My Life Is Not My Life

Unforgiveness feels like protection, but it's actually bondage. In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, Sade' Hill unpacks what it means to live free by maintaining a heart of forgiveness. Through scriptures like Mark 11:25, Matthew 18:21–22, and Nehemiah 9:17, we'll explore why forgiveness isn't about excusing the offense or the offender;  it's about releasing yourself into freedom and allowing God to handle justice. You'll learn: Why forgiveness is about you, not them How unforgiveness can keep you from pursuing God's calling Why forgiveness must be a posture, not a one-time event If you've ever wrestled with letting go of pain, betrayal, or even forgiving yourself, this episode will challenge you to break the cycle and walk in the freedom God designed for you. Follow the conversation and join the community on Instagram: @mylifeisnotmypodcast

Who are you really serving God, or the opinions of others? In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, Sade' Hill unpacks why true discipleship begins with serving God above everything and everyone else. Drawing from Luke 14:26–27 and other scriptures, she shares how discernment from the Holy Spirit helps break free from people pleasing and gives the courage to say "no" when necessary. Sade' also opens up about a pivotal moment in her marriage when God reminded her to focus on serving Him first and how that shifted everything. If you've ever struggled with identity, boundaries, or the fear of letting people down, this episode will challenge you to put God back in His rightful place first. Listen in to discover: Why serving God first clarifies how you serve others The difference between a good thing and a God thing How the Holy Spirit brings discernment and peace when you say "no"   Key Scripture Foundation Luke 14:26–27 – Love Christ above all, bear your cross, and renounce all. Galatians 1:10 – "Am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? … If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ." Colossians 3:23–24 – "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men…" Matthew 6:24 – "No one can serve two masters…" Acts 5:29 – "We must obey God rather than men." Proverbs 29:25 – "The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe."   Follow My Life Is Not My Life Podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesadehill?igsh=OWpwZGU4ZnRvYnRs&utm_source=qr

In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, Sade' Hill explores what it truly means to embrace a servant's heart and discover your God-given identity and purpose. Drawing from Scripture and real-life application, she unpacks how surrendering your way for God's way leads to fulfillment and impact in His Kingdom. Whether you feel stuck, unsure of your calling, or simply want to deepen your walk with Christ, this conversation will encourage you to serve with humility, lead with love, and live with eternal purpose. Listen in to learn: Why true greatness in God's Kingdom starts with servanthood How to align your identity with God's design for your life Practical steps to live out your Kingdom purpose daily Tune in and be inspired to let go of your way, so God can lead you in His way.

God is everywhere, but is He living inside of you? In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, we break down the difference between God's presence being all around us and His Spirit actually dwelling within us. You'll learn why sin separates us from God, how Jesus' sacrifice makes us a dwelling place, and what it means to activate the Holy Spirit in your everyday life. Through Scripture, real-life application, and biblical truth, we'll uncover how to move from simply knowing God is near to experiencing the power of His Spirit living inside you. If you've ever wondered, "How do I know if the Holy Spirit is in me?" or "Why don't I feel His power?"  this episode is for you. Follow the Podcast on Instagram: My Life Is Not My Life Podcast or  Email me questions, comments or topics you would like to me to discuss at MyLifeIsNotMyLifePodcast@gmail.com  

God has entrusted you with more than you think,  but are you stewarding it well? In this episode, we break down what it means to manage every area of your life according to God's will: relationships, career, finances, and the spiritual assignments He's given you. Through the examples of Paul and King Solomon, you'll learn how to shift from ownership to faithful management, and how to align your goals with God's plan. Whether you're single, married, climbing the career ladder, or in a season of waiting, stewardship is the key to living a life that honors God.   Follow on IG My Life Is Not My Life Podcast and  If you have any questions or tips on studying The Bible feel free to email:   MyLifeIsNotMyLife@gmail.com    Thank you for listening to My Life Is Not My Life Podcast 

Setting goals is wise. Making plans is responsible. But before you chase that next win; have you checked with God first? In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, we reflect on Philippians 3:12-21 and explore what it truly means to press toward the goal. You'll walk away with clarity on how to: Let go of past distractions to embrace God's vision Measure growth by alignment, not achievement Pursue purpose with eternity in mind Whether you're setting personal, professional, or spiritual goals this episode will help you pause and ask the real question: Is this goal mine or God's? Tune in now and get realigned.   https://www.instagram.com/thesadehill?igsh=OWpwZGU4ZnRvYnRs&utm_source=qr

