The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, but it actually leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a life where the past is powerless, loneliness disappears, and drama ends.   In the third episode of this 5-part series, you’ll not only learn that we all are suffering from a severe case of spiritual amnesia, but you’ll also be taken through a simple process—a process of elimination—that leads to the discovery of your true nature.   You will learn… ·      why “Who am I?” is the most important question you’ll ever ask; ·      what it means to have “witness consciousness”; ·      to discover who you are through a simple process of elimination; ·      how to find freedom from negative thinking and emotional turbulence; ·      and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

“Pain is a portal to profound spiritual growth,” says our host, Roy Biancalana. He shares that there is a moment in every person’s life, a dark-night-of-the-soul type moment, where we realize that the well from which we’ve been drinking is dry.   It’s at this crucial moment that our spiritual journey CAN begin. We can recognize that our strategies for happiness haven’t worked (and will never work), and in that moment of despair, we can begin an honest search for answers.   In this, the second episode of a 5-part series, you will receive a profound insight into yourself, one that will launch your spiritual journey and change your life forever.   You will learn… ·      the single recognition that starts the spiritual journey; ·      the real reason people seek relationships, success, fame or beauty; ·      why attraction, manifestation and getting what you want is overrated; ·      what your life purpose has been; ·      and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Many think that spiritual awakening leads to a boring life, one of abstaining and renunciation. They fear it means never having any fun and sitting on a cushion all day saying goofy words like, “Om” and “namaste”.   But in this 5-part series, you’ll learn that the opposite is true. In fact, our host, Roy Biancalana, says enlightenment leads to a life of engagement, playfulness, and authenticity, a life where the past is powerless, loneliness disappears, and drama ends.   In this first episode of the series, you’ll discover not only what spiritual awakening is, but you will embark on the greatest journey of all—the discovery of who you truly are.   You will learn… ·      how spiritual awakening is tragically misunderstood; ·      the drastic difference between personal growth and spiritual awakening; ·      the simplest definition of enlightenment; ·      12 reasons to be interested in spiritual awakening; ·      …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Roy is back with another epic rant! The first time Roy unloaded (episode #136), he ranted about things that drive a conscious relationship like himself insane.   In this episode, which might feel like someone waking you up out of a deep sleep by dumping a bucket of cold water on your head, Roy rants about 4 things that surprise and confuse him, things that just don’t make sense. People say they want to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship and yet they don’t do the very things that are needed to make it happen. It leaves Roy shaking his head.   Don’t miss the playful and powerful episode.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses MASCULINE and FEMININE. These energies (they aren’t genders) hold the key to attraction, chemistry, and a great sex life!   But balance is not the goal as it has been in the other episodes in this series. Rather, the goal here is how to magnify your lead energy and diminish the other. It’s a fascinating topic and one you don’t want to miss.   You will learn… …what masculine and feminine mean in a relationship context; …what the toxic masculine and toxic feminine are and how to tell them apart; …how and why we can end up in “the friend zone”; …how to make sense of the trans/gender controversy; …how to display your masculine or feminine in an irresistible way; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses SELFISH and UNSELFISH. Separately, they are both true—we need to value our needs, but we also need to consider others—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.   You will learn… …why unselfishness comes back to bite you; …that narcissists and empaths are basically the same person and equally dysfunctional; …why compromise is not a value of healthy relationships; …how to shift a win/lose dynamic to a win/win dynamic; …and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses JUDGMENT and DISCERNMENT. Being wise and discerning keeps us from experiencing heartache and pain, but how is that different from being judging or judgmental? How do we discern and not judge? Listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of knowing the difference between the two.   You will learn… …what makes judgement different than discernment; …3 reasons why we are judgmental and how to stop; …3 ways we can growing in wisdom and discernment; …and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses COMPASSION and RESPONSIBILITY. Separately, they are both true—compassion and forgiveness are necessary but so is responsibility and accountability—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.   You will learn… …why relationships are often co-dependent and dysfunctional; …the “equation” for creating healthy, supportive relationships; …how the dark sides of compassion and responsibility often manifest; …the process of strengthening your “heart” or your “hammer”; …and much more.   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses THINKING and FEELING. Separately, they are both true—thoughts are important, but so are emotions—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.   You will learn… …why EQ and IQ are both necessary for a happy life and love life; …if you are a “Sheldon” or a “Penny” and why that’s dangerous; …the critical relationship skill of celebrating and appreciating differences; …why thoughts, emotions and instincts can’t be trusted individually; …what it means to have a “whole-body YES!”;   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

