gAy A: The Queer Sober Hero Show

Sober Steve is joined by Joey Bachrach from Rainbow Hill Recovery to peel back the curtain and discuss what it’s like working in recovery with his husband, Andrew Fox. **Episode Highlights Include**- **The Role of Community in Recovery:** Insights from my visit to Rainbow Hill Recovery and how my sober community helped me get through my insecurities in Los Angeles. 🤲- **Building Professional Fulfillment:** Joey discusses the growth and success of Rainbow Hill now being DHCS certified and their dedication to making recovery accessible to EVERYONE. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️- **Joey’s Sober Heroes:** Honoring individuals like Manny Rodriguez, whose authenticity helped pave the way for Joey and others in the recovery community. 🦸‍♂️- **Navigating Relationships At Work and At Home:** Exploring the delicate dynamics of relationships after addiction, emphasizing routine, communication, and mutual growth.🏣🏡- **And Much More! ** **Where to Find Us:**- Rainbow Hill Recovery 🏣 - Rainbow Hill Sober Living 🏡- Totally Sober 🔴- Joey’s IG 🟢- gAy A on IG 🟢- gAy A everywhere else 🖇️Tell a friend to listen today!! Until next time, stay sober!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

In this episode, Sober Steve chats with our special guest, Andy, who bravely opens up about his journey to sobriety through grief and ADHD. Andy shares his struggles with alcohol, how he found his place within the queer community, and built a network of sober friends. Andy shares his challenges of traveling while sober, and the positive shifts in lifestyle that come with sobriety. You don't want to miss Andy's inspiring story and the valuable insights shared in this episode. Steve then dives into the correlation between ADHD and addiction with some facts and stats that may surprise you! Do you have an ADHD diagnosis already? Or might you have ADHD and have not been diagnosed yet? If you are in recovery, your chances of this affecting you are higher than you might think!Connect with Andy on IG @andyalsopConnect with Steve everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve@SoberSteve.comUntil next time, stay sober friends!Source for ADHD Mentions: https://www.addictions.com/blog/adhd-in-addiction-recovery-and-how-it-affects-people/Support the Show.

Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we delve into the inspiring story of Brian Belovitch, author of Transfigured. He is a resilient individual who has navigated through societal pressures, personal struggles, and the challenges of identity and sobriety. Brian also has the unique experience of transitioning from male to female in his youth, and then a transition back to male in sobriety.Join host Steve as he sits down with Brian to explore his transformation, his experiences and insights on sobriety, and his mission to carry a powerful message within the queer community. Together, they discuss navigating the complexities of reclaiming one's identity, the importance of asking for help, and the significance of embracing change. Get ready for a raw and empowering conversation you won't want to miss!Check out Brian's book, Trans Figured: My Journey from Boy to Girl to Woman to Man, here: https://a.co/d/dEB7DrCConnect with Brian online: https://www.facebook.com/brian.belovitch1Connect with Steve and the podcast online everywhere @gayapodcast or email Steve at steve@sobersteve.comWant more content? Head over to Patreon for bonus episodes and early releases at www.patreon.com/gayapodcastSupport the Show.

Welcome to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show! In this episode, we dive into the inspiring journey of our guest, Christopher, a fragrance and skin care developer and fashion designer. He shares his experiences with sobriety, the challenges he faced, and the resilience he developed. From creating his own line of fragrances to navigating personal struggles, Christopher's story is one of strength and determination. Our host, Steve, also discusses his own sobriety journey and the impact of joining a kickball league on his perception of team sports. Plus, we'll explore the importance of community support and the evolving perspectives on sobriety. Check out Bloke NYC at www.blokenyc.com and find Christopher at https://www.facebook.com/chris.valianteEngage with Steve on the socials @gayapodcast, email him at steve@sobersteve.com or add him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/steven.bennet.90/Enjoy exclusive content and early access at over at www.patreon.com/gayapodcastSupport the Show.

