Baehr and Curadh - A Gay Podcast

This is episode 175 of the Baehr And Curadh Podcast. We are going to play husband tag. Where did we meet? What was your 1st impression of me? When did you meet my family? How long have we been together? Do we have any traditions? What was our first road trip? What was the first thing you noticed about me? What pisses you off? Favorite feature about each other? What am I good at good at? What am I not good at? What do we argue about most? Who wears the pants in the relationship? Do I have any weird obsessions? Nicknames for each other? If I’m watching TV, what am I watching? What drink do I order when we go out to eat? What size shoe do I wear? What is one talent I have? What would I eat every day if I could? What’s my favorite type of music? What’s my favorite sports team? What’s my eye color? Who’s my best friend? Where am I from? What kind of cake would you bake me on my birthday? Do I play any sports? What can I spend hours doing?

This is episode 147 of the Baehr And Curadh Podcast. We are going consider date night ideas. Arcade adventure Arboretum Art night Beach day escapade Beach party Beach volleyball Board game or puzzle night Bowling Building sandcastles City exploration on bikes Cooking class Dance class Fitness class Helicopter flight Hiking and nature walks Ice skating Language course Midnight swim Museum tour Outdoor concerts Picnic in the park Pottery session Shopping Spring bloom Stargazing trip Sun bathing Themed movie marathon Volunteering together Watching a sunset

This is episode 173 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to give our 2025 review of the podcast. There were 40 episodes in 2025. In episode 134, we played gay or nay. In episode 135, we talked about Stonewall Bridge. In episode 136, we talked about the Equal Rights Amendment. In episode 137, we checked out Mastodon again. In episode 138, we were Pair A Normal Bears. In episode 139, we went off topic. In episode 140, we asked EVP questions. In episode 141, we asked what would happen if gay marriage was overturned. In episode 142, we talked about stupid things Trump said. In episode 143, we guessed celebrity top or bottom. In episode 144, we discussed basketball terminology. In episode 145, we discussed Trump's executive orders. In episode 146, we took the Can You See Ghosts Test. In episode 147, we talked about recent news. In episode 148, we talked about new conspiracy theories. In episode 149, we talked about what was up. In episode 150, we talked about one hundred and fifty episodes. In episode 151, we talked about the top gay movies. In episode 152, we talked about what gay pride is. In episode 153, we talked about gay occupations. In episode 154, we talked with each other at the gay pride festival. In episode 155, we caught up on recent events. In episode 156, we discussed why stupid people become successful. In episode 157, we talked about truthiness. In episode 158, we talked about low hanging fruit. In episode 159, we talked about curious things. In episode 160, we talked about more curious things. In episode 161, we talked about flushbunking. In episode 162, we talked about ballegation. In episode 163, we talked about things gay people were blamed for. In episode 164, we talked about things to do in October. In episode 165, we went to the zoo. In episode 166, we did a deep dive on the Baehr And Curadh Podcast. In episode 167, we talked about gay stereotypes. In episode 168, we talked about stupid things Christians believe. In episode 169, we talked about the paranormal. In episode 170, we talked about being naked. In episode 171, we talked about non-sexual things that made men attractive. In episode 172, we decided who was naughty and who was nice.

