SHE Gets It Pod

A lot of women start new relationships and reinvent themselves, because they thing the old them was too this or not enough that... Its about what do I have to do to be able to stay where I want to be... Men do it too.Merry Chrimaaaaaaaa !!!It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This goes back to that saying " Happy Wife, Happy Life" thats lopsided or make sure you find a man that loves you more... Ummmm thats stank ass energy to me.#womenaintalwaysrightChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Some women cannot read the room and every mans threshold for ya BS isn't that strong. Some women saw women in their family annoy men for decades and those men still showed up and stayed in the relationships. These new men understand their worth, they have found out that they too deserve peace and happiness as they provide.Surprise Big Gotcha!!!!It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is clearly a personal opinion from a man, but I'm still going to answer it.In my opinion, Men with big wallets and a consistent money flow never clocking what a woman has or brings, other than love, peace and a good attitude.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Its not always us its the propaganda painted visually about all of us...I truly believe that this man versus woman conversation that keeps happening with different situations is rooted in self hate. If we don't truly begin to love ourselves as Black people, we're going to have these distracting discussions that bring no progress to where we need to be as a people. We need black women and black men to love each other, love themselves and show up in life 100% to create the next generation. And we cannot do that by putting down each other and expecting happy prosperous families. Just press play so I can explain what I'm talking about.~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I promise yall, you ain't mad at women... its Men yall mad at.Its them society pressures !!!~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Its Chan and SHE Gets It PodSubscribe / Share the episode / Follow @chanbepoddin / Leave a reviewThis one, is a convo with someone who had thoughts on “why women have issues with men who date younger…” I broke it up into 3 parts. Just a good convo with two minds, giving people something to think about. It’s a bonus.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click belowhttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is my feedback from this whole season.Thank you for my voice notes.I hope men get a bit of clarity... we all have needs and wants... but there is a choice about how you go about things.Women and en need each other... But only if it's for the betterment of living. I cannot do anything with a man you depletes me.Things Women do, that Men do not like:Chronic Complaining, do something about it or shut upNegative Self-Talk and Self-Criticism, if you that bad why would I want to be with you?People-Pleasing, don’t be the fix it friend...Phone Time All Day?!? ewwwImpulse Spending, Girl You BrokePoor Time Management; why you can’t get all your adulting things done?Gossiping, mind the biz that pays youTrying to Date Like A Man, girl no matter what a man with no intentions will leave you with responsibilitiesThings Women Hate that Men do:Neglecting regular checkups, We do not want to be ya nurse in our 40’s take care of yourselfPoor diet and unhealthy eating, sir I wanna be the only one with tits in this relationshipInsufficient physical exercise, go to the gymExcessive Substance use, why do you have to drink/ smoke daily?Avoiding emotional expression, most men do not want to feel rejected or share feelings with the wrong person. We get it. But if im not a safe place for your feelings why are we together?Avoiding difficult conversations on an adult level, the only way to betterment is through itNot asking for help because of your egoProcrastination about things that will make you better Personal hygiene, why we gotta tell you… you funky?Financial habits, do you need another pair of J’s if you haven’t seen ya dentist?Accountability, what did you do? What you did created a reaction you don’t like… • Excessive screen time, you not a woman… go be busy.Thanks for listening. We can all be better. Who you spend the most time with says more about you.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Short Answer: Its often disguised as a woman being a "Girls Girl"... supporting a woman right or wrong. The second part to that is correcting the woman in private so they can be better... which often doesn't happen.Long Answer: Press PlayThis is the last question before I close out this season, If you would like to share thoughts on what you heard or now understand please call in and drop a line. 770-284-8175It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It PodSubscribe / Share the episode / Follow @chanbepoddin / Leave a review~~~https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Short Answer: Most Men are easy and they give cash for attention.Long answer: Press playIts Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Short Answer: They haven't done their self work.Long Answer: Press PlayIt’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

All women don't care about who other men date. Lets be clear.I personally, never cared about who other people chose...My parents were 30 years apart. I turned out great.8 fingers, 2 thumbs and 10 toes.Some women are nosey and concerned about why younger is your focus?It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I can't sit here in denial of what we all seeing and hearing...This is just a check in.Yall alright? Yall good?Might be time to Re- up on what gets you through."How does this government want people to have more kids, but made America so unaffordable???"-Conservatives have a message for Trump: We want more babies ( laughs )Most people had kids based on government help, now people see that having more kids isn't the smart thing to do. Get out of working peoples pockets and make these billionaires/ millionaires raise the pay. The money is there, it's a refusal for it to be given.Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Will They Care The Same Again?Short answer: Nah, never the way she did before. Its like when you have a first kid, everything is important and a huge deal... That second, or third kid you take your time and nothing is really that serious like before. You will get that second or third kid attention.Long answer: Press playIt’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com https://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's not always about men being the issue... I'll explain.At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsithttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/https://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why do women do this?I have 3 reasons I do it... some women just wanna push your buttons though.At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsithttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Some do, but most men only listen to the majority who say they need a HORSE... Be good with what you got sir. We do not need an explanation... thats between ya mama and daddy.let me explain. There are other things that matter more.At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.It’s season 24.Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod~~~Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsithttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/https://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is a heavy one.It can be many factors with women, we go through so much internally.It's not really all about men and what they do or don't do for that woman.Press playChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsithttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

For the same reasons most men don't want marriage.They do not see the point in it, "let's keep the government out our relationship."Most states, if a person consistently been at your place for 3 weeks, thats their residents... the government in your situationship.Do they get mail at your address? That's their residence too.Is your car on their insurance plan? That's their residence too.I've heard all the reasons marriage ain't a want... but Women not wanting marriage is rarely talked about.Press play !!!Chan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Now, I'm not gonna lie.This sounds bad but it's really it's the reality in 2025.A lot of our Moms wanted our Dads help more and they didn't know how to ask or explain it.There are some women that are okay with dating, love to be in a relationship with you but when it comes to having your kids, it's a definite no, no.It's not the no, that you think. Some women see that you are successful, they see that you are a gentleman and they see that you can support a family, but your personality doesn't say "Good Parenting Partnership". Some men already set a tone for women that tells her, if she has a child with you she will basically be doing 95% of what needs to get done physically for that child. A lot of women today, do not want to take on more than 70% of what it takes to take care of a child. Most women are looking for a fair parenting situation. So if you are successful, if you like to travel and you work all the time, in her mind.... Financially yes, you can probably take care of a child but how involved would you be in the day-to-day. No, you would not be an available partner how she wants a Dad around for her kids. It takes a lot to take care of a child and if you're not available the way she would want a partner she does not want your kids. Let me explain.It's SHE Gets It PodChan & PodsThis podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsitEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com use code: CHANBEPODDINhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/she-gets-it-pod/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy