In Your 20s

first episode of In Your 20s! have you ever wondered what confidence mean and if you're confident or not? for today's episode, let's talk about confidence and why most people think they're not one. i'll also share some tips how i became more confident with myself and how i define confidence now.

Growing up, I've always wanted to WORK. Now that I'm working, I have realized several of things that I wanted to share with you.

setting a boundary makes us feel bad sometimes, even though it is necessary for ourselves and our mental health. 'unless they tell me' rule is the rule that i created when setting boundaries.

hello finally i convinced my boyfriend to do an episode with me:") listen to how we met, how we became together, and how cheesy we are hehehe.

ive seen that everything everywhere all at once won the oscars and golden globes 2023 so, today we're going to dive in and talk about the lessons i've learned from this movie.

i used to hate being basic. i didn't like wearing "basic" clothes or listening to "basic" songs because i was afraid that people might think or call me basic. but, then, i realized that when i stopped on watching films that are "basic", when i stopped on listening to songs that are "basic", and when i stopped on dressing "basic", i felt suffocated. for today's episode, we're going to talk about why we should stop on hating the basic and why we should embrace/appreciate it more!

my grandfather died last week. his death impacted me more than i could have ever imagined. i thought about life and death like never before. for today's episode, we're going to answer the question... is life meant to be felt? i thought about this a lot because sometimes, or most of the time, we're scared of dying. but i thought, shouldn't we be more scared if we don't live our lives?

i currently deactivated my social media (facebook) and deleted my twitter 3 years ago and i've never felt this happy or decided to never come back. (who knows, maybe i will?) i wanna talk about the pros and cons of social media. my own pros and cons and my own take. i'll also dive in with why i think WE think we're cringe on social media these days. for this episode, i'll talk about deactivating social media and why we do it.

2023 is here! man oh man, 2022 taught me a lot of valuable lessons about life. i recorded some of the lessons i learned in 2022 in my journal before the year came to a close, and i want to share them with you! for today's episode, i focused on life lessons because i don't really believe in new year's resolutions (anymore), but, i find new years to be lovely because it kind of offers us hope that we can alter things. however, i believe that we can always begin today rather than wait for next year to start on something.

when i rested for months, i've realized that i realized a lot of things when it comes to relationships more than ups and downs. i want to share about these things and how it changed me. when you're also in the process of realizing things, you also realize that you make mistakes and i wanna correct some things i've said about relationships. let's dive in with my realizations and how i use them now and how it changed me. have an amazing sunday, friends!!<3

whew, i'm back!! in order to become the best version of yourself, you have to be kind to yourself and be forgiving. always remind yourself that it's okay to slip up sometimes. the most important relationship that you will have is the relationship with yourself.

there is a lot of pressure once you graduate from college, which we will discuss in today's episode. the feeling is surreal, and it feels good to finally graduate, but after that, some are questioning "what happens next?" "should i get a job right away?" "will i fail?" so, i'm going to talk about it in today's episode. also, i believe that taking it day by day and allowing yourself to figure out what you want to do and become is a good idea. it's perfectly fine to take your time and create your own life. but for those who really need to get a job, i hope you find one immediately and that one day, you'll be blessed to finally be where you wanted to be. happy 50th episode!!

wow let's catch up guys!! it's been a long time since i made a bonus episode. for the past few days, i feel like i'm losing myself and it's hard for me to see my balance. but now that school's over, i'm able to focus on myself again!! i'm going to talk about waking up early and why it's important and i'm also going to talk about giving back to our parents and my take on abortion. i love you, guys!! and thank you for sticking around!!

lately, i feel like i'm sabotaging myself and i always feel guilty whenever i'd spend my money. because of this pandemic, i noticed that i've been going out a lot and i've been spending more money than i used to (but not that much these days). i want to talk to you guys about where i'm in now with my spendings and why i always feel guilty. i also want to feel better about this because i know that sometimes, it's okay to treat myself. ALSO, if you're going through the same, i want you to know that you're not alone.

isn't it a little surprising that 2020 is the year that this pandemic started? and now, it's already 2022. while it is true that most of us are burnout because of this pandemic, it is also undeniable that we have changed significantly and are no longer the same people we once were. for this episode, we'll appreciate the person we've became and the person we'll become.

our speakers will discuss cyber libel in today's episode. i know that we post a lot of things online these days, and some of them are opinions, while others are really below the belt. so, let us discuss cyber libel. from its definition to its implications. we also decided to share this with you because you're probably scared or concerned about what you're posting online, so here are some answers to help you stop overthinking or worrying so much.

now that it's a pandemic, all of us are either bored or mentally unstable. there are mixed of people who use dating applications. some are bored, some are looking for love, some are depressed and want someone to talk to, and some are mentally unstable :p but for today's episode, let's talk about dating applications and why i will stop on using it. (this isn't a sad episode because i will really quit from using it AND I AM HAPPY!) this is also not an episode that will iNsPiRe you to stop on using dating apps.

*not me sensoring the title bwahahaha not me being a little scared lmao anyway, this is an episode about the marcoses. after 2 million filipinos ousted them, they came back to philippines and run for different positions in the government. i don't know if you'll find this interesting, but i made this episode for our future kabataan. they might see this one day and i want them to know that when we had the chance to fight for them, we fought for them. however, the machinery of the marcoses are strong and we tried to defeat them. these are the stories that happened during ferdinand marcos' presidency and why we shouldn't forget them. there's also a little rant here, because why not? for sure, this isn't the last episode that i'm gonna make about them. i'm also gonna be making stories about duterte's EJK and what happened during his presidency but maybe i'm going to do that after his term :-). The Conjugal Dictatorship of Ferdinand and Imelda Marcos: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FKIuU-ocXsjdMXfGVPLF2B78gj64jfeP/view?usp=drivesdk The Kingmaker: https://youtu.be/5gNujHs-Gho also, i already have my own mic :-) *vp leni garnered 15,035,773 million votes!!

gotta be honest with you, i don't know much about love. maybe i do, but i don't always know how to put it into words. the reason why i don't talk about it that much is because i'm terribly not good at explaining what i think of love. but what i do know is maybe it's about thinking of someone with every song you play, maybe it's about waking up in the morning and feeling excited to talk to your person, or maybe it's also about sitting with discomfort and just listening to each other. maybe it's about staying with each other even if it gets boring sometimes. maybe love is a choice. all i know is love isn't always going to be easy, it's not always going to go the way we want it to be, the way we planned it to be, but that's love. It's not easy, but that's love. sometimes, disagreements allow relationships to grow. for today's episode, let's talk more about why love isn't always easy and this isn't a perfect episode :--) but i tried to give it justice.

"it's not gonna be easy, it's gonna be really hard. we're gonna have to work at this everyday because i want you. i want all of you, forever, you and me, every day. will you do something for me, please? just picture your life for me? thirty years from now, forty years from now? what's it look like? if it's with him- go. go! i lost you once, i think i can do it again, if i thought that's what you really wanted. but don't you take the easy way out." -- the notebook. LATELY, i've been thinking that love takes a lot of hardwork, and that it's not always easy. we might see movies that they look oh so happy, but in today's time, love changed and it KINDA became complicated. today, let's dive in with love, and why it's not always easy. i'm gonna be talking with one of my friends, hans :). have a great sunday!