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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.
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Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations
In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most!
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show
00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark
00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics
01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons
04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives
08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections
26:01 Learning Through Experiences
26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility
26:45 Navigating New Experiences
28:28 Conversations About Relationships
29:24 Blended Families and Parenting
29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline
41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy
46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood
51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner
In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below.
00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes
00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood
02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz
04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You?
05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family
21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy
27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots
27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture
28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel
31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth
36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics
41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth
42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps
47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development
53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken Desires
Welcome to the Dead Son Show, where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts De John and Jay Black delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show!
00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show
00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement
01:50 Excitement and Reflections
02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes
05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices
08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics
12:16 Balancing Self and Family
16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment
22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations
23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling
23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability
25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities
28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams
35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment
44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments
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Navigating Parenthood with Love and Discipline
In this engaging episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns share exciting news about their first-ever live show scheduled for January 18th, 2026 in Mansfield, Texas. They discuss the importance of meaningful conversations for young boys and men, reflecting on lessons learned and sharing fatherhood experiences. Key topics include setting boundaries, expressing love while addressing wrongdoings, and preparing children for adulthood. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they delve into personal anecdotes, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics and the significance of clear communication.
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:42 Exciting Announcement: First Live Show
02:10 Reflecting on Past Events and Relationships
04:27 Parenting Challenges and Responsibilities
08:01 Managing Expectations and Responsibilities
12:48 Addressing Family Dynamics and Communication
23:41 Facing Rejection and Adjusting Expectations
24:38 Learning Self-Reliance from a Young Age
25:15 The Impact of Over-Nurturing on Independence
26:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships
28:56 The Consequences of Leading with Money
30:46 The Importance of Communication and Sharing Perspectives
32:26 Navigating Life's Challenges Together
41:21 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Plans
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part resonated with you the most in the comments section!
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show
00:17 Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation
01:23 Childhood Reflections and Family Background
03:14 Navigating Adolescence and Parental Relationships
05:31 High School Challenges and Relocation to Texas
10:39 Understanding Parental Struggles and Personal Growth
14:33 Transition to Adulthood and Early Fatherhood
20:04 Parenting Challenges and Personal Reflections
31:26 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Identity
31:55 Facing Emotional Vulnerability
33:02 The Pressure of Performance
34:28 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Sacrifices
36:14 Rebuilding Relationships and Self-Discovery
39:24 Co-Parenting and Acceptance
41:58 Generational Reflections and Parenting Wisdom
57:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most!
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:44 Holiday Season Excitement
01:05 NAACP Event Recap
01:30 Community Engagement
03:06 Support and Viral Success
04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun
04:50 Navigating Life's Storms
10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges
11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments
22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations
25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story
26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines
28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support
30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms
33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times
34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships
38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems
41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity
44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes
51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a raw and meaningful conversation designed to help young men and boys understand the lessons they wish they'd known earlier in life. They open with reflections on holiday experiences and the importance of managing expectations and stress. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into the concept of 'labels'—how we define ourselves and the impact of societal and self-imposed labels on our well-being. The hosts also explore how parents can better support their children's true passions and talents rather than imposing career labels that may not fit. Furthermore, the episode addresses the significance of maintaining core values through life transitions, and offers thoughtful advice on navigating relationships and friendships. Don't miss the insights packed into this episode. Make sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe to 'The Dear Son, Show' for more inspiring discussions.
