IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse

In 1988, Givens publicly spoke about husband and boxing legend Mike Tyson’s volatile behavior. But instead of being seen as a victim , Robin became the target of a vicious media backlash. She was portrayed as a gold digger, controlling and “the most hated woman in America.” This episode examines what happened to Robin and how society has historically treated women who speak out —especially when the person they accuse is powerful, famous, and beloved by the public.IPV and Me Links:Help:thehotline.orgNew Merch has launched!!!!!!:Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo, a notebook for listener notes and a set of cute stickers! More designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.comSocials:[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socialsPromo Codes and Partnerships:I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!Sources:https://amzn.to/3IvqXrR - Robin’s Memoirhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VAcuDk4ovsw - Barbara Walters Interviewhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hvkXkNcNNE - Oprah interview with Mike Tyson https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robin_Givenshttps://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1989-06-23-sp-2706-story.htmlhttps://www.si.com/boxing/2023/01/24/boxing-legend-mike-tyson-sued-rape-early-1990shttps://nypost.com/article/mike-tyson-worst-moments-scandals/https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1987-07-07-mn-1631-story.htmlhttps://www.oursistershouse.com/statistics/ https://blackwomenrevolt.org/

In Part 2 of the Northern Ireland femicide epidemic series, IPV and Me continues examining the devastating rise in violence against women across Northern Ireland. This episode explores the stories behind the headlines, the systemic failures being called into question, and the growing demand for change in the face of a national crisis.***Happy fifth anniversary to IPV and Me!***I just want to thank all of my loyal listeners for standing by me for the last five years, and for any new listeners, here's to five more! To say thank you, I am running a competition to win some pieces from my brand new merch range! You can enter by checking out my post on Instagram or by giving me a review and emailing a screenshot to [email protected] and Me Links:Help:thehotline.orgNew Merch has launched!!!!!!:Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo, a notebook for listener notes and a set of cute stickers! More designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.comSocials:[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socialsPromo Codes and Partnerships:I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!Sources: https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cp8memlgdrgohttps://www.derryjournal.com/news/emergency-incident/derry-and-strabane-reps-call-for-additional-measures-to-tackle-violence-against-women-and-girls-5468082https://www.psni.police.uk/safety-and-support/keeping-safe/tackling-violence-against-women-and-girlshttps://www.executiveoffice-ni.gov.uk/articles/end-violence-against-women-and-girls-change-fundhttps://downandconnorsafeguarding.com/onus-safe-place/

This episode covers a deeply serious and ongoing issue — the femicide epidemic in Northern Ireland, where a pattern of women being killed by men, often in the context of domestic abuse, continues to emerge. In Part One, I break down what femicide means, why these cases aren’t isolated, and how warning signs are too often missed. It’s a heavy conversation — but an important one, because these are real lives, not just headlines.Help:thehotline.orgSponsor me for Run for the Wild at The Bronx Zoo:I’m taking part in the Run for the Wild at the Bronx Zoo, running to support the conservation of the adorable (and endangered) Red Panda. Every donation helps protect their habitats and ensures these incredible animals have a future. If you can, please consider sponsoring me—no amount is too small, and it all goes toward making a real impact 🐾Merch has launched!!!!!!:Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.comSocials:[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socialsPromo Codes and Partnerships:I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!Sources:https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cp8memlgdrgo

In the first episode of 2026, IPV and Me examines the allegations made by Amanda Brown against former Irish rugby player Davy Tweed.We look at the abuse experienced by Amanda and her family, the impact it had on their lives, and the broader questions it raises about reputation, power, and accountability. When someone widely admired is accused of harm, how does a community respond—and who gets believed?Help:thehotline.orgMedia: I was recently featured in CanvasRebel’s “Stories Behind the Most Meaningful Projects” series, where I shared the inspiration behind IPV and Me and my work advocating for survivors of domestic abuse. The feature highlights the importance of creating space for honest, unfiltered conversations and amplifying voices that are too often unheard.https://canvasrebel.com/meet-amanda-goggin/Merch has launched!!!!!!:Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.comSocials:[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socialsPromo Codes and Partnerships:I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!Sources: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Davy_Tweedhttps://www.easons.com/no-peace-until-hes-dead-amanda-brown-9781785374982?srsltid=AfmBOopi3wjfPPM3IZiVXBUt6YuCNpKXaHpP3WIbRV0zPA8gixwiGudfhttps://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/no-peace-until-hes-dead-amanda-brown/1144441472?ean=9781785374982

Long before MomTok or The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Mayci Neeley was navigating a world shaped by rigid expectations, faith, and vulnerability. In this episode of IPV and Me, I explore Mayci’s journey through the pressures of the Mormon Church and the abusive relationships that followed—experiences in which she was repeatedly taken advantage of by men who exploited her trust.Drawing from her memoir, Told You So, this episode unpacks Mayci’s path to self-awareness, survival, and ultimately reclaiming her voice. It’s a powerful conversation about coercion, control, and the resilience it takes to break free and tell your story on your own terms.Links:Help:thehotline.orgMerch has launched!!!!!!:Big news! IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse now has official merch available! You can now show your support for the podcast (and for survivors) with our first items — a coffee mug featuring the podcast logo and a set of empowering buttons. This is just the beginning, with more designs and products coming soon. Every purchase helps support the podcast and spread awareness.https://ipv-and-me-podcast-shop.fourthwall.comSocials:[email protected] @mandgoggs on all socialsPromo Codes and Partnerships:I’m excited to share that IPV and Me: My Journey with Domestic Abuse is now partnered with Savorista Coffee!Listeners can now enjoy 25% off their order with my exclusive promo code IPVANDME at checkout at savorista.com. Savour their incredible low-caf and caffeine-conscious blends. Smooth, rich, and perfect for any time of day—your new favourite cup is just a pour away. ☕Sip your coffee and support the podcast while you do!Sources:Told You So by Mayci Neeley: https://www.amazon.com/Told-You-So-Mayci-Neeley/dp/1668099926Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: https://www.hulu.com/series/the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-58cd73be-408d-4eed-8e3d-82339f3f93e2?cmp=9224&utm_source=google&utm_medium=SEM&utm_campaign=CM_SEM_Originals&utm_term=the%20secret%20lives%20of%20mormon%20wives%20hulu%20episode&gclsrc=aw.ds&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22551049560&gbraid=0AAAAADoVW82n1tGtlpEjczOmwPVuwRgTl&gclid=CjwKCAiAmKnKBhBrEiwAaqAnZ93bz54ANRXbgsjZT6R2pddHZX21oKi7nIhNUV6i0KhEHAju2Wa6RxoCHKYQAvD_BwE