The Family Captain

This episode is all about exactly how to talk to your kids about sex and God's good design for the marriage bed.We believe that dads need to be the primary discipler for their kids in every aspect of their lives, but particularly so in their sexuality. The enemy has wounded so many people in their childhood in sexuality, and it's not something you can afford to leave to chance, especially in our hyper-sexualized and perverted world.This one is highly tactical, but more importantly shows you another specific way to use the broad Family Captain principle of being on OFFENSE instead of DEFENSE.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ ---In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:07 "The Talk" with your kids?3:44 Will I "steal their innocence"?7:02 What age to talk about things10:59 Options for conversations12:22 Talking about anatomy correctly18:03 Discomfort19:52 What's at stake (clip?)24:59 If you're "late" to the party28:57 Books and resources33:31 Go from defense to offenseMentioned:God's Design For Sex (series of 4 books): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00O5DIVTU/God Made All Of Me: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1942572301/---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

This is the definitive episode - with examples - on how to navigate and respond when your wife becomes hysterical or overly emotional.Stop taking the bait. Start leading. Remember you're her head, not her "life partner" (puke).If your marriage is otherwise decent, but her emotions get the better of her, you, and your entire family...hit the play button ASAP to level up your marriage and your life right now.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ ---In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:21 A hysterical wife6:57 Tracking your wife's cycle10:07 Understanding, not justifying16:44 How to screw up when your wife's emoting (CLIP)22:51 Emotional ambush before bed24:55 How to be the lighthouse28:51 Silence or matching her?37:45 Discerning the timing46:42 Honoring the weaker vessel52:43 Starting to fix this in your marriage---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Gentlemen. It's a new year.Reflect on 2025, but more importantly, it's time to get your vision dialed in for 2026.This episode will help you do just that, BUT...Our advice probably isn't what you're expecting.We don't keep things surface level like the other videos or resources you might find out there for how to "win" the year. We're going foundational, because it's what we know ACTUALLY changes families, marriages, and lives.So if you're ready for 2026 to be THE year you become the greatest man your wife and your kids have ever known, press play and get ready to take action.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ ---In This Episode:0:00 Intro1:59 Leading your family well into 20265:37 Vision vs. Tactics9:31 Gratitude11:57 Your REAL "Why"14:18 Your Standard21:28 God's word, not mine23:30 The enemy27:56 Your actual vision38:58 Vision with Brotherhood45:39 Your next step to winning 2026---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Gentlemen...the future is going to get really weird, really fast.I'm talking like, maybe in the next 2 years. Max, no more than 10.And this isn't me making up numbers with my tinfoil hat on in my conspiracy bunker.These numbers are coming from the top AI experts on the PLANET. They all give 2-5 year timelines before things get really, really weird...and potentially dystopian. 10 for the "ridiculous" conservative estimate.We're talking ALL jobs vanishing.And maybe much, much worse. Depends on how benevolent AI is.We HAVE to talk about this seriously.Family captains are prepared.We don't know how it's going to play out, but I will tell you this much...Family leadership is THE thing.It's always been THE thing, but we're about to find out just how important it really is.Join us in opening this discussion, because it's going to be the most important discussion we as fathers and leaders have.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:33 The potentially terrifying future of AI7:52 3 Levels of AI18:12 Where's the seatbelt?28:06 YES, your job, too33:06 Family leadership is THE thing45:34 Psalm 4647:47 Warring in prayer53:57 We were created for such a time as thisMentioned:Diary of a CEO Podcast (main channel): https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO/videosThe AI Safety Expert: These Are The Only 5 Jobs That Will Remain In 2030! - Dr. Roman Yampolskiy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UclrVWafRAIEx-Google Exec (WARNING): The Next 15 Years Will Be Hell Before We Get To Heaven! - Mo Gawdat https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9a1nLw70p0&t=59sGodfather of AI: They Keep Silencing Me But I’m Trying to Warn Them! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giT0ytynSqgCreator of AI: We Have 2 Years Before Everything Changes! These Jobs Won't Exist in 24 Months! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zQ1POHiR8m8An AI Expert Warning: 6 People Are (Quietly) Deciding Humanity’s Future! We Must Act Now! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P7Y-fynYsgE&t=166sAI Expert: We Have 2 Years Before Everything Changes! We Need To Start Protesting! - Tristan Harris https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFU1OCkhBwo---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain ---Are you going to be as uncomfortable as JM during this episode?Honestly we hope you are. Because here's the thing...Most men have no freaking idea how sweet marriage and family life can be.They spend their hard earned money truck accessories, or a vacation.That might have a little, tiny bit of fruit.But guys there is a way to invest in your family that has GENERATIONAL fruit. For your life, for your wife's life, for your kids' lives, for your grandkids' lives...Our goal is to make you aware of that today. And if we have different values, that's cool.But we wouldn't be loving you if we didn't at least give a good, complete overview of what life COULD look like, if you're willing to take the plunge.In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:30 Lead with strength and love7:40 The incredible vision you can accomplish18:35 God's plan is so much greater than our plan29:58 Family Captain Vision35:31 Decision making and values54:14 Entitlement1:01:01 Gratitude1:07:22 Excuse killer ---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain ---You've probably never heard parenting advice like this.Not because it's radical.But because it's Biblical, wise, and proven by it's fruit.The culture hates you, it wants to confuse you, and one of the main ways it does that is by making you think there's no such thing as parenting wisdom...that you're just supposed to 'make it up'...or not even think about it in the first place.We are here to dispel that lie and teach you some basic foundational things about what your expectations should be like to lead a loving, godly home as the father.Discipline, consequences, speaking to your kids, the difference between boys and girls when parenting...This is a must listen for all Christian fathers who want to apply wisdom to their fatherhood.In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:44 Inconsistency in kids11:40 What to do when kids fight22:46 Insincerity in apologies27:32 What if you don't have the bandwidth?31:03 If your wife feels like she's lost authority in the household39:00 If your wife is the main disciplinarian43:39 Training daughters52:38 Don't exasperate your children1:04:31 Captaining your ship---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

