Family Addiction Support

At the start of a new year—or any moment that you decide you want to make a change—it’s easy to believe that your motivation and desire to WANT the change is what will sustain you to make it - but we know from New Resolution statistics that motivation fails us every time. Motivation doesn’t fail because you’re weak, or lack discipline. It fails because there is no system in place. In this episode, Danny and Emily break down why motivation alone keeps families stuck in cycles of hope, disappointment, and exhaustion—and why waiting for your loved one to “want it” is often the most dangerous strategy of all. Using the powerful Buffalo vs. Cow analogy, we explain the difference between: * Waiting for the storm to pass * And walking straight through it with a plan, support, and accountability You’ll learn: * Why motivation fades under pressure—and what actually creates change * How families unintentionally train addiction by waiting * What the “Buffalo approach” looks like in real life (not theory) * How to move forward even if your loved one refuses help * Why systems, boundaries, and support matter more than hope alone This episode is for parents, spouses, and families who are tired of bracing for the next crisis—and ready to stop letting addiction set the pace. You don’t need more motivation. You need a different strategy. 🎧 Listen now—and if you’re ready for real support, join our free community while doors are still open. Join the Skool Community : https://yourlivingproof.com/skool Watch on Youtube:https://youtu.be/cC7NXbUjBos Free MasterClass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Schedule A Call: https://yourlivingproof.com/schedule-discovery-call Follow Us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

Episode 116: New Year. Same You. Better Support. As we step into a new year, the calendar can bring mixed emotions. For some, it sparks hope—maybe this will finally be the year things change. For others, it feels heavy—another year of exhaustion, heartbreak, and unanswered prayers. In this episode of the Your Living Proof Podcast, Emily and Danny speak directly to families who are tired of relying on motivation, willpower, or wishful thinking—and ready for something that actually lasts. Because here’s the truth: motivation fades. Resolutions disappear. And without a system, even the most hopeful intentions fall apart. This conversation isn’t about becoming a “new you.” It’s about supporting the same you—the one who’s been carrying the weight of addiction, manipulation, guilt, and emotional chaos—and finally giving that version of you the structure, accountability, and support required to move forward. Danny shares why a system-based approach doesn’t just change outcomes—it restores you. And why a healthier, supported version of you is the single most important factor in your loved one’s chance at recovery. If you’ve been emotionally exhausted, blamed yourself, or felt twisted inside by addiction’s chaos—this episode is a reminder that none of that is your fault. And that real change doesn’t happen because the year changes… it happens because you stop trying to do this alone. 🎧 Listen in as we talk about: * Why motivation alone always fails families affected by addiction * How to build support systems that hold when life gets hard * The role *your* healing plays in your loved one’s recovery * What real, sustainable change actually looks like in the new year New year. Same you. Better support starts now. Join our FREE Community : http://yourlivingproof.com/skool Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/4FCEpLonNBE Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ Website: http://yourlivingproof.com

Do we protect our kids by keeping the truth from them—or by telling them the truth?And what about the rest of the family? In this episode, Danny and Emily address one of the most painful and complicated questions families facing addiction wrestle with: Should we tell the kids? Should we tell the family? Many families believe silence is protection. But when addiction is present, secrecy often creates confusion, fear, and emotional chaos—especially for children who can sense when something is wrong but don’t have the words to understand it. In this conversation, we explore: Why kids already know more than we think How secrecy can lead children to internalize blame and fear The emotional cost of asking families to “keep the peace” by keeping secrets The difference between harmful oversharing and healthy, age-appropriate honesty. How truth—handled with care—can actually create safety and healing This episode is not about judgment. It’s about guiding families toward love that protects, love that empowers, and love that heals. Because our secrets keep us sick—and healing often begins when the silence ends. Join our Skool Community: http://yourlivingproof.com/skool Watch on YouTube : https://youtu.be/n7lyCFHF-NQ Free Masterclass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass

