Cradled in Hope | Podcast for Grieving Moms | Biblical Hope for Miscarriage, Stillbirth, & Infant Loss

In this episode, Ashley speaks to the deep wounds that can come from others’ words—or their silence—after the loss of a baby. Centered on Chapter 8 of Cradled in Hope, “They Know Not What They Do: When You Are Hurt by Others,” she gently walks alongside grieving moms who have experienced secondary pain in the wake of their primary loss. Whether through insensitive comments or heartbreaking absence, Ashley shares how Jesus understands—and how He calls us to respond with grace.Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools, Ashley invites listeners to process their relational grief with honesty and hope. With heartfelt compassion, she shares how Jesus, even in His own suffering, forgave those who hurt Him—and how we, too, can follow His example, even when it’s hard.In this episode, Ashley shared:How a stranger’s comment at a park triggered unexpected waves of griefThe “Tale of Two Cups” analogy that explains why small remarks can feel so big when our emotional cup is fullThe concept of the “Grace Cup”—a mindset of pre-filling our hearts with grace for othersReal-life examples of insensitive things people say—and how to lovingly respond or set boundariesHow to identify your love language in grief and communicate your specific needs to othersWhy some friendships fade while others deepen—and how grief can clarify who your true community isEncouragement to forgive those who’ve hurt you, even if they never realize it—just as Jesus did on the crossAn invitation to find support through Bridget’s Cradles’ Hope Online groups or your local communityAshley reminds us that while grief may reveal who stands beside us and who stays silent, God is always faithful. And He often brings new, meaningful relationships in the midst of our pain. In Jesus, we find the grace to forgive, the wisdom to communicate, and the strength to heal.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub9]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley walks alongside grieving moms who are struggling with guilt, shame, or regret after the loss of their baby. Centered on Chapter 7 of Cradled in Hope, “Grace Upon Grace: When You Can’t Forgive Yourself,” she offers compassionate truth for the mom who wonders if she could have or should have done something differently. With tender honesty and biblical reassurance, Ashley shares how grace—not guilt—is the way forward.Ashley shares her personal struggle with shame and how she once believed her body had failed her daughter. With real-life stories, scriptural encouragement, and an invitation to rest in the finished work of the cross, this episode helps grieving moms understand that self-forgiveness is possible through Christ—and that His mercy is more than enough.In this episode, Ashley shared:Why grieving moms often struggle with shame and regret after lossHer personal battle with body resentment after Bridget’s stillbirthThe impact of living in broken bodies in a broken world—and how that shapes our perspectiveThe difference between hindsight and control, and how we can’t hold ourselves accountable for things we didn’t knowWhy we need to extend the same compassion to ourselves that we would give to a friendWhat it means to forgive our bodies, our decisions, and our broken expectations through the lens of graceA biblical understanding of how our babies were knit together body, soul, and spiritThe eternal hope we have because our babies are alive in HeavenAshley reminds us that our bodies were never meant to carry the blame. They were created by God, designed to be temples for His Spirit—and through Christ, we are forgiven and free. Our babies were miraculously knit together, and even if their lives were brief on earth, they are eternal in Heaven. There is no condemnation in Christ—only grace upon grace.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub8]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley walks tenderly through one of the hardest struggles grieving mothers face: trusting that God is still good, even after the loss of a baby. In Chapter 6 of Cradled in Hope, “For He is Good: When You Question Who God Is,” she unpacks the emotional, theological, and spiritual wrestlings that come when prayers go unanswered—and babies die.To help grieving hearts rebuild trust in God’s character, Ashley shares five biblical attributes that anchor our faith in who God is, even in the most devastating times of life. This chapter is structured around these five truths as pillars of hope for moms who are asking, “If God is good, why did this happen?” With honesty, compassion, and Scripture, Ashley reminds us that God’s goodness is not changed by our circumstances—but by His unchanging character.The 5 Key Attributes of God that Ashley explores in the chapter:God is Good– He is blameless, loving, and kind.God is Sovereign – He is in control, even when our lives feel like chaos.God is Just– He is fair and righteous, and will make all things right one day.God is Faithful– He keeps His promises and never leaves us.God is Immutable  (Unchanging) – His character never changes. He is constant and secure.Ashley acknowledges how grief can shake our faith and make us question everything we thought we knew about God. But rather than hiding from the hard questions, she invites us to bring them into the light. Through Scripture and personal experience, she guides listeners back to the firm foundation of who God is, even in the midst of their heartbreak.