This whole episode is Chris asking JM bite sized questions and containing the answer to just a couple minutes, like you might get with a speaker after he gets off stage.Want to learn how to initiate sex with your wife when she's not in the mood? How to have conversations when you're in crazy season? How to have more fun and be more joyful as a father? What ONE book JM recommends? What he recommends guys stop doing in marriage? This episode is a buffet of solid, practical, biblical answers to everyday marriage and family leadership issues.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ ---In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:59 How to initiate sex when your wife's not in the mood6:24 Do the dishes?15:04 Meaningful conversation when everything is busy18:03 How to bring fun into fatherhood24:25 Don't feel attracted to my wife anymore30:45 How to stop escaping into addictions38:31 Rapid fireMentioned:Episode on Masculine Confidence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUuFRxfP2xIExtreme Ownership by Jocko Willink: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0739PYQSS/---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Want to know the nitty gritty of what we do around the holidays? You're in luck.In this episode, JM and Chris share what their Christmas' look like as families, share some extremely actionable insights for leading over the next month, and give some bonus tips along the way for Thanksgiving, navigating travel boundaries, and how to not give terrible gifts.This episode is THE weapon you need to enter into the next month with peace, joy, and leadership that will bless your family.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro 2:37 Santa Claus?9:33 Christmas Morning18:44 How to prepare for the holiday season as a leader26:33 Ungratefulness and discipline37:20 Pressure to gift48:57 Unique holiday traditions54:19 Boundaries---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

The culture and our own sin leads many men these days to accidentally masculinize their wives.In turn, their wives become less feminine, less sweet, less submissive...Husband and wife become more like "life partners".Nobody's happy, everyone's stressed, and no one knows why.Well, this is why.In this episode we'll unpack exactly how you're (accidentally) making your wife act like a man, and what to do about it, because our goal is to help you become the greatest man your wife and kids have ever known.When you unlock the levels of leadership we walk you through, you'll find your wife likely responding in more feminine, tender, open, helpful, and submissive ways.Let's dive in.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/---In This Episode:0:00 Intro1:15 How to know if your wife is being masculine?6:22 The cost of making your wife your "bro"9:06 TERRIBLE advice15:44 What if neither of you have the "soft" skills?26:31 Soften your wife as the protector35:07 Capacity for meanness45:44 Lack of provision creating chaos53:05 Missing leadership makes your wife masculine59:04 Loving your wife and kids how they need to be loved---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