America leads the world in porn consumption, and it shows in the shattered lives of families of every socioeconomic class, religion, age range, and background. It is the silent epidemic that fractures the heart of millions of families. Porn and sex addiction are as toxic to the spirit and soul as any other addiction, but because it is invisible to the eye, family support and resources are scarce if not impossible to find. This episode provides practical steps, resources, and support for anyone facing this gut wrenching situation inside their home. Whether it be a spouse, child, or extended family member that is struggling - Danny and Emily not only validate the experiences so many share but they guide you through next steps so you don't have to fight this battle alone. Join our FREE Community :https://www.skool.com/yourlivingproof/about?ref=b7cd4952bdb143398cd19560f8b1e319 Youtube: https://youtu.be/y7SnocXzSYM Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ https://yourlivingproof.com

Your addicted loved one doesn’t get to decide what kind of holiday you have. In this special Holiday Episode, we give you clear strategies to: • manage expectations • set healthy holiday boundaries • avoid common emotional traps • create a plan that keeps your peace intact If you’ve ever felt like addiction ruins every holiday, this episode will give you tools, perspective, and confidence to change that—for you and your family. Join our FREE Community :https://www.skool.com/yourlivingproof/about?ref=b7cd4952bdb143398cd19560f8b1e319 Available on Youtube: https://youtu.be/FwuzmWwa43U Follow us on IG:https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ https://yourlivingproof.com

When your loved one finally goes to treatment, everyone expects you to feel relieved—but what if what you really feel is angry? In this episode, Danny and Emily unpack the emotional crash that often hits families once the chaos pauses. You’ll learn why resentment, exhaustion, and even jealousy are normal—and how to use this time not just to vent, but to heal, reset, and prepare for the next phase of recovery. Also Available on Youtube:https://youtu.be/LLZeEGcv2hQ Join Our FREE Community : https://www.skool.com/yourlivingproof/about?ref=b7cd4952bdb143398cd19560f8b1e319 Schedule A Call: https://yourlivingproof.com/schedule-discovery-call Follow Us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ Listen On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2mlrgfNphN6RoPk33CNtF8?si=acbe81dc893a4458 Listen On Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-addiction-support/id1557526568

In this episode, Danny and Emily expose the 4 most common lies families believe that keep addiction alive—even when they’re doing everything they can to help. You’ll learn how addiction twists love into guilt, how faith can be weaponized by shame, and why trying to “save” your loved one can actually keep everyone stuck. Most importantly, you’ll hear the truth that sets families free—and the steps to start changing things right now. 🎯 What you’ll take away: The 4 lies that quietly fuel the cycle of chaos How to recognize when “helping” is actually hurting A new perspective that gives you peace, not guilt How to lead your loved one toward lasting change 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@your_living_proof 📲 Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ 🎓 Join the Free Family Masterclass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass

Do you feel restless when things are finally calm? Do you catch yourself bracing for the next crisis… almost like peace feels wrong? You might be caught in the hidden addiction almost nobody talks about: chaos. In this episode, Danny breaks down why families so often get hooked on the drama surrounding their addicted loved one — and how to break free from it. You’ll learn: What “chaos addiction” really is and why your nervous system craves it Signs you might be more entangled in the chaos than you realize The science behind cortisol and trauma bonding (in plain English) Practical steps to retrain your body and mind to find safety in peace Why real love doesn’t live in survival mode — it creates space for healing 👉 Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or sibling, this conversation will give you tools to step out of the cycle of chaos and start reclaiming your peace. 📲 Follow & Connect Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@your_living_proof 🎧 Subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode — and if this message hit home, share it with a friend who needs encouragement today. More Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com/

Every family who loves someone battling addiction has thought it—even if they’ve never said it out loud: What if they die? That unspoken fear drives sleepless nights, constant anxiety, and the guilt loop that never lets you rest. In this episode of Your Living Proof Podcast, Danny and Emily name the fear beneath everything and give you tools to face it head-on. Learn what you can and can’t control, how to practice anticipatory grief without being ruled by it, and why letting go of responsibility doesn’t mean letting go of love. With raw honesty and faith-filled perspective, this conversation will help you breathe again, love your addicted loved one fully, and reclaim peace in your home. 👉 Book your free Gameplan Call: yourlivingproof.com/schedule-discovery-call 👉 Also available on Youtube :https://youtu.be/Vz45dZXzNVU 👉 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ 1.What if my loved one dies from addiction 2. Family addiction support and recovery tools 3. Anticipatory grief and addiction 4. Christian perspective on addiction recovery 5. Your Living Proof Podcast

