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Mickey & Mallory have been in the lifestyle as long as they can remember...so long that even their PARENTS were in the lifestyle! Join them on their journey to provide entertainment & information at the same time for anyone exploring (or just interested in) the swinging lifestyle!
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One Size Fits All?

One Size Fits All?

2025-09-0301:32:25

One Size Fits All? Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate! Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events. We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round. Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel Episode Highlights: [00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate. [03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned. [10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect. [15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out! [20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags. [30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication. [40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit. [55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you. [1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks. [1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success. Special Guest: Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com. Resources & Links: Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com Libertine Events: libertineevents.com Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie Contact: Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Support the Show: Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!
Podcast Title: Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About SEO-Optimized Description: Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content. With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month! Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered. Keywords: AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news Show Notes: 00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer Mallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode. 03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle The hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle. 12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II Announcing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique. 20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained Deep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content. What is AVS? Which states are affected? The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex work International implications (UK, EU, etc.) 40:00 – The Real-World Impact Discussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire. Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs The rise of non-compliant and pirated sites 55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility Why open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation. Tips for parents The importance of sex-positive education 1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month Spotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite. 1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved Links and organizations mentioned: Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/ Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/ Contact your representatives 1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger Website: casualswinger.com Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Social: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, Cassidy Event info: casualswingerweek.com Support the Show: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media. Links & Resources Mentioned: Free Speech Coalition Age Verification Policy Hedonism II The Hot Wife Next Door Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.
In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion. Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging. With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences. www.casualswingerweek.com www.wanderlustswingers.com www.thexclub.net www.hedonism.com www.libertineevents.com  
In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town. The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating. Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene. Links Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events The X Club
Well, it's been a while! Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why.  We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up. Not with each other!  With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it. Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon! Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week Libertine Events DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear
Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2 Donate to Hedonism Hurricane Relief Today! In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts. Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2. 00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger 01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures 02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week 04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights 07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience 17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica 31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager 39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises 40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info 41:40 Introduction to David Graham 42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2 43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts 52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2 56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges 01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events 01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff 01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts Casual Swinger Week Casual Toys Hedonism II IOS Connections Fluffernutters Rachal's Rebels   *
People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons.  One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.   Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn." In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode! Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH! Links: Casual Toys Casual Swinger Week Vedo Toys Wicked Sensual Care Uberlube XR Brands/Creature Cocks Coochy Shave Cream NS Novelties Podcast-A-Palooza Hedonism II *
The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen.  We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it? Links Casual Toys Naughty Gym Be Better @ Being Bad Week Casual Swinger Week Hedonism II Resort *
Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it. What's the origin of the d!ck pic?  Why do guys keep sending them? Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them?  (Pardon the pun) Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients. Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger! Bonus! The whiskey of the month is BACK! Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish! Links: Expansive Connection Casual Toys Casual Swinger Week Dirty Perv Week Fluffernutters Hedonism II IW Harper Cabernet Cask Finish @ Total Wine *
"Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days.  The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles: 1) As content creators ourselves 2) As event promoters 3) And finally, as a lifestyle couple Spoiler alert...we don't agree!   Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world! Links: Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Casual Toys *
Casual Swinger Week 2023 was over SIX years in the making...and even we couldn't have predicted what would happen when we brought 130 souls to our favorite place on earth, Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica! Hear our feelings on the events of the week and some of the amazing experiences from our perspectives before listening to PART TWO, the trip from the attendees perspectives.     Casual Toys Hedonism II World Exotic Travel  Topless Travel *
Back in the saddle! Limavady CEO Darryl McNally & Whistle Pig Brand Educator Ingrid Rodriguez joined us live in the Casual Bar for a conversation about one of the oldest art forms in the world, making whiskey. Learn how to make great cocktails with Irish Whiskey & some facts about whiskey you've never heard before on this NEW episode of Casual Swinger! Make sure to use code CASUALSWINGER for a discount on these great brands! Limavady Irish Whiskey Whistle Pig Whiskey *
The ”NO” Paradox

