Candid Divorce Lawyer

In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, founder of Mum about Town, Daisy Harris-Reid, joins Kimberley Davies to share her experience of divorce, being a solo parent and how the separation has been a catalyst for her new career and helped her to rediscover herself and find joy.Daisy talks about:- Her 11-year marriage, the early age at which she married, and how she and her ex-husband changed over time, leading to their divorce- How her divorce was amicable but the years following were emotionally turbulent. She found comfort in writing her book to help others going through similar experiences- How counselling helped her process her emotions independently of her friends and family- The financial impact of her divorce, including the need to become the breadwinner and manage her finances more carefully- Her challenges of co-parenting and how she initially struggled with her son spending time with his father- How she tries to enjoy the process of dating again and not putting too much pressure on finding a new partnerFollow Daisy on Instagram: @mum_abouttownPurchase Daisy's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/about-Towns-Separation-Survival-Guide/dp/0957020961Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon MusicLeave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcastFollow us on:Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyerTikTok: @candiddivorcelawyerWebsite: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com

In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Kimberley Davies is joined by Family Solicitor Kate Lewis to explore important financial matters following a separation. They cover topics such as financial disclosure, legal entitlements, interim financial arrangements, and the value of seeking early legal and financial guidance.Kate addresses:- What are the first financial steps to take after a separation, and why is full financial disclosure so important?- How should interim financial arrangements for bills, mortgages, and shared accounts be handled during separation?- What legal protections exist for joint bank accounts, credit cards, and occupation of the family home?- Can one partner be forced to leave the family home, and what are the legal challenges involved?- How are assets and debts divided fairly when there is no legal agreement in place?In this episode: 00:00 Introduction to Family Solicitor Kate Lewis02:59 Handling bills and mortgages during separation05:01 Safeguarding joint accounts and credit card debts06:51 Understanding your rights to occupy the family home10:06 Fairly dividing assets and debts after separation13:10 Navigating finances and emotions post-separation16:59 Crucial steps: avoiding pitfalls and getting early legal guidanceLoved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast or please share with someone contemplating separation or divorce Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com

In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Barrister Helen Brander joins host Kimberley Davies to explore the changing landscape of divorce and dispute resolution, highlighting a move away from traditional court proceedings toward alternative dispute resolution (ADR)methods such as mediation, early neutral evaluation and arbitration, which all offer several advantages.Helen outlines:🎙️- How legally enforceable are agreements reached through alternative dispute resolution (ADR) methods like mediation or arbitration? - What are the main cost and time advantages of ADR compared to traditional court litigation in divorce cases? - What is alternative dispute resolution (ADR),and what different methods are available for resolving family disputes? - How does the emotional and financial impact of litigation compare to ADR in divorce proceedings? - Why is early legal advice and financial disclosure important in achieving fair outcomes through ADR?For more information about Helen, visit her profile: https://www.pumpcourtchambers.com/barrister/helen-brander/For more information about non-court dispute resolution methods, click here: https://www.trethowans.com/services/individual/family-law-solicitors/non-court-dispute-resolution-methods/Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon MusicLeave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcastFollow us on:Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyerTikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer

In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, host Kimberley Davies and Family Partner & Solicitor Grant Cameron provide a clear, step-by-step guide to the UK divorce process, including legal, emotional, and financial considerations.Grant covers:🎙️- When is the right time to seek legal advice during a separation or divorce- What does the divorce process actually involve, and do you need to go to court- How has the no-fault divorce law changed the experience for separating couples- What support—legal, emotional, and financial—should you consider during a divorce- Are financial and child arrangements automatically handled in a divorce- What should you look for when choosing the right solicitor for your situationIn this episode:✨ 00:00 Meet Grant Cameron and his journey in family law1:47 The importance of early legal advice in divorce3:11 Understanding the one couple, one lawyer model5:50 Beyond paperwork: a solicitor's role7:49 The three pillars of divorce client support9:53 Finding the right family lawyer for you12:05 Navigating the UK's no-fault divorce process15:20 Understanding the divorce timeline17:21 Financial, child arrangements and avoiding court20:35 Essential advice and resources for starting divorce proceedings22:11 Wrapping up and what's next on the podcastFor more information about Trethowans' family law services visit: www.trethowans.comLoved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5⭐ review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer

In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, Divorce Coach and Relationship & Psychosexual Therapist Elinor Harvey talks to host Kimberley Davies about one of the toughest conversations you can have: telling your partner you want a divorce. Elinor explains:How you can be both firm and kind when delivering the difficult newsWhat steps can help you emotionally prepare for the conversationAre you ready for a range of reactions - fight, flight, freeze or fawn?How might you feel after the conversation and are you prepared for thatWhat's the best way to talk to your children about divorce while reassuring them its not their faultIn this episode: 00:00 Introducing Elinor Harvey 3:43 The benefits of independent divorce coaching6:43 Combining legal and therapeutic services 9:29 How to prepare for the difficult divorce conversation15:28 Navigating threat responses21:12 De-escalating anger and processing post-divorce feelings30:49 Discussing divorce with childrenFor more information about Elinor and her relationship therapy services, visit Elinor's:Website: www.relationshiptherapypractice.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/that.relationship.therapist/LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/elinor-harvey-b71692198/Loved this episode? Subscribe on Spotify, Apple or Amazon Music Leave a 5 star review – it helps more people benefit from this podcast Follow us on: Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer TikTok: @candiddivorcelawyer Website: www.candiddivorcelawyer.com

In this episode of The Candid Divorce Lawyer, host Kimberley Davies speaks with family therapist Sarah Cole about the emotional and practical challenges of deciding whether to separate or divorce. They explore how to tell the difference between a rough patch and a deeper disconnection, and the emotional toll this decision can take.Sarah explains:How family therapy supports communication and decision-making within couples and familiesThe emotional impact of unresolved conflict on childrenWhat keeps couples in unhappy relationshipsWhy “pretending everything’s fine” can be more damaging than changeTrusting your instincts, seeking support, and consider that even one therapy session can bring clarity.For more information about Sarah and her therapeutic services, visit her website: www.thefamilyconflictclinic.co.uk

This latest episode dives into a question that's as shocking as it is thought-provoking: "Can I kill my spouse? Asking for a friend."

In this episode, Kimberley talks to Adam Scott, a specialist private client solicitor in relation to wills, estate planning and all the other related matters you need to think about when going through a separation.  This is a really useful episode to highlight some of the things that can be overlooked when facing a relationship breakdown.

Kim and Laura explain what to expect from your initial individual mediation appointment – known as a MIAM (a Mediation, Information and Assessment Meeting). This is a helpful episode to help you prepare for your appointment, and find out more about how the mediation process works.  The information in this podcast does not constitute legal advice and is for informational purposes only. Brought to you by Trethowans: www.trethowans.com Email: candiddivorcelawyer@trethowans.com Instagram: @candiddivorcelawyer

Andrew and Grant consider the much loved family pet and what you may want to consider if your relationship ends, such as who gets the dog, who is going to pay the vet’s bill and who has “walkie” rights.

Kimberley and Grant look at how mediation works when relationships end and there are changes in the family unit. Emotions run high when a couple are facing a divorce and talking face to face can be really difficult. Sometimes the couple need help to get discussions going on matters arising from their separation and to focus on what really matters which is where mediations comes in.

Emma and Laura for Good Divorce Week focus on how arbitration can be used in family cases and when and why you would consider a private FDR. 

Amy and Helen explore for Good Divorce Week how Solicitor negotiation can assist in family cases and an explanation of ‘round table meetings’ and when they can be used to assist with the negotiation process. 

Emma and Andrew explain all about the collaborative process to help you assess whether it is the right approach for you and your family. 

Over the next five days we shall be supporting Resolution, Good Divorce Week 2022 - Ending the Family Court Crisis Grant and Kimberley explore what a good divorce means and how Resolution, the national family law organisation, looks at constructive and creative approaches to help couples going through a breakdown of their relationship. Separation is a difficult time and having the right professional advice and support can make all the difference. 

Kimberley and Rosie follow on from their last episode by looking at new roles as co-parents following the breakdown of a relationship.

On  World Menopause Day Helen Clarkson and special guest Imogen Robins talk about how family law can become menopause friendly.

Kimberley and Rosie look at the things you need to think about in the immediate aftermath of a relationship breakdown; exploring the emotional side of relationship breakdown and the support network you may need.

Grant Cameron and Andrew Mercer explore the desirability and reasons for entering into a nuptial agreement and the tests that need to be followed for it to be persuasive before a Court, should the need arise.

Kimberley and Rosie chat about the questions they are frequently asked by parents when separating!