XO Conversations

In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Sunita Sah — physician and organizational psychologist — to unpack something most of us were never taught: how to speak up when it matters. Together, we explore: • Why we struggle to say no (even when we know we should) • How people-pleasing gets reinforced from childhood • The hidden cost of staying silent • The psychology of defiance — and why it isn’t what you think • The five stages of speaking up • How to find your voice without becoming someone you’re not This conversation isn’t about becoming louder or more confrontational. It’s about integrity and values and standing up for what you feel is right.  I learned a lot from this conversation.  If you’ve ever felt stuck between being kind and being honest… If you’ve ever swallowed your truth to keep others comfortable… This episode is for you.   Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Have you ever noticed how quickly comparison can take over?One minute you’re feeling grounded…The next, you see someone else’s post, promotion, relationship, or life update — and suddenly you’re wondering if you’re behind, off track, or not doing enough.In this episode, we’re talking about the comparison spiral — why it happens, why it feels so personal, and what’s actually going on beneath the surface when someone else’s success makes you doubt your own life.  You’ll learn why comparison isn’t really about them — it’s about the desire, insecurity, or longing that gets activated inside of you. And more importantly, I’ll walk you through five practical tools you can use in the moment to stop spiraling.In this conversation, we explore:- Why comparison can collapse your confidence in seconds- The “happiness gap” comparison creates — and how to shrink it- How curiosity can interrupt self-judgment instantly- A few simple "resets" that restore perspectiveThis episode is for you if:You feel triggered by other people’s success — even when you’re happy for themYou’ve ever thought “I should be further ahead by now”You’re navigating midlife transitions, identity shifts, or changing capacityYou want to stop comparing without pretending it doesn’t hurtYou want to know how to get off the comparison spiral and back to yourself and your dreams. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

When was the last time you truly rested?What happens when you literally can’t do it all anymore? For Jess, it took a broken foot, six weeks off her feet, and a complete pause in her routines to realize how deeply she’d tied her worth to her productivity.In this episode, we explore the emotional reality of “rest guilt” — the belief that you’re only valuable when you’re doing, helping, performing, achieving, or holding everything together. Jess opens up about the meltdown that made her ask, “Who am I if I’m not doing all the things?” and how she's redefining worth, presence, and capacity.We talk about:• Feeling useless or unworthy when you can’t be productive• How to accept help (even when it feels uncomfortable)• Why women often tie value to caretaking, tasks, and saying yes• How Jess learned to rest without shame• The surprising way slowing down made her more productive• Redefining movement, connection, and capacityIf you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or secretly afraid of slowing down, this episode will help you rethink your relationship with rest — and give yourself permission to be human.🎧 Listen if you’re craving:Permission to restFreedom from productivity pressureEmotional resilience and self-compassion YouTube video:  Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Have you ever done all the right things — gone to bed early, canceled plans, rested, even slept well — and still woken up feeling exhausted?This episode is for the kind of tired that sleep doesn’t fix.We’re talking about emotional exhaustion — how it’s different from physical fatigue, why it’s so common right now, and why so many of us keep trying to solve emotional depletion with physical solutions.In this conversation, I walk you through how emotional energy gets quietly drained over time — through “shoulds” you don’t agree with, constant responsibility, being needed by everyone, and pretending you’re okay when you’re not. And more importantly, what it actually takes to move from rest to restoration.You’ll learn:- How to tell if you’re physically tired or emotionally drained- Why emotional exhaustion can look like burnout, numbness, or constant tension- How “shoulds” quietly leak your emotional energy- The difference between rest and true emotional restoration- How boundaries, connection, and purpose help you recharge at a deeper levelThis episode is especially for you if:You feel tired even after a full night’s sleepYou’re capable of doing everything — but don’t want to anymoreYou feel tense when someone needs something from youYou’re a parent, caregiver, professional, entrepreneur, or helperYou’re tired of powering through and want to feel restored againIf rest hasn’t been working for you, it may not be your body that needs the break. It may be your heart. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

