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Texas Family Law Insiders
Texas Family Law Insiders
Author: Holly Draper
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The Texas Family Law Insiders podcast brings together top divorce and family law attorneys and other professionals to discuss issues related to divorce, family law, child custody, child support, paternity, parental rights, grandparents’ rights, adoptions, and family law appeals in Texas.
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Most lawyers don’t realize there’s a hidden pitfall that could instantly doom their appeal after trial…Missing a single post-judgment deadline could cost your client everything—and it’s more common than you think.In this episode, Holly Draper takes you behind the scenes on the nitty-gritty of findings of fact and conclusions of law in Texas family law—revealing the overlooked rules that can make or break your case (and your reputation).You’ll discover…Why filing proposed findings before trial won’t shield you from critical post-judgment deadlines.The little-known mistakes that sabotage even seasoned trial lawyers on appeal.What happens behind the bench when judges delegate drafting findings—and how it could impact your client.The counterintuitive strategy for drafting findings when you’re on the losing side of the case.How missing a single day can doom your appeal—no matter how strong your arguments are.
Every Texas family lawyer dreads the moment when critical evidence gets tossed out—often with little warning. But what if you could master the rule that makes or breaks your courtroom strategy? Get ready to discover the overlooked details and hidden pitfalls of Rule 193.6.In this episode, Holly Draper and Emily Doron from The Draper Law Firm unveil the real-world intricacies of evidentiary exclusion under Rule 193.6 of the Texas Rules of Civil Procedure, revealing common traps, key exceptions, and judgment calls that could change the outcome of your case.You’ll discover…The surprising ways evidence can be excluded—even if you think you’re playing by the rulesThe overlooked “exceptions” that judges scrutinize before letting excluded evidence back inHow minor mistakes in deadlines or disclosures can snowball into appellate nightmaresThe practical tactics attorneys use to protect their record—and their clients—when things go sidewaysWhy relying on the statute alone can land you in trouble, and what seasoned trial lawyers do differently
Most mediations are doomed before they even start—not because of conflict, but because of a lack of preparation.Ever wonder why some family law mediations go smoothly while others spiral into chaos and confusion?In this episode, Holly Draper and Carrie Tapia, Board Certified Family Lawyers and Partners at the Draper Law Firm, pull back the curtain on the art of mediation prep for family law cases—and reveal why thoughtful groundwork (not luck) is the real secret to successful settlements.You’ll discover…The surprising (and expensive) mistake lawyers make that can derail a mediation before it beginsWhy timing your mediation could make or break your client’s outcome—and what factors you should really considerHow to use inventories, spreadsheets, and checklists for maximum negotiation powerWhich simple mindset shift can help set client expectations (and protect morale) before mediation dayThe behind-the-scenes strategies top attorneys use to ensure mediators arrive fully briefed and ready for action
When family law meets cultural and generational traditions, divorce gets far more complicated than you might expect…Uncover the unique challenges, complexities, and cultural dynamics at play when South Asian families navigate divorce in Texas.In this episode, Yasmin Kutty, Founding Partner of Kutty Guajardo Khoury Family Law, PLLC, and Shailey Gupta-Brietzke, Principal Owner of Shailey Gupta-Brietzke PLLC, sit down with host Holly Draper to explore high-stakes separation, legal nuances, and family involvement in South Asian divorces in Texas.You’ll discover…How family dynamics and extended relatives play a pivotal (and sometimes disruptive) role in divorce decisionsThe property puzzle of gold jewelry, heirlooms, and real estate that spans continentsWhat to do when cultural or religious holidays collide with standard possession schedulesWhy Islamic marriage contracts rarely hold up in Texas courts—and what clients need to knowEye-opening challenges around domestic violence and financial transparency when cultural expectations are at odds with legal rights
Dealing with difficult personalities isn't just a challenge in family law—it’s an art form. What if you could master communication strategies that turn chaos into progress, even in the most high-conflict cases? Unlock powerful tools to transform your approach, your client relationships, and your peace of mind.In this episode, Christina Hollwarth, founding attorney at Hollwarth Law Firm, dives deep into the realities of handling high-conflict personalities in family law—from red flags at intake to courtroom communication tactics and everything in between.You’ll discover…The “red flag” behaviors you should never ignore during the very first client call.Why some people derail their own family law cases—and how lawyers can respond.The communication techniques proven to work with high-conflict clients, co-parents, and even other attorneys.How not to become your client’s unpaid therapist—while still giving them the support they need.The ethical landmines and boundaries every family lawyer needs to navigate to safeguard their sanity and their practice.
Five years after the Texas Supreme Court’s landmark decision in In re C.J.C., the Texas legislature has made some big changes when it comes to parent vs. non-parent cases. Find out what every family law practitioner and parent needs to know about the changes to the law that took effect on September 1, 2025.In this episode, Holly Draper, CEO and Managing Partner of The Draper Law Firm, unpacks sweeping legislative updates and landmark standards that are turning parent vs. non-parent custody litigation on its head in Texas.You’ll discover…The subtle statutory word change that could bar non-parents from ever filing suit.Why affidavits will make or break non-parent custody cases—and what must be in them.How the new “clear and convincing evidence” requirement raises the bar for non-parents seeking access.What the fit parent presumption really means after this legislative session.The strategy risks—and new hope—for parents and non-parents when agreeing to custody orders.
Ever wondered how high-stakes family law cases can sidestep the chaos and scrutiny of the public courtroom? What if the oldest form of alternative dispute resolution in Texas offered a hidden path to both privacy and faster justice?In this episode, Judge Roy Ferguson, retired Texas District Judge and current private judge and arbitrator, sits down with attorney Holly Draper to unravel the world of private judging and arbitration in family law—shedding light on the little-known legal mechanisms that could change how complex cases are handled in Texas.You’ll discover…The surprising legal history behind “special judging” and why it’s far from a new trendHow high-profile (and everyday) clients are using private judges to keep sensitive disputes out of the spotlightWhy private judging might save clients money, even with added costsThe critical differences between arbitration and private judging—especially when it comes to appealsEssential advice for young family lawyers to thrive without burning out
Sometimes, a courtroom decision quietly rewrites the rules for thousands of Texas families—until a landmark case rips the lid off the status quo.What does it mean for parental rights and protective orders when the Texas Supreme Court steps in?In this episode, Holly Draper dives deep into Stary v. Ethridge—her recent Texas Supreme Court case that shakes up the standards for long-term protective orders and constitutional parental rights.You’ll discover…Why “care, custody, and control” are three words every family lawyer—and parent—should know.How fast-tracked protective order hearings can short-circuit due process, and why that matters.The surprising burden of proof shift that changes the game for protective orders lasting over two years.Masterful behind-the-scenes strategy and suspenseful moments from the Supreme Court oral argument.Practical steps lawyers (and parents) must take now if they’re impacted by this bombshell ruling.
Going through a divorce or separation is never easy, especially when it comes to co-parenting. Imagine an app that can streamline communication, reduce conflicts, and serve as a reliable record in court.In this episode, Rebecca Perra, Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator and Judicial and Legal Education Coordinator for OurFamilyWizard, delves into the ways this innovative tool can transform co-parenting for separated families.You’ll discover:How an integrated co-parenting app can centralize communication and reduce court appearances.The role of AI in improving family communication and reducing negativity.How to ensure expense tracking and reimbursement are seamless and conflict-free.Why OurFamilyWizard’s calendar feature stands out over free alternatives.Tips on doing away with "he said, she said" in custody exchanges with GPS verified check-ins.
Unlock the secrets to mastering the art of evidence in family law cases!In this episode, Spenser Housewright, a family law attorney at the Shapiro Law Firm, delves into the critical topic of evidence—how to get it in, how to keep it out, and its importance in winning a case.You’ll discover…The surprising importance of knowing your judge's tendencies to sway your case's outcome.A sneak peek into personal business records and their underutilized power in family law.Why attorneys shouldn't overuse objections, and when exactly to make them count.The crucial role of business records affidavits and how to secure them.A proven strategy to not let non-responsive testimony derail your case.
Unlock the possibilities of AI in the legal field while overcoming the challenges of technology adoption that most attorneys face today…But how can lawyers harness artificial intelligence to elevate their practice without succumbing to overwhelm or ethical pitfalls?In this episode, Alex Shahrestani, managing partner of Promise Legal PLLC, delves deep into the integration of AI and law, offering innovative insights into navigating this technological terrain effectively.You’ll discover:What AI really is and how it can transform legal practices.The importance of learning to draft effective prompts in AI chatbots.How attorneys can train AI to tailor solutions for their unique needs.The ethical concerns and privacy issues lawyers should be mindful of when using AI.Why big law firms might face challenges, and small firms rise, in the age of AI.
From Prosecution to Financial Planning—The Multifaceted Career of Guy RodgersIn this episode, Guy Rodgers, the owner of Guy Rodgers Private Wealth Strategies, unravels his unique journey from being a family lawyer to becoming a seasoned financial advisor. Tune in to learn how he helps individuals and legal professionals navigate complex financial landscapes.You’ll discover…What prompted Guy to transition from family law to financial advisor.How involving a financial advisor in divorce property discussions can significantly benefit your client.The significance of setting a revenue target and knowing your numbers as a law firm owner.Why creating an emergency fund is crucial for personal and business financial stability.Key travel hacks that can save you thousands on luxury trips.
Ever wondered how you can turn the tide on an unfavorable child custody evaluation or uncover the hidden layers of business valuations in family law? Join us as we dive deep into family law expert witness testimony with an industry expert.In this episode, Greg Beane, a board-certified family law attorney at Webb Family Law, unveils the secrets to prepare for direct and cross-examination of expert witnesses in family law cases. This conversation promises to offer strategic insights and practical advice that every family attorney should know.You’ll discover...The nuanced methods to challenge and win against negative child custody evaluations.The importance of choosing the right financial experts for your case.How to effectively handle cross-examinations to undermine the opposing expert's testimony.Key strategies for preparing your expert witnesses for direct examination in court.
