Girl Stop Talking

105- This week’s episode gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at Tatum and Chance’s first 24 hours in Nashville — and trust us, it’s a wild ride.Tatum kicks things off with a fun and flirty intro on “Myths We Believed About Sex for Way Too Long,” setting the tone for a slightly different episode format. This one starts vlog-style before diving into all the juicy gossip — including how they almost missed their flight... twice.Tatum also shares what it was like bringing her dad along to the Stimulate sexual health and wellness event — yes, her actual dad joined the party — and let’s just say, he got a front-row seat to the chaotic energy of his daughter and her glam co-host living their best lives.Between the bar conversations, unfiltered comments about sex, and the dynamic between men and women in the wild streets of Nashville, this episode is full of laughs, unexpected moments, and life lessons for everyone involved. Tune in for stories, sex myths, missed flights, and a dad who now knows way too much.

It’s Monday, girl! And ooooh, do I have a surprise for you! On this week’s episode, the one and only Chance is BACK—yes, a fan favorite, if you will—and trust me, we have so much to talk about. But don’t worry, we’re keeping it fun as always! We’re spicing things up with some juicy ‘Would You Rather’ questions and a wild round of ‘Never Have I Ever.’ And of course, we’re getting to know Chance on a whole new level... Why, you ask? Well, babe, you’ll just have to listen to find out! Let’s get into it! Links To Follow: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast https://www.youtube.com/@makeup_bychance Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/ https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

This week’s episode is all about the expectations we put on friendships—especially me, because girl, I’ve had some lessons to learn.I’m getting real about how I’ve lost friendships because of unrealistic expectations and how much I’ve grown from those moments. We’re also diving into your poll answers and write-ins about the struggles that come with adult friendships—because let’s be honest, it’s not always easy figuring out who’s in your corner.And of course, I’m sharing some story times from the girls and their experiences, because what’s a “Girl Stop Talking” episode without a little drama, a little heart, and a whole lot of honesty?Hang in until the end for some bloopers. I really struggled sharing honestly with this without oversharing experiences that are close to me, don't worry there's more to come.

113- This week’s episode is extra special because we’re closing the chapter on my 20s and stepping into a whole new era. You know birthdays have always been a big deal for me — but this one hits different.I’m diving into childhood memories, why I’ve always celebrated birthdays like they’re my personal Super Bowl, and sharing the 30 lessons I’ve learned in 30 years. From love and friendships to career chaos and self-growth — nothing is off-limits. We’re talking about why the bare minimum is NOT effort (say it louder for the people in the back ), how red flags don’t magically turn green, why therapy isn’t the problem you are, and why your 20s are for learning but your 30s? Baby, they’re for living. So grab a drink, come laugh (and maybe cry a little) with me, and let’s toast to lessons learned, bad hangovers survived, friendships redefined, and stepping into our glow-up era with confidence.

112- ⚠️ Trigger Warning: Domestic Violence & Emotional Abuse ⚠️This week’s episode is a little different, giiiirl—I’m sharing my own personal (and very dramatic) story about my most toxic relationship. We’re talking court dates, restraining orders, wild nights out, people showing up where they definitely shouldn’t, and the total disconnect between the courts and the law.Now, I know that’s heavy, and I want to be clear: this episode includes discussions of emotional abuse and domestic violence. But you know me—I’m telling my truth with my own personal twist of humor. Because honestly… if we’re not laughing through the pain, what are we even doing?And before we dive in, I want to add some context: this story took place almost 7years ago, and lasted past it's expiration date. There’s been a lot of therapy, healing & gossiping since then, which is why I finally feel comfortable opening up and sharing it with you now.So many of us go through these traumas without anywhere to turn. I hope hearing my story you'll realize you're not alone, and even though times can be dark, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep fighting for your future self!Find Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/dontbeshadypod/https://www.youtube.com/@Dontbeshadypod

111- This week’s episode is a special one — my man is finally on the mic with me! We’re giving you the inside scoop on how we met, the funny details of our relationship, and answering all the questions YOU sent in on Instagram.We’re talking dating, love, and everything in between — from the silly quirks of being a couple to the deeper lessons we’ve learned along the way. And don’t worry, singles, we’ve got you covered too. We’re sharing advice for anyone jumping back into the dating world and how to spot someone who’s actually worth your time.It’s flirty, fun, and totally unfiltered — just the way you like it. So grab your drink, tune in, and get to know us a little better while picking up some tips for your own love life.

