be. Sometimes, the best way to handle a situation is to simply step back, breathe, and trust that things will unfold as they’re meant to. Overthinking doesn’t make things clearer, it just adds weight to your shoulders. Learning to let go, to not internalize every problem, can free up emotional space and help you focus on what really matters—your well-being and peace of mind. We love you all so, so much!

Sometimes, we get caught up in explaining ourselves to everyone who has an opinion or a judgment about us. It can feel like you’re constantly trying to justify your actions, your choices, or your personality to people who may not even care to understand. The truth is, you’ll burn yourself out trying to make everyone see things your way. Not everyone deserves that level of effort or energy. When it comes down to it, the only times explaining yourself really matters are with the people who truly care about you—those who’ve earned the right to hear your side and who’ll take the time to understand. Even then, it's important to consider how and when you explain. Not everyone is in a place to listen, and not everyone will be receptive. You don’t owe anyone an explanation if they’re not open to hearing you. Protecting your peace and energy is so much more important than convincing people who’ve already made up their minds. At the end of the day, you have to realize that you can’t control how others perceive you, and trying to constantly explain yourself can be draining. Focus on the relationships that matter most, where there’s mutual respect, care, and a genuine desire to understand each other.

When it comes to making decisions, we often find ourselves stuck between listening to our heart or our mind. It's like your heart is pushing you in one direction, while your mind is tugging you the other way. But which one should you listen to? Your mind is all about logic and reason. It analyzes, it processes, and it tries to protect you. It picks up on patterns—things you've learned, mistakes you've made, situations you've observed. So when you make decisions based on your mind, you're probably looking at all the angles, considering what could go wrong, and aiming to minimize risk. It’s cautious. It’s safe. Your heart, on the other hand, doesn't care about all of that. It just wants what it wants. It’s passionate, impulsive, driven by emotion and desire. Following your heart can feel exhilarating. It’s the thing that makes you feel alive, the voice that whispers “go for it” when everything else says “stop.” It’s the thing that makes you take chances, jump into the unknown, and sometimes even leap without looking. But here’s the thing: what if following your heart leads to pain? What if it pushes you into a situation where you end up hurt, disappointed, or stuck? It happens. Heart decisions can sometimes be risky, and not always in the “great adventure” kind of way. Still, when it does work out—when following your heart leads to something amazing—it feels incredible. There’s this rush, this sense of freedom and fulfillment that’s hard to match. The heart makes you feel connected to your true self, and sometimes, it’s exactly what you need to break free from doubt and find something beautiful. So, is it better to follow your heart or your mind? That’s the million-dollar question. Sometimes, your mind can be too cautious and hold you back from things that could be life-changing. Other times, following your heart without thinking things through can lead to regret. Maybe the answer isn’t about always choosing one over the other. It’s about knowing when to let your heart lead and when to let your mind take the wheel. The trick is finding balance. You need your mind to keep you grounded and safe, but your heart is what gives you the courage to leap. If you can tune into both, maybe that’s where the magic happens.

In this video, Adise and Nila sit down for a quick Thanksgiving recap and reflect on how the year has been going. Nila spent Thanksgiving with her immediate family and it felt refreshing being with her closest people. Adise shares that he's been on the go non-stop and feels like his energy tank is running on empty. With the end of the year fast approaching, he’s planning to slow down and recalibrate in December to start 2025 feeling recharged and ready for what's next. We're looking forward to the new year and iA it'll be the best one yet! We love you all so, so much!  

Sometimes, when things don’t happen as quickly as we’d like or a project gets delayed, it can feel like we’re stuck or that something’s going wrong. But what if there’s actually a blessing in those delays? It’s like life’s way of telling us that things are unfolding exactly the way they’re meant to—just not on our timeline. Think about it: there’s often something we can’t see yet, a bigger picture that’s being carefully arranged behind the scenes. Maybe the timing isn’t right, or maybe there’s a lesson we need to learn before we move forward. Or perhaps, the delay is protecting us from something that wasn’t meant for us. There’s this idea of divine timing, that everything has its right moment—whether it’s in our personal lives, careers, or even relationships. When things slow down or don’t go according to plan, it’s easy to get frustrated, but that pause could be guiding us toward something better. Sometimes, all we need to do is trust that there’s a reason for the delay, even if we don’t understand it in the moment. In a way, these delays are like little nudges from the universe, reminding us to let go of control and have faith that things are happening in perfect timing. So, instead of seeing delays as setbacks, we can try to see them as redirections—small blessings in disguise, helping us grow and get closer to what we’re really meant to experience. We love you all so, so much!

Life has a way of sneaking up on you, doesn’t it? One moment, everything’s moving at a steady pace, and the next, it feels like it’s all flashing by. It’s strange how quickly time passes, and when you step back to think about it, you start to wonder—how do I want to be remembered? What kind of mark do I want to leave on the world, and, more importantly, on the people I care about? You know those moments when life feels almost surreal—when everything’s perfect and you can’t help but feel alive in a way you’ve never felt before? And then there are the times when it’s tough, when it feels like nothing’s going right, and the weight of everything seems too much to bear. In those highs and lows, it’s easy to get swept up by what’s happening around us. But when you realize how short life really is, it makes you pause and think: How do I want to show up in the world? Will I weather the storms, or will I let life dictate how I respond? Sometimes, life pushes us into tough spots. It forces us to make quick decisions or respond in ways we never imagined. We feel overwhelmed or, sometimes, disconnected from the person we want to be. But what’s amazing is that, in the blink of an eye, it can all change. Life could end without warning, or at least, without as much time as we expect to prepare. Does that realization make us strive to be better versions of ourselves? Or do we just coast, letting the moments slip by without thinking about the legacy we’re leaving? I guess, when we ask ourselves these questions, it’s really about balance. It’s about taking the time to be present, to make choices with intention, to show love, to take risks, and yes, to sometimes make mistakes. Because when it’s all said and done, what we really want is for the people around us to remember the way we made them feel, the way we inspired them, or maybe how we were there when they needed us most. So, how do you want to be remembered? Do you want your life to be a story of resilience, of someone who faced adversity and came out stronger? Or do you want to be known for the kindness you shared, or the joy you brought into the world? Life is short—way shorter than we realize sometimes. But that fleeting nature of it? That’s what makes it all the more precious. So, the real question is: What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind while you still have time?

Creating a vision for your life is all about finding clarity in the midst of life's ups and downs. We all face challenges—some we can control, and others we can’t. But what really matters is how we choose to respond to them. If you want to build the life you dream of, it starts with focus. You have to be clear about what you truly want and then take steps to make that vision a reality. The hard part? There’s a lot of noise along the way. Life throws distractions, doubts, and obstacles in your path. To stay on track, you need to actively eliminate what's standing in the way of your goals, whether that’s bad habits, toxic environments, or even negative thought patterns. It's about clearing the space to grow and become the best version of yourself. But here’s the thing—it’s not always an easy or linear process. Reaching your goals often takes constant reevaluation. There will be moments when you’ll have to adjust your strategy, rethink your approach, or shift your mindset. It might take time, and it will definitely take effort. But that’s how you move forward. You commit to applying yourself consistently, even when the road gets tough. So, creating a vision for your life isn’t just about wishing for something better—it’s about actively choosing to build the future you want, one step at a time. It’s about staying focused, staying intentional, and always working toward the best version of yourself. We love you all so much!