The Fight With Our Feelings

Oh boy, she's here, she's alone, and she's talking about about all the shitty things she's done recently 😅 In this episode I'm on my own, which gave me the freedom to just talk forever and ever. Just kidding, I kept it pretty short. I wanted to talk through a few big reflections that I've had in the last few weeks—some of which came from me alone, and some of which came from research on the Gottman Method: a widely respected form of therapy for couples. So whether you're like me, and you've been terrible at communicating appropriately recently, or you're like me, and you're also trying to grow and thrive in the face of some pretty frustrating history, there's something here for you (unless you're not like me) (jk). This caption is wild. Idk guys I hope you enjoy ❤ ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

Okay folx, I don't play favourites with my episodes, but if I did, this would be one of my tops for sure. I'm joined by the incredible Jordan Ford (@jordanford.omt), strength and conditioning coach, hybrid athlete, and founder of O.M.T. (One More Time). Jordan talks about his recent experience in an ultra-marathon where he ran 100 kilometers (yes, you read that correctly), raising money for local charities, and he goes into the immense mental, emotional, and physical suffering that occurred. We discuss the ultra-important transition from avoiding and suppressing your inner experiences to embracing them with open arms, and he explains how that has been an essential part of his growth, not only as a human but as a hybrid athlete. Thank you so much Jordan! If you want to learn more about Jordan or his journey, you can check out his YouTube page here. You can also check out his business O.M.T. for apparel or fitness accessories. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

The podcast is baaaaaaaack. After a long break (did you miss me?), I'm back with the wonderful Brittany Barratt, Registered Psychotherapist, to discuss the highs and lows of running a business. I've long been in awe with Brittany's perseverance and dedication, and in this episode, we talk about the challenges she faced and the stories of failure and scarcity that tend to plague the minds of entrepreneurs. We also dig into some of the processes of ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) and how we've both had to use it to support ourselves personally through the good and bad times. You can find out more about Brittany and her team by visiting reboundtotalhealth.ca ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

Hey everyone, here's a super quick update about the podcast coming to a TEMPORARY end. I've decided to pause all my content-production over the summer months so that I can focus in on my client work, professional development, and just being me (outside of therapy). Thank you all for listening so far and there are many episodes that you can listen to in my absence. I'll be back in the fall!

On my lovely trip to Peru, I met the incredible Paul Flynn as another solo traveler, and I immediately wanted to have him on the pod. He talked about his long stint in the forces (I don't know more specific army-lingo) and the impact of various traumatic events that he experienced on himself and his relationships. To me, some of the things he described were absolutely wild, and it's so infuriating that this system is built without any real support for mental health and trauma. So grateful for you Paul for being honest & forthcoming about your life!  Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

The lovely and intelligent Vanessa Nicholson, member of Sagamok Anishnawbek, talks about her roles in the Indigenous community (check out Finding Our Power Together) and her own experiences of battling the limited structure of Western colonial schooling & treatment. We both talked about how the current systems in place for mental health care don't meet the mark in effectively supporting Indigenous people—but also people in general with a complex history of trauma. It's a heavy episode, and an important one. Thanks for joining me Vanessa! Finding Our Power Together offers virtual support services in group and one-on-one settings to Indigenous youth & their families. Click to learn more about their programs and services. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------  Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

Oh man, oh wow, this is something new and exciting that I'd love to do more of. My galpal and neighbour Taylor Elgie joined me to recap Love Is Blind season 2. I thought this would be a very funny and lighthearted way to talk about the heaviness of relationships, insecurities, & communication styles. I also just wanted a free-for-all situation to have no filter as a therapist and say the stuff I might be thinking straight up if they were my actual clients 😅 This was also decently tough for me because I've had my own Love Is Blind-esque relationship and it was..... no bueno. We talked about attachment styles, values, and everything in between. Catch the VIDEO version on YouTube if you wanna see our lovely faces.

Registered Psychotherapist Renée Ly (she/her) joins me again on the pod to really dive into the difficulty of staying present with distressing feelings. I talk a bit about preparing for my trip to Peru—definitely wasn't prepared to get COVID there, but that's a story for another time—and my own healing efforts that caused me to take the plunge and sign up for a solo vacation. We also give some examples of times when we test out connecting with or moving closer towards difficult emotions with clients and how that helps them heal. Thank you Renée for sharing your lovely spirit (: ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

My absolute superstar friend Natalie Fougere joins me on this episode and we go head to head about our completely different interests and preferences as mental health professionals—aka, she talks about how much she hates therapy 😂. But also the incredible, amazing things she’s been able to pursue in community-based work after she made a brave decision to leave a position of security. We talk about the disgusting burnout of therapists/counsellors during the pandemy and explore the challenges (& awesome things) happening at the micro- and macro-level of mental health care. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to rate/write a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

