Three Wise Guys

After leaving for milk 10 months ago, the guys are finally back.  In this first episode back we introduce Davin, honorary fourth wise guy and a dear friend (and now producer of the podcast).  The guys dive into what we did during our 10 months away. Fun fact, the guys went portaging shortly after our last episode - and Dolapo didn’t know how to swim, From Arya’s various travel stories, to Dolapo being scared at his first NFL game, this time skip is loaded to say the least. Then we jump to an important topic for all Torontonians → BBL Drake v.s 5ft Kendrik who won and was it fair? Rap beefs are always interesting as there isn’t an actual rubric for who won. If there was a rubric for this beef, would # of times the “P” word was say be a line item?  Wrapping up the episode, the guys get serious and discuss change. Change is the only way things get better or worse - but it's not always easy for us to contend with them. The guys get deep on how we contend with the various changes in this past year.  Check out our Playlist! Musical production credit to Ola Olukiyesi Community Highlights Listen to all the record recommendations dummy. Follow us! Instagram Facebook Youtube

By now you’ve heard the age-old back and forth from older generations about how we’re lazy, entitled, or just insane. The guys are here to tell you that they think it’s actually our parents’ fault. Keep listening to hear how some people take criticism in relationships. Check out our Playlist! Looking for something to watch? The Summit of the Gods Demon Slayer: Kimetsu no Yaiba (season 2) Maybe something to listen to? Lagoon - Rich Brian Arya - A$AP Rocky, Nigo Trouble - Teezee, Fresh L., Tems, DRB Lasgidi Julius Randle - Marlon Craft Definitely something to read. Kitchen Sink Zine 01: Comfort in Times of Change Musical production credit to Ola Olukiyesi Follow us! Instagram Facebook Youtube

Today’s special guest is none other than Black Chainz: Brother since time, recording artist & creative maverick. Join the discussion as the guys listen to Chainz take them through his process for creating his sound, music, & creative approach. The guys also share the key to the right music for sex. Check out our Playlist! Looking for something to watch? Ozark Season 4 Maybe something to listen to? Let’s Go Home - Black Chainz Warm Words in a Cold World - Rick Ross, Wale, Future All Black - Black Chainz Call It - Black Chainz Vampire Diaries - Black Chainz, Luckysha Colors - YoungBoy NBA Definitely something to play. Inside - Playdead Games Musical production credit to Ola Olukiyesi Follow us! Instagram Facebook Youtube

Happy New Year friends! A new year kicks off a new season for the guys and they get started right away with some wholesome thoughts on the new year ahead and some anxious feelings that you may be feeling too. A dash of existential nihilism too perhaps? What are your thoughts when it comes to death? Finally, Dolapo tries to understand the difference between caring about someone and feeling the cold grips of commitment shred your independence. We’re constructing some new playlists for you to listen to, tune in soon! Looking for something to watch? Succession Free Solo 14 Peaks: Nothing Is Impossible The Dawn Wall How about something to Read? Cracking the Coding Interview: 189 Programming Questions and Solutions Ottolenghi Flavor: A Cookbook Maybe something to listen to? WOO$AH - Childish Major For You - Childish Major Ameno Amapiano Remix - Goya Menor, Nektunez Musical production credit to Ola Olukiyesi Follow us! Instagram Facebook Youtube

Arya’s back from New Orleans, so we open with historic streets, Mardi Gras energy, and a few travel stories before turning to something more serious.March 2nd marks World Teen Mental Wellness Day, and we unpack the reality of today’s youth mental health crisis. A York Region teacher shares alarming stories from Grade 5 and 6 classrooms, raising tough questions about how early this struggle is starting. We explore the “visibility tax” of growing up online, why nearly half of teens say social media is harmful to people their age, and why many of these incidents stay out of headlines. If culture is not creating guardrails, the law might, which leads us into the global push for digital IDs.Wisdom of the Day: Your in person community is not your online community

Friday night lights turned weird: the Argos game dragged on until a fan collapsed, prompting Luke, Alyssa, and a very insistent “hun”-throwing stranger to jump into action—right as the stadium announcer weirdly dubbed the entire crowd “our fathers.” From there we detour to Smino’s visually stunning—but sonically sketchy—concert, before rapid-firing through the week’s wildest headlines: Iran’s latest flashpoint, new clues on the Air India crash, quantum clocks that could rewrite timekeeping, a delightfully oddball art festival, Summer McIntosh’s record-shredding swim, and a Hamilton-area fentanyl bust straight out of a crime drama. Buckle up: it’s an eclectic ride from gridiron to quantum time.Wisdom of the Day:Even when the game is dull, life will toss you a plot twist—be ready to help, laugh, and keep the clock running.

What happens when a viral clip frames SIR as beefing with Drake, Luke befriends a trust‑fund baby on exchange, and the crew questions whether hangovers are becoming extinct? In this episode we cover:SIR’s Couple‑Core Concert – why the crowd felt like a date night convention and the story behind that out‑of‑context clip causing controversy. The guys clears the air on SIR vs. Drake and how rumors sprint faster than outfielders.Rich‑Kid Reality Check – a study abroad tale featuring private jets, casual Cartier, and a lesson in lifestyle shock.Dry(ish) Decade – plunging alcohol stats, the individuality boom, swapping IPAs for edibles, and what it means for bars, brands, and the economy.Wisdom of the Day: “Screens show seconds; real life holds the receipts.”

The guys open this week’s episode catching up on Dolapo’s trip to Montreal. They reminisce about how their Montreal trips have evolved—from staying in sketchy Airbnbs to enjoying company-paid hotels and the finer things in life.The conversation then takes a wild turn: Could 100 men take down a gorilla in a fight to the end? While the consensus is technically "yes," the real debate is how you’d draft the team. Dolapo calls for Navy SEALs and UFC fighters. Luke, on the other hand, makes the unconventional case for Draymond Green as team leader.Finally, the episode takes a serious pivot as the guys discuss an article on the growing crisis facing boys and men today—educational decline, economic challenges, loneliness, and the rise of “deaths of despair.” They reflect on their own upbringings, the evolution of masculinity, and the importance of grounding yourself in timeless values like discipline, physical health, and lifelong learning.Wisdom of the Day:“When the world feels overwhelming, start small: move your body, sharpen your mind, and lead with purpose.”

This week, the guys unpack the wild takedown of the largest drug lab in Canadian history — think Breaking Bad meets Brampton. 400kg of meth, body armour, precursor chemicals, and one big question: who snitched?From cartel conspiracies to cracked-out curiosity, it’s a ride.Then things get personal as Davin drops a stack of hot seat questions that turn into a full-on lore dive — guessing games, origin stories, and chaos, all in the name of wisdom (and a little degeneracy).Wisdom of the Day:You can’t cook up wisdom in a lab — it takes lived experience, bad decisions, and a few friends to roast you after.Media referenced: RCMP Article

The guys kick things off with a recap of their snowboard trip out west—epic powder days, scenic hikes, and a ski-in, ski-out Airbnb that Arya can’t stop gassing up. But even in paradise, petty energy finds a way. In the dead of winter, bacon beefs emerge and the age-old debate of who really owes who rears their face.Back in Toronto, the conversation turns courtside. Despite being in one of the best sports cities on the map, the Raptors still feel like they’re running in place. The guys dissect the disconnect and what it means to be a fan when the team isn’t delivering.Then, the episode dives deep into Drake. It starts with Roy Woods performing a song at the Raptors game... that turned out to be a Drake track. From there, the guys unravel Drake’s approach to his label, the “OVO sound” factory line, and the pros and cons of his empire-building. Is the hate just a byproduct of success? And where does Drake really stand in the business and cultural landscape?Wisdom of the Day:Success will get you recognition. Sustained success will get you haters.Media referenced: Luke’s Photo of Bacon

The guys kick off this episode with a lighthearted debate on co-host titles before diving into the legendary life of Bill Belichick—specifically, that beach photo with his girlfriend. From coaching dynasties to vacation vibes, Bill has lived a life unlike any other.Then, the conversation takes a deeper turn as the guys break down success—first through the lens of society, then through their own evolving definitions. They explore how success is often tied to what drives humanity forward, from academic performance to career progression. But is that really the full picture?As the discussion gets personal, they open up about how their own measures of success have expanded beyond just achievement—toward community, self-acceptance, and fulfillment. It’s an honest conversation about what it really means to win in life.Wisdom of the Day: "Success isn’t just about what you build—it’s about who you become in the process."Media referenced: Bill and GF