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub7]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley takes us on a hope-filled journey into the wonder of Heaven. In Chapter 5 of Cradled in Hope, “Heaven on Earth: When You Wonder Where Your Baby Is,” she helps grieving moms find peace in knowing where their babies are now (the current Heaven)—and where they will one day be (the New Heaven). Drawing from Scripture and trusted theological resources, Ashley paints a biblically rooted picture of Heaven, offering comfort and confidence that our children are safe in the arms of Jesus.Ashley invites listeners to imagine the most beautiful place they’ve ever seen, then reminds them that even the most breathtaking views on earth pale in comparison to the splendor of Heaven. She explains what the Bible says about the current Heaven, the future New Earth, and the resurrection to come. This episode is filled with hope and assurance for every mom longing to hold her baby again.In this episode, Ashley shared:Why this chapter was one of the first she wrote—and why Heaven is central to our hopeHer personal “Heaven on earth” memory in St. Lucia, where Bridget’s life beganWhy Heaven is more than an ethereal, cloud-filled space—and how our perceptions may need reshapingThe difference between the current Heaven and the future New Earth (the eternal Heaven)What it means that our babies are “with Jesus” now, even as we await the resurrection of glorified bodiesInsights from Heaven by Randy Alcorn, including a chart on common assumptions vs. biblical truthsScriptural promises from Revelation 21 and 22 that describe our eternal homeWhy our babies are not angels—and why that’s actually really good newsThe question of “How old will my baby be in Heaven?” and the peace that comes from trusting God's planFour biblical reasons Ashley believes babies go to Heaven, including Jesus’ love for children and David’s words in 2 Samuel 12Ashley reminds us that our reunion with our babies is not just wishful thinking—it is a promise grounded in God’s Word. She invites you to picture that reunion: holding your baby again, walking hand in hand, never to be separated. Heaven is not only real—it is more beautiful than we can imagine.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub6]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley addresses one of the most common and vulnerable aspects of grief and faith: doubt. In Chapter 4 of Cradled in Hope, “A Firm Foundation: When You Wrestle with Doubts,” she shares why it’s vital to know what you believe about Jesus and why. With honesty and conviction, Ashley lays out the case for Christ’s identity as the risen Savior and explains why our hope of seeing our babies again rests entirely on the truth of the Gospel.This chapter provides a gentle introduction to apologetics and helps grieving moms wrestle through the hard questions of faith, especially when it feels like God is distant or unseen. Ashley walks through biblical evidence, historical testimony, and personal reflection, making a compelling case for why Jesus is not a lunatic or liar—but truly the Lord. When the ground beneath us feels shaky, this chapter offers a firm place to stand: Christ alone.In this episode, Ashley shared:Why it’s essential to know why you believe what you believe, especially when grievingA raw moment of doubt: wishing to see Heaven and Bridget face-to-face for comfort and assuranceThe struggle of believing in a God we cannot see, and Paul’s encouragement to live by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:6–7)The example of “Doubting Thomas” and why even the apostles wrestled with belief after the resurrectionA breakdown of C.S. Lewis’ famous apologetics argument: Jesus is either a liar, a lunatic, or the LordWhy the testimony of the disciples—who were tortured and martyred for proclaiming Jesus—matters so deeplyThe power of eyewitness accounts and how the resurrection is central to our eternal hopeBridget’s name meaning (“Strongest Faith”) and the significance of naming your babyWhy our core beliefs about life, death, and eternity shape how we grieve and healAshley invites listeners to reflect on their own faith journey and ask honest questions. She reminds us that faith doesn’t mean we never wrestle, but it means we keep leaning in, trusting that Jesus truly is who He said He is: the Way, the Truth, and the Life.