Liberatory Strategy

Embark on a transformative journey with Shirani M. Pathak, a former therapist turned spiritual mentor, as she guides visionary leaders and creatives to a world centered on care and community. In this episode, Shirani discusses the importance of letting your divine vision lead amidst worldly noise and distractions. She emphasizes staying aligned with your unique purpose and divine assignment, and calls for the creation of new systems that honor ancestral wisdom. Tune in to explore how you can contribute to building a world free from harm and rich with love and community. Throughout the episode, Shirani emphasizes the noise surrounding modern leaders, from redundant marketing advice to costly yet unproductive programs. She stresses the necessity of drowning out these external voices to remain true to one's divine purpose. Garnering wisdom from over two decades in mental health, combined with ancestral and spiritual guidance, Shirani adeptly mentors her audience to honor their sacred callings. By aligning with one's vision and embracing divine wisdom, Shirani reveals how each person can contribute to reimagining and restructuring the world into a compassionate and connected society. Key Takeaways: Visionary leaders must stay true to their divine assignments by filtering out external noise and remaining centered on their spiritual vision. The oversaturation of generalized advice in the self-improvement industry can distract leaders from their unique missions. Shirani offers a bespoke, one-to-one mentorship program for those committed to revolutionary change, allowing for personalized guidance aligned with divine purpose. Divine assignments often persistently reoccur in thoughts and feelings, indicating the necessity to pursue these callings. Each individual plays a crucial role with unique building blocks in shaping a future centered on community care and love. Notable Quotes: "When you are a visionary leader, the world will tell you there will be all sorts of voices in your head of the world." "It is your responsibility to learn how to shut off the noise of the world and to stay centered in what God has given you." "If you think God gave you a vision and did not give you all of the tools on how you are going to complete that assignment, then you are sorely mistaken." "You have to remain open to the divine wisdom that is going to come through and guide you." "We are not rebuilding. We are creating completely new systems." Resources: Soon to be available: Shirani M. Pathak's rebranded podcast, details of which will be updated in show notes upon completion.

Oopsie! Thanks to my neurospicy brain, what was supposed to be a 20 minute episode became a 44 minute one instead! Enjoy the extra juicy teachings and learnings in today's episode! EPISODE SUMMARY Welcome to a transformative episode of the podcast with Shirani M. Pathak. Dive into a world where leadership and healing intersect, focusing on aiding visionary influencers striving to redefine collective humanity through compassion. Shirani shares an enthralling insight into the upcoming rebranding of the podcast and a new publication on Medium. Listen closely as she discusses the importance of building a harm-free world and how her offerings, like the Embody Love workshop, provide unique opportunities for personal and spiritual development. This episode centers around an impactful story about compassion and kindness in everyday situations, especially dealing with customer service interactions. Shirani recounts a recent experience with a JP Morgan Chase call center employee and illustrates how her practices of embodying love and staying centered in compassion helped transform a potentially negative customer service engagement into a meaningful interaction. Through her narrative, Shirani emphasizes the power of kindness in fostering change and creating a collective environment of care and love. This discussion is a must-listen for those interested in being the change and applying mindfulness practices in real-world settings to promote a healthier, more loving world. Key Takeaways: Embody Love: Shirani emphasizes the significance of embodying love and compassion in all interactions, particularly in challenging or triggering situations. Spiritual and Emotional Evolution: Discover how personal and collective growth through spiritual practices can lead to a transformative reality. Rebranding and New Initiatives: Learn about Shirani's podcast rebranding and new directions on Medium, aimed at spreading revolutionary ideas. Personal Transformation Stories: Shirani shares a personal narrative demonstrating how mindfulness in action can nurture positive change. Engaging Mindfully: Practical advice on maintaining one's center and spreading kindness in day-to-day interactions with others. Notable Quotes: "You know you're here to help us shift and grow and evolve as a humanity." "How we build a world free from harm, still the same destination, but who and how we do it is what's shifting." "That is how we tend and that is how we care... one interaction at a time, we help to create our new world." "It's saying thank you. It's actually looking at your barista and saying thank you." "Whether they are the barista at your favorite coffee shop, or whether they are the representative on the other side of that customer service line." Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's Website: www.shiranimpathak.com Sign Up for Revolutionary Times Newsletter: Direct invitation through Shirani's website. The Embody Love Workshop: Details and sign-up available on Shirani's website, or direct link at https://shirani.myflodesk.com/embodylove  Shirani M. Pathak is a retired therapist who has divested from the mental health industrial complex. She serves as a mentor, coach, spiritual healer, and teacher for visionary leaders, founders, artists, creatives, and influencers who are committed to shifting collective consciousness and building a world free from harm. Shirani provides support through intuitive healing, channeling spiritual wisdom, and offering bespoke mentorship to those dedicated to fostering humanity's evolution.

