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Join Mona Kay as she focuses on increasing understanding of the strengths, differences, and challenges in mixed neurotype relationships. Whether you're autistic, neurotypical or allistic, this podcast is for you! Knowing how your neurology may impact your communication style, emotional and social needs, processing speeds, sensory needs and sexual and physical intimacy desires is critical, especially in your romantic relationships. Listen in and learn about other's lived experiences, lessons learned, and strategies for understanding how neurological differences can impact your relationship.
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The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.Watch the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries on YouTube.—————————————————————————-Luis Mojica is a Somatic Educator, certified in Holistic Nutrition, Somatic Experiencing, and Life Coaching. With years of experience working at the intersection of trauma and healing, Luis has become a sought after teacher and speaker in his field. He reaches thousands of students annually through his online courses and webinars, and hosts the Holistic Life Navigation Podcast. You can learn more about his forthcoming book —“Food Therapy: Conscious Eating to Navigate Anxiety, Stress, and Trauma (publishing April 28, 2026 with Hay House)" at the link below:https://www.holisticlifenavigation.com/the-book You can also learn about the other resources Luis has available at www.holisticlifenavigation.com or you can follow him on Instagram @holistic.life.navigationDuring this episode Luis shares so much valuable information about the impact of food on our bodies and brains. He also shares about his ADHD diagnosis and his journey and his path to somatic discovery. Luis also provides important information about the following topics:-Unpacking the neurodivergent brain gut connection.- How food choices transform your relationships and mood.- Brain and gut inflammation- Microbiome synthesizes your neurotransmitters.- Foods that impact dopamine.- The impact of stimulants.- Food’s ability to mitigate stress. Stimulants, depressors and balancers.- Somatic eating: feeling the impact of foodon your body.- How diet creates space for trauma healing.- Co-regulation with food.
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or watch the first episode click here.—————————————————————————- During this episode with Sarah Swenson you will have an opportunity to listen to another wonderful session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Sarah shares her expertise working with neurodiverse couples and discusses some of the issues that many couples may be dealing with and need some guidance on. The topics addressed include:- Misinterpreting each other‘s intent- How differences in emotional intensity can contribute to arguments for neurodiverse couples- Challenges with alexithymia and interoception - How unspoken expectations and assumptions can bring about misunderstandings- How timing can impact your conversations and the importance of transition time- The impact of different processing speeds- Facial expressions may not match thinking- Bean theory as an energy gauge- How sensory sensitivity and overload can impact a conversationYou can learn more about Sarah and the services she offers through her website at: TheNeurodiverseCouple.com - About Sarah Swenson LMHC
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.—————————————————————————- This is another great presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this session with Grace Myhill, MSW you will learn strategies and tools for better understanding and managing PDA; different emotional reciprocity needs; sensory sensitivities; managing conflict and special interests.To learn more about Grace and the services she offers you can check out her website.
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries was released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.—————————————————————————- This is another fantastic presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this episode you will learn from Rev. Dr. Stephanie Holmes and Rev. Dan Holmes who are not only ordained ministers but a happily married neurodiverse couple of 30 years! Stephanie & Dan coach couples primarily who are faith-based and will share how the role of faith can help build connection and intimacy in the neurodiverse couple or how the rules, roles and rigidity of religion can bring disconnection in the neurodiverse relationship. Stephanie and Dan Holmes write from lived experience as a NeuroDiverse Christian Couple (NDCC) as well as professional experience working with NDCCs. Their first book, written with their adult children, Embracing the Autism Spectrum: Finding Hope & Joy Navigating the NeuroDiverse Family Journey focuses on their parenting journey of neurodivergent children and discovering their own neurodiversity in marriage. Dr. Stephanie C. Holmes received her bachelor's degree in psychology from Campbell University, her Master's in counseling from Liberty University, and her doctorate in education from Abilene Christian University. She is an ordained minister, author, autism researcher, speaker, and certified autism specialist. When her daughter Sydney was diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome, her world and focus changed from a thriving marriage and family therapy practice to a world of Individualized Education Programs, 504 educational plans, and understanding how to help students and individuals with challenges and needs in the classroom and the church setting. She is the owner and founder of Autism Spectrum Resources for Marriage & Family, LLC, and she and Dan are co-founders of The International Association of NeuroDiverse Christian Marriage, LLC, and the podcast NeuroDiverse Christian Couples. Dan Holmes is a seasoned leader with a rich background in systems architecture, design, and consulting. He received his bachelor's degree in management information systems from The University of Charlotte and his Masters in computer science through The Georgia Institute of Technology. He is also a professional coach who guides Neurodivergent men, helping them harness their unique potential in personal and professional spheres. These dual roles allow him to integrate innovative thinking with empathy, fostering a culture of understanding and driving holistic growth. Dan is an ordained minister, Master Life Coach, and has served in church ministry through band ministry, small group leadership and board leadership. He received his own identification on the spectrum in 2019. Their book, Uniquely Us is based on published research from Dan's later-in-life adult autism diagnosis and focuses on faith, marriage and autism. It then examines how neurodiversity and faith create a complex relationship dynamic for NeuroDiverse Christian Couples. If you want to continue to learn about NDCCs, join Stephanie & Dan on their podcast, NeuroDiverse Christian Couples at: www.christianneurodiversemarriage.com.
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.—————————————————————————- This episode is another wonderful presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this session you will discover the unique strengths, strategies, and insights that successful neurodiverse couples use to navigate their relationships. Eva A. Mendes explores practical tools and must-know tips that real couples have shared to help their relationships grow and endure.More specifically you will learn:✨ Proven techniques to enhance connection and communication✨ Creative solutions for managing sensory and emotional differences✨ A roadmap to build your own relationship toolkitIn addition, you will learn actionable exercises and discussion prompts to apply these best-kept secrets in your own relationship while also being inspired by real stories and empowered to create lasting love!Eva A. Mendes is a world-renowned therapist, author, and couples counselor specializing in autism, ADHD, and neurodiverse relationships. With a focus on autistic adults, individuals with ADHD, gifted individuals, and LGBTQ clients, she helps diverse clients navigate the complexities of neurodiversity. Eva trained extensively at AANE and has authored several influential books, including Marriage and Lasting Relationships with Asperger’s Syndrome, Gender, Sexuality, and Autism and her most recent book Conversations on Love and Autism. Her Heart of Autism blog on Psychology Today offers practical advice for neurodiverse individuals and couples. Learn more at www.eva-mendes.com or contact her at eva@eva-mendes.com.—————————————————————————-To learn more about the resources and services Mona offers you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.comIf you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.—————————————————————————- This episode is another fantastic session fromthe 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Caron Starobin, LCSW identifies how neurodivergence shows up in intimate relationships, what this means for couples in relationships where neurodivergence is in the mix, and the tools and concepts from Relational Life Therapy that constructively and compassionately nurtures relational living with a neurodiversity affirming mindset.Caron is a licensed clinical social worker and has been practicing for over 24 years. She owns Starobin Counseling, a group practice based in the D.C. Metropolitan area. Prior to her social work career, Caron was a professional modern dancer and choreographer based in Minneapolis for 10 years and loved engaging in community through the performing arts. Her therapeutic lens is deeply informed by family systems thinking, Relational Life Therapy, and years of training with experts in the fields of neurodevelopment and autism. Caron’s work is also informed by her experience providing individual, group, couples, and family therapy for autistic people and their family members dating back to 2001. Caron and her team at Starobin Counseling recognize that understanding differently wired brains benefits all of us. Caron is certified in Relational Life Therapy and is a trainer at the Relational Life Institute. She presents nationally on intimacy in neurodiverse couples and family relationships as well as on neurodiversity affirming therapy in general.You can learn more about Caron and the services her and her team offer here.—————————————————————————-If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.—————————————————————————-During this episode you will hear another presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Dr. Amanda Platner shares the steps one can take if they suspect they or their significant other may be neurodivergent, including topics such as when and why someone might seek psychological testing, and how to begin to explore and understand neurodiversity. Dr. Platner also discuss the changes in the field regarding the awareness of neurodiverse relationships and how individuals, both neurodivergent and neurotypical, can take a neuroaffirming approach to undeerstanding one another. Bio:Dr. Amanda Platner is a clinical psychologist who specializes in working with neurodivergent individuals and their loved ones across the lifespan. Dr. Platner completed postdoctoral fellowships through Emory University and Harvard University and she currently works at the Emory Autism Center where she is the Director of Psychological Intervention Services and the Psychology Training Program. She directs the myLIFE social engagement program for autistic adults, conducts individual, group, and couples counseling, and does both diagnostic and neuropsychological testing for individuals across the lifespan. Dr. Platner's favorite part of her work is getting to learn with and from all of the clients she interacts with. You can contact Dr. Platner at the link below:https://med.emory.edu/departments/psychiatry/autism/index.html——————————————————————————If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com