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub5]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley shares the heart of the Christian faith and the unshakable hope grieving moms have in Jesus. In Chapter 3 of Cradled in Hope, “The Gospel Changes Everything: When You Are Desperate for Hope,” Ashley walks through the full Gospel message—from creation to restoration—and shows how it directly speaks to the pain of being separated from our babies. In our grief, the Gospel isn’t just comforting—it’s everything. It’s the only hope strong enough to anchor us when we’re desperate for answers, for meaning, and for reunion.With theological clarity and compassionate understanding, Ashley reminds listeners that death is not the end of the story. Because of Jesus’ death and resurrection, we can have confidence that we will see our babies again. She explains the Gospel simply and beautifully, extending an invitation to believe—or believe again—that Jesus alone has conquered sin and death. This chapter is a powerful turning point in the book club, grounding our grief in the greatest news ever told.In this episode, Ashley shared:Her most painful moment of separation from Bridget, and how that moment pointed her to the hope of reunion through JesusWhy our grief makes sense in the context of the fall—and how the Gospel is the only remedy for the brokenness we feelA clear, simple explanation of the Gospel and its four-part story: Creation, Fall, Redemption, and RestorationThe bad news of sin and Hell—and why we need to understand this in order to grasp the beauty of the Good NewsHow Jesus' sacrifice saves us from eternal separation and secures our place with our babies in HeavenWhy believing in Jesus is as simple as confessing with your mouth and believing in your heart (Romans 10:9–10)The promise that one day, we will be reunited with our children in glorified bodies on a restored earthA loving invitation for any listener who has not placed their faith in Jesus to do so todayAshley invites each listener to reflect on the beauty of the Gospel—not just as a theological idea, but as the most personal and powerful truth we can cling to in our grief. Jesus changes everything, and His resurrection gives us the promise of our own—and of seeing our babies again.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub4]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley explores one of the most tender and difficult aspects of grief: the feeling of abandonment by God. In Chapter 2, "Broken and Bleeding: When You Feel Abandoned by God," Ashley shares her personal wrestling with faith during her pregnancy with Bridget and the raw questions that arose when her prayers went unanswered. With profound honesty and biblical truth, she unpacks how to grieve in the tension between what our hearts feel and what our heads know to be true.This chapter is an invitation to examine your core beliefs about God, especially when pain tempts you to question His goodness or presence. Ashley shares how to shift your perspective from a feeling-driven view of God to a truth-rooted faith grounded in Scripture. Through theology, personal experience, and practical steps, she reminds us that we are not alone in our grief—Jesus is with us in the darkness, and there is light at the end of the tunnel.In this episode, Ashley shared:Her personal struggle with feeling forsaken by God during her pregnancy complications with BridgetWhy understanding original sin is key to rightly viewing the cause of suffering and baby lossA powerful moment of identifying with Jesus as broken and bleeding—and how our Savior relates to our physical and emotional painThe difference between letting your feelings shape your view of God vs. letting God’s truth reshape your feelings and circumstancesHow a right view of God leads to trust, and how a wrong view leads to mistrust The danger of the prosperity gospel and how it can distort our understanding of suffering and blessingThe critical importance of reading the Bible with the right hermeneutic (interpretation method)Why Scripture is the balm our souls need in grief, even when it feels hard to open the BibleAshley invites listeners to sit honestly with their doubts, bring their questions to God, and allow His Word to bring clarity, comfort, and truth in the middle of confusion. She gently reminds us that the tunnel of grief is still dark, even with Jesus—but with Him, we are never alone, and there is light at the end.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub3]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this episode, Ashley reflects on the raw emotions that come in the early days of grief after pregnancy or infant loss. Centered on Chapter 1 of Cradled in Hope, “Sitting with Jesus | When You Are Overwhelmed with Sadness,” she invites grieving moms to slow down, feel the weight of their sorrow, and meet Jesus in their pain. Ashley explains how grief is not just sadness—it’s love. She encourages moms to express that love in healthy, meaningful ways that honor their baby in Heaven. With personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical survival tips, this chapter is a gentle invitation to sit in the sadness with Jesus, who grieves with us and comforts us in our sorrow.In this episode, Ashley shared:Real reflections from grieving moms on what grief feels likeHow grief is rooted in love, and why the pain is so deep when death has separated us from our babyPersonal experiences from the early days after Bridget’s death, and how Ashley found healing in the quiet space of sitting with JesusThe cultural and personal pressures to “move on” from grief—and why true healing requires slowing down and lamentingPractical ways to survive the early days of loss, including self-care, sleep, nutrition, and realistic expectationsWhy Jesus is the safest place for our grief and how He connects us directly to our babies through His SpiritBiblical truths from the story of Elijah and Jesus' promise to comfort those who mourn (Matthew 5:4)Ashley reminds us that grief is rooted in deep love—and that we don’t have to hide our pain or rush our healing. With compassion and honesty, Ashley encourages grieving moms to let the tears fall and begin learning what it means to grieve with Jesus, one breath and one day at a time.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub2]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