Everyone focuses on the addict’s recovery — the detox, the rehab, the meetings. But what about you? The truth is, families are often left carrying the weight of addiction alone — drowning in fear, resentment, sleepless nights, and second-guessing every decision. In this episode, we uncover the missing piece no one talks about: family recovery. You’ll learn why your healing isn’t optional, it’s essential — not just for your well-being, but for your loved one’s chances at lasting change. More Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com/ Also Available on Youtube: https://youtu.be/qDvaku2-fG8 Free MasterClass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Follow on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

They were doing so well... so why did they relapse? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on one of the most painful and confusing moments in addiction recovery—relapse. It’s not about weakness. It’s not about willpower. And it’s definitely not because they "don’t want it bad enough." We break down the five real reasons why people relapse, even when everything on the outside seems to be going right. If you’ve been blindsided by a setback—or you’re terrified one is coming—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and a practical path forward. Whether you're the one in recovery or the one standing beside them, this conversation will shift the way you see relapse—and what you do next. This Episode also available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JBHa-8bGCrI More Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com Free MasterClass: https://yourlivingproof.com/podcast Follow Us On Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

Loving someone with an addiction is gut-wrenching. The emotional rollercoaster. The confusion. The fear. And the constant question — *am I helping or hurting?* In this episode, Danny lays out 5 hard truths every parent, spouse, or loved one of an addict *must* understand if they want to stop the chaos and start the healing. It’s raw, real, and possibly the most important episode you’ll hear if you’re trying to help someone you love break free from addiction. If you’re tired of feeling powerless, this episode is for you. Access our FREE MasterClass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Join our Program For Families: https://yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-program-8007 Watch This Episode and More on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qJiVSLaVzwc

When someone you love is addicted, it's easy to fall into survival mode—doing whatever it takes to keep the peace, manage the chaos, or fix the problem. But many of the strategies families use, though well-intentioned, actually cause more harm than good. In this episode, Danny breaks down 5 of the most common toxic patterns families fall into when dealing with addiction—and why these responses only fuel the cycle. From enabling and denial to blame and over-functioning, you'll hear real-life examples and learn healthier, more effective ways to respond. Whether you're a parent, spouse, or sibling of someone struggling with addiction, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and practical next steps to start breaking free from the dysfunction. Also on Youtube: https://youtu.be/KIu4zH5_PIo More Living Proof : https://yourlivingproof.com Free Masterclass : https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Follow Us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

Already dreading the family reunion? Wondering if it's possible not to invite them to the wedding? Summer is supposed to be a time for fun, and family—but when you love someone who’s battling addiction, these gatherings can quickly become stressful, chaotic, or even painful. In this episode, we are sharing practical, compassionate strategies to help you show up for summer vacations, weddings, family reunions, and other big events without losing yourself in the process. Whether you’re dreading the next family trip or simply wondering how to handle hard conversations around the dinner table, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence you need to navigate it well. Also Available on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ye-jwrutg2k More Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com Free Masterclass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

In this episode, Danny and Emily take a hard look at the growing trend of so-called "natural" and "non-addictive" alternatives to real recovery and healing — think microdosing mushrooms, ketamine therapy, kratom, psychedelics, and more. These substances are marketed as healing tools for trauma, anxiety, and addiction. They're often labeled as safe, non-habit-forming, and even therapeutic — but the truth is, they’re becoming modern-day counterfeits for true healing and long term recovery. Many people turn to these as replacements for actual treatment, unknowingly trading one false solution for another. Also Available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/EuVWvxlSnWE For more Living Proof:https://yourlivingproof.com/ Our Free Mini Course:https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Follow us on IG:https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