This is episode 172 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to decide who's been naughty, and who's been nice. Judy Garland - American actress and singer. Jodie Foster - A highly acclaimed actress and director, she publicly came out during a Golden Globes acceptance speech in 2013. Cher - American singer and actress. Neil Patrick Harris - Famous for his roles in Doogie Howser, M.D. and How I Met Your Mother. Madonna - American singer, songwriter, and record producer. Jim Parsons - Best known for his Emmy-winning role as Sheldon Cooper on The Big Bang Theory. Zachary Quinto - Known for playing Spock in the Star Trek films and roles in Heroes and American Horror Story. Britney Spears - An American singer, dancer, and performer who's credited with reviving teen pop and has had a significant cultural impact. George Takei – An actor known for playing Sulu in Star Trek and prominent social media figure. Kylie Minogue - Known for her disco-infused dance music and camp style. Elliot Page - Known for his Oscar-nominated role in Juno and for his work on The Umbrella Academy Mariah Carey - An American singer-songwriter, record producer, and actress. Wentworth Miller Best known for the series Prison Break, Miller came out as gay in 2013 by declining an invitation to a Russian film festival in protest of their anti-gay laws. The Golden Girls - Four mature women who live together in Miami and experience the joys and angst of their golden years. Ian McKellen - A legendary British actor, famous for roles like Gandalf in The Lord of the Rings and Magneto in X-Men. Janet Jackson – An American singer-songwriter and actress with a significant gay following. Elton John - A global music legend. Freddie Mercury - The late, iconic frontman of Queen, known for hits like Bohemian Rhapsody. Lady Gaga - An American singer, songwriter, and actress, known for her versatility and image reinventions. Ricky Martin - The "King of Latin Pop" is a highly visible out entertainer and a tireless advocate for the gay community. Diana, Princess of Wales - A member of the British royal family. She was the first wife of Charles III and mother of Princes William and Harry. Sam Smith - Known for soulful vocals and hits like Stay With Me. Barbra Streisand - An American singer, actress, songwriter, producer, and director. Liza Minnelli - An American actress, singer, and dancer. Known for her commanding stage presence and powerful alto singing voice. Anderson Cooper - A prominent journalist and anchor for CNN. Beyoncé - An American singer, songwriter, actress, and businesswoman, known for her vocal ability, artistic reinventions, and live performances. Ellen DeGeneres - A trailblazing comedian and former talk show host. Miley Cyrus – Daughter of Billy Ray Cyrus, she was an established child star before developing a successful entertainment career as an adult. Rosie O'Donnell An actress, comedian, and TV personality. Dolly Parton - An American singer, songwriter, actress, philanthropist, and businesswoman. George Michael - English singer, songwriter, and producer. Barry Manilow - Beloved singer-songwriter who came out as gay in 2017 at the age of 73. Tilda Swinton - Known for playing eccentric and enigmatic characters, often working with distinctive film directors.

This is episode 171 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to talk about non-sexual things that make men attractive. Having healthy confidence. Being able to show emotional vulnerability without embarrassment. Wearing glasses. A pair of spectacles has a surprising effect on many gay men. Hugs. Humor. Laughter is the universal language of fun and happiness, and it's sexy, too. Intelligence. Engaging with an intelligent mind can be stimulating, and some people need intellectual stimulation to feel sexual attraction. A deep voice. That deep, husky voice men use when they first wake up turns a lot of guys on. Rolling up his sleeves so you can see his forearms. When his calves are bulky. Driving a vehicle with a manual transmission. Making you feel wanted. Eye. Contact. Across. The. Room. Safe driving. Nerding out and explaining to me things that interest him. Having a well-decorated home or room. Wearing my clothes. Remembering small details. Laughing hardily. Calm under stress. Fixing stuff without fanfare. When a guy just hops in to help me with something unbidden. Cooking in the kitchen and not just on the grill. Being adorably scared about watching horror movies. Speaking more than one language. When they are super nice to wait staff. Laughs easily. Prefers bare feet at home. Smells like laundry soap. Sits down to urinate. Kindness is the hottest thing a guy can have, and being humble. Speaks well about his family and friends. Guys who want to try my hobbies or are inquisitive about them and fine letting me do them. When they show love and respect for animals. Being rich.

This is episode 170 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to talk about being naked. The University of Washington’s locker rooms became gender-inclusive. Nudity is not permitted. UC Davis and some YMCA facilities are following suit. Some of the YMCA locker rooms are not gender-inclusive, but they still have banned nudity. Writer and academic Jacob Beckert wrote a piece about it in The Atlantic. "For more than a century," Beckert writes, "the cultural norm in the United States was that nudity was acceptable — at least within same-sex environments. Over the past couple of decades or so, that idea has largely dissolved." "Today, the only naked bodies that many Americans will likely ever see are their own, a partner's, or those on a screen," he writes. "Gone are our unvarnished points of physical comparison — the ordinary, unposed figures of other people." But is that a bad thing? In the past, men and boys would swim naked together, at the YMCA and in nature. The most salient point — about what a loss of nudity might do to body image — is also his most interesting one, and gay readers had plenty to say about it in a Reddit thread. "The skewed sense that you get about male anatomy if you only ever see naked bodies in porn is yet another stressor for young guys." Many of the gay men on the thread also talked about being terrified of public nudity in high school due to their fear of arousal. "I played football as a teen and we all showered after. It was embarrassing and I didn’t wanna get caught checking out my teammates, but I still did." Beckert wrote, "Rather than finding new ways to conceal ourselves, Americans need to reimagine the naked body — seeing it not as a natural fact of human life."