Apologies in advance for the audio cracks on this... I'm still learning about technology 🙃 So grateful for the presence of Taha Arshad with me on this podcast and his vulnerability of speaking to his experience as a queer, South-Asian person navigating his own identity, boundaries, and values.. I've been low-key intimidated by this ICON of a human for many years because of his confidence and (perceived) ease at being able to fit in with so many different communities of people. He talks about his commitment to being an advocate for others and we explore the responsibility that can come from being that active voice of representation in the online space.  --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

THE RAP INTRO HAS BEEN ADDED *air horn sounds*. The loveliest of lovely humans, Allison Gibson, joins me on the pod at a time when we are both going through it 😅 We talk about the experiences that shut us down when we were kids and how that carried into adulthood. We also grapple with the difficulty of modern-day language and the struggle to validate people's experiences while not invalidating the experiences of others. You know, light stuff. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Episodes are released every other Friday. Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook. Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you.

Quick update about my current break from podcasting (and all other non-client work) until the new year 🥰

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Personal trainer Conor Shirton joins me again to discuss the harmful impacts of social media. We touch on body dysmorphia, polarizing beliefs, business ownership, and how we've both personally changed our relationship with different social media apps. Want to have some input on what topics I discuss next? Answer the question below or give your suggestions to me through @ Baldwin Psychotherapy on all social media platforms (ironic, right?). ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- BARRIE FOOD BANK FUNDRAISER FOR ALL OF NOVEMBER! Every follow/sub on Baldwin Psychotherapy's social media platforms in the month of November equals $1 for the Barrie Food Bank, up to a max of $1,000!  ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

Wow wow wowwwww another guest on the pod! My pal and previous colleague Renee Ly, Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) joined me on this episode to talk shop about the people that pull on our heart strings the most: rescue clients. We go into a lot more detail about what we mean by "rescue clients," but essentially, it boils down to those who ask their therapist to make decisions for them—usually because they don't feel confident or safe enough to make the decision themselves. Let us know what you think! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- FUNDRAISER FOR THE BARRIE FOOD BANK FOR THE WHOOOOOLE MONTH OF NOVEMBER! Follow/like/subscribe on Baldwin Psychotherapy's social media accounts and each one will raise $1 (up to a max of $1000) for the Barrie Food Bank! See social media links below. Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

FUNDRAISER FOR THE BARRIE FOOD BANK FOR THE WHOOOOOLE MONTH OF NOVEMBER! Follow/like/subscribe on Baldwin Psychotherapy's social media accounts and each one will raise $1 (up to a max of $1000) for the Barrie Food Bank! See social media links below. -------------------------------------------------- Things to help with SAD: sun lamp / light therapy lamp (range between $40-$150) (couldn't find the exact one that I use but this is the same company)  vitamin D supplements commit to 1 outdoor activity per day let in natural light (keep your blinds open!) ------------------------------------------------ Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode—and don't forget to write a review on Apple Podcasts! Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

It's time for some tea about why we don't meet our goals. And that tea is sizzling. No honestly, we gotta talk about tracking progress. As boring or unnecessary as it may sound, measuring your progress on whatever goal(s) you're working towards is a MUST. In this episode I talk about my own goals & the specific tracking apps/strategies that have helped me in the long run. Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode. Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

I decided to record an episode fresh off of an hour and a half of crying. Why? No clue. Was it worth it? Absolutely.  Inspired by the amaaaaazing movie Wisdom of Trauma with Gabor Mate, I decided to speak about this collective belief system that we are alone in our suffering, and that when we suffer, we are unlovable. I know that there are many areas in my life where I try to counter this idea of being unwanted, & that there are many areas in my life where I curl into a ball and hide away from the world. The only times when I reconnect with myself are when I open up to the world and am held by a supportive and understanding embrace (even if that comes from myself). So basically, that's what the episode is about. Light stuff! Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode. Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

THERE ARE POLLS AND QUESTIONS AT THE BOTTOM (?) OF THIS SO PLEASE INTERACT CAUSE IDK WHAT THEY ARE. Have you wondered all this time about whether or not your gal pal Kaitlin had massive social anxiety? Well you'll get your answer here.  In this episode, I talk about scary teenagers, trauma, & my recent whirlwind of skateboarding—all to bring home the biggest reflection I've made in my life: fear is a sign that we care. And it's well worth it for us to walk towards it with open arms rather than run away and hide. Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode. Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.

What's up everyone, it's ya girl, Kaitlin. I wanted to leave the bio at just that but alas, that's not what bios are meant for. In this episode, I talk about this ageless question of "what's the best decision?" I find it really difficult to navigate moments when I need to step back from something—like bailing on plans or giving up some responsibility or taking a break—because I've been trained to doubt my intentions. And that's what this one is about. Interested in working with Kaitlin? Contact her now to see if she's the right therapist for you. Did you like this episode of The Fight With Our Feelings? Be sure to follow & subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss an episode. Find Kaitlin on: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, & Facebook.