One of the biggest reasons families stay stuck when a loved one is spiraling is this paralyzing question: "Is this addiction... or is it a mental health crisis?" That uncertainty can stop parents, spouses, and siblings from taking action—afraid of labeling it wrong, of pushing too hard, or making things worse. In this episode, we unpack why this question is so common, why it keeps families on the sidelines, and how to move forward even when you don’t have all the answers. Danny and Emily answer this question loud and clear—bringing truth, experience, and hope to the heart of the struggle. If you've ever felt torn between compassion and fear, this episode is for you. This episode also available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/HVczFrj8Om0 Make sure you are following Your Living Proof on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ Free Mini Course: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Our Program: https://yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-program-8007

In this special episode, Danny celebrates 18 years of sobriety and sits down with his wife and co-host, EJ, to reflect on the powerful journey of recovery — from the darkest days of addiction to the deeply fulfilling life they live now. But this conversation goes far beyond Danny’s story. Together, they explore how the addiction recovery industry has radically changed over the last two decades — and not always for the better. They discuss the heartbreaking truth about how families have been pushed out of the recovery process, why that’s contributing to lower success rates, and what it actually takes to create lasting transformation. Whether you're walking through addiction yourself or love someone who is, this episode is a raw and real reminder that healing *is* possible — but it takes more than just the addict getting help. Because recovery doesn’t happen in isolation. It happens together. Also available on Youtube: https://youtu.be/9VNq77tAwho Our FREE Mini Course for Families: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Our Program: https://yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-program-8007

In this powerful 100th episode, hosts Danny and EJ Deaton reflect on the incredible journey of The Your Living Proof Podcast. What started as a mission to help families navigate the devastation of addiction has become a lifeline for thousands—offering hope, healing, and hard-earned wisdom. In this special episode, Danny and EJ look back at the raw moments, the most impactful stories, and the unshakable faith that’s carried them—and their listeners—through it all. Whether you're deep in the fight or on the other side of it, this episode is a celebration of resilience, redemption, and the truth that healing is possible. Thank you for being part of this community. Here’s to the next 100! Thank you for being part of this community. Here’s to the next 100. To learn more about how to join our program: https://yourlivingproof.com/living-proof-program-8007 Our Free MasterClass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Watch this Episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@your_living_proof Follow Us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/

In this eye-opening episode we dive deep into the troubling intersection of the opioid epidemic and the pharmaceutical industry's influence. While Naloxone is marketed as a lifesaver, it’s part of a larger cycle where the same companies that push opioids onto the market also profit from the treatments designed to counteract the very addiction they fueled. We’ll explore exactly what you need to know about Naloxone and how to help you learn where your state is spending its opioid dollars. We will also discuss why short term solutions are the most lethal and learn how to approach addiction from a holistic and long term approach. Studies Referenced: https://www.kuer.org/health/2025-02-20/utah-counties-received-millions-to-battle-the-opioid-epidemic-many-havent-spent-a-dime More Living Proof: https://yourlivingproof.com Free Masterclass: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass Also available on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@your_living_proof

Did you know that 95% of people struggling with addiction never get professional help? That’s a staggering number. Today, we’re going to explore why that happens and what we can do to break the cycle. If you or someone you know is dealing with addiction, this episode could change everything. References: https://public3.pagefreezer.com/browse/HHS.gov/02-01-2024T03:56/https://www.hhs.gov/about/news/2023/01/04/samhsa-announces-national-survey-drug-use-health-results-detailing-mental-illness-substance-use-levels-2021.html https://www.samhsa.gov/data/sites/default/files/reports/rpt39443/2021NSDUHFFRRev010323.pdf ALSO AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/SqnLc12uoQw FREE MASTERCLASS: https://yourlivingproof.com/free-masterclass FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM FOR MORE FREE CONTENT: https://www.instagram.com/yourlivingproof/ OUR FOUNDATION/DONATE HERE: https://yourlivingproof.com/foundation