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Two single Houstonians residing in Atlanta, Drea and Lex are navigating their way through life, friendships and dating. Discussing all the hot topics while getting lit on their favorite wine along the way! Just like having a good ol' drunk therapy session with your friends, pull up a chair, join the convo and wine down!
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Give Me A Sign

Give Me A Sign

2026-02-2701:50:31

This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode and baby… it goes everywhere. The girls kick things off debating zodiac stereotypes and why the internet swears everything is “so Libra coded.” From being misjudged in the comments to side-eyeing astrology girls who claim every cool trait for their sign, Lex and Drea unpack the obsession with labels and whether signs really mean what we think they do. They also break down the viral Dr. Pepper jingle moment and the bigger conversation around going viral, corporate responsibility, and why the internet needs to learn patience. That spirals into a real talk about pandemic-era scams, PPP loans, unemployment checks, and why people are still getting locked up years later. If you ran it up in 2020… just know the clock might still be ticking. Later, the vibe lightens up as they talk about random talents that don’t pay the bills but deserve recognition—elite parallel parking skills, predicting movie plot twists, tap dancing dreams making a comeback, and being weirdly good at guessing zodiac signs. To close it out, they get into whether your man needs to match your aesthetic. From Build-A-Bear boyfriends and makeover horror stories to gym bros, nerd baes, veneers, hairlines, and preferences vs. disrespect—the conversation is funny, honest, and a little messy in the best way. If you’ve ever judged a sign, dodged a scam, upgraded a man, or thought about ordering tap shoes at 2 a.m.—this episode is for you. Pour up and press play.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Hang It Up

Hang It Up

2026-02-2001:36:57

This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode and baby… they had time. They kick things off talking about the ice storm chaos, warming up your car (or not), heated seats vs. struggle seats, gym life updates, and why running outside in freezing weather feels absolutely unhinged. From THC drink munchies to fixer-upper frustrations, the poor decisions this week are real and relatable. Since it’s Black History Month, the conversation takes a turn when the girls react to a so-called “whites only” community in Arkansas—and let’s just say… if you don’t want us there, you don’t get our inventions either. No dryers. No blood banks. No folding chairs. No microphones. Put it back. What starts as jokes turns into a real conversation about Black innovation, cultural contributions, and how wild it is that we’re still having these conversations in 2026. They also revisit an old topic: how they argue. Are they emotional arguers? Logical? Do tears make you weak—or strategic? The girls reflect on how they used to handle conflict versus how they move now, growth in relationships, and recognizing when certain people bring out a side of you that doesn’t feel good. It’s funny, petty, self-aware, and layered—just how y’all like it. Pour up and press play. 🍷See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
My Lil Valentine

My Lil Valentine

2026-02-1301:28:11

This week, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode just in time for Valentine’s Day—and they’re talking all things love, romance, and the absolute no’s of V-Day. From debating “hood romantic” gestures and whether oversized stuffed animals should be illegal, to breaking down why proposing on Valentine’s Day is a hard pass, the girls keep it real (and hilarious) as always. They also get into spreading kindness (or not), why everybody isn’t obligated to wave at your baby, and how kids, pets, and unsolicited pictures can kill the vibe at the bar. Plus, they talk hosting, couples dates, group Valentine’s plans, and what actually makes a romantic gesture feel thoughtful instead of corny. If you’re in love, dating, single, or just here for the jokes—this episode is for you. Pour up and press play.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with Da Brat and Judy for a real, funny, and emotional conversation about how their love story actually happened! They break down the first time they met, how Judy shot her shot at the studio, and the moment Brat realized she was catching real feelings. The couple gets into the miscommunication that almost kept them apart, including the infamous Atlanta flight with no answer, the ghosting, and the relationship Judy had that made Brat realize she might’ve lost “the one.” From stalking Instagram to finally reconnecting, they tell the full story of how they found their way back to each other. Brat and Judy also open up about marriage, motherhood, and how having their son changed their relationship. They get real about their IVF journey, the genetic testing process, the backlash they faced over choosing a sperm donor, and the health scare that landed Judy in the hospital with blood clots. The conversation goes deep into what it really takes to build a family, protect your peace, and make hard decisions in public. Plus, Judy talks her entrepreneur bag — from TikTok Live selling and e-commerce pressure to how the economy has changed how people buy — while Brat keeps it honest about work-life balance, boundaries, and not wanting to work 17 hours straight. And of course, Ty sets the vibe with a custom cocktail called “The Way Love Goes” in honor of their book, while the room stays full of laughs, real talk, and classic Pour Minds chaos.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Where Is Monty?

