The Self-Confidence Project

Hundreds of men have sat across from me after their marriage ended. Good, smart, capable men, starting over and wondering if they'd ever experience the kind of love they desire and know they deserve. I've watched many of them find it. And what made women genuinely want these men was almost never what men think it is.It wasn't the car, the job title, or the jawline.In this episode I share the five actions these men took that led them to great relationships with women who genuinely desired them. This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date.Links and Free Resources:Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/Finding love after divorce • what women want in a man • how to attract a woman after divorce • dating after divorce for men • what makes a man attractive • moving on after divorce#DatingAfterDivorce #FindingLoveAgain #DatingForMen #TheSelfConfidenceProject #DatingAdviceForMen #WhatWomenWant

Start with Part 1 first: Dating a Younger Woman: What Actually Works (Part 1)This is part two of my series on dating a younger woman, and today we're getting practical. An age gap can be a genuinely beautiful relationship, but what makes it work isn't the number of years between you. It's whether your life stages truly line up, how you handle the dynamics that can quietly creep in, and how you show up as a partner.In this episode we cover the life-stage conversations that matter most, including children and the long view (and what research says about larger age gaps), with exact wording you can use to bring them up. We talk about the power dynamics worth being aware of, how to handle outside opinions, and a client story about making an age gap work with respect and honesty. Then I share the question a younger woman is quietly asking that almost no man thinks about, what healthy younger women genuinely love about older men, and exactly how to attract a younger woman in a way that's healthy for both of you.Because the healthiest age-gap relationships aren't defined by the gap. They're defined by two equals who chose each other with open eyes.This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date.Dating a younger woman • how to attract younger women • age gap relationship advice • older man younger woman • what younger women like about older men • dating after divorce for menLinks and Free Resources:1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠⁠2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠⁠⁠3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

If you're dating after a long marriage or relationship and find yourself drawn to a younger woman, you may be wondering whether your age is working against you. Here's what most men don't realize: whether a healthy younger woman is drawn to you has far less to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account, and far more to do with why you want her. Because she can feel it.In this episode, the first of a two-part series, I talk about what "dating younger" really means (often just a few years), where an age gap can be genuinely beautiful, and the honest reasons men are drawn to younger women, including the ones most men never say out loud. I share the story of a client who spent years chasing younger women as a shield against his own age, and why it never worked. And I'll tell you the one thing a healthy younger woman picks up on in the first ten minutes of a date, the thing that tells her almost everything she needs to know about you.Part 2 gets practical: the life-stage conversations that matter most, the dynamics to watch for, what healthy younger women love about older men, and how to attract a younger woman in a healthy way.This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date.Mentioned in this episode: Want to Attract Younger Women? Fix This One Mindset First: https://youtu.be/76aCUQi1tyUDating a younger woman • older man younger woman relationship • age gap relationships • how to attract younger women • dating after divorce for men • dating in your 50sLinks and Free Resources:1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠⁠2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠⁠⁠3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

You're in line at a coffee shop. The woman in front of you glances at your order and says, with a little smile, "Bold choice." Your mind goes blank, you say something polite, and the moment is gone. Then, on the drive home, the perfect reply finally shows up. If flirting feels rusty after a long marriage or relationship, you're in very good company. In this episode I'll show you what flirting really is (hint: it's a rally, not a monologue), and give you a simple three-step way to do it naturally. You'll learn what to do when a joke falls completely flat, how to tell if she's flirting back, what playful flirting looks like over text, and how to turn good banter into a date. I also share one of the worst flirting attempts I've ever experienced, so you know exactly what not to do.Links and Free Resources:1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠⁠2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠⁠3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠

Three great dates. Real chemistry. You suggest date number four, and she writes back: "haha sounds fun!" No day, no question back. It doesn't feel like a yes, and it doesn't feel like a no. It just feels like she went cold, and suddenly you're rereading her texts at eleven at night trying to figure out what it means. In this episode I'll show you why you can't solve that puzzle by guessing, and what you can do instead. You'll learn a simple test to tell whether she's busy or fading, how to check in with yourself about whether you genuinely like her, and a clear, low-pressure way to ask her out again. Then we get to the part so many good men miss: the crossroads. You can stay on the sidelines living on breadcrumbs, or you can choose self-respect and be honest about the consistency you need.I'll also explain the psychology of why breadcrumbs feel so hard to walk away from, and what to do when she pops back up two weeks later with "hey stranger!" This is for good-hearted men dating after divorce or a long-term relationship who want a genuinely loving connection, not just another date.Links and Free Resources:1. Free Guide: "Why You're Not Finding Love (And The Inner Shift that Changes Everything)" → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/findinglove/⁠2. Dating After Divorce? Get The Relationship You Want with Dating Mastery for Men → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/dating-mastery-for-men/⁠3. Audio Masterclass: Relax and Enjoy Conversations With Women Here → ⁠https://datingcoach.kimberlyninahill.com/10tipsmasterclass/⁠