This is episode 169 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to talk about the paranormal. Paranormal Partners. We got an email about the paranormal. What is your earliest or most significant paranormal experience? Where did you grow up, and did that affect your beliefs or experiences? What's your origin story in the paranormal field? Have you ever seen a UFO, a cryptid, or a ghost? Can you describe a time you felt like you were being watched or stalked? What was it like to have an experience with a haunted house or object? How did you begin investigating the paranormal? What methods do you use for investigation? What do you think is the cause of these phenomena? Do you believe in ghosts, and why? What's your favorite paranormal story you've heard?

This is episode 168 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to talk about stupid things Christians believe. Pascals Wager. Their deity is an all-knowing, all-powerful god that created the Universe. God had to sacrifice himself on a crucifix to undo sins done by the people he created in his own image. "Since Jesus died on the cross for our sins, dare we make his martyrdom meaningless by not committing them?" God required the crucifixion instead of just forgiving everyone. And this is after he killed all humans and animals except the ones on the ark to purge all sin on the planet. Transubstantiation. "The transformation of ordinary bread and wine into the body and blood of Christ while still maintaining the appearance of ordinary bread and wine." The concept that just to have a lustful thought is a sin. God gave you free will, but everything is according to his plan. Despite being made in god's perfect image, we still have to circumcise the foreskin of the penis. Everything that is good comes from God, and everything that is bad comes from Satan. This all-powerful god allows innocent little children to suffer hunger and disease though they did nothing to deserve it. That everything in the Bible is the inspired words of god. That after counting the descendants of Adam and Eve in the Bible, the earth is only about 6,000 years old. That God just made the earth "appear" to be millions of years old (with dinosaur bones and everything) to test our faith. God darkened the Egyptian Pharos heart to give himself a reason to commit mass infanticide. Only your Christian sect is right. It is the one truth to get into heaven. There are thousands of branches but YOURS is the only true religion. Men making love together is a mortal sin, and they should be put to death for it. That without the reward of heaven and the punishment of hell, people would not be good on their own. There is only one true god, and the rest are imposters.

This was episode 167 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to talk about gay stereotypes. What is a stereotype? Why have we never talked about stereotypes before? Gay men in movies are violent and murderous. Gay men are indecisive. Bisexuals are gay, but afraid to admit it. Gay men are promiscuous. Gay men cannot commit to a relationship. Lesbians are always butch. Gay men are never butch. Gay men don't like sports. Gay men love the theater. Gay actors can never be a leading man. Gay men are over dramatic. Lesbian women fall in love too easily. Gay men have a better fashion sense than heterosexuals. Gay men love shopping. Gay men love disco. Gay men have limp wrists. Gay men have a gaydar and can instantly recognize other gay men. Gay men are hedonistic and hypersexual. Gay men are always lusting after heterosexual men. Gay men are festive and party too much. Once they come out of the closet, gay men can never go back. Gay men abuse recreational drugs. Gay men always have a "fag hag" friend. Gay men are pedophiles. Gay haters are secretly gay themselves. Lesbians always stay friends with exes. Drag queens are transexuals. Gay men gravitate to cities and avoid urban communities. Gay men are better educated.

This is episode 166 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to do a deep dive on the Baehr And Curadh Podcast. Curadh is in New Jersey. He is going to pick up his mother from the hospital and bring her to us in Wichita. There can't be a Baehr And Curadh Podcast, without both Baehr and Curadh, so we are going to listen to a deep dive on the podcast instead.

This is episode 165 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to the zoo. Recent zoo visit. Baby bears acting like teenagers. Baby elephants who seem to be best friends. Baby chimpanzee who interact differently due to Curadh's prosthetic.

This was episode 164 of the Baehr and Curadh Podcast. We are going to talk about things to do in October. Go to The Rocky Horror Picture Show Watch Football Tailgate Party Play Flag or Touch Football Scare Attraction Haunted Attraction Photograph Spooky Cemeteries, Bare Trees, Long Shadows, Full Moon, Creepy Dolls Carve a Pumpkin Giant Pumpkin Contest Ghost Tour / Ghost Hunt Costume Contest Pumpkin Chucking Make Candy or Caramel Apples Carve Shrunken Apple Heads Visiting Historic Graveyards Carnivals Horror Movie Marathon UFO Watching Get Your Palm Read or Tarot Card Reading Food Truck Events Corn Maze Pumpkin Patches Jack O’Lantern Walk Plan a Halloween Party Bob for Apples Headless Horseman Ride-By Scarecrow Contest Observe a Sunset Swarm of Bats Hayrides Pumpkin Pie Tasting Press and Preserve Autumn Leaves Pumpkin Regattas Trick or Treat Leaf Peeping Drive Scavenger Hunt Bigfoot Conference State Fair Light Candles at Night Do Hand Shadow Shapes on the Wall at Night Scary Film Festival Tell Scary Stories Around a Campfire Harvest Festival Cook Chili, Cornbread, Doughnuts, Stew, Acorn Squash, Hot Cocoa, Spiced Cider, Apple and Pumpkin Pie Escape Room Art Walk Scifi Convention Cosplay Event Wine Tasting Attend a Bonfire Cow Chip Throwing Contest Wife Carrying Contest Lumberjack Festival Chili Cookoff Oktoberfest Outdoor Film Festival Antiquing Flea Market Full Moon Event Dia de los Muertos Gather Acorns, Fall Leaves, Driftwood, Pine Cones, and Make Crafts. Apple Picking Zombie Walk Hot Air Balloon Festivals Urban Exploration Photography Go Camping Rake Leaves and Jump in the Pile Cook With the Crockpot Weenie Roast Nighttime Walk Yard Saleing Knit or Crochet a Sweater Start a Jigsaw Puzzle Go Horseback Riding Roast Marshmallows / Make Smores Can Pickles and Jams Roast Pumpkin Seeds Play Card Games and Board Games Attend Farmer’s Market Outdoor Brunch Participate in a Potluck Dinner Open the Windows Perfect the Hot Toddy Make a Blanket Fort Add 10 New Books to Your Must-Read List Sheep Festival

This is episode 163 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about things gay people have been blamed for. Low school grades Earthquakes Rachel Dolezal Floods The fall of Rome Any Financial Crisis A super-mouse infestation Hurricanes ISIS The Holocaust Gun crime

This is episode 162 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about ballegation. We have been uploading episodes of the podcast to YouTube. They say that the episodes have been viewed 318 times. The number of people who viewed an episode for more than three minutes is 0. The average time people watch each episode is 48 seconds. I am sure that the national news media will obsessively cover the murder of every pod caster like this. Fox News says Charlie Kirk’s alleged assassin lived with his transgender partner. Bureau officials confirmed that Tyler Robinson, 22, was in a "romantic relationship" with the unnamed person, who is a male transitioning to a female, and that they shared an apartment in Saint George, Utah. Those FBI officials told Fox News Digital that Robinson's partner is fully cooperating with the FBI's investigation. DOJ weighs firearm restrictions for transgender Americans after Minnesota church shooting. Let's pursue this line of thought. Since the vast majority of those who are performing mass shootings are heterosexual, we should ban heterosexuals from owning guns. Then stop being evil! Donald Trump is once again invoking religion in his fundraising appeals, sending an email (once again) with the subject line "I want to try and get to Heaven." I'll bet he does. In a bizarre and inflammatory segment on The Tucker Carlson Show, conservative commentator once again casts doubt on the sexuality of former U.S. Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg, questioning the legitimacy of the openly gay politician’s identity and suggesting he would like to ask him "very specific questions about gay sex." tRump wants to stay in power permanently, and martial law is how he is going to do it. Donald Trump signed an executive order on Friday to rebrand the Department of Defense as the Department of War, a callback to the department’s original name used from 1789 to 1947. tRump likes being a Hitler. "Free D.C.! Free Palestine!" the activists chanted before calling Trump "the Hitler of our time." As they chanted, the president walked up and smiled at one of the women recording the confrontation on her phone.

This is episode 161 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about flushbunking. Charlie Kirk: "Submit to your husband, Taylor Swift." Framing his remarks as a congratulations, Kirk said on his Real America’s Voice show: "This is something that I hope will make Taylor Swift more conservative. Engage in reality more… Reject feminism. Submit to your husband, Taylor. You’re not in charge." U.S. Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy said, "Windmills Are Wiping Out The Whale Population" The revelation, during a meeting of President Donald Trump’s cabinet, demonstrates a full-throated effort by his administration to undermine an industry that was central to former President Joe Biden’s climate and energy agendas. Way To Read The Room As the country grapples with another mass shooting, gun advocates petitioned the Supreme Court to loosen restrictions on weapons that have become synonymous with such tragedies. Enraged constituent tells off GOP Rep. as crowd applauds: "Take your head out of Trump’s ass" The speaker, an older man and a farmer, blasted Representative Mark Alford of Missouri for having no understanding of what it’s like for a working-class American trying to feed their family. Trump Claims Crime Is a Blue City Problem Despite Red State Reality According to Newsweek, out of the twenty-five most dangerous cities per capita, the vast majority -- eighteen -- are in red states. Only seven out of the twenty-five are in blue states. William Shatner’s message for gay fans: Keep on queerin "We all belong to each other, and all of us belong to the rest of existence, the world, the universe," said Shatner. "It also suggests that we are caretakers of our earth and we must, without question, care for the water, the air, the earth." Trump - "I have the right to do anything I want to do. I'm the president of the United States." Trump may be the president, but he doesn't have the right to do anything he wants. Years ago, that comment alone would have caused all sorts of havoc, but in today's society which has been desensitized to unconsciousness by an overload of information from a far-right ecosystem led by Fox News, right-wing social media influencers and access-ambitious pundits, it will probably go over like a thin breeze.

This is episode 160 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about more curious things. When you pass a mirror, do you always check your appearance? Do you plan what you would do if you became rich? Do you bite your nails? Do you sing when there is nobody else to hear you? Can you wiggle your ears? How about without moving your eyebrows? Do you wish you were uncircumcised? Do you feel like you have strange thoughts that other people don't have? Do you often have to explain your jokes to people? Which are weirder? Goths or jocks. Does it bother you when people speak in a monotone voice? Does it make you uncomfortable when people disclose too much personal information? Does your hair always have to look perfect? Do you do things just to amuse yourself? Do you like to tell stories about your real-life experiences? Do you ever do off-beat things just to provoke people?

This is episode 159 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about curious things. Can you swim? Do you have trouble swallowing pills? Do you have trouble thinking of things to say in casual conversation? Do you rehearse conversations in your head before you have them? Do you find feet attractive? When the battery on your television remote gets weak, do you try to compensate by pressing the buttons harder? Does it bother you when other people make noises while eating? What do you think of piercings? Have you ever picked your nose in public? Does it bother you when someone touches your computer screen with their finger? Do you exhibit any ritualized behaviors? What do you say when someone sneezes? How do you respond when someone says "Hi. How are you?" At restaurants, do you have difficulty deciding what to eat?

This is episode 158 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about low handing fruit Theorosa's Bridge. On vacation Vance has the Park Service raise the river so he can go kayaking. Trump still raging about 'rigged' jobs report. New immigration policy bans visas for trans athletes: "Not in the national interest". Kennedy center to drop rainbow from award ribbon. Texas trump burger chain owner arrested by ICE. Trump claims he "probably" won't seek third term. Trump Announces 100% Tariff On Semiconductors.

This is episode 157 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to talk about truthiness. Miller: immigrants didn’t build empire state building If you are gay, and you leave the country, you could have trouble coming home again Gays debate the age-old question of who should pay on the first date Maga evangelical leader who warned of "sexually deviant" queers pleads guilty to child porn charges When MAGA mentions Epstein, Trump brings up Obama Trump is working on an Epstein escape plan I just felt like I needed to tell you, I’m sorry I was a damn jerk back in school Pentagon to disable hurricane satellites Kids don’t need college, they have YouTube Trump claims he’ll personally pay for 200 million dollar ballroom

This is episode 156 of the Baehr and Curadh podcast. We are going to discuss why stupid people become successful. IKEA steps up with their support of the queer community whilst others cowed. Texas GOP Killed Recent Bill On Emergency Alerts. First trans people, now bisexuals: Stonewall National Monument website further erases queer history. Gay men share the best & worst things about getting older. Jim Obergefell fears same-sex marriages "will be erased" under Trump. Texas GOP holds special session to address deadly floods and files an anti-trans bathroom bill instead. Tennessee woman denied prenatal care for being unmarried. Why Stupid People Become Successful. Barack Obama Calls For Gay Mentors To Guide Young Boys Away From Ignorance.