What was meant to be an episode of the secret podcast for members of our private community ended up becoming an epic episode of the public podcast. And when we say "epic" we truly mean the (s)hero's journey! EPISODE SUMMARY Welcome to this transformative episode of The Fierce Authenticity Podcast with Shirani M. Pathak. Dive deep into powerful themes of ancestral wisdom, collective consciousness, and systemic evolution, as Shirani leads listeners through the intricate journey of spiritual awakening. With a background in energetic and somatic healing, Shirani shares her personal journey of self-discovery and reconnection with ancient ancestral medicine. This episode offers an enlightening exploration of how our current epoch, Kaliyug, influences humanity’s consciousness and the imperative need for our evolution. In this episode, Shirani reflects on the intense year of 2025, emphasizing the collective trauma and mental health challenges faced by many. She discusses her journey of reconnecting with ancient ancestral wisdom and shares her experiences with a Kali awakening workshop and the removal of fibroids, which facilitated this connection. Shirani emphasizes the concept of burning away elements that don't serve our greater evolution toward a harmonious world and further elaborates on how each individual is a pivotal component in a vast cosmic puzzle. Delve into the world of spiritual initiation and gain insights into the ancient frameworks that inform contemporary consciousness through a holistic and interdisciplinary lens. Experience the raw and authentic conversation that touches the heart of personal and collective transformative journeys. Key Takeaways: Discover the importance of ancestral wisdom in navigating the current cosmic era, Kaliyug, and understand how it steers human evolution. Learn about Shirani's personal journey with generational trauma and the reconnection to ancient ancestral medicine that has fueled her purpose. Explore the themes of systemic change, collective liberation, and spiritual awakening as key forces driving societal evolution. Experience the concept of burning away that which cannot follow us into new paradigms of compassion, respect, and balance. Get exclusive insights into the rebranding of Shirani’s podcast and her content offering, focusing on themes like liberatory leadership and healing. Notable Quotes: "We are in Kaliyug right now, the age of darkness, and I'm sorry, my friends, it is going to get worse before it gets better." "There is ancestral wisdom there. And it's just been very, very difficult for me to access." "In Kali Yug everything will be burnt down. That is how this yug ends, in fire." "The reason everything has been so intense this year is because we are literally burning away everything that can no longer come with us into our new world." "The universe is self-organizing and the universe is self-correcting.” Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's website: www.shiranimpathak.com Embody Love workshop: details available on her website Netflix shows: Kurukshetra, Kalki 2898 AD Instagram Reel on Karl Marx's Theory of Alienation: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DRxmiHzjpl1/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==  

In this episode of the Fierce Authenticity Podcast, Shirani M. Pathak shares an intimate and detailed account of her one-month post-operative experience following a fibroid removal surgery. Recorded on September 19, 2025, she provides an in-depth look at her physical and mental journey through recovery. Shirani discusses the unexpected challenges she faced, including mental fatigue and pain, and how she navigated these with her support system. With transparency and courage, Shirani reveals her ongoing process of healing and rediscovery. Through the episode, Shirani delves into her journey, highlighting the complexities of her surgery and recovery process. She offers a candid reflection on dealing with multiple health conditions, such as Hashimoto's thyroiditis and prediabetes, which impacted her recovery. Shirani discusses the rollercoaster of emotions, the physical limitations, and the gradual progress she celebrates each day. Her story serves as a reminder of the resilience needed in recovery and the power of community support. Key Takeaways: Shirani M. Pathak provides a personal narrative of her fibroid removal surgery and recovery, emphasizing the importance of mental and physical support. Post-operative experiences can vary significantly, and Shirani shares her surprise at the level of mental fatigue encountered, highlighting the need for awareness and preparation. The episode addresses the significance of using tools like pain medication judiciously and the role of adaptive aids like adjustable beds in recovery. Shirani touches upon systemic health issues and the ways genetic predispositions can affect surgical recovery and overall health. Notable Quotes: "In order for the world out there to change, in order for the toxic oppressive systems and structures out there to change, we have to do it in here." "I am really excited about my new intro. Maybe another day I will share an episode on navigating that and owning some of that for myself because that was a really big process." "Some of that could have been the anemia that I was experiencing prior. Even though I had done five iron infusions leading up to the surgery to help increase the, or decrease the, the iron loss from blood loss and surgery to keep my reserves up." "It was literally just these fibroids that I had been dealing with that was making my life a living hell for at least, least four and a half years by the time I had had that surgery." "Thank you so much. I love you so much. Thank you for joining me and I will see you again next time." Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's "Embody Love" Course: Visit Here https://www.shiranimpathak.com/  Fierce Authenticity Book: "Fierce Authenticity: Show Up. Be Seen. Get Love." Follow Shirani on Instagram: @ShiraniMPathak https://www.instagram.com/shiranimpathak  Listen to the full episode for an engaging journey through post-surgery recovery and stay tuned for more insightful content from the Fierce Authenticity Podcast.