Join us for a sacred conversation as Ashley Opliger kicks off the Cradled in Hope Book Club on launch day, July 22nd. In this heartfelt introduction episode, Ashley shares the powerful story behind the book, from the long road to publication to the sudden loss of her father just after submitting her manuscript. With raw vulnerability and deep faith, she explains how this book became even more personal in the wake of fresh grief.Ashley unpacks the unique structure of Cradled in Hope and shares her prayer for how it will minister to moms who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss. She introduces the heart behind the preface (“Hands”) and the introduction (“Hugs at the Door”) and describes how each chapter is designed to move readers from heartbreak to healing through Jesus. This episode sets the foundation for a grace-filled journey through grief and points to the only One who can truly cradle us in hope.In this episode, Ashley shared:The heartfelt backstory of Cradled in Hope, including how her own journey through grief—first with Bridget and then with the sudden loss of her dad—deepened the message and tone of the bookHer emotional dedication of the book to her daughter Bridget, her Savior Jesus, and her father Steven, including a touching poem he wrote that's printed in the bookThe structure and layout of the book, and how it’s designed to move grieving moms from heartbreak to healing, grounded in biblical truthThe companion Cradled in Hope Guided Journal, available as a free download or printed version, to help moms reflect and engage more deeply with each chapterHow each chapter title is intentionally written to offer a spiritual truth or comfort paired with a relatable emotion or struggle in griefA powerful look at the Preface (“Hands”) and Introduction (“Hugs at the Door”), and how these sections invite moms to feel seen, known, and lovingly welcomed into the book and communityThe importance of inviting Jesus into the center of our pain and trusting Him to walk with us through the darkest seasons of lossAshley also shared her vision for this podcast book club as a safe place for grieving moms to walk chapter by chapter together, like sitting with a friend in the little blue barn in Kechi, Kansas. She invites each listener to come as they are, bring their broken heart, and begin this sacred journey of grieving with hope.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/bookclub1]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this second part of a deeply heartfelt conversation, Ashley continues her discussion with dear friend and fellow grieving mom, Kristin Hernandez, as they dive deeper into the story behind Cradled in Hope. With warmth, vulnerability, and unwavering faith, Ashley shares how the book was born out of her ministry work, her personal healing journey following the loss of her daughter, Bridget, and her longing to walk alongside grieving mothers with truth and compassion.They explore how the book was shaped by years of support group ministry at Bridget’s Cradles, Ashley’s own story of loss, and the refining grief of losing her father during the final stages of editing. Ashley also offers an inside look at the writing and publication process—from weekends spent writing in quiet solitude to the God-ordained partnership with her literary agent and publisher. Through it all, her desire is to point hurting hearts to the comfort of Christ and the eternal hope of Heaven.This episode is an honest and hope-filled look at the heart, process, and purpose behind Cradled in Hope. Whether you are newly grieving or supporting someone who is, Ashley’s vulnerability and biblical encouragement will remind you that you are not alone—and you are cradled in hope.In this episode, we discussed:How Cradled in Hope originated from years of support group messages and real conversations with grieving momsThe structure of the book: felt needs as subtitles and biblical truth as chapter titlesHow the book ties into the mission of Bridget’s Cradles and serves as more than a book—it’s a doorway to community and Christ-centered healingThe free downloadable Cradled in Hope Journal companion guide and how it complements each chapter with Scripture, prompts, and practical reflectionThe vision for churches, hospitals, counselors, and support groups to use the book as a biblical resource for grieving momsAshley’s writing process—including weekend retreats, long writing sessions, and her “rock tumbler” metaphor for editingThe emotional weight of sharing vulnerable stories, including Ashley’s experience of holding both grief and gratitude during her pregnancy after lossHow her editor encouraged her to share even the hard-to-admit feelings so other moms could feel safe and understoodA tender conversation about the eternal family we long for—and how God's plan is good even when it doesn’t match our expectationsKristin’s powerful closing prayer over Ashley, the book, and every grieving listener holding on to hopeThis episode will meet you in the midst of sorrow and remind you: you are seen, loved, and never alone. Jesus is with you, holding your broken heart as He holds your baby in Heaven.