Growing Up In Polygamy

What is it really like growing up in the Kingston Clan, also known as The Order? In this powerful interview, Allison shares her story of growing up in a family marked by extreme abuse, complicated family relationships, and the struggle to find a way out.Allison's father was so abusive that he was serving time in jail for child abuse when she was born. Growing up, she witnessed deeply disturbing family relationships, including her father marrying four of his own sisters and later watching her own brother marry one of her sisters.At just 16 years old, Allison made the incredibly difficult decision to leave The Order. But escaping wasn't as simple as walking away. She spent nine months in foster care as a ward of the state while waiting for her parents to relinquish their parental rights. She opens up about the emotional toll of that experience, the uncertainty of waiting, and eventually being adopted by an amazing family who gave her a new opportunity at life.We also talk about the challenges of rebuilding your life after leaving a high-demand religious group, the lasting effects of growing up in an abusive environment, and why Allison believes speaking out is so important.Sadly, Allison says abuses are still happening within the group today, particularly involving incest and family relationships. She hopes that by sharing her story, more people will become aware of what is happening behind closed doors and understand why survivors need to be heard.This is a difficult but important conversation about abuse, survival, finding family, and the courage it takes to speak out.**CONTENT WARNING:** This interview discusses child abuse, incest, family abuse, and foster care.Thank you to Allison for trusting us with her story.Follow Allison!!!Youtube: @AllisonariahTikTok: @AllisonAEamesInstagram: @AllisonAriahEames#KingstonClan #TheOrder #KingstonGroup #CultSurvivor #LeavingTheCult #ExPolygamist #GrowingUpInPolygamyIf you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.orgAt Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world."If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamyInsta: @growingupinpolygamywww.growingupinpolygamy.comTheme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to [email protected]

What does divorce actually mean when you're in a polygamous marriage?In our reaction to Sister Wives Season 21 Episode 5, we watch Christine and Meri discuss Meri's legal divorce from Kody, what it means to officially leave the family, and their plans to melt down the jewelry connected to Kody.Sam shares his perspective growing up in the FLDS and explains why legal marriages and spiritual marriages are often viewed very differently in polygamous communities. Why do many fundamentalist polygamists place so much more importance on their spiritual marriages than their legal ones? And what does a legal divorce really change?We also check in on Janelle and her new adventures with keeping bees! 🐝Join us as we break down another episode of Sister Wives from the perspective of two people who have experienced different sides of Mormonism and polygamy.What do you think? Does a legal divorce represent the true end of a marriage in a polygamous family?#SisterWives #SisterWivesSeason21 #MeriBrown #ChristineBrown #JanelleBrown #Polygamy #FLDS #GrowingUpInPolygamyIf you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.orgAt Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world."If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamyInsta: @growingupinpolygamywww.growingupinpolygamy.comTheme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to [email protected] Shorts Easily like us with Opus Clips: https://www.opus.pro/?via=SamandMelissa✅SUBSCRIBE NOW : https://shorturl.at/inqrE

In our reaction to Season 21 Episode 4, we talk about how the show is starting to feel a little… boring. With Kody and Robyn no longer filming, there just doesn't seem to be as much happening—and this episode really made us wonder where the story goes from here.We also talk about Meri's explanation for why she stayed with Kody for so long. She says she stayed because she didn't want Kody to be able to feel innocent about pushing her away. And how many lies did Kody and Robyn tell Meri in the process.But the entire episode seemed to be building toward the big conversation between Meri and Christine. We finally get to the moment we've been waiting for… and then the episode ENDS! 😩Now we have to wait until next week to hear the rest of the conversation.Are we being too harsh, or is Sister Wives really starting to run out of storylines?👇 What did you think of Episode 4? And what did you think about Meri's explanation for staying with Kody?🎥 Our full reaction is up now on Growing Up In Polygamy!#SisterWives #SisterWivesSeason21 #MeriBrown #ChristineBrown #KodyBrown #TLC #GrowingUpInPolygamyIf you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.orgAt Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world."If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamyInsta: @growingupinpolygamywww.growingupinpolygamy.comTheme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to [email protected] Shorts Easily like us with Opus Clips: https://www.opus.pro/?via=SamandMelissa

In our final reaction to "Secrets of the 12 Tribes", we take a closer look at some of the similarities between the Twelve Tribes and Sam's experience growing up in the FLDS.One of the most striking parallels is the way illness and injury can be connected to a person's spiritual worthiness. We discuss what happens when people are taught that sickness, suffering, or misfortune may be a reflection of their faithfulness or obedience.We also take a deeper look at the way both Gene Spriggs and Warren Jeffs exercised control over families and relationships, including separating family members and making decisions that could dramatically change people's lives.As an ex-FLDS member and someone who grew up around these kinds of teachings and structures, Sam shares his perspective on why these similarities stand out so much.This is our final reaction to *Secrets of the 12 Tribes*, and throughout this series we've explored missionary work, religious obedience, communal living, child discipline, law enforcement raids, and now the ways leaders can use spiritual beliefs to influence health, family, and relationships.What similarities between the Twelve Tribes and FLDS stood out to you the most?#SecretsOfThe12Tribes #TwelveTribes #FLDS #GrowingUpInPolygamy #GeneSpriggs #WarrenJeffs #DocumentaryReaction #ReligiousAbuseIf you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.orgAt Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world."If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamyInsta: @growingupinpolygamywww.growingupinpolygamy.comTheme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to [email protected] Shorts Easily like us with Opus Clips: https://www.opus.pro/?via=SamandMelissa

Celebrate your commitment to Sister Wives with Christine's "Not a Quitter" shirts! https://christine-woolley.myshopify.com/products/not-a-quitter-t-shirtThe marriages may be over, but the Sister Wives are discovering that moving on from Kody doesn't necessarily mean moving on from each other!In our reaction to Sister Wives Season 21 Episode 3, we talk about the reality of being a "basement wife," the hierarchy within polygamous families, and how those experiences compare to Sam's upbringing in the FLDS.We also watch the women come together to share family recipes, memories, and traditions as they navigate what their relationships might look like outside of plural marriage.But one of the biggest things that stood out to us is how their children continue to give them a reason to stay connected. Even though their marriages to Kody have ended, they share decades of history and children who still connect their lives.Are they genuinely working toward rebuilding relationships, or will their differences ultimately keep them apart? And can they find common ground now that Kody is no longer at the center of their relationships?Join us as we break down Episode 3 and discuss why the Brown family was never just about Kody!#SisterWives #SisterWivesSeason21 #KodyBrown #ChristineBrown #JanelleBrown #MeriBrown #Polygamy #GrowingUpInPolygamyIf you or someone you love has left polygamy and needs assistance, please reach out to "Holding Out HELP" at 801-548-3492 or visit their website at www.holdingouthelp.orgAt Growing Up In Polygamy our mission is to "Create compassion for communities that have been misunderstood, marginalized and/or abused by their leaders, and to empower those who have left by giving them a platform to share their stories with the world."If you would like to DONATE to this cause you can do so here: https://donorbox.org/growing-up-in-polygamyInsta: @growingupinpolygamywww.growingupinpolygamy.comTheme Song created by @artcowles Please feel free to reach out to [email protected] Shorts Easily like us with Opus Clips: https://www.opus.pro/?via=SamandMelissa