The ”NO” Paradox

2022-11-2201:13:25

Ever wondered why such a little word is SO hard to say?   The Season 5 Premiere of Casual Swinger digs into the word we fear so much that we're afraid to say it...the Voldemort of the lifestyle..."NO." Also, catch up with us on our goings on, our trip to Hedo with amazing friends, and some of the Christmas specials coming your way at Casual Toys!   Casual Swinger Week Casual Toys Liberator Hedonism Resorts Whiskey of the Month Mrs. Milford *
It's the Season Finale of Season 4 and we're going all in folks! Faces out for Season 5 & we're talking about it with the host of another podcast we love that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the lifestyle, "The Things We All Carry."  His podcast focuses on the mental health struggles of first responders carrying the traumas from their various rescues over time and how they come to terms with that part of their lives.   We also dig into our experiences at Hedonism II, including our games and our upcoming CASUAL SWINGER WEEK!  That's right, in April 2023 we'll be headed to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica for a week of fun & laughs with our sexy friends you will NOT want to miss!   Current sponsors include: Shameless Care YoungCouplesParties.com Neva Nude Oxballs Uberlube Casual Toys Playhouse LV More to come! Check out our website for more information including room availability & rates! Last up, this month's Whiskey of The Month is:  George Dickel Barrel Select!   Notes: Dickel Barrel Select on Total Wine The Things We All Carry Hedonism II Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Casual Toys   *
Regret is a funny thing.  So often it's better to regret something we HAVE done instead of something we haven't done.  However, in the lifestyle, does that still apply?  How do we express regret even if it means we're not sorry?   We dig in from the beautiful corn fields of Iowa with the amazing CornFed Swingers to have an honest & open conversation about our experiences...and our hearts on this second-to-last episode of Season 4 on Casual Swinger! PS - We've launched our Hedonism II trip for April 2023!  Join Casual Swinger on the sunny beaches of Negril, Jamaica for an epic vacation you'll never forget! Casual Toys Cornfed Swingers on Twitter Casual Swinger at Hedonism II Hedonism II WET Travel   *
Is size everything?  Is it all about male genitalia?   We talk size & all things being self conscious about it on this week's Casual Swinger!   Wanderlust Swingers Casual Toys Podcast-A-Palooza *
Why is it so damned hard to accept a compliment.  It's not a gender thing, a professional thing, or even a LIFESTYLE thing.  Taking a compliment is WAY harder than it is to give one...but we have to ask? Why don't we believe the people in our tribe when they tell us the things we HOPE others believe about us?  What's it gonna take? We examine this and more with our friend "The Alabaster Scrotum" in this latest episode of Casual Swinger! Also: Podcast-A-Palooza and the Casual Cocktail, along with Whiskey of the Month! Whiskey of the Month on Total Wine Old Forester Whiskey Podcast A Palooza Casual Toys The Casual Cocktail *
Upgrading the twins is a tough decision that we agonized over for months, meeting with doctor after doctor...we told you all about it in our episode, "Thanks for the Mammaries."  It was a tough go until we met Dr. David Plank from Mid-Florida Plastic Surgery, then everything changed. Find out in his own words why his approach is different from many other surgeons in the area and why we enjoyed him so much.  Also, why don't doctors have more personality?  What happened to Michael Jackson's nose? When should you say when its too much plastic surgery? Also, The Casual Cocktail, Podcast-A-Palooza, Naughty in Nawlins, and more in this week's Casual Swinger!   Casual Toys The Casual Cocktail - Join us for a mixology party like no other! Mid Florida Plastic Surgery Dr. David Plank - Guess Mallory's hoots! Whiskey of the Month - Michter's US1 Rye Podcast-A-Palooza Naughty in Nawlins   *
We sat down with the amazing Paige & Penn from the long running adult lifestyle podcast, "The Swinger Diaries," where we found out all about what those amazing people have been doing for the last year since they ended their podcast careers and started flying around the country!   Join us as we broadcast from the mountains of Tennessee (and endured a failed board that crushed our audio quality!) and laughed the weekend away with the likes of Average Swingers, Sapphic Swingers, and of course our friends, The Swinger Diaries!   PCAP Naughty in Nawlins - Wanderlust's Code Casual Toys Casual Swinger on YouTube The Casual Cocktail   *
Ever spend months planning the perfect outing with your lifestyle friends only to have to reschedule, replan, or completely rework your plans because of your (or your wife's) menstrual cycle? The reality of "the best laid plans" is that we aren't in control.  Hear about some of the disasters, the ridicule, or the challenges we've encountered along the way as we navigate the lifestyle while being human...and not without our faults. Also, ever wondered what they call "that time of the month" in other countries?  Hear some of our favorite euphemisms for "The Red Zone" on this week's Casual Swinger! BONUS!  It's time for WHISKEY OF THE MONTH!  Hang around til the end and find out which whiskey won us over with its amazing story this week!   Casual Toys The Rose Vibrator on Casual Toys Hedonism Resorts Euphemisms for Period by Language Whiskey of The Month Whiskey of The Month on Total Wine Podcast-A-Palooza   *    
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