The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.——————————————————————————During this episode you will hear another presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. Greg Fuqua reviews the most common and important dynamic patterns he sees in ND relationships. He also reviews ways of empowering healthier patterns of growth and understanding in ND couples. More specifically GRE addresses the following topics:ADHDer’s and Autistics; The magnetism of ND polarities;Emotional Dynamics;Enmeshment vs Ownership;Co-regulation vs Self-regulation;Pursuer/avoidant; Communication Dynamics;Nuanced vs Literal;Emotional Content/Context vs Factual and Logistical Content.Greg Fuqua is a Licensed Mental Health Therapist (LMHC) in the state of Iowa and runs Divergent Counseling, Coaching and Consulting LLC that supports neurodiverse couples, neurodivergent issues, therapists and others nationwide/worldwide through counseling, trainings, consultations and coaching. He is a certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (ASDCS); a level 2 trained Neurodiverse Couples Therapist and identifies as autistic himself. Greg has appeared as a special guest and 2-time season co-host of the “Neurodiverse Love” Podcast and he is the Co-host of the “Neurodivergent Connections” YouTube channel with Mona Kay and Scott Simpson. Greg specializes in working with Autistics, ADHDers and neurotypes of all kinds, including Neurodiverse (ND) Couples, ND families, transgender and LGBTQ clients and DID, OSDD or plurality/multiplicity in clients. Greg is a trauma informed therapist and an Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner. You can learn more about Greg at: https://www.gregfuqua.com——————————————————————————If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com
If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona offers for individuals or couples you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com.The first episode of the Neurodiverse Love Docuseries will be released on February 14, 2026. Through this four part series, you will meet four Neurodiverse couples who share some of their lived experiences, lessons learned and the strengths, challenges and differences they’ve had in their marriages. None of the couples knew they were in a mixed neurotype relationship when they married and each shares some of the experiences that have led to more connection, understanding and acceptance of each other’s differences.In addition, you will hear from three coaches/therapists who work with Neurodiverse couples. They share their perspective on why challenges may be occurring and also provide strategies and tools for increasing connection.To contribute to this very important project or to learn more about the docuseries click here.——————————————————————————This episode is another presentation from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference. During this episode Jodi Carlton will challenge the traditional paradigm of neurodiversity as a “mental illness” or “disorder” and reframe it as an essential aspect of human identity and neurotype diversity. Drawing on emerging research and decades of personal and professional experience with neurodiversity, Jodi will explore how pathologizing neurodivergence perpetuates stigma and ableism whereas embracing neurodiversity as a neurotype fosters acceptance, inclusion, and connection. Through the information shared you will gain insight into the shift away from deficit-based models and toward approaches that celebrate neurodiversity. The information Jodi shares will inspire a fresh perspective, equipping you with tools to foster change.Jodi Carlton, MEd is a neurodiverse relationship expert with over two decades of experience helping individuals and couples worldwide navigate the complexities of neurodiverse relationships. Drawing on her personal experience with ADHD and her deep connections with neurodivergent partners, family, and friends, Jodi is a passionate advocate for transforming societal perceptions of neurodiversity. She is the creator of an innovative model for improving communication in neurodiverse relationships and is the founder of a private association for thought leaders in the field of neurodiversity. Jodi is currently writing her first book, which delves into the evolving paradigm shift surrounding neurodiversity. Through private and group coaching, online quizzes, courses, videos, articles, and her podcast, “YOUR NeurodiverseRelationship,”, Jodi empowers professionals, individuals, couples, and families to understand and embrace neurodiversity in their own lives.Visit her online at JodiCarlton.comYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/jodicarltonLinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/jodicarlton——————————————————————————If you would like to buy unlimited access to all 30+ video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here and use code Podcast50 to get $50 off. With your purchase you will also get these FREE BONUSES: unlimited access to the 27 video sessions from the 2023 Neurodiverse Love Conference, the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook. If you have any questions or need additional information please email: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com
This episode is a session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference where Dr. Ashley Grubbs describes common sensory issues that come up in sex and the difficulty this can create in relationships for both people. Whether it is not tolerating moisture, struggling to enjoy kissing, or feeling overwhelmed with heat, sensory differences are a major impact on sexuality and can derail intimacy quickly. After a brief overview, Dr. Grubbs provides solutions for these different problems so that sex can feel accessible again.Dr. Ashley Grubbs is an Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in neurodiversity and sex therapy. She works to ensure couples with different neurotypes have the tools needed to improve their intimacy and connection in a way that works for them. She received her Bachelor’s degree from Texas State University, Master’s degree at University of North Texas at Dallas, and PhD in Clinical Sexology. Her dissertation, Blending the Brains will be published as a practical tool for couples.If you want to learn more about Dr. Grubbs or the services she provides you can check out her website below:www.blueharbortherapy.com——————————————————————————If you are interested in buying lifetime access to all the video sessions from the 2023 or 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here. If you would like to learn more about the other resources Mona offers, including support groups, coaching and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website at: www.neurodiverselove.com
If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona offers including support groups, coaching and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website below:https://www.neurodiverselove.com/During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Lida Far provides an insightful exploration of the unique challenges and opportunities that neurodivergent individuals encounter in the dating world. Discover how to communicate your needs effectively, manage anxiety, and build confidence as you step into the dating scene. Whether you’re new to dating or looking to enhance your approach, this episode offers some valuable insights and support tailored specifically for the neurodivergent community.Lida’s specialty lies in empowering young adults/adults who feel stuck in their personal and relational growth, as well as working with couples and entrepreneurs. She is dedicated to guiding individuals and couples through challenges in their relationships and life transitions, while also providing support and empowerment to high-achieving individuals seeking personal and professional fulfillment. Additionally, she specialize in sex therapy, offering a safe and non-judgmental space to address intimacy and sexual health concerns within relationships. She is also committed to neurodiversity-affirming care, ensuring that all clients receive understanding and tailored support regardless of their neurodiverse experiences.You can learn more about Lida’s work at her website below:https://crystalcounselingandcoaching.com/
If you would like to learn more about the resources Mona has available, including support groups, and the Neurodiverse Love Conversation Cards and Workbook you can check out her website here.Many couples Paul Micallef works with experience conflict due to differing emotional styles and unmet emotional needs.These types of emotional misunderstandings can leave us feeling alone, unseen, unheard, unvalued.So how can we reconnect, and bridge the gap, and increase the level of emotional intimacy?During this episode from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Paul will address:How to effectively communicate your emotional needs.How to deal with a partner who is uncomfortable expressing emotion.How to avoid common traps that lead your partner to shutdown and withdraw.Paul is an autistic life coach, speaker, facilitator, and trainer, with a passion for neurodiversity and emotional intelligence. Leveraging his own lived experience, as well as insights gained from many years working with the autistic community, Paul seeks to promote emotional and psychological safety by bridging the empathy gap between mainstream and neurodivergent culture.Since discovering his own autism at the age of 30, Paul has worked in a variety of mentoring and educational roles helping parents, students, and teachers, to understand the ‘human side’ of autism.His YouTube channel, Autism From The Inside, has over 400,000 subscribers, and his annual online Lived Experience Autism Summit brings dozens of actually autistic speakers to a global audience.You can learn more about Paul here.
If you are interested in learning more about the resources Mona offers you can check out her website here. If you would like to buy lifetime access to all 31 video sessions from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference click here.————————————————————————-During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Clare Bates talks about how we can better support autistic people with their relationship and sexuality needs, based on what they have said matters most to them. Clare shares key findings from research and highlights the challenges autistic people face when it comes to relationships, as well as the type of support they want. She also talks about the training that she and colleagues have developed for social care staff to help them provide more meaningful, person-centred support. You can find more about this work in the Autistic Loving section of the Supported Loving Toolkit.Bio:Claire Bates, is a neurodivergent researcher and leader (and founder) of the UK’s Supported Loving Network, which focuses on improving how social care supports people with sexuality and relationships. Through the network, she’s created a space for sharing best practice, training, and resources to help staff provide more person-centered and rights-based support. Claire is also an active researcher in the field of sexuality and disability, looking at the barriers people with learning disabilities and autistic people face when it comes to building and maintaining relationships. Her work brings together real-world experience and research to push for better support and to make sure people’s voices and rights are at the center of everything.
This session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference provides essential insights for couples navigating the complexities of relationships affected by problematic sexual behavior, including pornography addiction, emotional affairs, and compulsive behaviors. Participants will learn how relationships often begin with commitment and honesty, and how they can rupture through deception, abandonment, or abuse. Encouragement will be given to couples, offering strategies for partners to address emotional trauma and rebuild trust. With a focus on healing, communication, and professional support, this episode offers hope for recovery, even in the face of betrayal and neurodiverse challenges.Bio: Shawna, a professional certified coach, specializes in supporting women experiencing betrayal trauma, particularly those in neurodiverse marriages with autism and Asperger profiles. As the founder of Living Stones Coaching, Mentoring, and Consulting in Arizona, she authored Determined for More, reflecting their 25-year marriage journey. Kevin, also with Living Stones, mentors men struggling with problematic sexual behavior, especially those diagnosed with or considering autism (ASD1), focusing on recovery and relationship growth. Together, they offer personalized, relatable support to clients internationally, guiding couples through healing, sexual integrity, and sobriety. You can contact Shawna and Kevin at: Living StonesIf you would like to learn more about the resources Mona has available you checkout her website at: neurodiverselove.com
Interactions within a typical household often follow a "policing" model, grounded in rules, expectations, and a focus on shortcomings. The common messages tend to be “Do better” and “Be better.” In this episode from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference Dr. Regan discusses how recognizing the neurological differences among household members can transform this policing culture into one that fosters creativity, innovation, and collaboration. This method promotes curiosity and problem-solving while reducing feelings of shame and blame. Such a shift encourages a strategy-based approach that helps each household member get their needs met as effectively as possible, while also understanding when their needs may not be fulfilled within the household and why. Bio: Dr. Theresa Regan, PhD, CAS is a neuropsychologist with over 30 years of experience in hospital settings, specializes in autism in adolescents and adults. As the founder and director of an Autism Diagnostic Clinic in central, Illinois she has conducted nearly 1,000 autism evaluations and has provided care to clients across multiple states. She is the author of the Understanding Autism book series, host of the Autism in the Adult podcast with over half a million downloads across 150 countries, and a developer of continuing education courses, including the Zur Institute Autism Certificate courses for professionals. A dedicated clinician and educator, Dr. Regan combines professional expertise with personal insight as the mother of an autistic young adult. For more information, explore her website at: adultandgeriatricautism.com
Being understood, by both loved ones and strangers, is one of the core heart desires of every human being. Child development becomes particularly challenged when parents’ neurodivergence repeatedly contributes to children feeling misunderstood by their primary caretakers. Years of this disconnectcan create a variety of emotional and mental health dysfunction in the children. During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference Giji Dennard explored several of the effects of this dilemma, then offers hope for healing through the her 3-step jumpstart program.Bio:As a passionate, creative, and articulate storyteller, Giji Dennard brings a cornucopia of academic, professional, and real-world experience to every communication--written or oral—with particular expertise in the areas of healing in parent-child relationships, identity cultivation, and Kingdom living. From state champion orator in high school to sole female speaker at the inaugural Father-Shift Conference, she has engaged and inspired audiences for over five decades with her transparency and empathy. In 2022, Giji Dennard wrote and published Strange Fruit: A Paradigm for Changing the World by Our Choices (a digital devotional) and the 2nd Edition of Hungry for Wholeness: A Call to Pursue Healing &Restoration in Your Father-Child Relationship, first published in 2012. Giji is on a mission to help you unstop the wellsprings in your life to pour out your full potential. Learn more about Giji athttps://www.wellfedresources.com/
Romantic relationships can be complex for anyone, but for neurodivergent individuals with alexithymia, navigating emotional expression, connection, and communication presents unique challenges. During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference Jasmine Loo explores how alexithymia impacts romantic relationships, from difficulties in identifying and articulating emotions to misunderstandings with partners. Jasmine shares practical strategies for fostering deeper connections, improving communication, and building stronger, more fulfilling relationships while embracing neurodivergent ways of experiencing love.For more information on Jasmine or to work with her, click hereFor more information about the support groups coaching services and many other resources x that Mona Kay offers you can check out her website here.