What started as figuring out how to lead a "type a", go-getter wife, quickly turned into a DEEP dive on the importance of rest, Sabbath, and margin.Too many people don't even THINK about this topic today. We live in a go-go-go society.I've got news for everyone:You can't do it all.You're not God.If you don't have time for everything you've "got" to do, then it's not from the Lord, plain and simple.Time to start developing your life around your actual values, and make some trade offs. But you MUST build rest into your weekly rhythm for you AND your wife.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro 3:42 High Performing Wife Outpacing Your Leadership?9:02 Should Your Wife Run Your Family Calendar?13:57 Sabbath19:54 When There's No Margin35:37 Serving in the Church with a Young Family?42:58 How to Actually Slow Down Your Family---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Look, things are crazy out there, guys.And seemingly only getting crazier.So what is a man to do?Do we become insular and shy away from the things presented to us?Do we grab the bull by the horn and demand everyone fall in line?Or is there another way forward for men who want to be Family Captains?In this episode, we talk about a lot of timeless things relevant to Christian husbands at this point in history, including how to do a "fruit assessment" in your marriage and life, how to not be paralyzed by what's going on, how to win at home AND work, and more.Let's dive in.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/---In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:01 What do we do in this chaos?8:37 If you're paralyzed by worldly situations...12:32 Action builds sexual attraction21:19 Not in a playful season?25:18 Personal "Fruit Assessment"40:19 Nick Saban (crushing it at work but not home?)47:29 Alpha in the work place but weak at home?51:03 What if you crush at work but are too exhausted to care at home?1:01:22 The next stepMentioned:Nick Saban Clip: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/foBm57NNqS8No More Christian Nice Guy: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0764212680/No More Mr. Nice Guy: https://www.amazon.com/dp/9391560407/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

There's not a lot more dangerous than being a limp man.It's one thing if you're ignorant and ready for a wake up call...But it's another thing entirely if you're just passive, not making the changes you know need to be made, and letting life slide by.Today is our wake up call to you if you've been slacking on taking ACTION.Don't navigate backwards...make sure to watch this one and take the first little step into becoming a strong, erect, penetrating man of action.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro3:02 Limp men have a false sense of progress4:57 Employee to Owner7:26 Being stagnant11:31 What needs to shift to take action14:59 Making it impossible to fail20:25 The greatest objection...25:37 A typical wife's reaction30:46 The danger of being a limp man40:51 Our gift to you---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Do the small things really make a difference?Should you really start by making your bed when your home is in chaos?The answer may surprise you. It doesn't sound sexy, it's not a home run...but if you hit singles and a couple of doubles, you're rounding the bases. When you take care of the little things, that 1%, 3% increase adds up.Turns out the big things are tackled one little thing at a time.We'll explain the broken window theory of family leadership in this episode, and give you some specific ideas on how to start levelling up TODAY, without the overwhelm of having to figure it ALL out.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro1:05 John Michael Takes The Stage, Doesn't Get Canceled7:09 Get Fruit FAST8:59 The Broken Window Theory14:17 The little things that lead to big things18:15 Momentum!34:15 You get what you tolerate45:08 Reclaiming Dominion49:05 Next stepsMentioned:VidAngel: https://www.vidangel.com/Tineco 5: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09P2RKRWX/👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

You think your 7/10 marriage is pretty good. Then you discover what a biblical marriage actually looks like and realize you're closer to 7/100. The problem isn't that you need better communication or more date nights...it's that you've been sold a lie about partnership and mutual submission that's turned you into a family butler instead of a family captain. What if everything you've been taught about loving your wife is backwards? What if the "nice guy" approach that keeps the peace is actually destroying the respect, freedom, and passion your marriage was designed for?---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro8:00 Default Marriage11:25 Being afraid to lead23:09 Mutual submission38:32 What it looks like to move from "co-submission" to leading45:24 You can't lead with co-submission51:29 The two ditches1:03:35 Getting unstuck---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

You want your marriage to go from good to legendary. You want to actually lead your family. But here's the problem: most men don't even know what they really want because they're too busy living for comfort, managing other people's expectations, or settling for "fine." This episode hands you five questions that will either unlock your next level or expose that you've been lying to yourself about what you're actually willing to do. If you answer these questions honestly, you'll unlock a whole new world.👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:11 Intro2:57 The questions6:16 When these questions hit us in the nuts13:25 A win from actually answering these questions21:52 How to start asking and implementing31:22 The Law of the Spectrum37:11 Wisdom46:42 The biggest unlock48:45 What have I tolerated that must be crucified?55:56 Submitting your plans to the Lord59:32 Big Family Captain news---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

