Man Within Podcast

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam delves into the complexities of Valentine's Day and its impact on men's emotional well-being. He argues that the holiday amplifies feelings of loneliness, insecurity, and disconnection, leading many men to turn to pornography as a coping mechanism. Sathiya explains that Valentine's Day serves as a magnifying glass for relational awareness, exposing what men desire but often lack in their lives. He emphasizes that porn is a temporary escape that ultimately leaves individuals feeling emptier, as it replaces genuine intimacy with a false sense of connection.   🔥🔥 🔗 DEEP CLEAN GIVEAWAY🔥🔥   Chapters: (00:00) Why Valentine’s Day Triggers So Many Men (01:10) Porn Isn’t About Sex — It’s About Intimacy (02:32) How Valentine’s Day Affects Single Men (03:20) Dating Pressure, Performance, and Porn (03:55) Marriage, Expectations, and Emotional Distance (04:50) Sex vs. Intimacy: What Most Men Confuse (05:55) Why Porn Feels Safe but Makes You Weaker (06:40) What the Urge Is Actually Pointing You Toward (07:05) The Giveaway & Your Next Step

In this conversation, Paul Hutchinson, the executive producer of 'Sound of Freedom', shares insights into the making of the film, the challenges faced in bringing awareness to child trafficking, and the deep connections between pornography and trafficking. He discusses his personal journey, motivations for his work, and the importance of healing and integrity in combating these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal transformation and the ripple effect of individual actions on society.   🔥🔥 🔗 DEEP CLEAN GIVEAWAY🔥🔥   🔥 Access Paul's Resources: Liberating Humanity Website Child Liberation Foundation Website Follow them on Instagram   Chapters: (00:00) The Impact of Sound of Freedom (03:13) Behind the Scenes of Child Rescue Missions (05:47) The Pushback from Media and Hollywood (09:01) The Link Between Pornography and Trafficking (12:08) Personal Motivations and Experiences (15:00) The Emotional Toll of Rescue Missions (17:53) Healing and Moving Forward (26:37) Healing Through Addiction and Misbehavior (29:09) Neuroplasticity and Childhood Trauma (31:30) The Role of Psychedelics in Healing (35:52) Transformative Experiences and Redemption (38:48) Living a Dual Life: Parties and Missions (42:53) Listening to the Heart: A New Approach (45:19) Tension Transfer and Personal Responsibility (50:04) The Man in the Mirror: Personal Transformation (50:35) Future Aspirations and New Projects

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam reflects on his ten-year journey of freedom from pornography, sharing ten hard-earned lessons that he wishes he had understood sooner. He emphasizes that willpower is overrated and that true freedom is built before temptation arises. Sathiya discusses how pornography was merely a symptom of deeper issues, highlighting the importance of addressing root causes rather than just the behavior itself. He also stresses that spiritual disciplines alone are not sufficient for recovery; they must be complemented by practical systems and skills. Throughout the episode, he shares insights on the significance of community, accountability, and the need for a stable environment to foster long-term recovery.   🔥🔥 🔗 DEEP CLEAN GIVEAWAY🔥🔥 Chapters: (00:00) Introduction: 10 Years of Freedom (01:45) Lesson 1: Willpower is Overrated  (02:27) Lesson 2: Porn as a Symptom (03:46) Lesson 3: Spiritual Disciplines Aren't Enough (05:42) Lesson 4: Isolation vs. Connection (06:40) Lesson 5: The Importance of Brotherhood (07:39) Lesson 6: Environment Over Discipline (08:38) Lesson 7: Stability Over Intensity (09:37) Lesson 8: Growth and New Vulnerabilities (10:35) Lesson 9: Identity vs. Behavior (11:34) Lesson 10: Freedom as a Responsibility

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, host Sathiya Sam reflects on his transformative journey from a decade-long struggle with pornography addiction to achieving over one million downloads of his podcast. He shares the pivotal moments that led to his recovery, emphasizing that it wasn't sheer willpower or discipline that made the difference, but rather a shift in mindset and the establishment of supportive systems. Sathiya recounts his early experiences with pornography, the challenges he faced during his university years, and the realization that he needed to change the systems in his life that perpetuated his addiction. He highlights the importance of community support and the role it played in his healing process, ultimately leading him to help others facing similar struggles.   🔥 RESOURCES: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction: A Journey of Transformation (01:44) The Early Struggles with Addiction (04:33) Shifting Mindsets: Asking the Right Questions (06:27) Building a Supportive Community (09:39) Celebrating Milestones: 10 Years Clean (12:28) The Giveaway: A Call to Action (13:27) The Reality of Freedom: Ongoing Challenges (18:43) The Importance of Brotherhood in Recovery