NOTE: I got rudely cut off by my software so this is part 2 of 2 parts. The entire episode including both parts is just shy of 2 hours... LISTEN TO PART 1 FIRST! For those who don't want to sit through the entire podcast episode, here's the Executive Summary: If you or someone you love has a uterus and they are complaining of changes in their menstrual cycles, heavy bleeding, fatigue, unknown / mysterious malaise, here's what needs to be done: Ask your medical providers to perform an ultrasound of your pelvis and order BOTH Iron AND Ferritin blood tests. You MUST specifically ask for the Ferritin test (especially if you're in a system like Kaiser).  If your provider refuses to comply with your request, tell them to DOCUMENT in your medical file that they are REFUSING your request. And, find a new provider if you can. Trust your body's wisdom. Do not let the medical industrial complex gaslight you or anyone you love.    Episode Summary: In this gripping episode, Shirani M. Pathak addresses the vital issue of navigating the medical industrial complex. While sharing her personal narrative, Shirani sheds light on the grave negligence she faced when dealing with the healthcare system over the past few years. She explains how the repeated dismissals of her symptoms by the medical professionals at Kaiser led to a significant health struggle involving fibroids and anemia. Shirani's candid storytelling not only exposes the shortcomings of healthcare systems but also underscores the importance of advocating for one's health rights. Throughout the episode, Shirani interweaves observations on systemic oppression, healthcare disparities, and personal resilience. She emphasizes the importance of being informed and proactive in medical settings, urging listeners to request specific tests like ferritin levels and ultrasounds when faced with persistent health issues. Shirani also touches on the powerful role of divine timing and intuition in navigating life’s challenges. Her narrative is a compelling reminder of the importance of self-advocacy and dismantling oppressive structures within personal health and beyond. Key Takeaways: Self-Advocacy in Healthcare: Shirani emphasizes the importance of being your own advocate in medical settings, highlighting the need to request specific tests and challenge dismissals from healthcare professionals. Healthcare System's Shortcomings: She shares personal experiences of negligence within the medical industrial complex, pointing out the necessity for systemic change in how women's health issues, especially those faced by women of color, are treated. Internalized Supremacy: The process of dismantling internalized oppression is crucial for effective leadership and personal growth, as discussed through the lens of Shirani's healing work. The Role of Divine Timing and Intuition: Shirani discusses the crucial role of surrendering to divine timing and intuition when facing challenges, illustrating how it can lead to positive outcomes. Navigating Life Transitions: Through her personal story, Shirani provides insights into navigating significant life transitions, emphasizing resilience and the power of community support. Notable Quotes: Dealing with the medical industrial complex is literally a full-time job, and it's also a really expensive job. It's all unpaid labor." "The powers that be, the dominant systems in power, they do not care about women, they do not care about people with uteruses." "If you're not producing children from it, they don't give a fuck. Or if you're not producing more workers, they don't give a fuck." "Where is the care in the healthcare system? Because there is a grave lack of care." Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's website: shiranimpathak.com Learn more about the Secret Podcast and Revolutionary Times: shiranimpathak.com/connect Ready to begin your journey? Register for Embody Love or Apply for 1:1 mentorship sessions: shiranimpathak.com Tune in to this episode for a heartfelt discussion with Shirani M. Pathak, where she shares her journey of navigating medical negligence and the insights she gained along the way. Join us for more transformative stories and empowering discussions in future episodes.

NOTE: I got rudely cut off by my software so this is part 1 of 2 parts. The entire episode including both parts is just shy of 2 hours... For those who don't want to sit through the entire podcast episode, here's the Executive Summary: If you or someone you love has a uterus and they are complaining of changes in their menstrual cycles, heavy bleeding, fatigue, unknown / mysterious malaise, here's what needs to be done: Ask your medical providers to perform an ultrasound of your pelvis and order BOTH Iron AND Ferritin blood tests. You MUST specifically ask for the Ferritin test (especially if you're in a system like Kaiser).  If your provider refuses to comply with your request, tell them to DOCUMENT in your medical file that they are REFUSING your request. And, find a new provider if you can. Trust your body's wisdom. Do not let the medical industrial complex gaslight you or anyone you love.  Episode Summary: In this gripping episode, Shirani M. Pathak addresses the vital issue of navigating the medical industrial complex. While sharing her personal narrative, Shirani sheds light on the grave negligence she faced when dealing with the healthcare system over the past few years. She explains how the repeated dismissals of her symptoms by the medical professionals at Kaiser led to a significant health struggle involving fibroids and anemia. Shirani's candid storytelling not only exposes the shortcomings of healthcare systems but also underscores the importance of advocating for one's health rights. Throughout the episode, Shirani interweaves observations on systemic oppression, healthcare disparities, and personal resilience. She emphasizes the importance of being informed and proactive in medical settings, urging listeners to request specific tests like ferritin levels and ultrasounds when faced with persistent health issues. Shirani also touches on the powerful role of divine timing and intuition in navigating life’s challenges. Her narrative is a compelling reminder of the importance of self-advocacy and dismantling oppressive structures within personal health and beyond. Key Takeaways: Self-Advocacy in Healthcare: Shirani emphasizes the importance of being your own advocate in medical settings, highlighting the need to request specific tests and challenge dismissals from healthcare professionals. Healthcare System's Shortcomings: She shares personal experiences of negligence within the medical industrial complex, pointing out the necessity for systemic change in how women's health issues, especially those faced by women of color, are treated. Internalized Supremacy: The process of dismantling internalized oppression is crucial for effective leadership and personal growth, as discussed through the lens of Shirani's healing work. The Role of Divine Timing and Intuition: Shirani discusses the crucial role of surrendering to divine timing and intuition when facing challenges, illustrating how it can lead to positive outcomes. Navigating Life Transitions: Through her personal story, Shirani provides insights into navigating significant life transitions, emphasizing resilience and the power of community support. Notable Quotes: "What does she even mean by internalized supremacy? What does she even mean by supremacy culture? Then scroll down and listen to the other 110 episodes that come before this." "If you have a uterus, or if you love someone who has a uterus, then this podcast right here is for you." "If the GYN who I had been meeting with told me this in the fall, again, we could have likely addressed it." "I am sharing with immense detail my story here with you so that you can know, okay?" "I made a decision. I said, you know what? I need to put this on God's desk." Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's website: shiranimpathak.com Learn more about the Secret Podcast and Revolutionary Times: shiranimpathak.com/connect Ready to begin your journey? Register for Embody Love or Apply for 1:1 mentorship sessions: shiranimpathak.com Tune in to this episode for a heartfelt discussion with Shirani M. Pathak, where she shares her journey of navigating medical negligence and the insights she gained along the way. Join us for more transformative stories and empowering discussions in future episodes.