Welcome back to gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, where we celebrate sobriety, resilience, and creativity. In today's episode, our host, Sober Steve, shares his personal journey of sobriety, reflecting on 1026 days of continuous sobriety and the approval of his workshop on overcoming shame and trauma in the context of sex and recovery for the Florida roundup. We then dive into a captivating interview with the talented Leo S., who shares his 35-year sobriety journey intertwined with a successful music career and struggles with alcohol dependency and anxiety. Leo's story explores the themes of personal growth, artistic perseverance, and the power of giving back to the community. From navigating uncomfortable conversations about race in creative work to the challenges of forgiveness and compassion in sobriety, Leo's wisdom and experience provide invaluable insights. So sit back and get ready for an inspiring and thought-provoking conversation with Leo S. on gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show.Want to connect with Leo? Visit https://leoschwartz.com/ or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/leo.schwartz.1Connect with Steve and the podcast everywhere @gayapodcast or by email at steve@sobersteve.comWant more gAy A content? Join our Patreon community and unlock bonus episodes and early access! www.patreon.com/gayapodcastSupport the show

Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today we have two stories that both touch on unique experiences, but share receiving an ADHD diagnosis in sobriety.We're joined by Chad C from Vancouver, who shares his 23-year journey through sobriety, competitive figure skating, and the unexpected challenges life throws our way. His story, filled with gratitude for life's gifts including marriage and travel, offers a raw and inspiring look at overcoming obstacles and the importance of supportive networks.The conversation takes a deeper look at the intersection of recovery and maintaining physical fitness, an often-overlooked aspect of the sober life. Through my own struggles and triumphs, we address the complexities of eating disorders, particularly in the high-pressure world of competitive sports, and how these experiences shape our paths toward healthy living. We also touch on the intricacies of recovery, which demand more than just exercise and nutrition, reminding us that self-compassion and accountability are crucial for sustained sobriety. Moreover, the episode underscores the broader impact of personal recovery on relationships and responsibilities, urging us to stay alert to the dangers of an all-or-nothing approach in our ongoing quest for growth.Wrapping up, we celebrate the milestones of our guest J9, who shares the latest twists in their life's journey, including a fresh single, Pleasure and Pain, amidst the backdrop of sobriety and an ADHD diagnosis. Unpacking the nuances of emotional regulation and daily management of ADHD, we offer insights and strategies that resonate with many who navigate similar challenges. Thanks for listening!Find Chad Online: Chad Conley on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/chadlconley and Instagram @chad_c78 Find J9's New Song, Pleasure and Pain Streaming: bit.ly/PleasureAndPain-streamFollow J9 on all the socials @J9grooves Support the Show.

In this bonus episode of gAy A: The Super Soberhero Show, host Sober Steve shares his powerful and personal story told at his church's storyteller Sunday. From his childhood in Erie, Pennsylvania to his struggles with sobriety and finding his way back to God, Steve takes us on a raw and emotional journey. He talks about the impact of being "othered" and how it affected his sense of self-worth, his faith journey, and ultimately led to his battle with alcohol. Steve discusses his path to sobriety, the inception of his podcast, and his evolution into a life coach. His story is a testament to the power of community, self-discovery, and redefining happiness. Join us as we delve into Steve's journey of healing, rediscovery, and finding spiritual connection in unexpected places.What did you think? Let me know at steve@sobersteve.com or on social media @gayapodcast Stay sober, my friends!Support the Show.

Super Soberheroes, welcome to a new episode of gAy A, where my listeners and I open up about our personal stories and share our journeys of addiction and recovery in the queer community. In this episode, we'll be diving into Tim T.'s powerful story of battling addiction, hitting rock bottom, and finding his way to sobriety. We'll also hear from JP, who shares his own struggles with alcohol and the positive changes he’s made in his life since embracing sobriety. Both guests reflect on the impact of physical fitness in their recovery, and the power of mindset and positivity in their daily lives. Join host Steve as he leads this candid and inspiring conversation about addiction, recovery, and the journey towards a healthier, happier life.Follow JP online at: @jp_grangerFollow Tim at: @ttully528 and Tim Tully on FacebookFollow us @gayapodcast or visit linktr.ee/gayapodcast for all the links!Support the Show.