In this conversation, Jeremy Stalnecker discusses the impactful work of Mighty Oaks, a program dedicated to serving veterans and first responders. He shares insights into the challenges faced by these individuals, particularly regarding trauma and mental health. The program emphasizes the importance of faith, community, and personal testimonies in the healing process. Jeremy highlights the need for aftercare and ongoing support to ensure lasting change, as well as the significance of finding one's identity in Christ. The discussion underscores the transformative power of hope and healing through shared experiences and faith-based support. 🔥🔥 🔗 DEEP CLEAN GIVEAWAY🔥🔥   🔥 JEREMY'S RESOURCES:  Access Mighty Oaks' Website Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Mighty Oaks and Its Impact (02:11) Understanding the Mighty Oaks Program (05:34) The Need for Healing in Veterans (09:20) Identifying Signs of Trauma and Need for Help (12:20) Moving Beyond Trauma: A New Perspective (19:20) The Role of Identity in Healing (25:02) The Five-Day Intensive: A Transformative Experience (30:34) The Power of Personal Testimony (31:39) Integrating Faith and Legacy (34:02) Transforming Identity Through the Gospel (36:04) Coping Mechanisms: Pornography and Alcohol (39:20) The Role of Community in Recovery (40:28) Identifying Success Factors in Transformation (41:52) Aftercare: Sustaining Momentum Post-Program (52:57) Surprises in the Journey of Healing

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the challenges of maintaining motivation, especially as the initial enthusiasm of New Year's resolutions begins to fade. He introduces the concept of the 'February fizzle' and emphasizes the importance of understanding one's 'why' behind personal goals. Sathiya also provides strategies for sustaining motivation, including the need for community support and resilience in the face of challenges.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) The Challenge of Motivation (02:54) Understanding the February Fizzle (05:42) Finding Your Why (08:49) Strategies for Sustaining Motivation

In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's struggle with AI-generated pornography, exploring the underlying issues of desire, rejection, and the need for connection. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's desires, the pain-pleasure principle in overcoming addiction, and the necessity of community and professional help in the recovery process. Sathiya also warns about the dangers of AI pornography and encourages listeners to take drastic steps towards healing and recovery.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to AI and Its Impact (01:25) Listener's Struggle with AI Pornography (02:48) Understanding Desire and Rejection (06:04) The Pain-Pleasure Principle in Recovery (08:37) The Importance of Community and Professional Help (10:38) Predictions on AI Pornography and Its Consequences

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the silent trap that many men face when trying to quit pornography. He emphasizes the importance of identity in recovery, explaining how feelings of unworthiness can lead to self-sabotage. By understanding one's identity in Christ, individuals can overcome these feelings and achieve true freedom. Sathiya encourages listeners to rely on God for their recovery and to commit their works to Him for success.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) Understanding the Silent Trap (01:26) The Importance of Identity in Recovery (06:00) Relying on God for True Freedom

In this conversation, Sathiya and Jenna Riemersma explore the integration of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy with faith-based perspectives. Jenna discusses the concept of 'parts' within ourselves, the importance of compassion in healing, and how to approach our internal struggles with curiosity rather than control. They also delve into Jenna's new book, 'Move Toward', which provides practical tools for self-awareness and emotional healing.   🔥 RESOURCES: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   🔥 JENNA'S RESOURCES: 🔗 Get The Book "Altogether You" 🔗 Access The Website 🔗 Pre-Order The Book "Move Toward" Chapters: (0:00) Introduction to IFS and Faith Integration (02:02) Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) (10:01) The Importance of Compassion in IFS (19:27) Transforming Control into Compassion (29:09) The Role of God in IFS Work (32:41) Understanding the Burdened Spiritualizer Part (37:31) The Heart Behind “Move Toward” (45:15) The Three-Step IFS Tool: Notice, No, Need (55:27) Moving Toward Ourselves with Compassion (59:19) Next Steps and Resources for Transformation