Episode Summary: In this celebratory episode, Shirani M. Pathak marks a monumental milestone — the fifth anniversary of her podcast. She fondly recalls receiving the "live" notification from Apple Podcasts and invites listeners, both new and returning, to join in the celebrations. Shirani shares her transformative journey over these years and emphasizes reconnecting with her foundational roots. As part of season five, she mentions skipping music and editing, choosing instead to dive into heartfelt discussions aimed at guiding listeners toward embracing fierce authenticity. Delving deeper, Shirani addresses her listeners' journeys of recalibration and alignment during a busy May. She introduces an exciting upcoming project — a resource designed to identify your leadership style — inviting participation via a digital email publication. Shirani passionately speaks about shifting from the 'Head Down Hustler' mindset to embracing the roles of 'Awakening Integrator' or 'Aligned Visionary,' aligning with the podcast's central theme of pioneering evolutionary leadership in revolutionary times. Key Takeaways: Shirani is celebrating five years and 10,000+ downloads of her podcast, highlighting the journey of fostering fierce authenticity. The podcast returns to its roots this season with a raw, unedited format to emphasize genuine, heart-driven discussions. An introduction to a new free resource — a leadership style quiz — which helps listeners identify their approach to leadership. Shirani illustrates the transition from 'Head Down Hustler' to 'Awakening Integrator' and 'Aligned Visionary' as fundamental for impactful leadership. A focus on spiritual, heart-centered leadership as pivotal for creating change in the current era of human evolution. Notable Quotes: "That means 10,000 of these episodes have landed in your phones, in your podcast players, on your YouTube and in your ears and in your hearts." "It is really about how do we step into, into the truest version of who we came here to be." "Being the Head Down Hustler is only going to get you so far." "In order for us to create a different world, a new world, our new world, we cannot operate from that place." "We are doing the new thing, and that is what is going to move us forward." Shirani M. Pathak is an author, speaker, podcaster and seasoned leadership catalyst and spiritual mentor, bringing over 20 years of extensive experience in health, human services, psychology, psychotherapy, and spirituality. With a rich background serving diverse communities, from the underserved to high-level executives, Shirani guides visionary leaders toward aligning with their true purpose and mission. Her work in fostering fierce authenticity and evolutionary leadership is informed by her deep understanding of human behavior and spiritual practices. Resources: For more insights, subscribe to "The (r)Evolutionary Times" digital email publication for exclusive content and updates: https://www.shiranimpathak.com/connect Follow Shirani M. Pathak on Instagram or LinkedIn to connect and share your thoughts. Join us in raising a virtual glass to celebrate this journey and discover how you can step into authentic, heart-centered leadership. Dive into this enlightening episode and stay tuned for more wisdom from Shirani M. Pathak.

Episode Summary: In this episode of the Fierce Authenticity podcast, Shirani M. Pathak delves into the profound theme of love, exploring its authentic essence against the backdrop of distortion in today's world. The episode candidly opens with Shirani's personal journey through illness, emphasizing the pivotal importance of self-care and physical wellness in our lives. The discussion seamlessly transitions into the exploration of humanity's current choice point—evolving in consciousness or facing a systemic reset. Shirani's insights are bolstered by spiritual tenets from A Course in Miracles and Sufism, exploring how love, as opposed to fear and distortion, remains the fundamental reality. Expanding on these spiritual teachings, Shirani intricately connects love with larger philosophical themes like the cycles of time in Hinduism and the Buddhist pursuit of enlightenment. Her reflections encourage listeners to discern real love from its distortion in everyday life. She highlights the significance of collective action, referencing contemporary events as demonstrations of truth and virtue rising amid prevailing darkness. This episode urges listeners to embrace practices that foster clarity and love, encouraging deeper self-exploration and engagement in transformative spiritual disciplines. About the Host: Shirani M. Pathak is a renowned spiritual teacher, healer, and leader dedicated to transformational work critical for the current evolutionary phase of our planet. She is the host of the Fierce Authenticity podcast and is recognized for her contributions to various spiritual and healing practices, including her alignment with the principles of A Course in Miracles and other spiritual traditions. Shirani is also an author, known for her book "Fierce Authenticity: Show Up. Be Seen. Get Love," where she explores profound themes of real versus distorted love. Key Takeaways: Love as the ultimate reality and its distortion are central themes across various spiritual traditions, including A Course in Miracles and Sufism. Humanity stands at a critical choice point: evolve in consciousness or witness a systemic reset due to ignorance and distortion. Recognize and release attachments, ego, and ignorance to uncover the inherent divine love within. Contemporary challenges reflect cyclical epochs of time, where destruction paves the way for awakening truth and righteousness. Engaging in spiritual and contemplative practices aids in discerning real love from fear and distortion. Notable Quotes: "Being is a state in which the mind is in communication with everything that is real." "Nothing real can be threatened, and nothing unreal exists." "Only love is real, anything that is not love is a call for love, and it is not real." "Love does not conquer all things, but it does set all things right." "Our job is to be able to discover and discard anything that is not love." Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's website: www.shiranimpathak.com Book: "Fierce Authenticity: Show Up. Be Seen. Get Love." The Embody Love course, available at Shirani's online shop: Online Shop A Course in Miracles Sufism principles and Ishq Hindu concepts of Yugas and Maya Listeners are encouraged to fully engage with the rich insights of this episode by tuning into the Fierce Authenticity podcast. Experience transformative discussions that illuminate paths to deeper consciousness and authentic living. Stay connected for more spiritually enriching content.

