So Shameless

Welcome Back!This week Tahoe opens up about his frustrations he has with the complaints NY has gotten about the snow cleanup, should black people feel more sadness about the passing of Alex Pretti, the division between black people when it comes to the "fight", FBA's vs the "other" blacks, Don Lemon gets arrested, recent accusations against Jay-Z, Nicki Minaj goes on another coke binge, and Kanye West issues an apology. ENJOY!!!

Welcome back to So Shameless!Lola, Daj, Yesssterday and Tahoe talk the state of the country right now, a guy who was disappointed because his daughters friends werent allowed to sleep over his house because he was there, trump is a rac..an R word, the best way to support a revolution, and more! ENJOY!

Back from the holiday break..the whole gangs here as Tahoe has an issue with wearing outside clothes in the bedroom, a dad says youre out the will if you marry without a prenuptial agreement,speaking to your friend about their cheating habits vs speaking to your parents about their parenting skills, does your relationship with the coparent alter how involved you are in your childs life, and how long should your spouse grieve before having relations. ENJOY!

Welcome to the true birth of Unconsciously Competent Podcast!In this pilot episode, Kash and Tahoe unpack accountability, dating transitions, vulnerability in men, discernment in relationships, and the patience required to grow something real, whether that’s love, self-mastery, or a goal you refuse to quit on. The topics may feel familiar at times but the perspectives we share will shift you! Our pilot births our signature segment “Pick We”. One topic, two opposing arguments, and one rule that matters most… you can’t argue your own position. It’s about learning how the other side thinks, not proving you’re right.When we sat down you wouldn’t believe it but we didn’t even have a name. After being held back long enough, we did the only thing that mattered. We sat down and talked. And began shaping the vision. You will get to hear the exact moment the name Unconsciously Competent was born, mid-conversation, proving that sometimes clarity comes after you start.This episode was recorded in July 2023. Yes 2023! It’s January 2026 now… and somehow, it still arrived right on time. Along the road…Life lifed. Hard. Between parenting special-needs kids, running multiple platforms, navigating ADHD, grief, growth, and responsibility, consistency wasn’t always possible, but commitment never left the room. However Competence Collective, Unconsciously Competent didn’t launch late, it launched when we were ready. So while some references reflect the time it was recorded know that the true wisdom is timeless.Ready to let your ignorance meet its match? Stay and grow with us! Head over to "Unconsciously Competent" on all streaming platforms and Subscribe or listen to our first episode here with No ADS!

Its the last episode of the year and JD and Lola join us to end the year right! Happy New Year everybody! See you in 2026!SocialsJD@JDTheOpinionated on InstaLola@LolaTheeDivine on Insta

Chaos.. Part Two.The Views expressed on this episode are not those of our hosts ...besides the ones they actually said but those probably werent either. ENJOY!Socials:DiamondTwitter : @MuvaOfGottiInstagram: @DiamyDarkskinnedVixenTwitch: MuvaOfGottiTune into her show "I'm Not Impressed" every wednesday at 12pm (est) on Twitch

Welcome to Chaos.Diamond joins Tahoe, Daj And Yesssterday to talk her new streaming show "I'm Not Impressed" and the resulkt is non stop chaos and hilarity in the way that only she can provide. The topics bounce here there and everywhere as she tells us how much she hates ppl that have a lack of discipline, cheaters, the change in men today vs the change in women today, holding your cheating friend down, and a closer look at hw we feel about 50's vendetta with Diddy. There was so much going on in this episode that we can only tell you to go click and listen cuz man!! Tune in this thursday for part two or go to our patreon to hear the full episode AD FREE right now. Socials:DiamondTwitter : @MuvaOfGottiInstagram: @DiamyDarkskinnedVixenTwitch: MuvaOfGottiTune into her show "I'm Not Impressed" every wednesday at 12pm (est) on Twitch

Welcome back to the shamelessness!!Chrys childs is still here with us as we talk women who make over 100k not sacrificing their peace to be in relationships, a young lady says to her boyfriend that she is not blocking her ex, a man says that a man only protects what he can lead, a man says being a provider is a scam, and a pro life supporter confronts a pro life supoorter. ENJOY!!Socials:Chrys @ChrysChilds on InstagramCheck her out on Fuburadio.com on the "Chrys with a Y" show!