To lead meaningful and effective lives, we need to make sense of truths that appear to contradict each other, and that’s what this 6-part series of podcasts is all about. Each episode in the series seeks to improve our relationship and life skills by helping us find “the middle way,” or the balance between two truths that appear contradictory but actually aren’t.   So, in this episode, Roy discusses ACCEPTANCE and ACTION. Separately, they are both true—we need to accept reality, but we also need to take action—but together they seem contradictory, or at least it looks that way. But listen in and you will learn the critical life skill of finding the balance between the two.   You will learn… …that acceptance and action are not contradictory but complimentary; …how to make the best choices and decisions; …why acceptance rather than shame or anger is the best motivation for change; …how to find that grounded, centered place within which leads to the best action; …and much, much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Let’s face it: relationships can be a source of great frustration. People do and say things that trigger intense reactions within us, and all too often, because we don’t know how to handle those feelings, we react in ways that make it worse. We’ve all been there.   In this episode, Roy shares a talk given by his favorite spiritual teacher, Michael Singer. In his down-to-earth, practical style, Michael goes into detail describing the skill that we all need to develop if we want to stay centered when we’re triggered or when experiencing inner turbulence.   You will learn… ·      how and why we get triggered and what happens inside us; ·      why it’s so important to learn how to not react to the inner turbulence; ·      the two strategies we can use to let go and not make matters worse; ·      and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   For more talks by Michael Singer: www.tou.org    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K   Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, which is the final installment of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our STRATEGY.   In this episode, you will learn… ·      a practical 6-step strategy for finding a life partner; ·      a new strategy from Seinfeld’s “George Costanza”; ·      new perspectives on online dating ·      fresh, risky ways of meeting new people; ·      how trust plays a critical role in finding a partner; ·      and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, which is part six of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our Emotional Availability. True emotional availability is having a balance between openness and boundaries. But some are open without boundaries, which leads to getting hurt, while others have so many boundaries no one can penetrate their hearts. All of us struggle with one or the other.   Listening to this episode, you will learn… ·      why being single and social doesn’t necessarily make you emotionally available; ·      the dangers of having “friends with benefits”; ·      how pickiness, red flags and a list of desired qualities are signs of being emotionally UN-available; ·      how to maintain a balance between openness and boundaries; ·      and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, which is part five of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our Confidence. Being comfortable in our own skin and knowing that have a unique gift to offer others is one of the sexiest aspects of who we are. And yet, it’s challenging to feel that positive about ourselves. To develop confidence without being a macho jerk or a dramatic diva, is what this episode is all about.   Listening to this episode, you will learn… ·      what phony confidence looks like and why it never works; ·      what real confidence looks like for introverts and extroverts; ·      discover and dissolve the fear that blocks your natural confidence; ·      three things you can do right now to develop inner confidence; ·      and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, which is part four of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our “Personality Turn-Offs.” None of us are perfect. We all have a particular way we can turn people off and push people away. Discovering how you’re doing that and dissolving that pattern is what this episode is all about.   Listening to this episode, you will learn… ·      that all of us are doing something that’s turning people off; ·      over 80 possible ways you might be pushing people away; ·      how to identify your specific turn-off behavior; ·      a four-step process on how to transcend you sabotaging behavior; ·      and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

