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Love This Way!
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The Love This Way Podcast delivers honest, healing, and transformational conversations about modern relationships, emotional wellness, and self-worth. No gender wars or back and forth, just solid advice to help men and women to find and sustain healthy love. Because love is a journey and you need direction!
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Send a text Most of your arguments aren’t about the dishes. They’re about power. Who gets the final say. Who adjusts first. Who apologizes. Who holds leverage. You’re not fighting about the issue. You’re negotiating position. And love cannot grow where both people are trying to win. Support the show
Send a text You don’t fight because you’re incompatible. You fight because you don’t know what you’re feeling. Hurt becomes anger. Fear becomes control. Insecurity becomes criticism. Overwhelm becomes withdrawal. Emotional illiteracy ruins more relationships than incompatibility ever will. Support the show
Send a text The love you’re chasing may have never existed. Not in real life. Not in healthy relationships. Not in sustainable partnership. You weren’t disappointed because they weren’t enough. You were disappointed because it didn’t match the fantasy. Real love isn’t cinematic. It’s consistent. #TheLoveThisWayPodcast #RealLove #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalMaturity #StopRomanticizingChaos #DatingWithIntention #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipTruth #LoveWithoutDrama #EmotionalGrowth #SecureL...
Send a text You don’t feel chosen because you’ve made yourself endlessly available. Access is not intimacy. Availability is not value. And love without intention will always leave you feeling invisible. This episode is about shifting from convenience to choice — without games, guilt, or going cold. Support the show
Send a text Black love isn’t dying — it’s being distracted, divided, and misunderstood. But we still have the power to protect it, rebuild it, and redefine it. Let’s talk about why Black love is under attack — and what we can do about it. Support the show
Send a text You didn’t just start doubting yourself out of nowhere. Someone benefited from your confusion. Someone felt safer when you questioned your instincts. Someone gained power when you lost trust in yourself. This episode is about taking yourself back — without yelling, explaining, or proving anything. Support the show
Send a text Who were you before someone told you to tone it down? Before you were labeled extra. Before you learned to shrink to make other people comfortable. Before love felt like self-editing. If you don’t know who you are before partnership, you will become who someone else is comfortable with. This episode is for anyone who’s tired of disappearing in relationships. Support the show
Send a text When did love stop being celebrated and start being investigated? Somewhere between heartbreak and survival, we learned to mistake cynicism for wisdom and suspicion for intelligence. But real love isn’t loud. It’s quiet. It’s steady. And it asks you to heal — not hide. If healthy love makes you uncomfortable, this episode is for you. Support the show
Send a text You gave them everything. Your time. Your energy. Your peace. You loved them harder than you ever loved yourself — and called it loyalty. But now, you’re tired. You’re empty. You don’t even know who you are outside of keeping someone else happy. This episode is your reminder that even God doesn’t want you to lose you for love. Because being completely devoted to someone else while letting yourself down is a miscarriage of justice. You still need you. Supp...
Send a text This year, I’m not chasing love that costs me myself. I’m not begging to be chosen in rooms I outgrew. I’m not settling for “almost,” “eventually,” or “when they’re ready.” This year… I choose me. The healed me. The peaceful me. The woman who no longer mistakes chaos for chemistry or survival for strength. Because the version of me that settled can’t come with me into this next chapter. She did her best. She learned the hard way. And now, she’s ...
Send a text You can be home for Christmas and still not be at peace. Because peace isn’t about proximity — it’s about emotional safety. Some of you will sit next to people this holiday and feel completely alone. Not because you don’t love them… but because you can’t reach them anymore. The truth is, peace is the gift most people never receive — because it can’t be wrapped, bought, or faked. It’s built with honesty, safety, and love that feels like home. Listen to...
Send a text When you love them the most… they might already be too tired to feel it. Because you can’t break someone’s heart a hundred times and expect them to hand it back like nothing happened. They still care. They still love you. But not like before. Not with the same eyes, not with the same trust. You waited until they were empty to start pouring. And now you’re drowning in the same silence you once made them live in. Support the show
Send a text You keep calling it love,but it only feels real when someone’s bleeding for it. You say you “love hard,”but maybe you just consume deep. Because what you call passion is often hunger,and what you call chemistry is really chaos disguised as connection. Love was never meant to drain you — it was meant to develop you.If you have to feed on someone to feel alive,that’s not love — that’s survival. Support the show
Send a text Everybody wants to look healed— but nobody wants to be accountable. Healing isn’t posting your boundaries. It’s apologizing when you realize you were the toxic one. It’s outgrowing your ego, not just your ex. If you keep calling everyone else the problem, you might be the common denominator. This week’s episode: “The Death of Accountability: Why Everyone Thinks They’re the Healed One.” Because growth without humility is just pride with better vocabulary. 🎧 Listen now. Refl...
Send a text She said, “I don’t owe that woman anything.” But you do owe yourself integrity — and God accountability. You can’t destroy someone’s covenant and expect your love life to stay blessed. You can’t mock another woman’s heartbreak and think joy will live in your home. This isn’t karma. This is consequence. And it’s time we start telling the truth about what it really costs to play with sacred things. Because love built on betrayal doesn’t last — it haunts. And...
Send a text Because love is what gives meaning to everything else. It’s what heals, redeems, and holds us together when nothing else can. The truth? The people who live with the fewest regrets are the ones who chose to love — even when it was hard. We spend our lives chasing money, success, and validation — but when it’s all said and done, none of it matters without love. Don’t let fear rob you of the one thing that will still matter when everything else fades: love. Support the show
Send a text You keep praying for partnership while living like you’re the only one who matters. Love isn’t a stage for your comfort — it’s a classroom for your growth. You want covenant but can’t handle compromise. You want loyalty without sacrifice. God doesn’t bless self-centered love — He blesses hearts that serve. Before you ask for your person again… ask if you’re ready to love someone besides yourself. Support the show
Send a text The moment someone realizes you’ll stay no matter what, they stop valuing what they once had to earn. You think you’re showing loyalty — but what you’re really showing is fear. Because when you believe you can’t do better, you start accepting behavior that’s beneath you. This episode will open your eyes to how desperation kills discernment, why people stop honoring you when they know you won’t walk away, and how to love again without losing yourself in the process. Tap in. T...
Send a text You’re not asking for too much. You’re just asking the wrong people. Loyalty isn’t hard for people who live by values. But if someone has never been taught discipline, integrity, or emotional accountability… how could they possibly offer what they’ve never embodied? Stop giving VIP treatment to people who don’t even know how to show up right. This episode is for the ones who keep getting let down by people who were never built to hold them in the first place. Listen now. You...
Send a text Everybody’s chasing happiness… But happiness is fleeting. Circumstantial. Temporary. And the truth is—most people aren’t unhappy… They’re just unfamiliar with peace. In this episode, I’m teaching you the difference between momentary highs and lasting inner peace—and why chasing happiness will never fill the void inside. You don’t need more things “happening”... You need to learn how to be still. This episode might be the one that resets your entire nervous system. Support the show