00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show
00:31 Holiday Reflections and Lessons Learned
02:36 Football Talk: Celebrating Wins and Rivalries
03:21 Promoting the Book and Special Offers
05:03 The Importance of Labels and Identity
08:57 Parenting: Balancing Labels and Passions
17:03 Encouraging Children's Interests and Outlets
21:57 The Role of Labels in Self-Worth and Identity
22:59 Navigating Life Transitions
23:45 The Importance of Core Values
25:11 Embracing New Chapters
26:05 Reflecting on Personal Growth
29:03 The Pressure of Expectations
31:42 The Role of Support Systems
33:19 Managing Emotional Reactions
37:08 The Value of Communication
44:51 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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In this heartfelt episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the empowering theme: 'My Ceiling Is Your Floor.' Highlighting the importance of setting up future generations for success, the hosts explore how fathers can use their own experiences, both good and bad, to be a springboard for their children's achievements. Covering meaningful topics such as handling emotions, the impact of words, and the critical role of adaptability in today's ever-changing world, this conversation is both enlightening and motivational. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how to shape the future for our sons and daughters through thoughtful guidance and intentional parenting. Don't miss out—join the conversation and be sure to like, share, and subscribe to our channel!
00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show
00:17 Hosts' Banter and Water Intake Challenge
01:40 Today's Topic: Dear Son, My Ceiling is Your Floor
03:01 Fatherhood Reflections and Advice
06:18 Emotional Regulation and Communication
17:02 Adapting to Change and Technology
21:09 Projecting Fears and Playing Small
22:34 The Power of Words and Fear Projection
23:02 Avoiding Negative Predictions
23:26 Encouraging Risk-Taking and Growth
24:21 Personal Experiences and Lessons
26:16 Teaching Resilience and Adaptability
26:58 Fostering Creativity and Ownership
34:42 Sibling Competition and Development
37:39 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness
39:34 Parenting Reflections and Future Hopes
43:11 Cherishing Moments and Living with Children
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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“Better Man. Better Father.”
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Welcome to the Dear Son Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into real-life, meaningful conversations designed to help young boys and men learn the lessons they wish they had known earlier. In this powerful episode, the duo discusses the essence of 'seeing it through,' the importance of internal motivation, and the challenges faced by young Black boys struggling with anxiety and depression. They also touch upon personal anecdotes about fatherhood, resilience, and the impact of maintaining open and loving communication with their families. Join us for a candid and eye-opening dialogue that can change lives. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay engaged with our empowering content!
00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter
00:26 Health and Wellness Journey
01:48 Fraternity Life and Personal Growth
05:42 Seeing It Through: The Importance of Perseverance
06:45 Parenting and Personal Accountability
12:37 Community and Relationships
17:47 Motivations and Adjustments
24:29 The Burden of Being Wrong
25:09 Personal Growth and Humility
26:01 Parenting Challenges and Mistakes
29:19 Finding Your 'Why'
35:47 Supporting Young Black Boys
39:53 Encouraging Open Communication
51:13 The Importance of Internal Motivation
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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There's plenty of conversations that explore the "pitfalls" of marriage and parenthood, often leaving the audience with a negative perspective of both. Some of the clips from this show explore those challenges, and don't provide full context of our personal experiences. Yes, marriage and parenthood require work (plenty of work). Also, we've found the process to be fulfilling and the net assessment is that it's still worth it.
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Follow Jermaine: https://Instagram.com/jermainelnelson https://damagedbutdelivered.com#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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What do you do when your son steps to you like a man? In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, things get real. A father faces a moment every parent hopes to avoid — his son challenging his authority. What starts as tension turns into a powerful conversation about respect, maturity, and what it really means to grow into manhood.
And just when it feels like things are cooling down, the conversation takes another turn. The son asks for advice about dating a young woman who already has a child. The father’s response? Honest. Unfiltered. And full of wisdom that comes from experience.
This one isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present. It’s about listening, learning, and leading with love.
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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive into deeply impactful conversations aimed at helping boys, young men, and adult men learn valuable life lessons. Through personal anecdotes and real-life scenarios, the hosts discuss the importance of not taking things personally and how it can affect different areas of life, from personal relationships to professional settings. They also delve into the dynamics of parenting with grace and the significance of leading with curiosity, both in the corporate world and at home. Tune in for insightful dialogue that encourages self-reflection and proactive change. Don't miss out—like, share, and subscribe for more compelling episodes!