When life gives you lemons, what do you do?In this episode of XO Conversations, Dr. Rishma Walji sits down with Rachel Kelly, founder of Make Lemonade, to talk about how she rebuilt her life — and her identity — after closing her dream business during the pandemic.From launching a women’s coworking space to discovering her passion for floristry, Rachel’s journey is a masterclass in creative reinvention and self-trust.Together, they explore:🍋 How to pivot when life doesn’t go as planned💬 Why “failure” is often just redirection🌸 What it means to live a truly creative life🪞 How to separate your identity from your business✨ Why courage often sounds like intuitionIf you’ve ever felt stuck, uncertain, or ready for a change, this conversation will remind you that it’s never too late to make something beautiful out of the unexpected. Watch on YouTube Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

You don’t have to be fearless to be brave.In this episode of XO Conversations, Dr. Rishma Walji sits down with Michelle “Mace” Curran, former U.S. Air Force Thunderbird fighter pilot and author of The Flip Side, to explore how courage really works — in the air and in life.From blacking out mid-flight at nine times the force of gravity to performing in front of millions as one of the few women fighter pilots in the world, Michelle’s story is about more than speed and precision. It’s about what happens after the fear hits — and how to move anyway.Together, they dive into:✈️ What fighter jets taught her about failure and control💭 How to separate self-worth from performance🪞 Why courage isn’t the absence of fear — it’s the pause before reaction🌱 How to build confidence through recovery, not perfection💡 The real meaning of starting before you’re readyWhether you’re standing at the edge of a big decision or simply craving more confidence in everyday life, this conversation will remind you that bravery starts with one small, honest step.🎧 Listen if you’re ready to:Overcome self-doubt and imposter feelingsReframe failure as feedbackBuild courage in uncertaintyLearn from one of the few women fighter pilots in the world Watch on YouTube: Learn more: macecurran.comMore Resources: livingxo.com/resources Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

We spend years chasing success — the titles, the numbers, the validation — only to realize that achievement isn’t the same as fulfillment.In this episode of XO Conversations, Dr. Rishma Walji sits down with Meghan Telpner, bestselling author, entrepreneur, and founder of the Academy of Culinary Nutrition, to talk about what happens when you outgrow the version of success you once worked so hard to build.After leading a multimillion-dollar business with students all over the world, Meghan made a radical choice — to walk away. What came next wasn’t burnout, but a complete redefinition of what it means to live well.Together, we explore:✨ How to know when “enough” is truly enough💬 The emotional toll of achievement and identity🌱 Why rest and creativity are the new measures of success💡 How to reconnect with joy and self-worth after success🪞 What it means to live in alignment instead of autopilotThis isn’t a story about quitting. It’s a story about redefining your goals, and a new kind of success that’s rooted in peace, values, creativity, and purpose. Episode LinksWatch on YouTubeLearn more about MeghanExplore tools for intentional living: livingxo.com/resources Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

So many of us grow up hearing: “Save every penny,” or “Don’t waste money.” But what happens when those kinds of money stories start holding us back?In this heartfelt episode of XO Conversations, Dr. Rishma Walji sits down with Cammie Doder and Sandi Bragar, co-hosts of the Money Tales Podcast, to explore the emotional and practical sides of money. ✨ How childhood money stories shape adult decisions💬 Why our values and beliefs about money often get tangled💡 How to talk about finances with your partner — without tension🌱 How to redefine “enough” in a world that tells us to keep striving🧭 The intersection of identity, purpose, and financial wellbeingThis isn’t a technical finance episode — it’s a deeper look at how our money mindset mirrors our emotional life. Whether you’re redefining success, feeling financially stuck, or simply craving more alignment in how you earn, spend, and give, this conversation will help you reconnect money with meaning. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Somewhere between deadlines, caregiving, and doing all the things… fun got lost. Not just the big, event-style fun — but the kind that makes you forget what time it is, that makes you laugh or relax without needing a reason, that reminds you who you are under all the responsibility.In this episode, I explore the real reasons fun feels so out of reach for so many women — and why adding more of it back into our lives is less about being silly, and more about reconnecting with presence, lightness, and joy.You’ll hear from women who tried a weeklong “fun experiment,” what worked (and what didn’t), and what we discovered about joy that surprised us all.Plus, I’ll walk you through a simple thought process for bringing more lightness into your day — no vacation required.🎧 What we cover:Why fun feels harder the more “grown up” you getThe hidden cost of only being productiveHow to find joy again in small, unplanned momentsThe 5 types of daily fun (yes, even for the serious ones)What “fun” actually means when you’re juggling everythingWhether you’re craving more laughter, more lightness, or just a way to feel like you again — this one’s for you.🖐🏻 Want my free list of 50+ ways to add fun back into your life? Find it here: livingxo.com/havefunAnd if you’re feeling stuck between who you used to be and who you want to become, I offer free coaching calls. Reach out at hello@livingxo.com  Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