Prosecutors spend far more time in the courtroom than most family lawyers, so what can we learn from a former prosecutor? Get ready for a deep dive into the strategic world of courtroom preparation and trial skills!In this episode, Emily Doron, a seasoned attorney at The Draper Law Firm, unveils the secrets behind success in the courtroom, drawing on her rich experience in the DA's office.You’ll discover…The three critical points Emily focuses on to win her cases.How to strategically prepare clients for the emotional rollercoaster of cross-examination.The art of handling exhibit selection for maximum courtroom impact.Why understanding judge preferences can change your courtroom strategy.The surprising differences between criminal and family law courtrooms that can sway a case.
Social media might be the secret weapon for your business, but are you utilizing it to its full potential? Discover how one lawyer turned her social media presence into a powerhouse for her law firm.In this episode, Gianni Avalos, owner of Avalos Family Trial Attorneys, shares her innovative strategies in social media marketing, virtual business structuring, and niche marketing that revolutionized her practice.You’ll discover:The surprising impact of removing text overlays from your videos.Why spontaneous content creation could be the game-changer you need.The magic behind TikTok’s new watermark-free video feature.How niche marketing can elevate your business to new heights.The secret payment structures that offer flexibility to clients and stability to the firm.
In custody battles involving polarizing child custody issues, the stakes are high and the challenges manifold...How can parents and legal professionals navigate the complexities with authenticity and support?In this episode, Kelly Fritsch, an experienced family law attorney and owner of a family law practice in Houston, Texas, shares her invaluable insights on effectively handling cases involving polarized parenting scenarios.In this episode, you’ll discover…Strategies for handling cases involving transgender children or parentsThe importance of mental health support for both transitioning children and their parents.Strategies for representing parents on either side of polarizing issues.Legal considerations around vaccinations and their classification as invasive procedures in custody cases.The rising legal challenges in cases with polarized parenting and how to navigate them.Approaches for estimating and managing financial disputes over children's extracurricular activities post-divorce.
Ever wondered how to prepare for an oral argument before the Texas Supreme Court? Dive into the intricate details and unique experiences of handling a high-stakes Supreme Court case.In this episode, Holly Draper unpacks the complexities and strategies involved in her recent oral argument in the Texas Supreme Court case, Stary v. Ethridge.You’ll discover…The meticulous preparation and strategies needed for a successful oral argument.The significance of having amici curiae in court cases and how they can influence outcomes.Insights into the intricate process of dealing with a non-responsive party in appellate proceedings.The importance of moot courts.A de-brief of the oral argument in Stary v. Ethridge.
Child custody evaluations can be out of the question for many family law litigants because of the expense and time involved. Could Brief Focused Assessments be a better solution in many cases? In this episode, Christy Bradshaw Schmidt, a licensed professional counselor and family law expert, reveals innovative strategies and insights to simplify and improve the child custody evaluation process, with an emphasis on Brief Focused Assessments (BFA).You’ll discover:How BFAs can be a cost-effective alternative to traditional custody evaluations.Key considerations for attorneys when working with mental health professionals.Why maintaining professional boundaries and relationships is crucial in family law cases.Christy’s top resources for family law attorneys to improve their practice.The latest legislative changes impacting custody evaluations.
Feeling overwhelmed by financial disclosures during divorce cases? Learn how to streamline the process and make your case rock-solid with insights from the pros!In this episode, Holly Draper and Carrie Tapia, partners at The Draper Law Firm, delve into the intricacies of effectively managing financial documents for mediation and court. They explore common pitfalls and offer practical strategies for attorneys and clients alike, all while uncovering the nuances of financial preparation in family law cases.In this episode, you’ll discover:How to identify and manage sudden separate property claims made during mediation.The crucial role of accurate document labeling and proper format submission.Why valuing non-statement assets like houses and cars requires a cautious approach.The complexities of business valuations and when to seek expert opinions.Proven strategies to keep financial inventories up-to-date and reliable.
Did you know that spousal maintenance in Texas has a maximum duration and specific termination conditions? Dive into this episode to uncover the intricacies of spousal support laws, how they affect divorce proceedings, and essential advice for family lawyers.In this episode, Rob McAngus, Partner at Verner Brumley Mueller Parker, P.C. and board-certified in family law, reveals the nuanced world of spousal maintenance in Texas and offers invaluable wisdom for family law attorneys.You’ll discover…The difference between spousal maintenance and alimony, and why Texas has unique rules.Key factors courts consider when determining the minimum reasonable needs test.Real-life examples of disability cases and their implications on spousal maintenance rulings.How family violence convictions impact spousal maintenance eligibility.Essential advice from Rob McAngus on building a legal document repository.