What does it really mean to have sexual integrity as a man of God? Chris and JM unpack the hidden struggles many Christian men face, even beyond internet addiction, and expose the subtle compromises that keep men from true freedom. JM shares his personal story of confession, breakthrough, and leading his family with strength and purity. Together, they challenge men to move from playing defense against temptation to running a mighty offense in faith, purpose, and leadership. If you’ve ever wondered how to walk in real victory over lust, shame, and mediocrity, this is the episode you can’t afford to skip.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:58 Sexual integrity struggles6:12 Guarding your thoughts14:20 Why your burdens are blessing you19:22 Guardrails?28:02 Where to start35:54 This is impacting your marriage44:32 Full and true freedom56:00 Prayer---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

What if your wife actually WANTED more intimacy...and you were the man she couldn’t resist? In this episode, Chris and JM dive into 10 (of 34) proven ways to have more sex with your wife.From tracking her cycle to leading yourself like a man on a mission, they reveal practical and biblical strategies that build real attraction. This isn’t about cheap tricks. it’s about becoming the man your wife longs for in every way. Stick around to the end, because these insights will completely reframe how you approach leadership, marriage, and the bedroom.👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠In This Episode:0:00 Intro2:42 #1 Track Her Cycle8:30 #2 Don’t Pout18:24 #3 Send Flirty Texts24:30 #4 Never Ask Again34:25 #5 Love God More Than Her43:12 #6 Be a Man on Mission49:49 #7 Stay Groomed & Fit57:42 #8 Quit Internet Trash1:00:30 #9 Make Her Feel Beautiful1:05:33 #10 Give Her Rest👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Something is stirring in America, and it’s bigger than politics. Chris and John Michael dive into the surprising ways Jesus is being proclaimed at the highest levels of government and why it matters for your home. From the White House to your house, this episode explores how to ride the spiritual momentum sweeping across the nation. Along the way, they tackle cynicism, margin, family leadership, and boldness in sharing the gospel. Get ready for practical wisdom, fiery encouragement, and a challenge to step up as the man your family needs right now.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro1:06 White pill maxxing7:03 Comparing post-9/11 unity vs. today9:31 Don't be a cynic and don't squander this18:39 Creating margin for family discipleship31:48 Momentum38:55 Lighting your household up43:50 Exactly how to share the Gospel58:43 A personal story on bold obedience1:04:02 ANNOUNCEMENT!---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

Last week, Charlie Kirk’s life was cut short by an act of evil. In the days since, countless stories have surfaced - not of controversy, but of a man marked by conviction, grace, and an unshakable devotion to his faith and family. His friends, colleagues, and even opponents testify to a rare combination: courage to speak truth without apology, and restraint to meet hostility with patience. In this episode, we reflect on what Charlie’s life and death reveal about legacy, the cost of truth, and the quiet strength of a husband and father who left behind more than a movement. If you’ve ever wondered what it means to live boldly, love deeply, and lead with faith in a world full of noise, this conversation will give you both challenge and hope.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro1:13 The very impressive Charlie Kirk8:13 Legacy vs. noise10:22 Family as your calling16:33 Noise that kills legacy (and grief)24:43 Can you build a "comfortable" legacy?28:50 Christians and politics and Charlie Kirk30:11 Is there such a thing as to much truth?36:55 The gift of restraint43:15 Preparation behind boldness47:55 Being a truly great man55:22 Martyrdom, conviction, and preaching the gospel daily1:00:21 God goes before us1:04:22 Closing prayer👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

We have a very special episode today, because JM's wife Natalie Clark joins us again for the second time.This is another peak behind the curtain to give you the information you won't find anywhere else when it comes to becoming a godly, masculine leader who builds a great family with a respectful, submissive wife.Find out what Natalie thought JM did wrong in the early days, why submission is actually beautiful to Natalie, how to get your kids to do chores, how to support your discouraged wife, and much, MUCH more.Every Christian man who wants to build an even better family needs to listen to this one.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠---In This Episode:0:00 Intro 2:42 The Clark's6:31 Early marriage (before we knew any better)9:48 When things start to shift16:18 Submission...a dirty word?18:11 What your wife feels like when you start leading well21:12 Godly parenting dynamics28:48 Parenting when you have littles33:28 Getting kids to do chores39:08 What to do when your wife is discouraged47:33 Raising young men into adulthood51:10 Kids' sports?58:43 Screen time?1:05:46 How to start building a Godly family culture1:10:06 Family Captain Dating App1:15:04 Prayer---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: ⁠https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/⁠---Mentioned:Our first episode with Natalie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxB9Y9OiUXwEndurance by Alfred Lansing: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0465062881/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.