Welcome to Season Five season five of the "Fierce Authenticity Podcast," where host Shirani M. Pathak reconnects with her audience after a significant hiatus. This season marks a return to the podcast's roots—a space stripped of unnecessary embellishments and devoted purely to authentic communication and spiritual guidance. As Shirani reflects on her journey from clinical burnout and personal health crises to spiritual reawakening, the podcast takes on a rejuvenated, unmasked direction aimed at making meaningful connections with a like-minded community. This episode embodies elements of vulnerability and transformation, exploring how Shirani's personal evolution guides her podcast's future. Key themes include overcoming societal pressures to "mask" one's true self, the importance of slowing down amidst a fast-paced world, and the need to build community among souls who have been through similar journeys before. Shirani emphasizes that her work transcends titles, focusing instead on being a vessel for divine love and wisdom. Drawing insights from her study of "A Course in Miracles," Shirani opens up about being present in the moment to perceive what is truly real amidst a landscape of distortions.   Key Takeaways: Shirani M. Pathak is refocusing her podcast on authenticity and spiritual guidance, moving away from conforming to external pressures to mask. The podcast will release one to two monthly episodes, aiming for a slower, more thoughtful pace to allow for deeper integration of themes. Shirani candidly shares her experiences with burnout and health crises, emphasizing the importance of personal transformation and healing. Emphasizing community, the podcast seeks to connect with others who have similarly experienced feeling like outsiders but have unique gifts to offer. Being—cultivating a state of presence and communication with reality—is crucial to advancing personal and collective human consciousness. Notable Quotes: "Being is a state in which the mind is in communication with everything that is real." "Life is too short to be anybody else but your fierce and authentic self." "When you stop people pleasing, people won’t be pleased." "We are simply, I don’t care if you call me a healer, I don’t care if you call me a mentor, if you call me a coach, if you call me a spiritual teacher. It no longer matters." "We need to intentionally create time and space to slow down." Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's Website: shiranimpathak.com "Fierce Authenticity" Book: Available for purchase A Course in Miracles: An influential spiritual text referenced in the episode. Subscribe to the Revolutionary Times digital publication for access to the secret podcast: shiranimpathak.com/connect Explore this enriching episode to glimpse the unfiltered conversations driving deeper connections and profound transformations. Stay tuned for more epi

In this heartfelt interlude episode of the Fierce Authenticity Podcast, Shirani reflects on the four-year anniversary of the podcast's launch and shares personal insights into her journey over the past year and a half. Touching on themes of collective trauma, burnout, and the unraveling of old power structures, Shirani highlights the emergence of new systems rooted in love and community. Encouraging listeners to embody love in tumultuous times, she offers resources and support for those navigating change and transformation. Key Takeaways: Reflecting on the four-year anniversary of the podcast, Shirani celebrates the healing messages shared and the impact on the community. Discussing the dissolution of old power structures and the emergence of new systems, Shirani emphasizes the importance of leadership rooted in love and compassion. Offering tools and resources for navigating challenging times, Shirani introduces the "Embody Love" workshop series designed to support individuals in leading with purpose and creating thriving workplace cultures. Encouraging listeners to find like-minded communities and learn from those further ahead, Shirani emphasizes the importance of connection and support on the path to creating a more equitable world. By sharing insights on healing, magic, and potency in the midst of chaos, Shirani inspires listeners to tap into their innate power and contribute to the shift towards a more loving and just society. Notable Quotes: "We are literally decomposing and composting those old systems of power." "Embodying love is the secret successful leaders are missing." "Reduce stress and increase clarity by leading with love." "Find your like-minded people, learn from those further ahead, and lead with love." "The new way of being is already emerging, and you are at the forefront of that." About Shirani: Shirani M. Pathak is a transformational coach and consultant with a background in social work and mental health care. After experiencing clinical burnout following 18 years in direct service roles, Shirani made the decision to shift her focus towards supporting leaders in creating love-led cultures within their organizations. With a deep commitment to healing, empowerment, and social justice, she brings a unique perspective to her work in guiding individuals and groups towards a more equitable and compassionate world. Resources: Shirani M. Pathak's Website Revolutionary Love Project by Valerie Kaur Israel and Palestine 3-Part Essay Series by Shirani M. Pathak Don't miss the full episode for a deep dive into healing, leadership, and embodying love in transformative times. Tune in for more insightful conversations and enlightening content from the Fierce Authenticity Podcast.