What if God already gave you the gift,  but you haven't activated it yet? In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, we unpack the powerful moment in John 20:22 when Jesus said, "Receive the Holy Spirit." But here's the twist the disciples didn't begin walking in it until 50 days later. You'll learn: ▪️ Why your preparation season matters more than your performance ▪️ How to stop letting confusion delay your obedience ▪️ What the fruit of the Spirit really says about your alignment with God You don't have to feel ready to say "yes." You just have to receive it. Listen now and walk boldly into what's already yours.   Click & Follow on Instagram

Have you ever fasted and still felt unsure about your next move? In this episode of My Life Is Not My Life, we explore what it really means to fast for spiritual clarity, divine direction, and purpose alignment. I share my personal 21-day fast experience; giving up food from sun up to sun down and no T.V, and no Social Media to gaining a deeper revelation about my assignment as a wife, mother, realtor, and disciple of Christ. We talk about why fasting, how to tune out distractions, and what happens when you stop seeking success the world's way and start serving with intention. Whether you're in business, ministry, motherhood, or simply feeling stuck, this episode is for you.   Follow on Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thesadehill?igsh=OWpwZGU4ZnRvYnRs&utm_source=qr    

Welcome to the very first episode of My Life Is Not My Life! If you were a listener of The Crew Book Club Podcast, this episode is your personal invitation into a new chapter. One rooted in deeper surrender, obedience, and purpose. In this episode, I open up about the pause that changed everything. What started as a break from podcasting turned into a divine reset. I share the why behind the shift, how God revealed a calling I wasn't expecting, and what it means to lay your plans down for something greater. We'll talk about: Trusting God when the plan changes How obedience requires active surrender Why your journey won't look like anyone else's, and that's okay This isn't just a rebrand. It's a realignment. A reminder that true impact starts when we stop holding the pen and let God write the story. Because sis… this life is not our life; it's His.    

This isn't just another podcast about doing more, getting better, or finding success. This is about surrender. Letting go. And learning to live a life led by faith, not control. In this special trailer episode, host Sade' Hill introduces the heart behind My Life Is Not My Life a space for honest conversations, spiritual growth, and the journey of choosing obedience over hustle. If you've ever felt stuck in the pause, unsure in the shift, or afraid to surrender… you're not alone. You're not just tuning into a podcast; you're stepping into an opportunity to hear a testimony, share a testimony, and be a testimony. Because this life? It's not mine. It's His.  Hit subscribe and let's walk this out together.

Episode 99: What Are You Declaring? 🧠✨ In this episode, we're diving into Chapter 3 of You Are the Placebo: Making Your Mind Matter by Dr. Joe Dispenza, where we explore the placebo effect in the brain. We touch on three key elements: Conditioning Expectation Meaning (Our main focus) 💡 Key Points: Are you doing things just to do them, or is there meaning behind your actions? How is your brain processing all the data from your life experiences? What are you declaring when you say, "I am…"? We also reflect on the power of meaning in our lives and how it shapes our reality. 📖 Who Gon' Check Me Boo? God Is: This week's scripture is Acts 20:24, reminding us of the importance of finishing the race God has set for us, no matter the obstacles. Quote of the Episode: "Most of us have been conditioned to run from the unknown, so now we have to learn to become comfortable in the void or the unknown, instead of fearing it." ✨ On our social media, we discussed the concept of Crossing The River of Change (pg. 64-65) and how transformation is often uncomfortable but essential. 📱 Follow Us On: Instagram: @thesadehill TikTok: @thecrewbookclubpodcast Subscribe on YouTube: The Crew Book Club Podcast 🎙 BetterHelp Ad: Need extra support? I've partnered with BetterHelp to offer The Crew Book Club listeners 10% off your first month of professional therapy. Visit BetterHelp.com/CrewLove to get started today!    