In this episode of Three Wise Guys, the guys kick things off with the Raptors-Wizards game, breaking down the overturned game-winner and reflecting on Toronto as a sports city—past, present, and future.The conversation then shifts to the explosive Trump-Zelensky exchange, balancing humor with serious discussion on the unprecedented nature of the conversation, its global implications, and how the U.S.'s economic influence plays a role.From there, they dive into U.S.-Canada relations, dissecting the impact of tariffs and Canada's over-reliance on its southern neighbor. They explore the need for budget accountability, innovation incentives, and a future where Canada thrives through interprovincial trade—goodbye brain drain, hello opportunity.Wisdom of the day: "Don’t wait for opportunities—create them. The world moves for those who take action."Links:Peter Tertzakian’s ArticleTTC Video

The Three Wise Guys kick off this episode with some well-earned celebration—Canada’s big win at the 4 Nations Playoff! But once the cheers settle, they dive into the real meat and potatoes of the episode: breaking down some of the most debated "Am I the Asshole?" stories from Reddit.First up, the guys dissect a situation where a wife keeps in touch with her husband’s ex-best friends—harmless or out of line? Then, they tackle a jaw-dropping story about a 15-year-old girl being pressured to care for her 3-year-old brother. Finally, they wrap up with a surprising discussion on emotional intelligence, after a petty fight about eating a salad reveals a much deeper issue about communication.Wisdom of the Day: Most fights are more than meets the eye—listen beyond the words, and you’ll hear what’s really being said.

Were we all lied to as kids, or just gullible? The guys break down some of the biggest childhood myths—like trees growing in your stomach if you eat seeds and why turning on the car light felt illegal. Then, they tackle the Santa debate: Is keeping the magic alive worth it?Finally, Dolapo and Arya dive into tariffs from a Canadian lens—what’s really driving them, how they impact the economy, and why they just don’t add up. Expect laughs, debates, and a little economic venting.Wisdom of the day: Fear is a powerful tool. Whether it's getting kids to eat eggs or convincing people tariffs make sense, always ask: Who benefits?

This week, the Wise Guys kick things off with a slang showdown! Arya reads off terms like “Poggers,” “FUBAR,” and “Cheugy,” while Dolapo and Luke try to guess their meanings—and whether they hail from Gen Z, Millennials, or Gen X. The guys then explore how slang evolves, blending generational influences (like the rise of rap in pop culture) with the art of gatekeeping words from other eras. Then, the conversation takes a hilarious turn as they tackle a timeless question: If you were reincarnated, would you want to come back as a guy or a girl? Dolapo leans fully into his dream of being a “bad bitch,” while Davin delivers a surprisingly sophisticated philosophical perspective. It’s equal parts thought-provoking and laugh-out-loud funny.Wisdom of the day: Language is a reflection of culture and time

The Wise Guys are back for the first episode of the new year! Kicking things off with some banter, Arya shares his commissioner woes—having to dish out extra cash thanks to exchange rates between Canada and the U.S. Meanwhile, Luke gets roasted for bringing a laptop along while shopping with his girlfriend (seriously, Luke?). Shifting gears, the guys dive into a heavy topic: the devastating LA wildfires. They share their condolences and explore the impact on insurance. Luke reflects on the terrifying power of natural disasters, while Arya and Dolapo explain how many homes in high-risk areas like the Palisades are falling out of insurance eligibility, sparking a conversation on the fragility of the industry. After a quick detour into industries often labeled as "evil," the conversation lands on immigration. As a podcast with multicultural hosts (and two immigrants), the guys reflect on how perceptions around immigration have shifted over the past decade. They break down the distinction between refugees and immigrants, ultimately closing with a heartfelt discussion on empathy and understanding. Wisdom of the day: Empathy is the bridge between misunderstanding and connection. Whether it’s immigration or natural disasters, kindness and perspective go a long way.