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode62-2]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this tender and powerful episode, Ashley welcomes her dear friend Kristin Hernandez back to the Cradled in Hope Podcast—this time, not as the guest, but as the one asking the questions. Kristin, a longtime ministry partner, fellow grieving mom, and author of Sunlight in December, turns the microphone around to interview Ashley about her upcoming book, Cradled in Hope.Together, they share a sacred and heartfelt conversation about grief, faith, and the story behind the book. Ashley opens up about the writing process, the spiritual and emotional depths she revisited to bring comfort to hurting moms, and how God’s timing—even through the tragedy of losing her father to a drunk driver—shaped the final manuscript. Kristin shares how deeply the book ministered to her heart, even a decade after the loss of her son, Ethan. Through tears and truth, these two friends remind grieving moms that they are seen, loved, and never alone.This episode is the first in a two-part series where Kristin interviews Ashley. It marks the beginning of a special summer season leading up to the launch of Cradled in Hope and the companion Book Club podcast series beginning July 22.In this episode, we discussed:Why Cradled in Hope was written and how it offers biblical truth, compassionate guidance, and practical wisdom for grieving momsThe vision behind the book’s structure and how each chapter addresses a specific emotion or struggleKristin’s personal reaction to reading the book and how God used it to minister to her heart, even ten years into her grief journeyThe importance of meeting moms in both the raw pain of fresh loss and the long road of ongoing healingHow Ashley revisited her early grief through journals and how her father’s death during the editing process deepened the book’s emotional depthHonoring Ashley’s dad, Steve Golik, in the book—including the poem he wrote for Bridget and the special story of editing the manuscript on his computerThe meaning behind the title Cradled in Hope and the cover illustration of Jesus cradling both a baby in Heaven and a grieving mom on earthWhy our hope isn’t wishful thinking—it’s rooted in the unshakable truth of Jesus, who holds both us and our babiesWhat to expect from the upcoming Cradled in Hope Book Club podcast series launching July 22This episode is a gentle invitation to trust Jesus to heal your heart as He holds your baby in Heaven. Whether you are newly grieving or years into your journey, Cradled in Hope is a tender companion to walk with you toward healing, with Gospel truth and eternal hope on every page.GET THE BOOK! Cradled in Hope is sold on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Target, Christianbook, and Baker Bookhouse.[www.bridgetscradles.com/book]EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode62-1]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this deeply vulnerable and hope-filled episode, Ashley welcomes her friend Emily Shove to share her powerful testimony of miscarriage, addiction recovery, and transformation through Jesus. Emily shares the story of her son, Phoenix, and the emotional and physical trauma of her miscarriage. She also bravely opens up about her past struggles with alcohol, the temptation to relapse in the depths of grief, and how God used community, recovery, and His Word to bring healing. With raw honesty, Emily talks about sobriety, naming her baby, the beauty of support groups, and the unshakable hope of Heaven. This episode is a testimony to the God who brings beauty from ashes and uses our deepest pain for His greatest glory.In this episode, we discussed:The silent suffering of early miscarriage and the trauma that often goes unseenThe comparison trap in grief and how every baby’s life deserves validationEmily’s journey through alcohol addiction and what led her to recoveryHow the loss of baby Phoenix tested—but ultimately deepened—her faithThe role of AA and Christ-centered community in sustaining sobriety through griefWriting as a healing outlet: letters to God, Phoenix, and her future selfThe power of naming your baby and speaking their name with love and hopeGod’s relentless pursuit and the beauty of becoming a new creation in ChristRecovery Resources:Alcoholics AnonymousAA Meeting GuideCelebrate RecoveryHope is AliveEPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode61]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this heartfelt and Spirit-led episode, Ashley welcomes returning guest Moria Rooney to share the God-breathed vision behind her new ministry, Holy Ground Retreats. A follow-up to Episode 21, this conversation continues Moria’s story of grief, healing, and purpose after the loss of her son, Noah. Moria opens up about her calling to step away from her first ministry, Mother of Wilde, and follow God into the unknown of hosting biblically based retreats for grieving moms. This powerful conversation will encourage you to pursue deep healing in the presence of Jesus, step into authentic community, and recognize the beauty of a Savior who meets us in our pain with abundant hope.In this episode, we discussed:The inspiration and surrender behind launching Holy Ground RetreatsHow smaller, intimate gatherings create space for deep healingGrieving in isolation vs. grieving in Christ-centered communityThe importance of addressing unbiblical beliefs around suffering and lossWorship, deliverance, rededications, and baptisms at the first Holy Ground retreatA powerful God story of how the Lord provided a multimillion-dollar beach houseWhy every grieving mom needs a safe space to encounter JesusUsing your baby’s story to share the Gospel and build the KingdomEPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode60]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

In this solo episode, host Ashley Opliger shares a heartfelt message inspired by Psalm 23, offering hope and encouragement to grieving moms walking through the valley of loss. Reflecting on her personal grief journey—including the death of her daughter, Bridget, and her father—Ashley reminds listeners that Jesus, our Good Shepherd, walks with us through suffering and sorrow. She also announces exciting ministry updates, including the upcoming release of her book Cradled in Hope, a new website filled with resources for grieving families, and shares songs and tools that have brought comfort during seasons of grief. With deep compassion, Ashley encourages grieving moms to share their stories, reminding them that their testimony is powerful and can be used by God to bring hope and healing to others. In this episode, Ashley shared:Bridget's Cradles ministry updates, including a new website coming soonA preview of her upcoming book, Cradled in Hope, releasing July 22Reflections on Psalm 23 and how Jesus is our Good ShepherdWorship song recommendationsA helpful grief resource, called Through This ValleyThe hope of Heaven and the power of your testimony• EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode59]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

Join us for a hope-filled conversation with Erin Nelson and Colleen Montague from Jessica's House, a dedicated grief support center for children and families. Erin shares her personal journey through loss and how her experiences gave her a passion for supporting others. Colleen provides insights into her role as a therapist and highlights their Heartstrings program, which supports children grieving the loss of a sibling due to pregnancy or infant loss. In their discussion on their new book, When Grief Comes Home, Erin and Colleen explore ways in which grieving parents can effectively support their children in their grief. They delve into the power of expressive therapies, such as art and music, as valuable tools for processing difficult emotions. While grief is a challenging journey, Erin and Colleen emphasize that, with God, it can also lead to connection, healing, and resilience within families. In this episode, we discussed:The power of finding others who can articulate your same painFeelings of shame in pregnancy lossWhat does Jessica's House's peer support model look like?Their Heartstrings program for kids who have lost a sibling to miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant lossAll about their new book, When Grief Comes HomeExpressing grief through music, art, and movementHelping living siblings use their imagination to “remember” without having memories of their siblingsTalking about your baby in Heaven in the present tenseEnvisioning Heaven and our future reunion with themHow to survive grief “breath by breath”• EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode58]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

Join us for a hope-filled conversation with Jennie Parks, the Executive Director of Hope Mommies, a nonprofit dedicated to providing support and hope for grieving mothers who have experienced miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss. Jennie shares her personal story of losing her daughter, Paige, and how her profound loss inspired her to help others through their grief.Ashley and Jennie discuss the complexities of navigating grief, the importance of community, and the comfort found in God's promises. Grieving moms will be encouraged by Jennie's testimony and her reflection on love, loss, and hope. Lastly, Jennie shares about the mission and resources of Hope Mommies and how the organization fosters community among grieving mothers, offering them comfort grounded in the hope of Christ.  In this episode, we discussed:Traumatic experiences at the hospitalThe influence of nurses on bereavement careFinding purpose in pain by partnering with an existing organization The importance of a Christ-centered communityNavigating a crisis of faith and seeking Jesus in the midst of itSitting in your pain and truly lamenting your lossHandling hard milestones such as baby's Heaven DayAll about their Hope Boxes, Hope Groups, Podcast, and Retreats• EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode57]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