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the balance between waiting on God's timing and taking proactive action in life. He emphasizes the dangers of perfectionism leading to procrastination and encourages listeners to take imperfect action towards their goals. Using scripture and personal anecdotes, Sathiya provides insights on how to navigate the tension between patience and proactivity, ultimately guiding listeners towards personal growth and integrity. Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) The Tension Between Waiting and Action (03:40) Understanding the Problem (08:34) Overcoming Perfectionism and Procrastination

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the relationship between quitting pornography and sexual activity within marriage. He addresses common concerns about performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in the healing process. Through personal anecdotes and insights from coaching experiences, Sathiya emphasizes that sexual connection can be beneficial during recovery, provided it is approached with honesty and openness. He also introduces techniques like Sensate Touch to help couples rebuild intimacy in a healthy way. Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Freedom from Pornography (00:56) The Impact of Quitting Pornography (02:47) The Role of Sexual Intimacy in Recovery (05:08) Addressing Performance Anxiety (08:02) Building Intimacy Through Sensate Touch

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the importance of optimizing the brain to achieve freedom from pornography addiction. He explains the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, including desensitization, sensitization, hypofrontality, and reduced stress response. Sathiya emphasizes the power of neuroscience principles, such as the idea that neurons that fire together wire together, and provides practical strategies for breaking the cycle of addiction. He also highlights the significance of optimizing sleep to enhance brain health and decision-making capabilities. Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This Chapters: (00:00) Understanding the Brain's Role in Habits (02:48) The Effects of Pornography on the Brain (04:35) Rewiring the Brain: Breaking Associations (07:57) Disrupting Circuits: Taking Action for Change (10:22) Optimizing Sleep for Brain Health

In this conversation, Creighton Bertrand shares his journey into manhood — navigating confusion, responsibility, faith, and identity in a culture that often leaves men without clear direction. We talk about why so many men feel stuck or lost, the cost of avoiding responsibility, and how true masculinity is formed through commitment, discipline, and purpose. This episode is a call for men to grow up, take ownership of their lives, and step fully into the kind of man they were created to be.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Want to know more about Creighton? Follow Creighton On Instagram   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction & Creighton’s Story (02:14) Why So Many Men Feel Lost Today (05:01) The Absence of Clear Masculine Direction (07:32) Comfort, Avoidance, and Delayed Manhood (10:18) The Role of Responsibility in Maturity (13:06) Faith, Conviction, and Identity Formation (16:02) What Culture Gets Wrong About Masculinity (18:49) The Crossroad Every Man Eventually Faces (21:35) Choosing Growth Over Ease (24:10) What Stepping Up Actually Looks Like

In this episode, Sathiya discusses the journey of quitting pornography, emphasizing the importance of resilience and learning from setbacks. He shares a powerful story of a client who faced challenges but ultimately chose to leverage his experiences for growth. Sathiya encourages listeners to reflect on their choices after relapses, to invite God back into their lives, and to seek community support for lasting change. The episode serves as a motivational guide for those struggling with addiction, reminding them that they have the power to reclaim their freedom and integrity.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Overcoming Pornography (02:53) The Power of Choice After a Slip (05:49) Learning from Relapses and Inviting God Back (08:41) Finding Community and Support for Lasting Change

In this episode, Sathya discusses the four enemies that hinder individuals from quitting pornography: loneliness, pride (as an opposition from God), past experiences, and bad influences. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these enemies and introduces four corresponding weapons—authenticity, humility, flexibility, and choice—that can empower individuals to overcome these challenges and achieve freedom. Sathya also promotes his book, 'The Last Relapse,' as a comprehensive resource for recovery.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) The 4 Enemies Keeping You From Quitting Porn (01:05) Why Porn Isn’t the Real Problem (02:31) Enemy #1: Loneliness (03:45) Why Isolation Leads to Relapse (04:53) Enemy #2: Pride (When God Becomes the Opposition) (06:40) The Weapon of Humility and God’s Grace (07:10) Enemy #3: Past Failures & Bad Experiences (08:05) Why Past Experiences Are Not Truth (08:45) Enemy #4: Bad Influences (09:21) Choosing Better Influences for Freedom (10:15) The 4 Weapons That Make You Unstoppable (11:10) How to Put This Into Practice and Stay Free

