Black Men Think Podcast

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, JD is joined by Abib Jahleel for a powerful and necessary conversation about protecting Black boys and the responsibility that comes with raising the next generation. The discussion centers around a tough but important question: If Black men are viewed as distrustful, how can we expect to properly raise Black boys into strong, confident men? JD and Abib unpack the impact of perception, community, and accountability when it comes to shaping young Black men. They also speak on the importance of valuing our elders, recognizing their wisdom, honoring their experiences, and avoiding the tendency to treat them as if they no longer have purpose or voice. Follow Abib Jahleel on social: https://www.instagram.com/icreateart.atl/ 👇 Join the conversation 📞 Leave a voicemail: 404-939-6477 🎧 Support the pod and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas unpack the differences between how we grew up and how many kids are being raised today. The conversation centers around whether children today are becoming more thin-skinned compared to previous generations, and how our upbringing shaped the way we handled criticism, conflict, and adversity. We reflect on the parenting styles we experienced and how those experiences influence the way we’re raising our own children. The discussion also expands into how technology has drastically changed childhood. With phones, tablets, gaming, and constant digital entertainment, kids today have far more options to stay occupied than we did growing up. From outside play and limited distractions to the always-connected world our kids live in now, we explore how these changes are shaping resilience, communication, and social development. This episode is a thoughtful look at parenting across generations and the balance between protecting our children and preparing them for the real world.

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas use the recent back-and-forth involving T.I., his sons, and 50 Cent as a jumping-off point for a deeper conversation about fatherhood, ego, and legacy. What happens when our public conflicts become lessons for our children? Are we modeling leadership, emotional control, and wisdom or are we unintentionally passing down pride and reactionary behavior? We unpack what it looks like to raise sons in the social media era, where every disagreement can become content and every response is permanent. The conversation explores generational differences in masculinity, knowing when to step in as a father, and when to let your son learn on his own. We also reflect on the responsibility that comes with being an example, especially in a world that rewards clap-backs over composure. We also tackle the question: What did we have to unlearn from our father? Which leads us down the road of understanding the reasons why our father's did the things they did and realizing we wanted to do some things differently. 👇 Join the conversation 📞 Leave a voicemail: 404-939-6477 🎧 Support the pod and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this Patreon-exclusive episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas take a nostalgic trip back to childhood while comparing sibling rivalries from our upbringing to what we see with our own kids today. From how we competed, fought, and bonded with our siblings to how our children navigate rivalry in a completely different world, we reflect on what’s changed and what hasn’t. We talk about the lessons those early rivalries taught us, how they shaped our relationships as adults, and what we’re learning now as parents watching our kids go through it in real time. 📞 Leave a voicemail for Ask A Black Man: 404-939-6477 🎧 Support the podcast and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas unpack the real cost of staying comfortable. What feels like peace and stability can sometimes be fear in disguise. We dive into how comfort can quietly become a cage, keeping us in jobs we’ve outgrown, relationships that no longer challenge us, and routines that feel safe but limit our growth. We talk about the hidden price of playing it safe, from missed opportunities and creative stagnation to the regret that can build over time. The conversation also explores why change feels so heavy, especially for Black men navigating generational survival mindsets and the pressure to protect what we’ve built. In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer the question: How do you know when it’s time to leave something that’s no longer challenging you? This episode challenges you to reflect on where you might be choosing comfort over growth and what it could be costing you. 👇 Join the conversation 📞 Leave a voicemail: 404-939-6477 🎧 Support the pod and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, most of the fellas were out of town, so JD is joined by his longtime college friend Brandon for a real, reflective conversation. Together, they dive into the things many of us are still figuring out as grown men, from money and emotions to relationships, parenting, and faith. After an honest check-in, the conversation unpacks how so many of us entered adulthood without a roadmap, learning key lessons through trial, error, and experience. We talk about the pressure to have it all together, the courage it takes to admit what we don’t know, and why growth starts with honesty. In our Ask A Black Man segment, we respond to a powerful voicemail from an Army veteran asking how to find healthy ways to decompress after years of service. The discussion opens up an important dialogue around stress, healing, and creating space to slow down. This episode is a reminder that not knowing doesn’t make you weak; it makes you human. 👇 Join the conversation📞 Leave a voicemail: 404-939-6477🎧 Support the pod and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we kick things off by surviving the infamous Atlanta “snow storm,” but the conversation quickly shifts into something much deeper. The recent ICE-related tensions around the country spark an honest discussion about how Black men navigate racism directed toward us, while also confronting our own unconscious biases toward others. We unpack generational trauma and what it means to learn from parents who came of age just after the Civil Rights era. We talk about raising children who don’t see color, while still making sure they understand, appreciate, and love their Blackness—without passing down unresolved trauma. The fellas also share personal experiences with racism and how those moments shaped the way we move through the world today. In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer a real-life question: What’s the best way to explain to my fiancée that we shouldn’t overspend on our wedding, even though our parents are contributing financially? 👇 Join the conversation 📞 Leave a voicemail: 404-939-6477 🎧 Support the pod and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas dive into what happens when you outgrow the version of yourself that people expect you to remain. We talk about recognizing personal growth, shifting priorities, and the discomfort that comes when others can’t see who you’ve become. Through honest reflection, we unpack how being labeled as “changed” can bring guilt, tension, and tough decisions, especially for Black men navigating family, friendships, and responsibility. We also discuss how to create distance without burning bridges and why growth doesn’t mean betrayal. In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer the question: What is something you wish you had known before you got married? This episode is for anyone who’s evolving, setting boundaries, and learning to stand firm in who they’re becoming. 👇 Join the conversation 📞 Leave a voicemail: 404-939-6477 🎧 Support the pod and get exclusive episodes on Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, we ask a real question a lot of us avoid: Do we still know how to unplug? After the Sip of the Week, the fellas dive into how phones, social media, and nonstop notifications keep us connected around the clock and why disconnecting feels harder than ever. We talk about the struggle to step away, whether it’s driven by FOMO, work pressure, or just pure habit. Along the way, we share some hilarious digital detox fails, from deleting apps only to reinstall them hours later, to trying to unplug and ending up right back online. The conversation turns more serious as we unpack how constant connectivity impacts our mental peace and what it looks like to protect it. From setting no-phone hours to creating tech-free spaces at home, we share practical ways to find balance. We close by asking the big question: Do we even want to unplug anymore, or is being connected just the new normal? Plus, we challenge listeners to try a 24-hour unplug and let us know how it goes. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477. 🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

We kick things off with a quick recap of the holidays and how everyone spent their time closing out the year. From there, we jump into voicemails from our Ask A Black Man segment, which spark a deeper conversation about the importance of getting information sooner rather than later to better position ourselves and our families. That discussion naturally leads into the importance of building healthy habits, from eating better and prioritizing mental health to staying active and working out. It’s a practical, reflective episode centered on growth, awareness, and making intentional choices that set us up for the long run. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477. 🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas explore what it really means to leave a legacy as Black men today. We challenge the idea that legacy is only about money or status and shift the focus to impact, values, presence, and how we show up daily. After an honest homeboy check-in, we discuss how social media shapes our views on success, the barriers that keep many of us in survival mode, and the lessons about legacy that were never passed down. We also talk about what we are actively doing now to build something meaningful through better habits, mentorship, health, and intentional choices. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

With Christmas right around the corner, the fellas tap into a timely and heartfelt conversation about the holidays. We discuss our holiday plans, how we’re preparing for the new year, and the realities of navigating holiday tension and grief, all while trying to remain intentional with family and friends. The crew also talks about the importance of teaching our kids to value presence over presents, especially in a season that often centers around material things. In our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer a powerful question: How do you handle situations when your personal struggles start to interfere with your relationships? This episode is equal parts reflection, real talk, and perspective, perfect for anyone heading into the holidays with a lot on their mind. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew dives into the realities of life and career changes—and the challenges that come with them. We talk openly about the anxiety that shows up when starting something new, how to recognize when you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be, and the tough decisions that have to be made to push Black Men Think to the next level. It’s an honest conversation about growth, risk, and trusting the process, especially when the next step feels uncomfortable but necessary. If you’re in a season of transition, this episode is for you. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew takes on one of the toughest questions you could ever face: What would you do if someone you love dearly committed an unthinkable crime? We dive deep into the emotional shock, the instinct to protect, and the moral weight that comes when loyalty, love, and responsibility collide. The conversation stretches into cultural expectations—especially for Black men—around “holding it down,” and how that sometimes conflicts with doing what’s right. We talk about the difference between supporting someone and enabling them, how accountability fits into love, and the complicated layers of forgiveness, boundaries, and redemption. In our Ask A Black Man segment, we explore the question: “What advice could you give us first-time dads on preparing to have those rough conversations?” The answers get real. If you’ve ever wrestled with loyalty, morality, or the weight of someone else’s decisions, this episode will hit home. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

On this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the fellas celebrate OutKast’s long-overdue induction into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame. We dive into what this moment means for the culture, why we feel André 3000 should’ve hit that stage, and how artists handle shifting seasons in their careers. That conversation opens the door for something deeper—how we deal with change when we’ve moved on mentally, emotionally, or creatively. Whether it’s transitions in life, relationships, or purpose, we talk about what it looks like to evolve without apologizing for it. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

On this Patreon exclusive episode, the fellas talk about the recent growth of the podcast and understanding the responsibility of the platform. We also talk about family issues and dealing with unexpected expenses. Join Patreon: www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew unpacks a series of heavy but necessary conversations. We start with the tragic passing of D’Angelo and open up about how we’d personally deal with illness and would we share our struggles publicly or fight them privately? From there, we discuss Gucci Mane’s openness about his mental health journey and the reality of what healing looks like for Black men who live their lives in the public eye. The fellas also share their own real experiences with mental health, reflection, and growth. Plus, in our Ask A Black Man segment, we answer a question about the last book we read and how it impacted us in real life. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

On this week’s episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew dives deep into how fatherhood has completely changed the way we see life. From learning patience to realizing that disciplining our children often ends up teaching us a lesson, we explore how parenting has reshaped our perspectives as Black men. We also get real about how our spouses navigate the complexities that come with loving and understanding us, especially while we’re still learning ourselves. It’s honest, relatable, and full of those “been there too” moments every parent will feel. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew. 📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew walks into a real conversation about the fear of ED, unpacking what life might look like during that time and asking why this topic isn’t often discussed or passed down by our elders. We also tap into our Ask A Black Man segment, responding to a listener’s voicemail: “When did you know you became that guy?” It’s a mix of transparency, laughter, and insight you don’t want to miss. 💬 Tap in, reflect, and share with your crew.📞 Got a question? Call and leave a voicemail at 404-939-6477.🎧 Join our Patreon for exclusive behind-the-scenes content www.patreon.com/blackmenthink

In this Patreon-exclusive episode of The Black Men Think Podcast, the crew takes a trip down memory lane to share some of their wildest driving woes growing up. Good recounts the time his car was stolen multiple times, Marlon reveals how he lost his license—twice—and the fellas swap more stories about the ups, downs, and lessons learned behind the wheel. Join Patreon: http://patreon.com/blackmenthink