Tailbone Talks

Sinsia (they/she) is a somatic sex coach who supports (mostly) queer people in creating the sex life of their choice. They specialize in shifting the focus from analyzing to feeling, helping clients to integrate mind and body. Sinsia worked as an escort for over six years before starting her coaching practice, an experience that informs and enriches their current work. She identifies as a queer, polyamorous, and kinky gender explorer.

This episode, Roni and André interview partners Legien and Stijn on their work and the unique journey that got them to where they are now.Legien and Stijn use various modalities to break down shame and silence around sexual violence and make it a discussion topic. Sparked by Legien’s personal experience with sexual violence and its impact on their relationship, they co-founded the project ‘Samen Helen’ to give people tools when a friend or a family member experienced sexual violence. Independently, Legien is a MeToo coach, coaching people who experience sexual violence as well as their beloved. Legien is also part of Amnesty International’s action group on sexual violence. Stijn runs Real Comics, bringing together impactful storytelling with graphic illustrations to make accessible important topics such as identity, health, domestic abuse, and more. Links:https://samen-helen.nl/ http://legien.nl/https://realcomics.nl/ @legien.metoo.coach

Andre and Jill (aka Dr. Bitchcraft) take over Tailbone Talks and bring mayhem to the studio with a conversation on monkeypox, STIs, and other topics.Links:www.instagram.com/dr.bitchcraft_The void podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1xUL47SRDJelBfVJm8sH3bStrange Bedfellows (book) https://tailboneshop.com/collections/books/products/strange-bedfellows-adventures-in-the-science-history-and-surprising-secrets-of-stds

Arati (she/her) is a curious and exploring, radically inclusive, crone mother of two. She is a Somatic Sexological Coach & Trainer working with people to help them overcome shame and taboo, and discover their own flavour and essence to become free.Links:https://seksueelontdekkingswerk.nl/@aratitouch

Kicking off this season of Tailbone Talks we have returning guest, Jamie Butin (she/her). Jamie is a sex worker and sex workers’ rights activist. She is involved in SAVE, Sex Workers Against Violence and Exploitation, a sex worker-led organization based in the Netherlands, and works part time for ESWA, the European Sex Workers’ Rights Alliance based in Brussels where she advocates for a better access to health for sex workers. Involved in several collectives working on changing prn narratives, Jamie also performs, directs and produces her own films. She believes sex workers make the world a better and safer place to live in. Links:@jamie_butine@redinsightmediahttps://redinsight.org/

Rejoice, sex-tech lovers! In this episode, we have a special guest, Alex, all the way from Toronto, Canada. Alex is the co-founder of Open Arousal/Kinky Makers, a group dedicated to making sex-tech more approachable through education and idea-sharing. We talk to Alex about what it means to measure sex through digital and physical interfaces, and how sex tech can address the relational aspects of our adult playtimes. Links: @OpenArousal on Twitter and YouTube @ResearchDesire on Twitter https://shop.researchanddesire.com/ (https://shop.researchanddesire.com/)

In this episode, we talk to pole dancing philosopher Jill about being heterosexual and hating it, how to be a pillow queen at a play party, age gaps in relationships, and getting into BDSM. We have a blast with this incredible Pisces femme. Jill is the editor-in-chief of Klauw Magazine.  Links:@dr.bitchcraft_ https://klauwcollective.nl/

This week’s episode is double the fun with guests Jamie Butine and Rock the Drag King. We talk about attachment styles in open relationships, gender transitions, sex work during corona, and making DIY queer porn in forests. Jamie Butine is a sex worker, adult performer, and sex worker activist living in Brussels. Rock is the founder of Wondertrash productions in Amsterdam.  Note, there was some technical chaos in the studio with this episode, but bear with the variable sound quality because we at Radio WORM think this conversation is totally worth it! Links: @jamie_butine @rockdedragking @redinsightmedia https://redinsight.org/ @wondertrash.ams @houseoflostbois @prn_prject

What does being queer mean to you? This is the question that Ali Lucchinelli (they/them) asked their fellow Rotterdam queers as part of their photography and audiovisual archival project, Chosen Family, exhibited at Klauw Studio (curated by Jadmijn Linden, shot in collaboration with Anouk). We talk to Ali about growing up in a patriarchal culture in rural Italy, coming out as queer, and the power and fallbacks of visual representations. Ali is a visual artist who recently graduated from Willem de Kooning Academy.  Links:Instagram @ali_isnone Instagram @jasmijnlinden Instagram @anouk.ag Instagram @klauwcollective https://klauwcollective.nl/ (https://klauwcollective.nl/) http://bit.ly/Chosen_Family_Business (http://bit.ly/Chosen_Family_Business) First broadcast 10 July 2021

In the premiere episode of Tailbone Talks Roni interviews Lieuwe Zelle, a performance artist, pioneer of digital art, and the founder of Radio WORM 2.0 at WORM, Rotterdam. We talk about kink and BDSM, body image, erotic photography, religion, transgender issues, Queerness, and generally have a wonderful time.  Links: Lieuwe Zelle’s video work: https://vimeo.com/user62587795 Interview with Lieuwe: https://worm.org/2021/01/21/interview-worm-talks-to-lieuwe-zelle/ First broadcast 03 July 2021