Dear Young Married Couple

Are you feeling a bit stuck with your unwanted sexual behavior? If you’re like most people who really want to recover from porn addiction, you’ve likely tried all the things – willpower, accountability software, counseling, praying… but you keep relapsing. Today, we interviewed Sathiya Sam, a porn recovery coach + speaker. He’s the creator of a program that is research-based and Bible-backed for overcoming addiction. His work has helped a wide variety of people, and we believe it will help you too! You can regain control of your life and walk in freedom. See the resources below to connect with Sathiya.  Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Unleash the Man Within Podcast with Sathiya Sam https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unleash-the-man-within/id1527509233 Deep Clean Program for Porn Recovery https://www.sathiyasam.com/ The Last Relapse - Resolve the Root Issues of Porn Addiction https://amzn.to/3PUULRS Sathiya’s IG https://www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you and your spouse on a growth track? Perhaps you were in the past but you’ve hit a plateau. Maybe you lack passion and you’re more apathetic than you were as newlyweds? This one’s for you. Rev. Darin Sargent is a wonderful and knowledgeable man of God & today he shares his new book Battle the Beast: Defeating the Lions that Oppose Your Destiny. These 12 lions, if not addressed and contained, could prohibit you from reaching your calling as a couple. You can get your own FREE copy of the book by following the instructions toward the end of the episode.  Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros WIN THE GIVEAWAY: Rev. Darin Sargent’s Instagram: @darinsargent Another Episode w/ Darin Sargent https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000542825760 Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What does it mean for a Christian to struggle with depression? Do you or someone you know struggle with depression? If so, this is an episode you’ll want to listen into. Chad & Samantha Scott are wonderful people and are currently serving as missionaries to the island of Roatan, Honduras. We were touched by Samantha’s testimony of how God placed people & resources in her life to aid in her healing from depression. There is hope for you too. See the links below for resources we mentioned in the episode.  Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Support Chad & Sammy ♥️ https://www.fellowshiponegiving.com/App/Form/62369e3c-57a8-4455-8f2a-a5a79b5f6d3c changingcoursesmft@gmail.com Crucial Conversations by Joseph Grenny https://amzn.to/49iKjuD Feeling Good by David Burnes https://amzn.to/3TH3SXo Insight Timer App https://apps.apple.com/us/app/insight-timer-meditate-sleep/id337472899 Thank You Video - Fearless Soul https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ahhvab1qFCs SAD Therapy Lamp https://amzn.to/43MvSO7 Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It's not how often you argue that determines how happy you are in your marriage. It's how you handle the arguments. Any married couple is going to disagree on something. Are you having a hard time making your spouse feel heard because you don't agree with them? Are you raising your tone unnecessarily? Are you "taking a break" from the discussion but never revisiting? Tune in for 5 quick tips for arguing in a way that actually gets you somewhere.  Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Interested in Marriage Counseling? Connect here. https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/counseling Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We have counseled many couples through wounds surrounding the church or their pastor. “Church hurt” is a term thrown around pretty loosely, but in this episode we talk about the idea of church hurt from a pastor’s perspective.  We’re taking on a gigantic discussion with a lot of gray area. We don’t know the nuances of your specific situation. Pastor Daniel McKillop comes to the table with wisdom & prayerfulness in preparation for this episode. Listen as we delve into the concept of spiritual authority and the specific situations where it can be abused.  Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros FREE Resource: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/brokentrust Kingdom Speak Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/kingdom-speak-with-pastor-daniel-mckillop/id1509081156 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you’re trying to gain victory over pornography or an unwanted sexual behavior, and you keep falling short, you’re probably missing a very important component. We had the pleasure of speaking with Rev. Andrew Bevis and discovering more about that missing component in porn recovery. Dig in & take some notes! Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Apply to Wilson University: Code: DYMC2024 https://apply.wilsonu.org/ FREE Resource: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/brokentrust Connect w/ Rev. Bevis (@apostolicmoralpurity on IG) https://www.amprecovery.org/ Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dear Young Married Couple, are you or your spouse in a profession that's prone to cheating? Today we're going to answer that question for you, but more importantly, we're going to talk about WHY certain professions are prone to cheating. Further, we're going to discuss how to affair-proof your marriage even if you're not in one of these professions. FREE Resource: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/brokentrust Counseling with Adam & Karissa https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/counseling DYMC Instagram https://www.instagram.com/dearyoungmarriedcouple?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Today’s interviewees hit rock bottom — 20-year long affairs, drug addiction, separation, betrayal, to the point where Tim heavily considered taking his own life. BUT GOD.  Today, Tim & Kathy Bush have a wonderful ministry and share their testimony about how God repaired their marriage better than new. If you find yourself in a similar situation, there is hope. Let their story bless you! Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Connect with Tim & Kathy https://warroomministries.com Sex on the First Date: Broken Beginning to a Radically Transformed Marriage https://www.amazon.com/dp/1637632711?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_K6W9X85RBGG2KAYXN9SG Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

It is part of our duty as parents to educate ourselves about WHAT our kids will be exposed to (because they will be exposed - accident or not). If you are finding it increasingly more difficult to raise a child in a world that is shoving satanic ideologies down our throats, this episode is for you.  Meet Jordon Frye, author & host of @truthbookcokids. We had the honor of interviewing him to discuss his resources designed to help parents like you trying to navigate the waters of a crazy woke world.  Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Connect with Jordon https://www.instagram.com/truthbookcokids?igsh=ZWMyNDBlOTQyNg== Jordon Frye Children’s Books https://amzn.to/3I5DdhJ having the talkS card deck https://amzn.to/3T4MPje Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Desire is not the problem. God gave us (not just married couples) desire. It’s how we choose to honor God with this desire that makes all the difference. Today, we talked to Dr. Curt Thompson, MD and he shared some really interesting and profound insights into desire. It was a deep conversation where he really weaved together an understanding of interpersonal neurobiology & a Christian, biblical worldview of what it means to be human. You want to hear this one! Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Being Known Podcast with Curt Thompson https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/being-known-podcast/id1556261828 Connect with Curt curtthompsonmd.com https://www.instagram.com/curtthompsonmd?igsh=ZWMyNDBlOTQyNg== Books by Curt Thompson https://amzn.to/3OLkM5A Confessional Community Groups newstorybehavioralhealth.com Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Did you know that 50% of our country’s children, over 25 million kids under 18, are growing up without a father figure in the home? It’s no coincidence that we find ourselves in a culture that’s at war with men — one that says “women don’t need men”.  👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Today, we talked to John Smithbaker, the author of Man Enough to Forgive, and the founder of Fathers in the Field. In this episode, we discuss how masculinity is a gift from God, the role of a present father, and how to heal the wounds of an absent father.    Resources: 2 EROS Conferences Left This Year! Register Here! https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Schedule a session w/ A+K https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/counseling Porn Recovery Focus Group w/ Adam  https://forms.gle/jabCp8Fm1WFxuzkM8 Man Enough to Forgive by John Smithbaker https://www.manenoughtoforgive.com Top 3 Ways to Connect Freebie https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/freebie Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How can I bring up that I struggled with sexual temptation during the day other than, ‘Hey babe, I struggled with sexual temptation/pornography today’? 🤷‍♂️ Welcome to another ASK episode, where we answer anonymous questions from YOU, our tribe. This anonymous question was submitted during our VIP Q&A lunch at our EROS conference in Indiana. It’s such a great topic, because people can still continue to struggle with temptation when the secret is out. How can I ask my spouse for accountability without it being… weird? 🤷‍♀️ Hit that play button & let’s dive in.  Resources: Transform your marriage at the EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Submit an Anonymous Question! https://www.speakpipe.com/DearYoungMarriedCouple Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

After working with literally thousands of couples in their marriage, we know that this one action item often gets neglected because of pride, or a lack of training in their upbringing. If gone unaddressed, it will erode your marriage and ministry. Today, we had the privilege of speaking with Rev, Myron Wideman Jr. on this topic and we absolutely LOVED what he had to say. So many truth bombs in this episode 🔥   Resources: Transform your marriage at the EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Physical Attraction in Your Marriage w/ Pastor Myron Wideman Jr. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000479292300 Connect with Myron Wideman https://www.instagram.com/myronwidemanjr?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA== Schedule a session w/ A+K https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/counseling Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

A lot of people start out their marriage optimistic, in love, and excited about the future. 🤩 Unfortunately, SO many couples get stuck in cycles of disconnection that nobody prepared them for. 🙍‍♀️🙍‍♂️ We are so thrilled to share this extremely effective tool with you that could revolutionize your connection, help you get into your spouse’s head, and emotionally experience your spouse in ways you never thought possible. Tune in as Adam interviews Dr. Glenn & Phyllis on the Connection Code.    Resources: Transform your marriage at the EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Get 20% OFF the Connection Code Course with code DEARYOUNG20 Www.Connectioncodes.co The Connection Codes Book https://amzn.to/3vrKiGd FREE resource: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/brokentrust Emotion Wheel https://www.connectioncodes.co/dear-young-married Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Studies show that financial conflict can be one of the biggest stressors in a marriage. When spouses aren’t on the same page about spending, budgeting, & debt, it can cause serious resentment within the marriage. This is why we were honored to interview Jade Warshaw from the Ramsey Network. Tune in to hear how she and her husband worked through over $400k of debt by changing their relationship with money.  Resources: EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Money is Not a Math Problem by Jade Warshaw https://store.ramseysolutions.com/money/books/money-is-not-a-math-problem-by-jade-warshaw/ Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Marilyn Murray comes from a family of generational trauma, abuse, & secrecy. Marilyn would’ve died at age 44 had it not been for Jesus & counseling. She is now 87 years old and is busier than she’s ever been in her life. She’s living proof that breaking generational patterns is possible if you’re willing to put the work in. Her story will touch & inspire you.  Resources: EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Top 3 Ways to Connect Freebie https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/freebie The Murray Method by Marilyn Murray https://amzn.to/48FJko6 Prisoner of Another War by Marilyn Murray https://amzn.to/41GQZAv Get in Touch with Marilyn https://murraymethod.com Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Happy New Year! 🎆 It’s that time where all of us are starting to set new goals - business, health, relationships, spiritual life, etc. But then, February hits. If you’re statistically part of 80% of Americans, you fall off the bandwagon. Why is this? What is the key to MOTIVATION? Hear A+K dig into this in the very first episode of 2024. 🎉 Resources: EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Small Habits Episode https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-young-married-couple/id1494555036?i=1000592066407 All Things Marriage Portal: Get on the Waitlist https://dear-young-married-couple.mykajabi.com/monthlylivedatenight Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We know that prayer is of utmost importance in a relationship, but it often doesn’t receive that much attention, and we can forget just how powerful it truly is. Today, we dig into this with Aaron & Jennifer Smith, authors of The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Your Marriage. We encourage you and your spouse to tune in to this episode together 🙏♥️ Resources: EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Marriage After God Book https://amzn.to/3teqNjN The Marriage Gift Book https://amzn.to/3Rebrnj Marriage After God Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-after-god/id1349500084 Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Meet Raya & Kayla, our Administrative Assistant and our Creative Director. 👯‍♀️ They came up with some surprise questions for A+K about their first Christmas as a young married couple, special traditions, and more!  This recording was SO fun. 🎄♥️ It was such a blast to have our whole project team together in person for a few days. Enjoy the conversation!  Resources: EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

There are 7 primal questions that affect people’s behavior, decisions, and relationships. Your primal question has to do with your early life. If you experienced deficiency or instability in a particular area, your primal question could be sparked by that. Or, if you experienced an over-abundance or over-affirmation in a particular area, that could be the cause of your primal question. People may make decisions and navigate relationships in a way that forces a ‘yes’ to their primal question, even if it isn’t in their best interest. Tune in to hear a deep dive into all 7 of these questions, and hit the link below to take the free assessment.  Resources: EROS Conference https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com/eros Take the Primal Question Assessment! (5 mins) https://www.primalquestion.com The 7 Primal Questions by Mike Foster https://amzn.to/49JlWaG Connect with Mike Foster on IG https://instagram.com/mikefoster2000?igshid=MzMyNGUyNmU2YQ== Stay in Conversation with Us  IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple  Website: https://www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Email: hello@dearyoungmarriedcouple.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices