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A podcast hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone to share what a love of BDSM looks like in a loving relationship between a Dominant and a submissive. People new to the lifestyle or new to the idea that BDSM and love can mix will find something to learn or realize they're not alone in their experiences or feelings.
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If Kayla Rants™ are one of your kinks, our BDSM Reddit episodes are made for you. In this week’s Reddit response, we talk about spanking “ugly” butts, learning to be a Dominant, soft limit...
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This week’s question is something both of us have dealt with – and there aren’t any easy answers. Here’s the question: How do you handle family members and/or friends who disagree with your kink...
The post Q&A: What Do I When People Reject Me For Being Kinky? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
We didn’t have it in us to focus on a single topic, so this is a bonus section episode – rambly, pointless, and chaotic (on purpose!). If you prefer a topic-based discussion, feel free...
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A kinkster feels like they’re the only monogamous person in their local kink community, and it’s really bothering them. Here’s the question: I recently got involved with a local kink community, although I’ve been...
The post Q&A: Are Most Kinky People Also Non-Monogamous? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
This week’s topic came straight from a recent Patreon live stream where we were asked about how to be confident in a power exchange dynamic and within your kink identity. Here are our thoughts....
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We are so sorry for the sound quality on this episode. We knew we had issues with the video, but we didn’t realize the mics wouldn’t be picked up when we switched cameras. The...
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We are so sorry about the audio quality! We had tech issues for the live stream/video side of things and didn’t realize until afterwards that the fix for the video had caused our mics...
The post Do Submissives Really Have All the Power in D/s? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
A kinkster’s ex-spouse figured out they were kinky during the divorce, and it impacted the divorce decree. Now they want to introduce their sub but are worried about being found out later. Here’s the...
The post How Do I Introduce My Kink Partner and Honor the Requirements of My Divorce? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
We’re back from our break and answering some random relationship questions we found on Instagram! In this episode: Get your free ticket to the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit, April 8-11! Questions: What’s your favorite...
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A kinkster is part of their local community but still finds it difficult to make connections, especially with a possible long term partner. Here’s the question: I’ve been an active member of the community...
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We’re going on break next week but before we do, we asked for your kinky hot takes and unpopular opinions over on Instagram! Here’s what we think… In this episode: We’re taking next week...
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A kinkster had a question about specific items they wanted to use in kink which gave us a great excuse to talk about pervertables in general! Here’s the question: I am on a budget....
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For this week’s episode, we asked for your questions over on Instagram. In this episode: Check out our newest products on our Etsy shop! Disclaimer: Yes, we’re answering the questions that allow us to...
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The person who submitted this question said it was complex, and they weren’t wrong. Here’s the question: I have a question on how to handle loyalty conflicts in complex situations. I live in Europe,...
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This week’s episode isn’t meant to be a continuation of the pleasure Dom discussion from last week – though it seems that way. Instead it’s a reminder to (too many) kinksters that yes, submissives...
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This week’s question comes from a submissive who’s getting their desire for kink and sex back but doesn’t want to feel like they’re telling their Dom what to do. Here’s the question: I (31F...
The post Q&A: How Do I Let My Dom Know I’m Ready for Sex and Kink Without Feeling Like I’m Initiating Play? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Pleasure Dominant is a relatively new term, probably born from the internet, but what does it even mean? Let’s talk about it. In this episode: New products available on our Etsy shop! Disclaimer: Regardless...
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1This week’s question comes from a submissive who wants to be told what to do in power exchange, but their Dominant can’t handle the mental load. Here’s the question: I ask my Dom, “What...
The post What Do I Do When My Dominant Can’t Handle the Mental Load? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
It’s been too long since we’ve responded to the BDSM side of Reddit, so here we are! In this episode: We’re live streaming on Friday, February 16 at 9:30pm ET. Help kinksters in Atlanta...
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A kinkster wants to be their most authentic self with a close friend but isn’t sure it’s working. Here’s the question: I am currently struggling in a friendship and wondered if yall had any...
The post Q&A: Can I Be My Authentic Kinky Self With a Vanilla Friend? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
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Hi guys, I wanted to thank you for the podcast. I have a question, did you have another channel before? Cause I see episodes from 63 not before
you can not have a set of balls and not be a man according to biological science lmfao
I love BDSM and I think it's just awesome and you can't do without it if you want to really rest your body and soul. But it's often hard to find even an interlocutor on the subject, because it's often taboo and people try not to talk about it publicly. But I found a great social network here https://bdsmlr.com/ where you can discuss this topic with anyone, there are all like-minded people. It's cool and nice for me personally. I recommend it.
not all the episodes loaded. starts at LB063 here. I found LB001 at https://lovingbdsm.net/2015/08/27/anyone-can-be-kinky-lb001/
So, I don't think completely skipping dungeons is a hard red flag. I feel like listening to the reason is make or break on that. For me, my local dungeon was open all of Covid and I'm no longer comfortable going there because it said a lot of their stance on saftey. Which I feel is super valid. You are right that there could absolutely be a red flag in refusing if it's some creep doing bad stuff they don't want to see in public. But, I don't think the entire act in itself is a red flag.
That was an hott episode
Really great advice!
Oh I'm so glad I found this podcast!
I don't mind if my SO plays with himself IF he thinks of me.NOT looking at all of the free porn photos, that no matter your age, that is so accessible from the web......Im so sick of sex and naked people, screwing like idiots all over the internet.I really like the D&S, I'm just not that much into toys or videos.I just want real, live,wild, passionate sex......So where did it go?
Omg I just found this podcast and I looooove it
I'm enjoying listening to you both so mush. and learning so much
I am a daddy dom and more people need to listen to this cause it's true
Where to begin? Kayla and John are real, honest, and relatable. For the first time in my life I feel normal. thank you, both, for helping me to not just feel "ok" but to feel like I belong, like it will all be all right, and for giving me the strength to believe that it's acceptable to want to give in.
This made me feel so amazing as a Sub. Thank you so much.
This podcast is the only one I listen to. It’s so informative and I’ve learned things about myself I didn’t know. Keep up the great work. ☺️
this Podcast is awesome and its very helpful
Thank you so much for posting these!!
Thank You. This blog is exactly what I need.
My girl got he hooked. John and Kayla are funny, witty and honest. I listen while I'm at work and have learned a lot about myself and the life style
Hi Kayla & John! I'm new to the bdsm community; however, I've recently engaged in a loving relationship with my DaddyDom , who's broached the opportunity for us to have a DDLG relationship as well. I relate to the "Little" identity; however, I'm also feisty, sassy, have a strong personality and have also identified myself as being a switch and a Warrior Princess Submissive. I'm in need of assistance on how to ease myself into Little mindset with my DaddyDom. looking forward to your thoughts and guidance! ❤🙏❤ kindest regards, Boo Bear Little