Hey there, Super Soberheroes! Today's episode features the remarkable Jim G, sharing his experience, strength, and hope with over four decades of sobriety.Steve's Gratitude:Engaging with Also Youth, a haven for Queer youth, sharing my experiences in leadership with the next generation of fabulousness!Sharing my story at Harvest, my church, during Storyteller Sunday, exploring unexpected journeys in leadership and faith. Jim's Interview:Introduction to DrinkingExploration of Early Drinking ExperienceInitial Experiences in the LGBTQ+ CommunityInvolvement in Sex Work and PornographyTurning Point: (Content Warning) Being raped while intoxicatedTransformation and AcceptanceSeparating Sex from Alcohol and DrugsShow and Tell with Jim's Chip and 2nd Edition Big BookSex work during the AIDS epidemicJim's beliefs on spirituality and destiny in favor of traditional religious viewsEmbracing our self-worth and authenticityAnd much more!Friend Jim on Facebook @ James-John Salvatore Gigliello or on Instagram @dr_gruff_daddyFollow us everywhere @gayapodcast and join our Patreon community for exclusive post show and uncut content!Support the Show.

Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast and best selling quit-lit author, Charlie Gray, to discuss how creating, publishing, and marketing his "Charlie and The Frog" trilogy impacted his sobriety.Topics discussed include:What are you grateful for today?Charlie's "zany" journey to sobriety.Picking up the pen the first timeTurning a book into a trilogyHow the creative process changed Charlie's life.How the publishing and marketing process impacted him.What would a “Lost Chapter” to one of the books look like?How has life changed since the trilogy?Turning addictions and struggles into metaphor with The Phantom Maverick.What’s to come on Charlie's Heroes JourneyA huge thank you to Charlie Gray for sharing his journey and insights with us today. You can find his books, including "At Least I’m Not The Frog," "The Frog’s Bottle," "The Frog No More," and his latest release, "The Phantom Maverick," wherever books are sold, including here:At Least I'm Not The Frog: https://a.co/d/gcCMy36The Frog's Bottle: https://a.co/d/6Su5zfFThe Frog No More: https://a.co/d/gBZeoRkThe Phantom Maverick: https://a.co/d/dt1ZpIcFollow Charlie on Instagram at @hismajestycharles3rd and us wherever you social @gayapodcast , and e-mail me to get involved at steve@sobersteve.comSupport the Show.

1,000 days sober – a milestone that's more than just a number; it's an accomplishment that takes resilience, community, and the power of embracing my authenticity! Join me on this episode as I dive deep into the highs and lows of my journey from addiction to recovery, shedding light on the peaks and valleys along the way, the lessons I've learned, and my hopes for what is to come.🌈 Reflecting on a Queer Childhood:  Unveiling the struggles and triumphs of growing up queer and experiencing emotional and sexual traumas, as well as a scarcity mindset. Exploring the deceptive allure of alcohol and its impact on my early yearsHow my life became unmanageable, and how I found beauty in more than one solution.How my limited beliefs came back in my sobriety and almost led to a relapse, and the lessons learned from that experience.Highlighting the journey from seeking validation externally to finding empowerment through life coaching and meaningful connectionsJoin the conversation by emailing steve@sobersteve.com and become part of our community by becoming a guest, submitting clips, or sharing any of your gifts with the listeners.Support the Show.

This week Sober Steve, the Podcast Guy, dives into the world of dating apps for sober people in the queer community, and experiences across the different platforms and stages of our addiction and recovery.As I approach a monumental sobriety milestone, gratitude practices deepen my connections beyond the sober community with heartwarming responses from friends. Then, things get even more personal as I bring my husband on to share our experience meeting on not one but two apps and how that has evolved into our marriage today.Guest Gabriel, Danielle, and Mark share insights from their experiences on Facebook Messenger, Grindr, Tinder, Her, and more, emphasizing honesty and positive feedback on sobriety disclosure. We discuss the importance of personal boundaries and self-awareness in sober dating, stressing honesty for genuine connections and balancing relationships with spiritual well-being.Follow our guests on Instagram- @heymarko8, @dc_and_rosey, and @the.archangelgabriel - and follow us wherever you social @gayapodcast!Check out our new website at https://sobersteve.com/gayapodcast and email me anytime at steve@sobersteve.comStay sober, friends!Support the show

Hey there, super soberheroes! Today's episode is all about exploring the world of sober apps in 2024.In this episode, you will be able to:Discover the best sober apps for tracking and motivation to supercharge your recovery journey.Connect with a supportive sober community and access online resources for continuous motivation and encouragement.Explore apps that prioritize queer and sober inclusion, fostering a safe and empowering environment for everyone.Dive into literature-driven apps for recovery resources, unlocking a wealth of knowledge and inspiration.Access online platforms offering many sobriety resources, making it easier to find the support and guidance you need.Explore inclusive apps for sobrietyInclusivity within sobriety applications is highly commendable, as they cater to diverse audiences such as the queer and sober community. These inclusive platforms understand unique struggles and offer tailored resources, advice, and support. By reaching out to individuals from all walks of life, they foster a sense of belonging, significantly enhancing recovery.The resources mentioned in this episode are:Email Steve at Steve@sobersteve.com to share your inspiring stories or motivating tales about good experiences with sober dating on apps.Follow Steve on social media @Gayapodcast to stay updated and get involved with the show.Check out the Patreon page for more exclusive content, including full interview clips and behind-the-scenes access.Find the "Everyday AA" and "Big Book Companion" apps in the Apple store for a resourceful tool to track sobriety milestones, access the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, and read daily reflections.Explore the "All Sober" app for a warm, safe space to connect with resources and a supportive community for Better Sobriety.Guests Featured Include:Danielle @dc_and_roseyMark @heymarko8Shane @rhythmcafeheflinCori @_coritee4_Submit your experiences on Sober Dating apps for the chance to be featured next week. Email them to steve@sobersteve.com or message me on all the socials @gayapodcast to talk more!Support the Show.

Discover the unexpected journey of a queer podcaster's transformative experiences in sobriety, leading to the launch of a groundbreaking 2.0 version of their podcast. This emotional narrative takes you through the highs and lows of Steve's personal growth, as he unveils the concept of "sober superheroes." Stay tuned for the open loop of how this journey will empower and inspire the LGBTQ+ community.In this episode, you will be able to:Reflecting on Queer Sobriety: Discovering profound insights and inspiration for your own journey.Embracing Transformative Sobriety: Unveiling life-altering experiences and growth through sobriety.Open-Mindedness in Sobriety: Embracing new experiences and perspectives for personal transformation.Milestones in Sobriety: Celebrating achievements and the power of Patreon support in your journey.Give Sober App Recommendations: Unlocking the potential of sobriety with the latest app and technology insights is next week's topic, so get involved today!Reach out today however you'd like https://linktr.ee/gayapodcastThe resources mentioned in this episode are:Join the Patreon community at www.patreon.com/gayapodcast to access exclusive bonus episodes and support the podcast with a small donation.Wish Danielle a happy four years on Instagram @dc_and_rosey and show support for her inspiring journey.Stay tuned for the relaunch of the Sober Superhero Show on Thursday, February 22, and subscribe or follow on all platforms to catch the new episodes.Share your favorite sober technology and apps for a chance to be featured in the upcoming episode about sober technology.Follow the podcast on all platforms to access 175 episodes of content from amazing queer and sober individuals, and get ready for the new content coming soon.Support the Show.