In this episode of The Crew Book Club, we're breaking down how our thoughts and emotions directly impact our bodies and overall health. From fear-driven emotions to the power of a positive mindset, we're diving deep into the first chapters of You Are the Placebo and exploring how much influence our minds have over our well-being. ✨ Key Points: Your Thoughts Are Making You Sick (Pg. 7-11) Fight or Flight: Fear-Enabled Emotions (Pg. 29, 31-32) How Society Has Conditioned Us (Pg. 41-44) 📖 Scripture Reference: Luke 3:5 & 3:9 📘 Luke Bible Study Group (Pg. 47) Challenge: Use your power, authority, and dominion over your mind and body to get the best results. You have control—claim it! 💡 Quote of the Week: "A positive attitude brings energy, resilience, and the ability to transform obstacles into opportunities." Plus, don't miss the Who Gon' Check Me Boo? God Is! segment where we explore how God keeps us in check and centered. 🎙 BetterHelp Ad: Need some extra support? I've partnered with BetterHelp to offer The Crew Book Club listeners 10% off your first month of professional therapy. Visit BetterHelp.com/CrewLove to take advantage of this special offer! 💙🖤

Book: You Are the Placebo Making your mind matter Author: Dr. Joe Dispenza   Who Gon Check Me Boo? God Is! ISAIAH 8:14 He will be a holy place; for both Israel and Judah he will be a stone that causes people to stumble and a rock that makes them fall.   "Bible Ref": God's truth cannot be denied, any more than a person can walk through a boulder. For those who reject Him, God becomes a "stumbling rock." He's something they cannot help but trip over. Everyone who tries to succeed and thrive apart from the Lord eventually falls and does not prosper.   POINTS: When stuck in a situation A Radical Decision When The Change Happens   ASK YOURSELF? Who am I? What is the meaning of this life? What am I doing here? What's my purpose in this season? What or who is God to me?   QUOTE: By changing your internal state, you can change your external reality.   BETTER HELP AD:     It's affordable and convenient, don't forget Crew, I've partnered up with Better Help and a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy at BetterHelp.com/CrewLove.

Who Gon' Check Me Boo? God Is!   Colossians 3:2-4 Set your mind on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.   Let's Talk About It: 1️⃣ Core Values - Understanding your core values that align with God and how they can be situational values that pertain to certain situations in your life.   Power Moves: pg. 38 "The first step to forming either set of values is releasing your clench on what you thought had value and opening your heart to the values that God desires you now have." 2️⃣System update - Sis you may be due for an update; listen to how you may need to turn off and reboot for a software update. What app; aka what people or things you need to delete for your update?  Power Moves: pg.52 "This is your opportunity to examine the system that has made it easier to disappoint yourself rather than others."   3️⃣ Brand partnerships - Girl, who you partner with matters. Are you jumping too far into relationships without qualifying who has access to your life?  Power Moves: pg. 131 "Part of the reason we struggle with truly maximizing the beauty of partnership and relationships is that we spend too much time filling a void instead of qualifying the material that we're using."    Highlighted Quote: Power Moves: pg. 44 "Your systems are wired in your brain, but your core values exist in your heart. Without the proper system in place, what's in our heart won't show up in our actions." BETTER HELP AD:     It's affordable and convenient, don't forget Crew, I've partnered up with Better Help and a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy at BetterHelp.com/CrewLove.    

  Who Gon' Check Me Boo? God Is!   o   Psalm 37:23-24   What's Happening?  1. Gave Birth to a baby  2. Confidently Accepted help  3. Be vulnerable to ask and receive help.  4. Gaving myself grace & compassion    Quotes:  o   Power moves. Pg. 111 "Resisting the temptation to be the caption of our own ship will require focus, dedication, and trust in God above all." o    pg. 153. "Disruption is not always dysfunction: sometimes it's a sign of development."   BETTER HELP AD: ·          It's affordable and convenient, don't forget Crew, I've partnered up with Better Help and a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy at BetterHelp.com/CrewLove.       