Welcome Back Shameless Gang!This week we welcome media personality Chrys Childs to the couch to talk black people having financial advisors in their life to build wealth, the new Diddy documentary "Sean Combs: The Reckoning", and which generation is worse todays or yesterdays. Tune into our patreon to listen to the whole episode ad free or tune back in for part two dropping this thursday...ENJOY!Socials:Chrys@ChrysChilds on instagramCheck her out on Fuburadio.com on the "Chrys with a Y" show!

Welcome back to part two!The crew continue the conversation as Daj says she expects certain things to be purchsed my men that she would never purchase for herself, a young lady asks for advice about her relationship, and a man loses his wife becuase he had relations with someone while him and his wife were on a break. ENJOY!!

Welcome Back Everyone!This week Daj, Tahoe and Yesssterday discuss Yessterdays pudding being eaten by Tane, egregious Thanksgiving plates, when is the appropriate time to introduce your boo to the family, being the right father to your daughter, being with a person who doesnt show you love the way you receive love, and the three questions to ask when first dating someone. tune in this thursday for part two or go to patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast to listen to the entire episode ad free right now!

Welcome Back To Part Two!Would you tell your friend if they're not valid, a mom crosses the line with her son and his childs mother, trauma we've suffered that has helped define who we are today, how long it takes to truly know somebody, are you more yourself when things are going good or more yourself when things are going bad, and the mom that got jumped by the 12 year olds. ENJOY!!!Socials:Lola @LolaTheeDivine on InstagramYesssterday@Yesssterday on all socials

Welcome Back NSG!!This week Tahoe sits with Lola and Yesssterday as we talk Summer Walker not being a good side chick, can you love someone and cheat on them, Tahoe takes Yesssterday to homie court and do you tell someone that you dont think what they like is that...likeable? Tune into part two airing this Thursday or listen to the full episode on Patreon NOW!Socials:Lola@LolaTheeDivine on Instagram

Welcome Back To Part Two!Do men need women more than women need men? And a woman says her husband disrespects her by calling her the B word and she is hurt by that even though she also calls him that name... ENJOY!

Welcome Back No Shame Gang!This week Traum returns as we talk Trump going down on Bubba, the Maga base having issues with Trumps involvement with the Epstein files, Rory from the Rory and Mal show is having some uh..issues and a guy goes on his birthday trip by himself because his girlfriend couldnt afford her half. ENJOY!Tune into our patreon to hear the full show ad free NOW!Patreon.com/soshamelesspodcast

Welcome Back to Part Two of this weeks episode! We continue the conversation questioning if ppl actually judge their friends and/or hold them accountable for cheating, not wanting to date a person that has children because you want to be the priority, mama's boys/girls, and why women hate going on dates with men who dont "plan" dates. ENJOY!

Welcome back NSG! We get straight into NY's new 33 year old muslim mayor Zohran Mamdani but Tahoe cuts that convo short to tell us all how much he doesnt fk with us because he got embarrassed at a party, Daj asks the guys an interesting question, do you tell your boo a secret that your friend told you, is Yesssterday really a true New Yorker, and Cardi B and her decision to procreate with a guy who has 2 or 3 other new babymommas. ENJOY!!!

We get right back into it as we talk people who over personalize things their partners do, times when men showing their emotions is not appropriate, men feeling like their voices have shrunk in the times of thwwomens empowerment movement, and jennifer lopez says she has never been loved... Enjoy!!Socials:JD@JDTheOpinionated on instagram

Welcome Back to So Shameless! This week we welcome JD back as Tahoe asks Daj why she doesnt show her friends more empathy when they have a problem with the way she treats them..Be back later with more!SocialsJD@JdTheOpinionated on InstagramListen to JD's show In Living Black on all streaming platforms

We get back into this episode featuring Lola Thee Divine as we talk D'Angelos passing, an older man says women saying men shouldnt date younger women is manipulation, Mama Dee getting strippers for 14 year old Scrappy, a girl shames a man for not letting her grab his peen, a mother said her son will not be dating black girls, a cease and desist letter that was sent to the show and Tahoe gets called a broke boy by an old fling. ENJOY!Socials:Lola@LolaTheeDivine on Instagram