If you’ve hit your 40s or 50s and noticed that the workouts you used to do aren’t working anymore, you’re not imagining it.In this episode, I’m joined by triple-board certified nutrition expert, fitness hall of famer, author of 4 New York Times bestselling books, JJ Virgin.  We’re talking about what really happens to your body in your 40s and beyond—especially when it comes to exercise, hormones, and energy. We cover everything from strength training and metabolism to recovery, motivation, and what JJ calls your “metabolic Spanx.” It’s science-backed, practical, and surprisingly encouraging.Whether you’ve been feeling frustrated with your workouts, unsure how to shift your routine, or just want to feel stronger and more grounded in your body—this conversation is for you.This isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what works now. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

You’re dependable. Capable. Always there for others.But under the surface — are you running on empty?In this episode of XO Conversations, Dr. Rishma Walji explores what it really costs to be “the strong one.” You’ll hear about the quiet emotional toll of carrying too much, how overfunctioning leads to cognitive overload, and why selflessness can slowly turn into invisibility.We’ll talk about:✅ Why being capable often leads to being overlooked✅ The mental load and its effects on your creativity and emotional flexibility✅ Subtle signs you’re carrying too much✅ How to redefine strength (and rest without guilt)✅ 2 micro-practices to start feeling like yourself againIf you’ve ever thought “I should be able to handle this,” or “I don’t want to need help,” this episode will speak straight to your heart — and gently remind you: You don’t have to do it all.  And you don't have to do it all alone.📌 This is for the women who’ve been holding it all together for too long — and are ready to be seen and supported again.Listen now and share with a friend who needs this too. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

In this episode, I’m sharing stories that challenge everything we’ve been told about aging. My mom is more vibrant than ever after making a big life change. A woman I admire took up boxing at 50 and shuffle dancing at 58—proving that movement, growth, and reinvention don’t have an age limit. And I’m opening up about my own journey with aging, including what finally shifted my perspective from dreading getting older to embracing what’s possible.If you’ve ever thought “I wish I could, but I’m too old”, this episode will make you think again.Hit play to rethink aging, reinvention, and what’s still ahead for you.  Share this episode with someone who might need to hear it. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Ever set a goal, feel super motivated at first, and then… life happens? You get busy, you get tired, and before you know it, you’re right back where you started. If you’ve ever wondered why change is so hard—or felt frustrated with yourself for falling into the same patterns—this episode is for you.Here’s the thing: willpower isn’t the secret to lasting change. It’s exposure. The more your brain sees something as normal, desirable, and possible, the more it adapts to make that your default. I call this process “flooding,” and it’s a game-changer.In this episode, I’m sharing:✅ How your brain rewires itself based on what you consume✅ Why surrounding yourself with the right influences makes change easier✅ The simple daily shifts that helped me change my mindset, self-talk, and habits✅ What to do when you feel stuck in old thought patternsChange doesn’t happen through force—it happens through immersion. Hit play to learn how to shift your beliefs and habits in a way that actually sticks. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

You’ve heard it before: “Get out of your comfort zone!” But what if that advice isn’t always right? What if sometimes, staying where you are is exactly what you need?The truth is, your comfort zone isn’t your enemy—it’s a tool. Sometimes, it provides healing, security, and clarity. Other times, it traps you in fear and avoidance. The key is knowing when to step out—and when to lean in.In this episode, we explore:✔️ The neuroscience of comfort zones (and why they exist for a reason)✔️ The difference between resting in your comfort zone vs. hiding in it✔️ How small, intentional exploration can help you grow without burnout✔️ Real-life stories of people who learned when to push—and when to stay putIf you’ve ever felt stuck between wanting more and needing stability, this episode will give you the clarity you need.If you enjoyed this episode, you may also enjoy:Boundaries: Saying No in a World That Expects Yes - https://livingxo.com/boundaries/ Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Ever find yourself staring at the ceiling at 3 AM, brain racing, knowing you should be sleeping but somehow can’t? Same. Sleep struggles hit differently when hormones, stress, and life’s mental to-do list start getting in the way. I’ve done all the things—dark room, no screens, evening wind-down routines—but sometimes, it’s not enough.In this episode, I’m breaking down what’s actually helped me sleep better, from the impact of perimenopause to the unexpected mindset shifts that finally made a difference. Whether you’re waking up in the middle of the night, struggling with stress-induced insomnia, or just trying to figure out why sleep feels harder than it used to, this episode is packed with real talk and practical strategies.Because sleep isn’t just about sleep—it’s about hormones, stress, and the way we train our brains. And if you’re feeling exhausted, it’s time for a new approach.  Short Breathing Exercise Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