Fresh pizzas, free-flowing drinks, and the whole room shouting “seven!” in unison—if Three Wise Guys casino night was a movie, it’d be Inception meets Dazed and Confused. Tune in as the guys dive into the art of hosting a party, from picking the perfect drinks to mixing friend groups and all the stories in between. With a crowd this diverse, you get all kinds of takes on life. Things get more introspective as the guys explore frameworks for finding purpose and discipline. Luke and Dolapo reflect on how growing up in religious households shaped their outlooks and how they've kept those values alive outside of church. They wrap it up with a key takeaway: the people around you shape your perspective, and your framework for life is always evolving. Wisdom of the day: Your framework for life is always evolving and the most important factor are those influencing it 

Four mid-twenties couples embark on a wine tour—what are the odds they'll make it to their evening plans? The Wise Guys return from a weekend in Niagara, filled with wine tasting, Italian cuisine, and conflict resolution. Tune in as we dive deep into the world of wine, discussing how temperature, fermentation methods, elevation, and moisture affect grapes. The guys wrap up this segment by recounting a less-than-stellar dinner at an Italian restaurant. Is Luke being overly critical, or does he have a point? Switching gears, we conclude with a profound topic: ancestral sins and generational responsibility. What obligations does a descendant of a tyrant have? Should they offer restitution to those harmed by their ancestors? The guys delve into this nuanced discussion, focusing on one key question—is there a path to reconciliation? Wisdom of the day: To create meaningful change, we must move beyond rigid notions of 'right' and 'wrong.' It's essential to recognize that conflicts are shaped by perspective, and the way forward lies in focusing on solutions rather than assigning blame.

Imagine this: you’re in the backseat of a robotaxi. All of a sudden, an announcement comes out stating “the vehicle has been tampered with and will be pulled over to investigate.” Fortunately for you listeners, this was the reality for one of the wise guys during their trip to San Francisco and he spills all. Jumping to a topic that has been pending, the wise guys finally talk about Kevin Spacey - specifically how the public feels about him. In this nuanced discussion, we discuss the court of public opinion, PR, and the importance of personal image in certain fields. Are you innocent in the public eye when proven innocent in the court? Listen in to find out: Ending on a “wise” note - the guys talk about decision making. So often we are faced with a number of valid choices with the pressure to choose. How do we know what decisions are best for us? Do we need to choose in the first place? What if my decisions impact others? These decisions feel overwhelming in the moment - and the wise guys are here to help with that feeling. Wisdom of the day: The most important part of making a decision is action. You are not locked into a decision when you make it, instead you start to collect data to validate or invalidate your choice. 

They say doing something 21 days in a role makes it a habit - what about 100?  In this special 100th episode - Dolapo and Luke take a step back and get a bit sentimental. The wise guys recap their journey since the start of this podcast, and review some of our best episodes for you as well!  If anything catches your attention, make sure to go back and listen to the full episode! Make sure to listen to the end for a bit of senty Dolapo!  Episode 7 open communication and women's expectations chic chat Roles are led by family Not everyone communicates the same If you’re offended it’s more about you Episode 4 - creativity in different fields  Creating cool things requires minimal judgment from the artist    Money is a means to the end not the end Episode 3 - the Dating Secret formula ft Yacine   We spent the whole night editing for shit audio as a consequence of making duck  Things don’t happen - you make them happen  The first step to finding a good partner is becoming a good partner - it starts with you  Episode 1 - the rise of podcasts, attention spans, and materialism  Dolapo was on his Mac mic  We spent 20 minutes arguing about whether Scarborough is in Toronto??!  Attention spans are shorter but we’re in control  Episode 5 - mental and physical health with Adam Rent in Ottawa is $600 Being good at something is not the same thing as being a good leader - dictatorship vs leadership Episode 14 - porn additions and stuff Your mental health is importance for sex Episode 95 - porn is social media for sex Preventing v.s preparing - good to have both Episode 12 - seasons vs covid, friendships, and whiskey  Friendships can take many shapes and are very different from each other  Whiskey was an underrated drink - but now that we’re older its pretty common Episode 6 - what is family, compliments, and is evil evil Commitment is temporal - Dolapo do you still feel this take Evil is relative and “heroes are depicted by those who win’ Episode 27 - nudes, only fans, and elections It's important to hone your locus of control - i.e voting - we cannot be doom and gloom about it