00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Sun Show
00:00:18 Catching Up: Birthdays and School Updates
00:00:53 Discussing the Cowboys and Gremlin Losses
00:02:55 The Importance of Taking Things Personally
00:09:06 Corporate Lessons: Firing vs. Resignation
00:20:24 Leadership and Parenting: Balancing Friendliness and Authority
00:24:58 Leading Curiously: Asking 'Why' for Better Outcomes
00:29:20 Listening to Your Child
00:29:54 Adjustments vs. Compromises
00:30:34 Setting Expectations in Parenting
00:33:42 Communicating in Relationships
00:45:51 The Importance of Participation
00:52:17 Grace and Understanding
00:56:37 Closing Thoughts and Announcements
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Welcome to another insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, where hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive deeply into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. In this episode, they touch on three main topics: the importance of respecting time and its implications, the challenges of parenting through gray areas and difficult scenarios, and the significance of not placing a price on one's integrity. The episode promises a blend of humor, critical thinking, and raw authenticity, providing valuable insights for fathers and sons navigating their own paths. Make sure to like, share, and subscribe to the channel to join us on this journey!
00:00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show
00:00:18 Hosts' Personal Anecdotes and Gratitude
00:01:01 Engaging with Audience Comments
00:02:14 Promotions and Announcements
00:05:04 Cultural Perspectives on Time Management
00:06:24 Mindset and Perception in Personal Development
00:07:50 Parenting and Job Interview Experiences
00:13:22 Leadership Styles and Effectiveness
00:23:55 Understanding the Impact of Parenting Styles
00:24:54 Adapting Leadership and Management Approaches
00:26:36 The Unique Nature of Each Child
00:28:13 The Importance of Data in Decision Making
00:28:47 Encouraging Open Conversations
00:31:20 Core Values and Personal Beliefs
00:35:07 The Dangers of Valuing Money Over Integrity
00:39:03 Legality vs. Morality
00:51:07 Parenting Through the Gray Areas
00:51:38 Football Season and Closing Remarks
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In this milestone episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns dive deep into the pressing issues faced by parents today. They explore the intricacies of family dynamics, touching on the importance of communication with children and the struggles of balancing structure and empathy. The episode delves into real-life scenarios, including handling children's schedules, the impact of modern technology on parenting, and the importance of understanding and meeting your children's needs. This engaging conversation is a must-watch for parents seeking to strengthen their relationships with their children and improve their parenting strategies. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated on future episodes!
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:17 Show Kickoff and Announcements
00:54 Book Promotions and Giveaways
02:55 Daily Life and Parenting Challenges
09:57 Football Season and Rivalries
14:52 Reflections on the Show's Impact
22:07 Parenting in the Digital Age
26:31 The Beauty of Awareness
27:00 School Phone Policies
28:47 Emergency Situations and School Safety
29:56 Parenting Challenges and Reflections
31:46 Balancing Discipline and Empathy
37:32 The Importance of Communication
50:09 Compromises and Time Management
57:28 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections
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In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac engage in meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They cover topics that resonate with fathers, those with fathers, and the fatherless. Key highlights include Jey Blac discussing his excitement about becoming a senior in college and the challenges that come with it, D Johns sharing his son's experiences balancing school and a budding career in the electrical trade, and an insightful discussion on how not every planted seed grows but how persistence and good nurturing can yield unexpected results. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about balancing multiple responsibilities and the importance of dedication in every aspect of life. Don't miss this engaging discussion and make sure to subscribe to our channel for more heartfelt conversations and life lessons!
00:00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show
00:00:26 Celebrating Milestones and Achievements
00:01:43 Back to School and Family Updates
00:03:30 The Challenges of Parenting and Education
00:04:53 Not Every Planted Seed Grows
00:07:40 College Life and New Beginnings
00:12:07 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility
00:21:34 Gardening and Life Lessons
00:25:07 The Heat in Dallas and Plant Care
00:25:44 Germination Period and Patience
00:26:13 The Importance of Proper Plant Placement
00:26:54 Sharing Resources and Soil Management
00:27:48 Nurturing Plants and Recognizing Efforts
00:28:45 Marriage and Relationships Insights
00:32:00 Balancing Busy Schedules and Priorities
00:34:51 Strategic Planting and Crop Rotation
00:35:37 Teaching Life Skills and Observations
00:41:10 Career Advice and Personal Growth
00:49:17 Promoting Books and Final Thoughts
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In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into the importance of self-reflection and accountability. They discuss how understanding one's strengths and weaknesses can lead to personal growth, and they stress the significance of not falling in love with one's initial ideas or external perceptions. They also explore the challenges of maintaining meaningful relationships amidst busy lives and highlight the role of honest communication in strengthening these bonds. Finally, they examine the role of AI and modern technology in today's workforce, emphasizing the importance of using these tools to enhance rather than replace human skills. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to help young men and boys realize the value of introspection and meaningful connections. Remember to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes.