There are at least seven issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, which is part three of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our Social Life.     Listening to this episode, you will learn… ·      how cultural trends are making connecting difficult; ·      how social media might be ruining your love life; ·      the dangers of being too social or too anti-social; ·      the most two critical social skills needed for a healthy connection; ·      and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

There are at least six issues that impact our ability to “attract lasting love,” yet they are rarely talked about. Well, no more.   In this series of podcasts, Roy discusses, in the most practical, down-to-earth way possible, the topics we should be talking about. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, which is part two of a 7-part series, Roy addresses our Passion. When we have something in our lives that we are passionate about, something that brings us joy and something that we pursue enthusiastically, we are very attractive people.   Listening to this episode, you will learn… …why passion is irresistibly attractive; …the easiest way to know if you have a something in your life that you are passionate about; …three critical questions to help you identify your passion if you don’t have one; …why being passionate about finding a partner will keep you single; …and much more!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

We all say, “Happy New Year!” and we mean it. We truly want that. And truth be told, one of the things that would truly make it a happy new year is if we found our life partner this year. Well, that’s what this podcast (and the six that follow) are all about.   Roy, our host, is going to offer the most practical, down-to-earth advice as is humanly possible. In fact, he’s going to address topics he’s rarely—if ever—talked about before. These topics, and the advice you’ll receive, will give you a chance to audit your life and perhaps experience a complete makeover, which will finally allow you to have success in your pursuit of intimacy.   In this episode, Roy addresses our Physical Presentation, but he does so in a very compassionate, understanding way. He talks about our physical bodies, including our weight, hair, teeth, grooming and the way we smell. He addresses the way we dress, how we live and the condition of the car we drive. If first impressions are important, and they are, then we need to pay attention to how we present ourselves… physically.   Listening to this episode, you will learn… …the best (and worst!) motivation for getting in shape; …the practical steps to a complete physical makeover; …how to love yourself if you struggle with self-love and self-care; …the importance of financially investing in your image; …and much more!   Don’t miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Who wants to have a lousy new year? Anyone? I didn’t think so. And who wants to attract a new, healthy relationship in the new year? You do, right? I thought so.   Well, did you know that there is one single thing we must have (and it’s hardly ever talked about) if we want a “happy new year” and a happy new relationship? What is it, you ask?   A clean slate.   We need to let go of any baggage, any pain, any emotional residue from this past year that we have accumulated. That pain is like a sandbag attached to a hot air balloon. It holds it down. And our past pain is just like that. It holds us back from creating the life and love life we most want to experience.   So, this podcast walks you through, in a guided meditation sort way, exactly how to let go of the past, which prepares you for a truly happy new year.   In this episode, you will learn… ·      …why time does not heal all wounds; ·      …how to reframe a painful experience so that it’s easy to let it go; ·      …to access the inner support that’s necessary to release negative experiences; ·      …the simple shift in attitude that opens allows change to happen in the future ·      …and much more.   Don’t miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

We all know that having boundaries and setting boundaries is essential if we are to have healthy, enjoyable, relationships. There needs to be a clear line between ourselves and others, where we begin and they end, otherwise our relationships become controlling, co-dependence and enmeshed.   Yet the idea of setting boundaries terrifies most of us. We fear we won’t be heard or that our desires will be ignored, and most off all, we fear that if we set boundaries the relationship might end all together.   Therefore, most of us swallow our feelings or laugh it off when someone crosses a line, or we justify their behavior by thinking, “it’s just the way they are.” And when we do that, nothing ever changes, resentment builds, and our relationships suffer. Therefore, it’s time to talk about setting healthy boundaries.   In this episode, you will learn… ·      …about the internal belief that keeps us from setting boundaries; ·      …to access the emotional energy that’s necessary to set a boundary; ·      …how to have a boundary conversation that is likely to be well-received; ·      …what to do when a person won’t respect your boundaries; ·      …and much more.   Don’t miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy’s 3 Books: ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.