Where Is Monty?

2026-01-3001:37:10

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are back with a solo episode — just a kickback with the girls — and it goes from unhinged to deep real quick. They start off debating the afterlife and reincarnation (because imagine coming back as a roach??) and spiral into questions nobody can answer: what do we look like when we cross over, do we get signs from loved ones, and do we really come back as somebody—or something—else? The girls also catch up on life updates, gym routines, sleep schedules, and Lex learning the hard way that being “too honest” on the internet will have folks dragging your name for fun. From raggedy car jokes to people tagging you in wild stuff, they talk about setting boundaries with fans, not letting strangers get too comfortable, and why blocking is self-care in 2026.Then they get into a bigger conversation: are people addicted to being offended? Lex and Drea break down rage bait culture, cancel culture, and why folks love acting morally superior online — even when they don’t keep that same energy in real life. Plus, The Bed (brought to you by Salt.xo) gets spicy with hookup etiquette: don’t ghost, wrap it up, be honest about other partners, and for the love of God… don’t be doing mouth-spit activities with a hookup like it’s a committed relationship.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Look At That Donkey

Look At That Donkey

2026-01-2302:12:29

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole kick off the new year with a solo episode, just the two of them, catching up and getting honest as they step into 2026. The girls talk lifestyle shifts, Dry January (or the attempt at it), fitness journeys, and the pressure that comes with trying to “reset” every new year. From debating cutting back on drinking to unpacking personal habits they’re actively working through, this episode is all about growth without pretending perfection exists. Lex and Drea also dive into relationships and boundaries—why more women are choosing not to live with men, how cleanliness and personal space can make or break a relationship, and the difference between standards and control. They touch on beauty trends, filler culture, and the quiet insecurity that can come with chasing an ever-changing look online. Things take a deeper turn as they discuss friendship fallouts, family betrayal, letting go of people who no longer serve you, and whether everything really deserves closure. The conversation wraps with candid talk about aging, sex, libido myths, flakiness, accountability, and why communication still matters, even when you’re tired.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Cant Fake It Ft. India Love

Cant Fake It Ft. India Love

2026-01-1601:07:57

This week on Pour Minds, Lex P and Drea Nicole are joined by the queen of reinvention herself — India Love — for an honest, vulnerable, and hilarious conversation that covers everything. India opens up about growing up on the internet, being one of the original influencers before social media was even a job, and how she’s navigated fame, criticism, and constant reinvention. From her Tumblr days to reality TV, music, and now Twitch streaming, she breaks down what it really takes to stay relevant without losing yourself. The girls get into her viral streamer awards moment (yes, that moment), internet backlash, learning accountability, and why she’s currently taking a break from alcohol and dating to focus on her relationship with God. India also gets real about OnlyFans, money, family, and the moment that made her walk away from it all. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little mess — the ladies play Love It or Leave It, talk celebrity dating (or not ), men chasing women they can’t have, soul ties, boundaries, and why turning 30 hits different. This episode is funny, raw, reflective, and full of growth — a reminder that evolution isn’t always pretty, but it’s always necessary.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Egg Rent ft. Kayla Nicole

Egg Rent ft. Kayla Nicole

2026-01-0901:40:01

The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by media personality, journalist, and fitness baddie Kayla Nicole. From the jump, it’s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with someone they’ve been watching, respecting, and rooting for for a long time. The trio gets into everything from Kayla’s journey in media, her early days at TMZ, and what it really takes to survive in entertainment when the internet won’t let you forget your past. They talk reinvention, public perception, and why letting comments shape your identity will burn you out faster than anything else. Things get real as they unpack fitness as therapy, mental health, discipline, and why movement isn’t just about bodies — it’s about clarity, confidence, and sanity. Kayla opens up about building her own lane, protecting her peace, and learning when to speak up versus when to let people talk. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the chaos. The conversation spirals into shooting your shot in 2026 (no more hint-dropping), dating fatigue, freezing eggs vs. trusting the timeline, and whether your sexual past is allowed to stay in the past — including a hilarious debate about “retiring” from things you once did in the bedroom. Funny, honest, and full of grown-woman gems, this episode is all about growth, boundaries, self-trust, and realizing you don’t owe the internet an explanation for who you used to be.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by media mogul, cultural commentator, and certified uncle of the internet, Charlamagne Tha God. From the jump, it’s laughs, honesty, and real conversations as Lex P and Drea Nicole sit down with one of the most influential voices in media.The trio dives into everything from podcast longevity, building something from the ground up, and why consistency matters more than clout. Charlamagne opens up about the evolution of The Breakfast Club, navigating public criticism, and what it really takes to survive (and thrive) in this industry long-term.Things get real as they talk mental health, therapy, and why healing isn’t optional — especially in Black communities. They unpack fame, growth, and how staying grounded matters more than ever, plus why everybody wants a platform but not everyone is built for the work.Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without the chaos — from wild side conversations to unexpected confessions, messy moments, and a few “wait…what?” tangents that only this trio could pull off.Funny, reflective, and full of gems — this episode is a masterclass in growth, self-awareness, and knowing when to laugh at yourself.#PourMinds #CharlamagneThaGod #LexP #DreaNicole See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The girls are back on the couch — and this time, they’re joined by Ken The Man, so you already know the vibes are loud, real, and unfiltered. Lex P and Drea Nicole kick things off swapping wild dating stories, from clocking pink birthday balloons on a “guys trip” to realizing you’re accidentally the Uber driver in someone else’s relationship.From there, the conversation spirals (as it should). Ken talks touring as an independent artist, building a loyal fanbase, and trying to figure out what to actually call them. The trio gets into pour decisions involving cars, exes, drunk mistakes, bad window tint, and why confidence plus tequila is a dangerous combo.Things take a left into random-but-relatable territory — animal look-alikes, reindeer noises, Star Wars hot takes, cruises vs. flights, and the very real fear of being stuck on a boat with no WiFi. Then the episode shifts into grown talk: love bombing vs. real love, dating in your 30s, knowing when to work through things and when to let them go, and why settling out of fear is never worth it.Funny, chaotic, honest, and full of side quests — exactly how a Pour Minds episode should feel.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
I JUST MISS MY DAWG

I JUST MISS MY DAWG

2025-12-2102:23:36

The girls are back in their no-guest, unhinged era — just Lex P and Drea Nicole on the couch, letting the conversation fly. They kick things off debating movies that get straight to the point, then spiral into lash blindness, beauty breaks, and New York energy. Lex shares her first Starlets experience, the differences between Southern and NYC strip club culture, and asks the real question: where were the brown girls? The convo takes a wild turn into aggressive honking, Uber chaos, big dogs in small apartments, pet hygiene, and why everybody doesn’t need a Great Dane in a one-bedroom. From there, things get messy with funky breath debates, veneers done right vs. shortcut veneers, and brushing your tongue (yes, it matters). They close things out talking growth, reinvention, and evolution — how Pour Minds has changed, why growth isn’t “switching up,” and what it really means to show up as your most authentic self. Funny, honest, and very Pour Minds.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The girls are back in their cozy era — and they pull up to New York for a long-awaited sit-down with the Podfather himself: Joe Budden. After years of friendship, jokes, and cross-appearances, Joe finally joins Lex and Drea on the Pour Minds couch for a raw, hilarious, and surprisingly heartfelt episode. They dive into everything: the evolution of podcasting, why “gender war” content is tired, how Black love is making a comeback online, and what it really takes to build a multimillion-dollar media empire without selling your soul. Joe opens up about contracts, creativity, his relationship, the Podwives, and why he always trusted the Poor Minds rise from day one. The trio gets into cheating economics, pander-men, classism, industry politics, and of course… Lex gets her messy questions off — respectfully. This is Pour Minds x Joe Budden — an episode years in the making.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sweet Lick ft. Bunna B

Sweet Lick ft. Bunna B

2025-12-0901:43:08

The girls are in full giggle mode this week because Atlanta’s own Bunna B stopped by the studio — and she brought all the vibes. Lex and Drea dive into everything from growing up in Edgewood to blowing up online to how fast her music career took off. Bunna opens up about signing with Atlantic, going viral off pure personality, and why she’ll always stay loyal to the people who were with her before the fame. They get into friendship dynamics, industry drama, protecting your energy, and choosing happiness over chaos — all while laughing nonstop because Bunna’s personality is contagious. She talks chart success, working with Lizzo and Metro Boomin, going viral on streams, and navigating the politics of choosing sides in the music industry (or choosing not to). The ladies also break down cheating, character, why grown women need to stop lying for no reason, and whether “big boys” really do it better in bed. If you need a laugh, a little girl talk, and a reminder to mind your business and smile through the BS… this episode is for you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ooh Na Na

Ooh Na Na

2025-11-2801:54:29

The girls are back on the couch this week for a classic Pour Minds solo episode! Lex and Drea catch up on life, homeownership chaos, and why Atlanta weather is never on their side. From losing grills at One Music Fest to failed roller sets and funky trash-can confessions, the girls are in rare form. They dive into the chaos of Black people tacos, the great fresh-vs-pickled jalapeño debate, and why Sazón has the Black community in a chokehold. (“Why is your gumbo chicken orange?!”) The seasoning talk goes left fast—garlic wars, herb superiority, and the moment everyone realized jar garlic might be a hate crime. The girls also get real about stress eating versus stress sleeping, navigating fitness journeys, staying disciplined, and the reality of maintaining a grown-woman body. Ty joins the fun with fall cocktails and a smoked cinnamon-stick moment that has the couch crying. And of course, they stir up nostalgia with their funniest lyric mix-ups (“I love my baby llama” is INSANE), talk celebrity music delusions, and share their latest pour decisions. Tap in for laughs, lessons, seasoning scandals, and a can’t-miss Pour Your Heart Out straight from the listeners.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Period Pooh Ft. YFN Lucci

Period Pooh Ft. YFN Lucci

2025-11-2101:40:43

This week, the girls chop it up with YFN Lucci for an episode that is equal parts love talk, jail talk, and pure comedy. Lucci updates the ladies on life since coming home, getting his flowers, and dropping his new album “Already Legend,” featuring some ATL favorites like 21 Savage and Young Thug. But you know Pour Minds gon’ get in your business. The girls tap into Lucci’s loverboy era, Aquarius chaos, and why locking in with the right woman hits differently when you grow up a little. The conversation gets spicy fast: Why don’t nobody want a shy girl? How do you really get somebody’s attention? And would you date a fan? The girls and Lucci get into it all. From “you can’t be in love with somebody you think is corny” to “when do people start scheduling sex?”, the conversation goes left, right, and everywhere in between…just how we like it. This episode is hilarious, unfiltered, and peak Pour Minds energy. Tune in, because the love logic vs. street logic debate might just make too much sense.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Smart Minds, Open Hearts

Smart Minds, Open Hearts

2025-11-1402:21:49

The girls are in their grown-woman era this week! Lex and Drea get real about locking in on your goals, trusting your pivots, and remembering that when something ends, something better is already on the way. Lex shares her soft-life dream of starting a garden, while they vent about the chaos of city living.  The ladies sit down with Kendria Strong, founder of Rooted Revivall, to talk all things healthy hair. Kendria breaks down the truth about textured hair—high and low porosity, breakage, and building a routine that actually works. Her plant-based, clinically proven formulas strengthen strands and reduce breakage by up to 60%. She’s schooling the girls on why consistency matters and how science meets holistic care in every bottle. And don’t forget, Rooted Revivall’s Black Friday sale is right around the corner. Because when it comes to Black hair care, you can always trust a Black woman. The ladies dive into celebrity crush delusions (and men with man crushes?!), question why people care so much about celebs’ personal business, and issue a friendly PSA, be careful smoking that weed! Of course, they wrap things up with their latest pour decisions, bops of the week, and a can’t-miss Pour Your Heart Out segment straight from the listeners.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Doing The Most

Doing The Most

2025-11-0701:42:39

Lex and Drea are back, just the two of them: Unfiltered and in their bag. This week they talk about what it really means to “do too much,” from flirty friends crossing lines to learning the difference between intuition and insecurity. Between laughs and shots, the girls get into passion, purpose, boring sex, and why staying true to yourself will always do more for you than trying to fit in. It’s funny, honest, and way too relatable, the kind of episode that feels like a late-night talk with your realest friends. Ty keeps the energy balanced with a fresh “Student of Life” cocktail (pomegranate, blood orange, lemon, strawberry + sage), while Lex and Drea remind us why curiosity, passion, and faith hit harder than any vibe check. It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s real and if you’ve ever been told you’re “doing too much,” this episode will remind you why you should never tone down who you are. 💅🏽✨See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Pour Family

Pour Family

2025-10-3102:12:54

It’s spooky season, and the Pour Family is cutting up! In this hilarious Halloween episode, Drea steps into her Trudy Proud era, Lex channels Uncle Bobby, and Ty shows out as Suga Mama. With a few sips of Taylor Port in the mix, you already know it’s about to get wild.   Featuring topics like “The Haterator vs. The Seductress,” the new way Lex cries, and whether The Joker can actually get it… this Halloween special proves one thing: the Pour Minds crew doesn’t need a superhero, just each other. 👻🍷   But it’s not all laughs (okay, mostly laughs). The ladies also get real about self-worth, women conforming to societal norms, and listening to what God says about your path, even when it looks different from everyone else’s.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week on Pour Minds, the girls are back with another fire episode, and this time they’re joined by the one and only Lady London — rapper, poet, and certified it-girl in her own lane. She breaks down her story from studying medical science at Howard (yes, she’s book smart and bar smart) to teaching herself how to rap in just three months. Lady London shares details about her upcoming three-part documentary on Tubi, which follows the process of creating her first album, and what it really means to walk in your calling. The conversation dives into unity among women in the industry, and how fame can blur the lines between what people should know and what they actually do. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little tea. The girls get into why men might be the messiest ones in the room, why money has suddenly become a personality trait, and the never-ending double standards in love and life. It’s smart, funny, unfiltered, and real — because when the girls that get it link up, the conversation just hits different.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week, the girls pour up with the one and only Joey Bada$$ — rapper, actor, visionary, and proof that range is real. From crafting his new album “Lonely at the Top” to staying mindful about his message, Joey talks about making music that moves souls, not just streams. He opens up about healing through love, the power of therapy, and what it means for a Black man to lead with love, especially toward Black women. The girls and Joey get into fatherhood, mentorship, and the art of staying grounded when the world moves faster than your algorithm. Of course, it wouldn’t be Pour Minds without a little tea ☕️ The girls been feelin’ a few of the tracks for the YN’s, and if you made it out the streets, pack it up and stay out! It’s real talk, reflection, and just the right amount of gems, because Pour Minds is your shameless plug for everything the culture’s thinking but doesn’t always say, just know they are going to put you on. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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