Hey there, Crew! Welcome back to The Crew Book Club Podcast, your go-to destination for the books you need to read but never seem to find the time for. In this episode, we dive deep into Chapters 9 and 10 of our current book, and trust us, you won't want to miss it!       Who Gon' Check Me Boo? God is!  We kick things off with a reflection on the life-changing experience at "Woman Evolve" and how it's filled us up in unexpected ways.      Chapter 9: The Law of the Ladder In Chapter 9, we explore the profound principle that "character growth determines the height of your personal growth." Join us as we discuss the value of character development on page 144 and take a journey up the rungs of the character ladder from pages 145 to 152. You'll gain invaluable insights into how your character can impact your personal growth and success.     Chapter 10: The Law of the Rubber Band Chapter 10 introduces us to "The Law of the Rubber Band" and the incredible benefits of tension, detailed on pages 160 to 169. Discover how embracing tension in your life can lead to personal growth, and hear real-life stories that illustrate the power of stretching beyond your limits.     Challenge of the Week Our challenge this week is on page 172, challenge #2: "Be strategic to maintain…" Tune in to learn more about this thought-provoking challenge and join us as we explore its significance.   Quote of the Week We leave you with an inspiring quote to ponder: "It's never too late to be what you might have been." - George Elliot. Reflect on these words and let them guide you on your journey of personal growth and self-discovery.       Thank you for being part of the Crew Book Club Podcast community. We can't wait to dive into these chapters with you. So, grab your book, your favorite beverage, and let's get started!       Order Book: https: https://amzn.to/3KZY0oH   Click the link to get your free 30-day premium plus experience with audible  https://www.audibletrial.com/Crewlove    BetterHelp, sponsor of this episode; a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy:  https://www.betterhelp.com/crewlove   Visit Website: https://www.thecrewbookclub.com   Listen to Full Episode: anywhere you get podcast or-   https://traffic.libsyn.com/thecrewbookclub/YouNeedToCutIt.mp3

In Episode 93 of the Crew Book Club Podcast, the featured book is "The Invaluable Laws of Growth" by John C. Maxwell, focusing on Chapters 7 and 8.    The episode starts with Who Gon Check Me Boo? God is!  with a discussion on obedience and its importance in following God's will. The host emphasizes the idea that partial compliance still amounts to disobedience. They reference Deuteronomy 28:1-2 to highlight the benefits of obeying God's commands.     Chapter 7, "The Law of Design," emphasizes the significance of strategizing for maximum growth. Life lessons include the simplicity of life, the priority of designing one's life over their career, and the idea that life is not a dress rehearsal. The chapter also touches on effective systems and their key components.      Chapter 8, "The Law of Pain," the episode explores how effectively managing difficult experiences can lead to substantial personal growth. The host shares personal reflections on their own pain experiences and discusses the valuable lessons learned from them. The chapter also provides practical steps to turn pain into gain, emphasizing the importance of a positive life stance, creativity, and responsibility for one's life.   The week's challenge involves developing or refining personal systems, with specific criteria provided for assessment. The episode wraps up with insightful quotes from Fred Allen and Michael Gerber, emphasizing the value of living life purposefully and the power of systems in achieving extraordinary results.     Order Book: https: https://amzn.to/3KZY0oH   Click the link to get your free 30-day premium plus experience with audible  https://www.audibletrial.com/Crewlove    BetterHelp, sponsor of this episode; a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy:  https://www.betterhelp.com/crewlove   Visit Website: https://www.thecrewbookclub.com

In Episode 92 of the Crew Book Club Podcast, hosted by the engaging Sade Hill, listeners dive into Chapters 5 and 6 of a compelling book, exploring key themes and offering practical insights for personal growth. Here's a breakdown of what to expect: Introduction: Sade Hill welcomes listeners to the podcast, promising to uncover the books you should read when time is scarce. Segment 1: "Who Gon' Check Me Boo?! God is!" Sade starts with a powerful reflection on overcoming generational challenges, drawing parallels with the Israelites' journey. She encourages embracing God's power to break free from negativity, doubt, and fear, emphasizing trust in Him. Sermon: "Power To Stop" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kl4okICup5U   Segment 2: "Let's Discuss"  Chapter 5: "The Law of Consistency" Sade delves into this chapter's essence, emphasizing that motivation initiates progress, but discipline sustains it. Key takeaways: Identifying areas for improvement. Aligning motivation with personality. Starting with small steps. Embracing patience and valuing the journey. Understanding the 'why' behind improvement. Reevaluating the concept of goal-setting for consistent productivity. Chapter 6: "The Law of Environment" Sade explores the significance of environmental factors in personal growth. 6 Choices for fostering growth: Assessing the current environment. Initiating change in oneself and the environment. Choosing the right company. Challenging oneself within the environment. Focusing on the present moment. Moving forward despite criticism. Segment 3: The Challenge of the Week "The Why Test" Sade presents a thought-provoking challenge centered on self-reflection and motivation, helping listeners identify their 'why' for continued growth. Segment 4: Quote of the Week: Sade shares a quote by Les Brown, reminding listeners that others' opinions should not define their reality. Throughout this insightful episode, Sade Hill provides valuable guidance on personal development, encouraging listeners to take practical steps toward consistency and growth while weaving in relevant anecdotes and engaging content. Check out the Crew Book Club Podcast for the full episode!   Order Book: https: https://amzn.to/3KZY0oH Click the link to get your free 30-day premium plus experience with Audible. https://www.audibletrial.com/Crewlove  BetterHelp, sponsor of this episode; a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy:  https://www.betterhelp.com/crewlove Visit Website: https://www.thecrewbookclub.com            