Join us for a hope-filled conversation with Janet Boxx, a mother who has faced indescribable trauma and loss in her family. Janet shares her profound journey, beginning with the stillbirth of her son, Cole, the developmental disorders of her daughters Gracen and Katie, the tragic loss of her daughters Bethany and Katie in a car accident, and the impact of Gracen's resulting disabilities.Through her story, Janet emphasizes the importance of reconciling grief with faith and how she uses her pain to educate others about loss, child disability, and trauma. She runs a blog, speaks in defensive driving classes, and facilitates biblical grief support groups. Janet's vulnerability about her struggles is a testament to the healing she has found in Jesus. No matter how deep the pain, Janet exemplifies that hope still exists.In this episode, we discussed:Navigating multiple traumas/lossesDo I have PTSD?Feeling invalidated by othersSpoon theory, emotional energy, and how it relates to griefThe importance of Scripture in our healingReaching acceptance/approval of God's choicesTrusting in God's sovereignty (this is hard!)Physical protection vs. spiritual protectionJesus' love for us demonstrated on the cross"Suffering well" for the Kingdom• EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode56]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

Join us for a hope-filled conversation with Caleb and Stefanie Rouse, relationship mentors and digital creators who focus on guiding couples toward faith-based, resilient relationships. Caleb and Stefanie share their personal journey of loss, having unexpectedly lost their twin sons, Shiloh and Asher, after years of praying and hoping to grow their family. Despite their heartbreak, they invited God into their pain and allowed Him to heal their hearts. Now, they help other couples find hope, joy, and love in their marriages. In this episode, we discussed:Worshiping God in loss and sorrowJesus' realness in moments of painProcessing grief (and differences between spouses)Wanting to hide and feel shame (and how these are attacks from the enemy)The importance of a funeral or memorial service for your babyHow God weaves babies in our wombs (and why their spirits live forever)Using our broken stories for His gloryOpenly talking about our babies in HeavenFixing our eyes on HeavenHow to feel safe, seen, and loved by your spouseWhy toxic thoughts wreak havoc in marriageThe power of persistent prayer• EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode55]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

This is a special bonus episode highlighting the program from the Wave of Light event that Bridget's Cradles hosted in Wichita, Kansas on October 15, 2024, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.  In this episode, we shared: The program and announcements from our Wave of Light 2024 eventEmcee Scott Evans and Pastor John Carney's remarks and Ashley Opliger's speech from the eventA thank you to our generous corporate and memorial sponsorsA special guitar solo by Steve Golik, Ashley’s Dad, titled “Bridget’s Ballad” played in his honorJosh Sander’s musical performance at Wave of LightReading of Names of Babies in Heaven (for families that registered/attended or sponsored the event) EPISODE SHOW NOTES:https://www.bridgetscradles.com/post/waveoflight2024CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resourceswww.bridgetscradles.com/podcastCRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhopeFOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLESwww.facebook.com/bridgetscradleswww.instagram.com/bridgetscradleswww.pinterest.com/bridgetscradlesCONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGERwww.ashleyopliger.comwww.facebook.com/ashleyopligerwww.instagram.com/ashleyopliger#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★

Join us for a hope-filled conversation with Alicia Michelle about managing emotions in grief with science and Scripture. Alicia, who previously shared her story of losing her son in an early miscarriage in Episode 12 of the Cradled in Hope Podcast, has recently written a book titled Emotional Confidence. Using three simple steps from her book, Alicia shares how we can face difficult emotions and choose to live differently in light of them. As we focus on God's character while at the same time caring for our brains & bodies, healing can happen. Alicia shares practical wisdom for grieving moms to navigate their grief journey, blending faith with their emotional well-being. In this episode, we discussed:A framework for managing emotionsWhat are the 3 steps (Acknowledge, Discern, Decide)?Choosing where we emotionally dwellWhat happens if we get stuck?How to move past culture's expectations of usThe emotional icebergIt's okay to hate deathDisconnect between our heart and headCracks in the foundation of our faithThe mystery of GodWhat is "emotional prep"?Being good stewards of our bodies• EPISODE SHOW NOTES & FULL TRANSCRIPT:[www.bridgetscradles.com/post/episode54]• CRADLED IN HOPE PODCAST WEBSITE:Sign up here to receive email updates and hope-filled resources[www.bridgetscradles.com/podcast]• CRADLED IN HOPE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY FOR GRIEVING MOMS:[www.facebook.com/groups/cradledinhope]• FOLLOW BRIDGET'S CRADLES[www.facebook.com/bridgetscradles][www.instagram.com/bridgetscradles][www.pinterest.com/bridgetscradles]• CONNECT WITH THE HOST | ASHLEY OPLIGER[www.ashleyopliger.com][www.facebook.com/ashleyopliger][www.instagram.com/ashleyopliger]#cradledinhope #cradledinhopepodcast #bridgetscradles ★ Support this podcast ★