In this conversation, Cody Jefferson shares his transformative journey from a life in ministry to a thriving career in the marketplace. He discusses the challenges of identity, performance, and personal trauma, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, accountability, and intentionality in leadership and relationships. Cody highlights the significance of coping mechanisms, the role of community, and the need for measurable goals in personal growth. His insights provide a roadmap for those navigating similar struggles, encouraging a deeper understanding of self and a commitment to purposeful living.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Get to Know Cody A Little More:  Visit Cody's website Follow Cody on Instagram   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Cody's Journey (02:56) Transition from Ministry to Marketplace (05:57) The Struggles of Identity and Performance (08:50) Navigating Personal Trauma and Loss (11:58) Faith and Deconstruction (14:53) The Importance of Authenticity in Leadership (17:40) Challenges in Coaching and Leadership (20:49) Daily Pursuit and Intentionality in Relationships (23:37) Framework for Identity and Action (26:42) The Role of Accountability in Growth (29:37) Measuring Success and Progress (32:30) Coping Mechanisms and Self-Care (35:22) The Evolution of Cody's Life and Work (38:31) Final Thoughts and Call to Action

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya wraps up Freedom Week by encouraging listeners to reflect on their journey towards quitting pornography. He emphasizes the importance of setting clear goals for recovery, particularly focusing on the question of whether one will be clean by December. The episode outlines a 90-day freedom plan, highlighting the significance of community support and coaching in achieving lasting change. Sathiya shares insights from various success stories and offers practical steps for listeners to take as they embark on their recovery journey.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to Freedom Week (03:04) Setting Goals for Recovery (05:56) The 90-Day Freedom Plan (08:48) Community and Support in Recovery

In this episode, Matt Nickerson shares his powerful journey from years of pornography addiction, emotional dysregulation, and relational damage to a life marked by freedom, emotional awareness, and restored trust with his wife and children. Matt opens up about his rock-bottom moments, the impact of purity culture, and why trying to overcome addiction alone never worked. He explains how Deep Clean helped him regulate emotions, rebuild relationships, and experience lasting transformation rooted in faith, intentional tools, and community.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction & welcoming Matt (00:16) Matt’s background: family, marriage, and ministry (01:30) Rock bottom: pornography, emotional pain, and hurting loved ones (03:45) The impact of purity culture and white-knuckling recovery (05:38) Why traditional accountability didn’t work (06:20) Life after Deep Clean: what’s changed (07:49) Matt’s last relapse and the turning point (09:00) Spiritual renewal and new daily rhythms (10:57) Learning to regulate emotions in triggering moments (13:37) Changes in marriage, parenting, and emotional safety (15:48) From reactivity to calm leadership at home (17:54) Key tools: journaling and emotional awareness (18:30) Red Zone / Green Zone planning explained (19:50) Preparing for temptation before it hits (20:15) Inner Circle vs Signature: what’s the difference? (22:00) Final encouragement and closing

In this conversation, Kent shares his journey of overcoming pornography addiction, detailing the struggles he faced, the importance of community support, and the transformative power of confession and open communication. He emphasizes the need for a structured approach to recovery and the profound impact it has had on his relationships, particularly with his wife and family. Kent's story serves as an inspiration for others seeking freedom from addiction, highlighting the importance of vulnerability and connection in the healing process.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction and Background (02:52) The Need for Deep Clean (06:01) Transitioning to Lasting Freedom (09:11) Impact on Relationships (11:42) Confession and Its Effects (14:49) Family Dynamics and Healing (17:51) Encouragement for Others (20:45) The Journey of Transformation (23:44) Final Thoughts and Reflections

In this episode, Sathiya Sam outlines a comprehensive 90-day freedom plan for men struggling with pornography addiction. He emphasizes the importance of intentionality, a structured approach, and community support in overcoming this challenge. The plan is divided into three months, focusing on resetting habits, addressing underlying trauma, and rebuilding identity. Sathiya shares insights from his experience and encourages listeners to take actionable steps towards recovery.   Know more about Sathiya's work: Join DEEP CLEAN SIGNATURE PROGRAM Join Deep Clean Inner Circle - The Brotherhood You Neeed (+ get coached by Sathiya) For Less Than $2/day Submit Your Questions (Anonymously) To Be Answered On The Podcast Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, Your Blueprint For Recovery Watch Sathiya on Youtube For More Content Like This   Chapters: (00:00) Introduction to the 90-Day Freedom Plan (02:54) Month One: The Big Reset (05:44) Month Two: Addressing the Roots (08:37) Month Three: Rebuilding Identity