All I had to do was sign. That’s it. A few seconds, and it would have been done. But I waited—for months. Why? Because procrastination isn’t about being lazy or bad at time management. It’s about emotion. Fear. Anxiety. Overwhelm.If you’ve ever put off something important—whether it’s booking a doctor’s appointment, finishing a project, or having a tough conversation—this episode is for you. We’re breaking down the sneaky ways we procrastinate, the emotions that drive it, and how to finally stop putting off the things that matter.Hit play and let’s talk about why you’re really procrastinating (and how to change it).  Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

In this special episode of XO Conversations, I’m sharing an interview I did on the Talk to Danielle podcast. We explored:The science behind savoring and its role in strengthening relationshipsHow journaling can help you connect with your kids, partner, or even yourselfPractical tips for shifting from stress to gratitude and appreciationWhy the small, intentional moments matter mostWhether you’re a parent, partner, or someone looking to live more intentionally, this conversation will inspire you to approach connection differently.Resources Mentioned:Connected Parent JournalFree Gratitude ChallengeLearn more about my work: Living XOStay Connected:Follow me on Instagram: @livingxoShare Your Thoughts:What’s your favorite way to connect with loved ones? Tag me on social media and let me know! Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Ever sat down to “define your values” and felt completely lost? You’re not alone. Most people look at a list of 50+ values and try to pick their top three, but it's so hard—when everything sounds good, how do you actually know what’s most important?Understanding your values is really about understanding what truly drives you, shapes your decisions, and makes you feel aligned in your life.In this episode, I’m sharing a simple but powerful 4-category framework that helps you uncover the values that are actually yours—not just the ones you think you should have.🚀 What You’ll Learn:✅ Why picking values from a list doesn’t actually help you✅ The key difference between values and beliefs—and why it matters✅ How to identify coping strategies that might be holding you back✅ The 4 categories that will give you total clarity on what actually matters💡 One Question for You: If you could only live by one core value for the next year, what would it be? DM me on Instagram @livingxo or share your thoughts in the comments!🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:Related Episode: Title HereFree Download: Values Clarity WorksheetJoin My Email List for Weekly Insights📩 Loved this episode? Share it with a friend & leave a review—it helps more people find the show! Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

In this episode of XO Conversations, I sit down with Hanifa, a retired naturopathic doctor and grief recovery guide, to unpack the complexities of grief and loss. Together, we redefine grief beyond its traditional understanding—it's not just about losing someone but also encompasses life transitions, conflicting emotions, and unacknowledged experiences. Hanifa shares her unique approach to grief recovery, offering tools, actionable steps, and insights on how to process emotions and move forward. If you've ever struggled with loss, emotional overwhelm, or simply naming your feelings, this conversation is for you.Topics include:Why you might still feel “stuck” years after a loss or major changeTools to process grief and move forward with clarityMyths about grief, including "time heals all wounds"How unprocessed grief impacts your emotional and physical healthConnect with Hanifa here Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

Life doesn’t always follow the plan. Especially in parenting.In this raw and heartfelt conversation, Diana shares her journey of raising children after receiving a medical diagnosis. From the emotional highs and lows to practical strategies for balance, this episode is full of lessons on emotional regulation, empathy, and building resilience for yourself and your kids.Whether you’re a parent, a caregiver, or someone seeking inspiration in the face of adversity, this episode will remind you that challenges can lead to powerful growth and deeper connection.This isn’t just a story about parenting—it’s about finding strength, love, and understanding in the unexpected. Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!