It's been 8.5 months since we last spoke here on the podcast and boy oh boy, are we due for an update. What a wild wild world we're living in.   Here's another real, raw, unedited, unfiltered interlude from my heart to yours.    We take the first bit to catch up on what's been happening around here, including the challenges that come with being a changemaker doing counter-cultural work. Then we take a deep dive into the state of the world the last 40 days since the events of October 7 between Israel and Palestine.    We zoom out, take a big picture perspective, and then we bring in it.    I am no expert on matters in the Middle East, or on politics, or on religion, but what I am is an expert in human behavior, trauma, and relationships, so that's the perspective that I bring here.    There's a ton of shame out there in the world and in this part 1 episode, we are unshaming that for you and inviting you into the power of using your voice, even if it's only a small whisper.    In part 2 we will dive in a little deeper.    When listening to this episode, take your time and consume it slowly. It's a big, deep episode, and I guide you through it the way I would hold space in a private session - with lots of room for breaks and nervous system regulation.    [00:00:05]: Hello, welcome back, and the update [00:16:30]: On Israel and Palestine   Links mentioned:   Receive my 3-part email series on the shadows of oppressor and oppressed:  https://shirani.myflodesk.com/oppressionshadows   Receive my regular emails: https://www.shiranimpathak.com/connect   Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.    

Real. Raw. Unedited.  Tune in as I share what's been on my heart over the past few weeks since you've last spoken with me. I talk about: Internalized racism and oppression Generational legacies What you're here to do What I'm here to do How we can do it together And so much more.   Links:  Take the next step and sign up to get my emails: www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Ready to go all the way? Send me a message: https://www.shiranimpathak.com/contact Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak 

As I look back on the pandemic there is one thing that keeps coming to mind, and that is how it made a lot of us slow down and reevaluate our lives; how it made us aware that we were living on autopilot and that we’re not being our true authentic selves.   My friend and today’s guest, Riessa Monique, is no different. The pandemic made Riessa take a dramatic (yet long overdue) career pivot - from an IT manager to a life coach. Today, she is on a mission to help her clients to see themselves as they truly are - capable of whatever goal they want to accomplish. Now, living her true and authentic life, she is here to share her insights about legacy and why she believes you’re right on track - no matter where you are.     In today’s episode, we cover:  Riessa’s amazing career transformation  Living a life that is aligned with who we are  Why legacy is more than having children How to trust our inner knowing Understanding the impact we can make     Quotes  [00:06:53] The pandemic isn't the first time people were wearing masks. We are trained to wear masks, socialized masks and not be our authentic self. [00:11:46] The legacy is left in the thought process. That is where the true DNA is. And that can go beyond, because I can only birth so many children. But as far as the thought process being left behind and the DNA and how that can have been a trickle down effect, that is more than just having children.  [00:18:47] I really truly believe everyone was born with gifts and talents. But we have a tendency to play small and shy away from that as if it was scary and not understanding. Even with those gifts and talents, we can have even a greater impact. But we're already having an impact because someone else is watching our life. And we are being an example of something.   [00:35:02] If I compare the hammer to a microwave, it wouldn't make sense. But who am I to compare myself to anyone else because I, just like you - the listener, am made per my design  [00:37:21] As far as embracing your own design, even your own quirkiness, your own desires, just know that you are right on track. And for anyone else to tell you you're not on track - have them pull out your design. They don't have it.    Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.  

Today I want to share with you my thoughts on decolonizing, deconditioning and unbecoming. This topic of unbecoming and decolonizing ties nicely into my life right now, as I am leaving my therapy practice behind and stepping into the next chapter of my life. I am decolonizing colonial thoughts about having to stick to one career and putting education above all else  To me, deconditioning and decolonizing are very similar and in that process is also a practice of unbecoming. As we're doing our decolonizing work and as we're deconditioning, we're also unraveling everything that society has told us that we should be or that we need to be. We’re unbecoming everything that is not authentically us so that we can step into who we came here to be and who we are when we are not following societal expectations. That's what the process of unbecoming is.     In today’s episode, we cover:  The Trojan horse approach to dismantling supremacy culture  Defining decolonizing, deconditioning and unbecoming  Healing the collective by doing inner work first  How to give yourself grace in this process  Perfection is not required     Quotes   [00:24:22] each and every single one of us has a responsibility to do this inner work of decolonizing, deconditioning, dismantling, demolishing all of this internalized colonialism, the internalized supremacy, the internalized oppression. Each and every single one of us has a responsibility no matter what the color of your skin, because we live in these systems, and each of us has been impacted by it.  [00:26:23] We're building the new world as we're still living in the old one. So we're constructing from the ruins of what we're deconstructing.   [00:29:17] You're a human and I'm a human. And we're just trying to do this wild thing called life together, we're all working towards the same, common-shared goal.   [00:29:38]  We're not perfect, our perfection is not required. It's our progress that we must be making and how we're showing up.    Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.  

If you'd like a different alternative to New Year's resolutions, then this episode is for you.  Today’s episode is all about those New Year's resolutions aka additional lies that supremacy culture teaches you.  New Year - New You…ugh, that just irks me.   Most of us don’t get beyond the first 60 to 90 days of these “New Year's resolutions.” And here's why - because those are some of the additional lies that supremacy culture teaches you to keep you further oppressed. So, join me in today’s episode and start the new year as authentically yourself.     In today’s episode, we cover:  Here’s why New Year - New You doesn’t work   You need to want It for yourself How to take back your power Being authentically yourself     Quotes   [00:06:47] It wasn't until, of course, years after I quit doing the whole New Year's resolutions thing that I realized, and it clicked and it dawned upon me: “Oh, my gosh, this is because it's another way for me to beat up on myself, and feel bad about myself, and be little and berate myself, to judge myself and criticize myself, to compare myself with others.” That's all it was.  [00:08:18] You have to actually, intrinsically, inside of yourself, believe that whatever it is that you want to experience, you want to experience it for you. Not because someone outside of you told you how you had to look, behave, what your house should look like.    Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.  

It’s the most wonderful time of the year! But, is it really?  The holiday season, allegedly the most wonderful time of the year, may not be so wonderful for many of us. Because we've been conditioned under systems of supremacy culture and capitalism, for many of us this is the time to rush, to hustle and to do for others at our own expense.  Today’s episode is the beginning of a three-part miniseries that will help you get through the holidays in a way that goes counter to supremacy and allows you to experience this time as a time of true love, connection, intimacy and authenticity in all of your relationships!    In today’s episode, we cover:  The importance of slowing down  Giving yourself and others the gift of presence  Deep presence, deep connection and true intimacy    Quotes  [00:05:52] Because this is the time of year where we are sold every single lie and piece of BS about how we need these outside material possessions, that are really only fleeting and temporary, by the way...but how we need these external things in order for us to be happy, in order for our loved ones to feel loved, in order for everyone to feel appreciated and that they matter.   [00:10:54] I want you to think about what might happen if you were to allow yourself to follow what nature's rhythm was. What if you were to give yourself permission to slow down, to be more internally focused, to turn towards Self to see what you need or what your heart wants to share with your loved ones as opposed to what corporate, and big business, and consumerism and capitalism tell you that you need.  [00:16:20] When you slow down, when you connect with yourself, when you come into alignment with you, with the Divine Source of something greater than you, when you look to nature for your cues and when you move from there, that's where you'll make your greatest impact on your loved ones. And I guarantee you it is not going to be because you got them the latest iPhone, or the latest gadget, or the latest whatever and especially not if you did it from the energy of hustle and chaos and franticness and scarcity and lack.

As we’re approaching the end of this year, I think it’s safe to say that most of us are thinking about New Year's resolutions, evaluating how this year went and looking at what we want next year to look like. I am no different and that is why I’m so excited to have my first podcast interview of the season with none other than Dimple Mukherjee.   Dimple is an occupational therapist, word coach and author of "Word of the Year: True Stories About Intentional Living Using the Power of a Single Word," which is now available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Her life philosophy is rooted in good health and wellness and she has dedicated the past few years to learning and understanding how profoundly words can shape our lives and boost our mental health. These days Dimple is embracing the art of slowing down, creating deeper meaning and connections, indulging in simple luxuries, while also endlessly parenting her three sons.    In today’s episode, we cover:  How to get intentional with your words and unlock their true power  Breaking free from the “hustle” culture  Why Dimple’s practice is so nourishing  How to know if you choose the right word The importance of being open to possibilities     Resources mentioned:  Word of the Year: True Stories About Intentional Living Using the Power of a Single Word  Take a Free What Should My Word Be Quiz   Free Live Your Word Journal  Call in Your Word Course Live Word of the Year 2023 Workshop with Dimple Connect with Dimple on Instagram     Quotes  [00:22:25] This is probably my favorite piece of the practice, connecting with other people over the words. Now imagine going to a dinner party, and instead of asking someone “So, how was your day? What do you do?”, how about asking “What's your word for this year?” and just watching that conversation go somewhere where it otherwise wouldn't have?    [00:31:48] The beauty of this practice lies in synchronicities. So be curious, leave your heart open to possibilities, big possibilities, and see where it takes you [00:33:54] Eventually when you continue with this practice, your words all tell a story of your life. [00:35:33] As we continue to evolve, our work and our stories continue to evolve, and our words evolve with us.    Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.  

Welcome to this enlightening podcast episode where we delve into the art of managing holiday stress and establishing healthy boundaries with family. Tune in to gain invaluable insights, practical tips, and effective strategies for maintaining your peace of mind during the festive season. Discover expert advice on prioritizing self-care, navigating complex family dynamics, and making the most out of your holidays. Don't miss out on this must-listen episode that will equip you with the tools to thrive during this joyful time of year.   In today’s episode, we cover:  Your boundaries are for you  Clear is kind; Control is unkind  What is and is not acceptable to you from you  Judgment and compassion can coexist Catch yourself before it’s too late     Quotes  [00:03:24] If you are trying to set boundaries and hoping that other people will follow through with them and then getting resentful when they don't, do you know what you're doing? You're actually participating in supremacy culture’s sneaky behavior of control. That is what you're doing; you are trying to control another person and how they engage with you. You're trying to tell another person who to be in order to be in a relationship with you. And when you do that, you are putting yourself in a position of superiority, the other person in a position of inferiority. You are elevating yourself to the status of some holier than thou type and you are dehumanizing the person that you are in a relationship with.   [00:06:20] Clear is kind. It is kind for you to be clear with yourself about what your boundaries and your parameters are when you are considering how you're going to do the holidays. It's kind to be clear with yourself what you will and will not accept when it comes to this season. Even if that what you will and will not accept relates to what you will and will not accept from yourself. And it is also kind for you to very clearly communicate what it is that you need to others and then let go of any expectations or any outcomes, because when you hold on to expectations and outcomes you fall into the behavior of “control is unkind”. So, remember that - clear is kind; control is unkind. Especially when we are directing it outwards towards another person or another outcome or something outside of us, because the reality is we are not God and we're not in control of other people, places and things around us. We are not in control of how other people choose to show up.    Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.  

I am coming to you today as a retiring psychotherapist.   Being a relationship therapist has been my identity for a long time, but back in January of 2020 (we all know what happened in 2020) I decided to transition from being a relationship therapist into my coaching and consulting business full time.  This is a huge change, and change is hard. Why? The answer always comes down to the ways that we have internalized systems of supremacy and oppression. So, if you have been struggling with change, it is purely because of the systems under which we reside; the systems under which our brains, our bodies, our nervous systems have been programmed for millennia.   And in today’s episode, I am giving you the permission to change!    In today’s episode, we cover:   Why I am retiring as a psychotherapist  Making the decision to change and being fiercely authentic   How supremacy culture is keeping us in status quo Why it’s so hard to change How to give yourself permission to change    Quotes   [00:11:49] Go ahead and, if that feels right to you, just turn inwards for a moment and see - is there something that has been on your heart, that every time you close your eyes, you see a certain vision and you not been giving yourself permission to go there? Have you been withholding that permission? Or have you been denying yourself that which is truly on your heart, that which you truly desire?   [00:13:39] Why is it that supremacy culture has made it such that we deny that which we truly desire, that we don't give ourselves permission, that we withhold what it is that we really want? And well, the answer to that is, because it wants you to stay in the status quo.  [00:19:20] Fear and shame - those are the two biggest things that supremacy culture uses to oppress us. And what do each of those do? They often keep us stuck and frozen, especially shame - it keeps us small; it keeps us hidden, and it keeps us not wanting to be seen.  [00:19:51] This isn't even about me. There's no lack in me. There's nothing wrong with me that it is so hard for me to make change. This is literally the way the system is designed.  [00:20:02] When you remove the element of shame, what ends up happening is, because shame isn't shutting you down, you end up being better able to make micro actions and take steps towards that change that you are aspiring to make.    Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.    

As we're wrapping up season 3 of the Fierce Authenticity podcast and celebrating our 2 year anniversary/birthday I'm coming to you with a heart that's holding space for the entire depth and breadth of the human experience. In this episode I share about how the murder of brother George Floyd is what led me to finally start this podcast 2 years ago, and that in 2 years we're still facing the senseless loss of lives, citing the Buffalo, New York shooting as the most recent example. Then, just a few hours after I finished recording this episode I learned of yet another preventable horrific massacre - this one of 19 babies and 2 teachers at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, TX. Though there is celebration in this episode, there is a serious call for you to stop being selfish and keeping the medicine we speak about here to yourself. At just about 5500 downloads of the podcast over the last 2 years, I'm both celebrating AND I know we can do better. 7 billion+ suffering people on this planet and 5500 downloads of the potent medicine offered here on the podcast… there seems to be something amiss here if you catch my drift. When you keep what you hear here to yourself and don't share these episodes with others, you're doing yourself, your loved ones, and the entire world a disservice. This episode is both a celebration and a plea, let's get the message of Fierce Authenticity™️out to more of those 7 billion people for whom this podcast is the exact medicine that they need. Rate, review, screenshot and share the podcast, your favorite episodes, and even the episodes that pissed you off. Tag me, let's grow this community. Together as a collective we have work to do. With that, our 3rd season ends and we'll be back in the Fall. In the meantime, come join me on Instagram @shiranimpathak where we'll be having "summer school" while the podcast is on break for the summer. Weekly we're doing Meditate with Me sessions Live on IG.   Links:  To connect with us on the complimentary private newsletter community, be sure to visit www.shiranimpathak.com/connect  Find Me on Social Media:  Our hashtags are #fierceauthenticity and #showupbeseengetlove  If you're loving the episode, take a screenshot, share it on social, and tag me in your post!  Instagram: @shiranimpathak  Facebook: @ShiraniMPathak  For a transcript of this episode visit www.shiranimpathak.com/podcast  Donate to the work:  Shirani on PayPal  *Some of the links used may be affiliate links. It will cost you nothing extra to use my links, but I may earn a commission if you use one of my links. This is one way to financially support the podcast.