What'd Up, Crew? What's good?    Welcome to Episode 91: You Need To Cut It   Book Discussed: The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth" book by John C. Maxwell,    In this episode, we start with a powerful reminder that God is on our side as we explore the creative power of faith through a combination of scriptures. This spiritual insight sets the tone for a transformative discussion on self-improvement.   Chapter 3, "The Law of the Mirror,"  Takes us deep into the importance of self-esteem in personal growth. We uncover the main reason people fail to reach their potential: low self-esteem. Learn valuable steps to build a positive self-image and boost your self-worth.   Chapter 4, "The Law of Reflection,"  Underscores the significance of pausing and reflecting on our journey. Discover how reflection turns experience into insight, and explore the power of the pause through the "I'S" - Investigation, Incubation, Illumination, and Illustration.     Our challenge of the week, inspired by page 47, asks you to choose one word that describes yourself, offering a profound opportunity for self-discovery.   We leave you with a thought-provoking quote from page 55, emphasizing the importance of pausing and reflecting on turning life markers into life makers.   Join us on this episode as we explore the invaluable laws of growth and embark on a journey of self-improvement and self-discovery with your host, Sade' Hill.          CREW LOVE:  Leave a written review, give the podcast five stars, share the episode, and follow us on social media.   BetterHelp, sponsor of this episode; a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy:  https://www.betterhelp.com/crewlove   Click the link to get your free 30-day premium plus experience with audible  https://www.audibletrial.com/Crewlove    Order Book: https: https://amzn.to/3KZY0oH Check Out & Follow  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@thecrewbookclubpodcast FANBASE: https://www.fanbase.app/thecrewbookclub INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thecrewbookclub/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecrewbookclubpodcast

The Invaluable Laws of Growth John C. Maxwell Episode 90:  Get Out the Trap   What'd Up, Crew? What's good? Welcome to the podcast where I read the books you should read and don't have time.     Who Gon' Check Me Boo?! God is! Colossians 4:6 "Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."   Chapter 1: The Law of Intentionality ·      Pg. 1 Growth Doesn't Just Happen ·      Growth Traps pgs.3-6 1.     The Assumption Gap-"I assume that I will automatically grow." 2.     The Knowledge Gap- "I don't know how to grow." 3.     The Timing Gap- "It's not the right time to begin." 4.     The Mistake Gap – "I'm afraid of making mistakes." 5.     The Perfection Gap- "I have to find the best way before I start." 6.     The Inspiration Gap- "I don't feel like doing it." 7.     The Comparison Gap- "Others are better than I am." 8.     The Expectation Gap- "I thought it would be easier than this."   Chapter 2: The Law of Awareness ·      Pg. 17 Do you have a sense of direction? 3 Kinds of people when it comes to having direction in life? 1.     People who don't know what they would like to do. 2.     People who know what they would like to do but don't do it. 3.     People who know what they would like to do and do it.   ·      Pg. 25-27 Create a game plan. Awareness. Action. Accountability. Attraction.     The challenge of the week Pg.  11 Do it Now! "The greatest danger you face in this moment is the idea that you will make intentional growth later."   Quote of the week: Pg. 2 "If you focus on goals, you may hit goals, but that doesn't guarantee growth. If you focus on growth, you will grow and always hit goals.   CREW LOVE:  Leave a written review, give the podcast five stars, share the episode, and follow us on social media.   BetterHelp, sponsor of this episode; a special offer to The Crew Book Club Podcast listeners, you can get 10% off your first month of professional therapy:  https://www.betterhelp.com/crewlove   Click the link to get your free 30-day premium plus experience with audible  https://www.audibletrial.com/Crewlove    Order Book: https: https://amzn.to/3KZY0oH   Check Out & Follow  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@thecrewbookclubpodcast FANBASE: https://www.fanbase.app/thecrewbookclub INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thecrewbookclub/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecrewbookclubpodcast