It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Friend of the pod Weeza AKA Australia's First Attractive Comedian AKA Elouise Eftos is back!! What better pair to talk about insecure men, and to break down some cooked r/MensRights posts? Babe, you're in for a treat.  LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Follow Elouise Eftos on IG @weezasqueeza  See Elouise live https://linktr.ee/elouise Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Elouise Eftos @weezasqueeza Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's one of the 2025s best NMFs about one of Abbie's favourite(?) topics! LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Another cracker from the 2025 vault, when Abbie discovered the baffling videos of a UK dating coach named Gary Gunn...  LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sex Worker and TikTok star Blue Eyed Kayla Jade returns for a Nightmare Fuel featuring a client she calls "Peggy Sue". Peggy LOVES to get pegged by almost ANYTHING. In one of the weirdest sessions with Peggy, Kayla was so ready to call an ambulance ASAP.  LINKS Follow Kayla Jade on TikTok https://bit.ly/3Obb9fU Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Kayla Jade @blueeyedkaylajadeExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For a little summer treat, it's time to revisit Abbie's chat with the absolute ICON that is Kayla Jade! Abbie wants to know how Kayla charges her clients, how she takes care if herself and what she thinks of Bonnie Blue's views and the 4B movement.  LINKS Follow Kayla Jade on TikTok https://bit.ly/3Obb9fU Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100 Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Kayla Jade @blueeyedkaylajadeExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaDigital Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Adam and Abbie listen to a tale of an awful Christmas Eve shift in a grocery store, and look back on some cooked stories of their workplaces past... Happy holidays chooks!!!  LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Follow Adam on IG at @keliholiday  Follow Adam on TikTok at @keliholiday  Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Adam Hyde aka Keli Holiday @keliholidayExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Adam is back on the pod for a very important summer PSA, opening up about his skin cancer diagnoses and how it affected him. Adam and Abbie discuss how their sun safety habits have changed since they were kids, and how it makes them feel to see suntanning trending on TikTok. LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Follow Adam on IG at @keliholiday  Follow Adam on TikTok at @keliholiday  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Adam Hyde aka Keli Holiday @keliholidayExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This NMF almost needs the corkboard and the red string to go along with it because THE CONNECTIONS 🤯 LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

NOTE: This episode was pre-recorded before the Bondi Beach mass shooting. Our hearts go out to all those affected by this horrific event. If you or anyone you know has been affected, help is available via Lifeline on their website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14.  If you need a bit of positivity to get you through the last little bit of the year - here are Abbie, Amy and Oscar's picks for the 2025 Nice List, plus some submissions from The Chooks! LINKS Listen to our interview with Travis Lovett Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

NOTE: This episode was pre-recorded before the Bondi Beach mass shooting. Our hearts go out to all those affected by this horrific event. If you or anyone you know has been affected, help is available via Lifeline on their website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14.  It's been a hell of a year, so Abbie, Amy and Oscar are going through their picks for their Naughty List for 2025 and judging some listener submissions.  LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you or anyone you know needs support, help is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week via Lifeline on their website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14. Help is also available via Beyond Blue at https://www.beyondblue.org.au/ or by calling 1300 22 4636.  The team at It's A Lot would like to express their heartfelt sympathy for all those affected by the mass shooting at Bondi on Sunday Deceber 14th. To find a donor centre near you to donate blood, visit https://www.lifeblood.com.au/ or call 13 14 95.    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's hard to believe this chook forgot this Nightmare Fuel story because it is one of the kookiest stories we have heard in a long time! If you can beat it, we'd love to hear it! LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We are staring down the barrell of the end of 2025, and so what better time for Abbie to take some questions from the Chooks and dole out some much-needed advice on in-laws, talking to conservatives, and more. But first! Thanks to her local community groups, Abbie has been made aware of some very disturbing flyers being posted around her area so we need to unpack that STAT.  LINKS Vote for Dancing2 in the Hottest 100 https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/countdown/hottest100  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Chanel is back for a doozy of a NMF, from a time when she was rebelling against her feminism... LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Sign the open letter and learn more about Fix Our Feeds at teachusconsent.com/fix-our-feeds Follow Chanel Contos on IG @chanelc Follow Teach Us Consent on IG @teachusconsent Listen to Chanel's last appearance on It's A Lot https://play.listnr.com/podcast/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episode/chanel-contos-consent-is-so-horny Learn more about Teach Us Consent at teachusconsent.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Chanel Contos @chanelcExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Since her last appearance on It's A Lot in 2023, Chanel Contos has made huge changes in Australia with amazing campaigns from her organisation Teach Us Consent. Now, she's back to give her first interview about the launch of her new campaign called Fix Our Feeds. LINKS Sign the open letter and learn more about Fix Our Feeds at teachusconsent.com/fix-our-feeds Follow Chanel Contos on IG @chanelc Follow Teach Us Consent on IG @teachusconsent Listen to Chanel's last appearance on It's A Lot https://play.listnr.com/podcast/its-a-lot-with-abbie-chatfield/episode/chanel-contos-consent-is-so-horny Learn more about Teach Us Consent at teachusconsent.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Chanel Contos @chanelcExecutive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie is already a cruise ship hater, and this Nightmare Fuel certainly isn't helping to convince her otherwise. LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballEpisode Editor: Lee ChanDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It's time for an AMA! But first, a rant about Aussie TV and dissecting Holly's 'cool girl' callout on Big Brother. Abbie also chats about the question she's sick of being asked on red carpets, why life doesn't peak in your mid-20s, and how to support a friend in a shit relationship. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This poor chookie had to deal with one of the worst cases of annoying-guy-at-a-bar we've heard in a long time!! LINKS Send your Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram . Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie is back from her writing break! There's a lot going on in the world at the moment (especially in America lol), but today as a little extra dose of It's A Lot, we're unpacking the chat between Mia, Michael and Bruce on Big Brother. Plus, Abbie looks at a new report that shows the impact of manosphere content on young men in the UK.  LINKS Read the Dazed article: https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/69071/1/1-in-4-men-believe-no-one-will-ever-fall-in-love-with-them-state-of-uk-men-study  Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

All you chooks had SO MANY questions after Abbie talked about the state of dating, that we had to another ep! Is ghosting ever okay? How do you stop online dating feeling like a game? We’re getting into this, our own experiences, and so many more common online dating challenges. LINKS Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on IG @listnrentertainment Follow LiSTNR Entertainment on TikTok @listnrentertainment Get instructions on how to access transcripts on Apple podcasts https://bit.ly/3VQbKXY CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimballDigital and Social and Video Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Justin Hill @jus_hillIt's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia ToomeyManaging Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.