110- This week’s episode is all about the bare minimum — why we settle for it, how it’s disguised as “effort,” and the many ways it sneaks into our relationships. I’m spilling my own stories (with plenty of laughs, of course), plus reading a raw, personal listener submission that fits this topic too well.We’re also unpacking my Instagram poll on “bare minimum vs. effort” (the results did NOT disappoint ), and to top it off, I’m giving you the lowdown on my 10-day parasite + heavy metal detox. Because yes, apparently I’m detoxing AND dragging men at the same time.Grab your a pen and paper for this one because I'm giving you homework this week! And Giiiirlllll — this one’s unfiltered, savage, and just the reality check we all need.https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

109- This week’s episode of Girl Stop Talking is serving up chaos, honesty, and a whole lot of laughs. Tatum dives into the icks — those little turn-offs that can turn a summer fling from hot to not real quick. She shares her own list of “icks,” reads hilarious (and sometimes cringe-worthy) listener stories about summer flings gone wrong, and breaks down the most common red flag moments we’ve all ignored. From flip-flops on a first date to that infamous hot-and-cold energy, nothing is off-limits.On top of that, Tatum recaps her latest viral IG video, reads through some of the spiciest negative comments, and lets listeners in on what’s coming next for the show — plus a sneak peek into her big 30th birthday plans. Unfiltered, relatable, and always hilarious, this week’s episode is all about navigating summer flings, spotting the icks, and laughing through the chaos.Find Socials Here:https://www.instagram.com/girlstoptalkingpod/https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

*BONUS*- This week’s episode is a little different, girlfriends — we’re going full vlog style! This is my first-ever YouTube vlog (so bare with me as I figure it out), and we’re recapping Chance and I's entire weekend in Nashville.From traveling together (and almost missing our flight… twice), to introducing my dad, hitting the Nashville bar scene, drag queen comedy roasts, and living it up at the Stimulate conference — this episode has it all... in real time!It’s unfiltered, and a little chaotic… just the way you like it. So grab a drink, come laugh with us, and let’s dive into our Nashville adventure.Find Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

108- They dive into a jam-packed lineup of interviews, from sexologists to surgical professors, and everything in between — because, honestly, this one’s longer than usual! Here’s your minute-by-minute breakdown of the unfiltered magic:​04:00-11:48: Michelle, Sexual Health Alliance(SHA) – leader in sexuality education, offering AASECT-approved training & certification programs in sex therapy, coaching, & counseling.​11:49–15:08: Kerry from Tanga – Spill on intuitive sex toys and how they’re shaking things up.​15:09–19:19: Jenna, Women’s Health & Gender Nurse Practitioner – Essential care insights and why she’s redefining the conversation. https://www.instagram.com/nursejennarae/​19:20–25:38: Saundra Pelletier, champion of Phexxi (hormone-free, on-demand birth control) – Real talk on control without hormones. https://www.instagram.com/phexxi/​25:50–29:07: Valerie Gritton, Orélia Skincare – CBD skincare meets soulful healing. https://www.oreliaskincare.com/​29:08–42:40: Dustin from The Sex Party Podcast – Laughs, spice, and everything you want to know about dirty talk & partnered sex. https://www.instagram.com/sexparty.fm/​42:41–46:47: Dr. Lisa Brady, founder of Sweetums – Sweet wellness because pleasure is fabulous. https://www.instagram.com/sweetums.official/​46:48–1:02: Blanca from Like a Kitten – Sensual (and playful) self-care you’ll drool over. https://www.instagram.com/likeakitten_llc/​1:03:00-1:09:00 :Melissa from Upstate Mary – Bringing New York’s sexiness straight to your self-love routine. https://www.instagram.com/upstatemary/​1:10:00-1:17:00 :Whitaker & Andy of Amor Sui – They built a brand on self-love and confidence — and yes, we stan! https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/​1:18:00-1:22:00 :Dr. K from ProDx – Quick chat about at-home STI testing and empowering sexual health. https://www.instagram.com/prodxhealth/Plus, Tatum and Chance aren’t just talking — they’re reacting, roasting, and reminding you why they’re the duo you came for. Get the full scoop on who’s on the stage, what’s on the table, and all the juicy behind-the-scenes.Tune in — Day Two of STIMULATE is serving up chaos, insight, and glow-up energy.Find Your Hosts Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

107- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are kicking off Day One of the Stimulate event, where we hosted interviews with a handful of incredible guests.We sat down with a sexologist, a New York Times product reviewer, another fellow podcaster, a self-development coach, a hypno- and tantra sex therapist (Dr. Melissa Gentry), and Dr. Evan Goldstein — a sexual health and anal surgeon, founder of Bespoke Surgical and The Future Method.Of course, you’ll also hear plenty of updates, commentary, and unhinged banter from your two favorites — Chance and I. This episode gives you a front-row seat to what’s happening at the Stimulate Sexual Health Conference, along with valuable insight from our amazing guests.Oh, and did we mention? There’s also a special guest appearance from The Hoe Bag and some rapid-fire questions on sex, dating, and relationships that you won’t want to miss.Tune in — this one is stimulating in all the right ways.4:32-7:08 - https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/7:09-10:37 - https://www.instagram.com/biancaalbamph/10:38-16:17 - https://www.instagram.com/iamdsimone/19:11-39:10 - https://www.instagram.com/drmelissagentry/39:11-48:18 - https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/Follow Your Hosts here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

106- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are recapping our weekend in Nashville — from day one all the way through multiple nights out, including hanging at the bar with my dad, his curious questions about Chance’s life, and his thoughts on makeup, tiktok and going out with full glam.We also dive into the handful of people we met at the Stimulate event, plus all the details: the people, the afters, the setup, the breakdown, and everything that went down each day. From our hilarious run-ins with the Bach Bar cowboys to some very questionable night out experiences, this was one for the books.Chance and Tatum take on Nashville — the certified “Country Vegas” — in a weekend of full-on exploration.Subscribe to YouTube here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcastInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

104- This week’s episode is all about when life comes crashing down… and burnout takes over. Chance and I are gossiping about the telltale signs of burnout — because, babe, you might be going through it and not even realize. We spill on our own experiences, how we’ve (kind of) learned to navigate it, and of course, we get into all the toxic ways we’ve coped with it too.We’re also headed to Nashville to do some live podcasting and host a pink carpet event for Stimulate, a sexual health and wellness show! Not to mention, Chance will be taking a little sabbatical — thanks to said burnout — to prepare for his iconic Halloween content.It’s real, it’s funny, it’s chaotic in the best way… just how we like it. Connect With Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcastConnect with Stimulate:https://stimulatetheshow.com/ https://www.instagram.com/stimulatetheshow/

103- This week’s episode is all about parenting — but make it progressive!Tatum dives into what progressive parenting means to her and how she’s used open, honest conversations to navigate those tricky early childhood years — including the uncomfortable (but necessary) talks about sex as her son has grown up.She also opens up about what it’s really like to be in a co-parenting relationship — how it shapes the dynamic, the child’s life, and, of course, the funny, chaotic moments that come with it. Throughout the episode, Tatum shares hilarious and heartfelt stories from listeners who wrote in on Instagram, adding even more depth and ridiculous laughter.Whether you’re a mom, a daughter, a friend, or just someone who’s ever been around a mother, this episode is for you. Together, Tatum debunks those toxic millennial childhood one-liners we all heard growing up — and laughs at the moments when, without even realizing it, we open our mouths and our parents come out.Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

102- Waiters, Fedex, and Bedroom Fears — Oh My!We’re back with an UNHINGED (and hilarious) catch-up 7 it's exactly what you needed! Tatum recaps Chance’s birthday dinner, including how their waiter fully committed to the bit, the unexpected gift that was opened at the table, and all the vibes of the night, pun intended.Then we dive into what we’ve been up to these past few months — and let’s just say, the stories do NOT disappoint. Chance spills about an exciting parking lot encounter with a FedEx driver who wanted a little… mid-day action. Meanwhile, Tatum shares her #1 bedroom fear and how it actually came true (yikes).And of course, they’re ending on a high: The Girl Stop Talking pod is headed to Nashville, baby! Tune in to hear all about their first live hosting & podcasting event — and stick around for the part where they maybe, just maybe, ride a bull, or a cowboy or two. Grab your drink, press play, and let’s yap.

Episode 101- This Week’s Gossip: Why I Went MIA + The Red & Green Flags You Can’t Ignore I'm back, giiirll — and I’ve got a LOT to catch you up on! In this week’s episode, I share all the drama on why I slid into the shadows these past couple of months, what made me hit pause on the podcast, and how that journey led me to finishing my CPT certification, checking on health, testing hormones, and some serious self-reflection!Then, we dive deep into the good stuff: red and green flags in dating & relationships.We’re talking about the one who:🚩 Takes forever to text back but always active on IG🚩 Is still texting their ex🚩 Always gives hot-and-cold energy🚩 Sleeps with a mattress on the floor & no bed sheets? (yikes)… and so many more.It’s not all negative — I'm also shining a light on the green flags you SHOULD look for, like:💚 Clear communication & accountability💚 Emotional security & effort💚 Cheering for your wins & supporting your dreams💚 Knowing the little things It’s messy, hilarious, and honest — just the way we like it.

Happy 100th episodes girrrrllllll!! It's been 3 weeks too long and I'm happy to be back. I obviously wanted this episodes to be perfect but knew it'd take time putting it together. Tune in to quite literally watch the growth of the show! From my old bedroom, un-synced audio, shitty camera quality to an in home studio, a better camera, and a co-host! I truly wish i could have added more because I couldn't even highlight HALF of the amazing people I've had on. I tried to grab my hottest takes and funniest stories to keep you guys entertained this week! I'm shocked I made it this far, loving you all!

98- TRIGGER WARNING! THIS EPISODE CONTAINS DOMESTIC ABUSE. Hey, girl—welcome to my story!This week, I’m getting extra vulnerable and spilling all the tea on how I used these exact steps to break free from my most toxic relationship. And trust me... everything you’re about to hear? 100% facts. I seriously could not make this sh*t up if I tried!I'm opening up because I want you to know: you are allowed to change your story. If you’re not changing it, you’re choosing it—and girl, we are not choosing chaos anymore. It's time to pick you and your peace!We’re keeping it real and diving even deeper into all things toxic—because let’s be honest, some of us have been out here dating red flags like it’s our job. But not anymore, girl! I’m serving you top-shelf content plus a step-by-step guide to hold yourself accountable, set boundaries that actually stick, and finally stand up for yourself like the badass you are.Grab your drink, grab your journal, and let’s get into it.Xo,TatumFollow Me Here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

97- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are back and chatting about everything from tariffs (yeah, we’re getting weirdly smart today) to celibacy in young women—and why we’re all still out here just trying to find real love. We’re kicking things off with some trending topics to keep you in the loop and get us in the perfect mood to gossip. You already know the vibes—let’s get into it.

96- Hi, it’s me again—back for another solo episode, and whew... this one’s juicy! This week, I’m spilling the full story behind that viral threesome rumor I posted about online—the one that was making its rounds in my friend group. Did it actually happen? Has it happened since then? You’ll just have to listen to find out. As the episode goes on, I also dive into some wild relationship tales—especially about one particularly crazy ex. From him trying to tear down my soul to the ways toxic relationships can completely mess with your self-worth… yeah, we’re going there.Why do we keep picking the same partner in a different body? Are you really self-reflecting—or are you just stuck playing the victim? I’m here to help my hot girls set boundaries, stand on business, and start living for themselves again. More on that soon. Even though this was definitely a vent sesh, I wrapped it up with a little segment I call "Relationship Rules"—aka how to bring honesty, fun, and flirty banter back into your current relationship.Grab a drink, press play, and let’s chat.Find Me Here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/