00:00:00 Introduction to the Dishon Show
00:00:13 New Beginnings and Reflections
00:01:57 Today's Topic: Watch That Mirror
00:03:06 Accountability and Self-Reflection
00:06:38 Generational Shifts and AI
00:13:12 The Importance of Networking
00:21:37 Relationships and Lifelong Friendships
00:30:07 Parental Involvement and Dual Parent Households
00:31:17 Encouraging Fathers to Engage More
00:31:54 Self-Love and Its Pitfalls
00:32:43 Constructive Criticism and Personal Growth
00:34:46 The Importance of Being Receptive
00:36:30 Balancing Personal and Professional Life
00:42:21 Maintaining Relationships Amidst a Busy Schedule
00:46:09 Reflecting on Personal Accountability
00:53:46 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements
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In this episode of The Dead Son Show, join hosts D Johns and Jay Black as they delve into meaningful conversations about the journey of fatherhood and the importance of leaving a lasting legacy for future generations. From discussing the challenges of balancing work and family life to ensuring children understand the value of resilience and progress, no topic is off-limits. Key highlights include the importance of being a dependable source of guidance for your children, the value of teaching entrepreneurial skills and financial literacy, and the necessity of holding children accountable to their dreams to foster their independence and success. Subscribe to our channel and join the dialogue on effective parenting and family building!
00:00:00 Welcome to The Dead Son Show
00:00:16 Hosts Introductions and Personal Updates
00:01:00 Life Lessons and Parenting Reflections
00:03:06 Dear Son, Don't Let Me Be Your Ceiling
00:04:37 The Scooter Debate and Generational Perspectives
00:10:50 Financial Wisdom and Family Conversations
00:15:53 Teaching Financial Literacy to the Next Generation
00:20:05 The Value of Conversations and Learning from Elders
00:28:54 Struggles of Growing Up with Financial Hardships
00:30:29 Navigating High School and Future Uncertainties
00:32:06 Military as a Pathway to Education
00:33:32 Parenting Challenges and Overcoming Adversity
00:36:17 Encouraging Children's Dreams and Aspirations
00:47:56 Reflections on Personal Growth and Music
00:53:27 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
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In this insightful episode of The Dear Son, Show, Jey Blac and D Johns delve into meaningful conversations aimed at guiding young boys and men. They explore the balance between traditional values and modern practices, discussing the impact of old advice on new generations. Key topics include the significance of teaching wisdom rather than just steps, the complex dynamics of caring for aging parents, and the importance of letting the new generation find their own path. Tune in for a deep dive into parenting, societal expectations, and the evolving nature of roles within the family. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sound Show
00:24 Podcasting Journey and Influences
01:12 Summer Plans and Family Life
02:07 Grocery Shopping Habits
03:24 Today's Topic: Keep Your Old Paint Off My New Canvas
06:11 Parenting Styles and Micromanagement
09:49 Teaching Wisdom Over Steps
16:24 Marriage Dynamics and Generational Differences
20:01 Explaining the Why to Children
24:16 Encouraging Independence in Children
25:27 Reflecting on Parenting and Sibling Dynamics
25:57 Observing and Encouraging Children's Creativity
29:05 The Role of Children in Caring for Aging Parents
31:29 Balancing Tradition and Modern Responsibilities
33:24 Navigating Family Dynamics and Caregiving
40:40 Generational Differences and Adaptation
49:08 Concluding Thoughts and Family Reflections
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