During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference, Dr. Jessie Mahoney shares her thoughts on why high-achieving professional women often find themselves in relationships with neurodivergent men, sometimes without even realizing it and what the hidden pain point is that keeps showing up in these relationships, and how can it be overcome.Dr. Jessie Mahoney, a professional coach for high achieving professional women and a physician herself, shares a few powerful insights to help you navigate the challenges of your neurodiverse partnership.If you’re a successful professional woman who has recently discovered that you are in a neurodiverse relationship, this episode is for you. You'll learn:* The dynamics that often lead high-achieving women to neurodivergent partners* The most common source of tension and frustration in neurodiverse relationships* A game-changing mindset shift that can help ease conflictDrawing from her personal experience and years of coaching, Dr. Mahoney will share how to shift your approach to your relationship and move forward with greater ease and harmony. Dr. Jessie Mahoney is a Board-Certified Pediatrician, Professional Coach, and an expert in helping high-achieving women who are successful on the outside but feel frustrated and overwhelmed beneath the surface. Through her coaching, Dr. Mahoney empowers women to connect with a sense of calm, clarity, and courage—transforming their struggles into actionable steps for personal and professional growth. As the founder of Pause & Presence Coaching and Retreats, Dr. Mahoney provides both one-on-one coaching and immersive retreats designed to help women create lasting change. She is also a cohost of the Mindful Healers Podcast, where she shares strategies for mindfulness and well-being and is a certified yoga and mindfulness instructor, Dr. Mahoney is passionate about supporting healthcare professionals and women’s empowerment, serving as a wellness consultant and keynote speaker in these fields. In addition to her professional work, Dr. Mahoney has been married to her neurodivergent high school sweetheart for over 31 years. She brings a deeply personal perspective. To learn more about Dr. Mahoney and her transformative work, visit www.jessiemahoneymd.comTo learn more about the support groups, coaching services and many other resources Mona Kay has available, you can check out her website here.
During this podcast episode, you will have an opportunity to hear the 2025 Neurodiverse Love conference session from Laura Schreiner, LCPC No matter how you arrived here or how you identify, this episode invites you to explore three transformative concepts that target falsely programmed self-narratives often found in Neurodiverse relationships. These concepts serve as a foundation for understanding how you perceive yourself, both internally and externally, as well as how you relate to your partner or loved ones. Featuring real-life examples and stories from diverse perspectives, the discussion offers practical tips and guidance for recognizing inherent individual strengths, fostering growth, and improving relationships for the betterment of all.Laura Schreiner is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor since 2006, and the founder of Laura’s NeurodiverseCounseling, LLC (LaurasNC.com), a private telehealth practice based in Illinois. She specializes in supporting adult individuals and couples in Neurodiverse relationships. With 20 years of personal experience in a Neurodiverse marriage, including lifelong friends and family across the spectrum as well, Laura embraces her role as both a gifted emotional transmuter and advocate for Neurodiversity. Passionate about bridging communication gaps and fostering self-worth, she empowers her clients to recognize and celebrate their innate value, no matter how they are wired.You can reach out to Laura at: https://www.laurasnc.comTo learn more about the support groups, coaching services, and other resources Mona Kay has available, you can check out her website here.
If you would like more information about the resources Mona provides through Neurodiverse Love you can check out her website at neurodiverselove.com——————————————————————————During this session from the 2025 Neurodiverse Love Conference Nicole Knowlton, MA, MDR, JD shares information about neurodiverse mediation. Neurodiverse Mediation focuses on resolving conflicts involving neurodivergent individuals, such as those who are autistic, or have ADHD, PTSD or a combination. It addresses challenges like communication differences, emotional dysregulation, and sensory needs, particularly in divorce, parenting, and estate disputes. Specialized mediators help create customized solutions and ensure fairness while managing the unique difficulties neurodivergent people face under stress. An additional part of understanding neurodivergence vulnerabilities includes a closer look at hormonal changes related to premenstrual syndrome (PMS), Premenstrual Dysphoria Disorder (PMDD), and menopause. These changes may have a significant impact on emotional regulation, medication efficacy, and relationship dynamics. By understanding these factors, mediators can foster more compassionate and effective conflict resolution. Nicole would describe herself as a neurodivergent specialist. She has personal and family experience with autism, ADHD, PTSD and PMDD. Her education and training includes a focus on ASD and ADHD assessments, marriage and family therapy, family law, and conflict resolution among neurodivergent individuals, couples and families. Personally, she was diagnosed with ASD and ADHD late in life. It was thanks to her children that she obtained the correct diagnosis. Nicole is divorced after a 13-year neurodiverse relationship and was initially drawn into this area to do her part to spread awareness, help identify other untreated or undiagnosed autistics, and help families and couples separate with a long-term plan of success. Nicole had a very messy divorce and if she had the right information, everyone would have suffered so much less. She is so grateful when families opt to mediate divorce when there are children involved. You can contact Nicole at the link below:NICOLE KNOWLTON | Neurodiverse Couples





Such a helpful podcast, thank you!