Steve celebrates episode 175 by welcoming back his sober sibling, Kristen R, to discuss self care routines!Topics discussed include:Our concepts and resentments about self-care before sobrietyThe important of routine in early sobrietyEmbracing new ideas and forms of self-careHow much self-care is too muchThe perfect dayAnd much more!Follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast or on Facebook for more updates, and check out the Patreon page for our weekly Post Show and other exclusive content!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Steve welcomes Kevin to share his experience, strength, and hope while celebrating living a queer and sober life today.Topics discussed include:Kevin's favorite parts of life todayEntering recovery 'young'Struggling with negative self talkThe impact of family and cultureBeing kind to yourselfPutting down the swordAnd much more!Follow Kevin on Instagram @kev.chiang , and follow us too @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear our post-show where we will chat about Gratitude!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Dallas, to discuss how integrating Magik and practices like Akashic Records has helped enrich and enhance Dallas' recovery and his abilities to help others.Topics Covered Included:Our relationships with magic and religion growing upHow drugs and alcohol affected Dallas' connection to spiritualityHis experiences connecting with  Magik and using it to help people in recoveryHow Akashic Records can help understand your history and roadmap to your present and into your future.And much more!For more Dallas,  follow them on IG @drdallasbragg - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcastCheck out our Post-Show on our Patreon page, where we'll discuss Dallas' sexual transmutation challenge attempt at  www.patreon.com/gayapodcastUntil next time, stay sober, friends!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Steve welcomes back a friend of the podcast, Phil, to discuss the change(s) in perspective that comes to us in recovery, along with what it's like navigating life queer and sober today.Topics Covered Included:Our favorite parts of being queer and sober todayOur perspectives growing upHow alcohol and drugs affected our perspectivesMoments of clarity that shift our perspectiveHow our perspective has evolved in our recoveryLooking ahead while living in the momentAnd much more!For more Phil, find him on Facebook at Phil Brunke, and for more us,  follow us on Instagram @gayapodcast. But if you Facebook friended me, I'll accept, too :-)Check out our Post-Show on our Patreon page-  www.patreon.com/gayapodcastListeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Steve welcomes back friend of the podcast, Frank, to discuss how our careers evolved in our recovery to eventually becoming our own bosses.Topics Covered Included:The work ethic we were raised with and our first jobsHow alcohol and drugs affected our work through our teens and early 20sThe shift from 'job' to 'career' and how alcohol and drugs affected our performance and mindset.Getting sober at work- 'downsizing' our jobs for the sake of our recoveryRealizing the 'now' when it was time for us to spread our wingsHow Frank's journey has gone since thenAnd much more!For more Frank,  follow them on IG @manyourstyle - and follow us while you are at it @gayapodcastCheck out our Post-Show on our Patreon page-  www.patreon.com/gayapodcastUntil next time, stay sober, friends!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! CLICK HERE!Support the Show.

Steve welcomes Jimmy back to celebrate the holidays by looking back on what the seasons have meant to us throughout our lives into today, as we are celebrating sober!Topics discussed include:Our holidays growing upHow our holidays changed with alcohol and drugsWhat our first holidays were like sober.How our recovery has changed the way we see and feel about holidays'Tips' for managing the holidays soberAnd much more!Follow Jimmy @jcorn104 on IG, and follow us  @gayapodcast. Head over to the Patreon page to hear Jimmy and Steve talk about what life was like in our 20s!Listeners, I NEED YOUR HELP! This podcast is growing rapidly, and I want to make sure we can all grow together, so take this survey and let me know what I'm doing right and where I should focus my attentions going forward to provide the best podcast for YOU possible! https://forms.gle/ohzqk2bbtZsC8o6v9Support the show