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This is a safe space to build upon and reinforce the values of fatherhood. We'll explore the gaps between the current generation of fathers and fathers of generations past, and mature the dialogue that will close those gaps for the generations to come. Whether your passion is to be a great father or peel back the layers of why your father wasn't present in your life (physically and/or emotionally), this is for you. Let's grow through it.
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The Dear Son, Show: Navigating Life, Health, and Success
Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in meaningful conversations aimed at helping young men navigate life's challenges. They discuss a mix of personal experiences, including health scares, and the emotional complexity that follows. This episode dives into themes of humility and arrogance, practical advice on parenting, maintaining a balance between guidance and independence, and the business acumen required for long-term success. They also share excitement for their upcoming live event on February 24th, 2026. Tune in for valuable life lessons coupled with candid reflections.
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:24 A Day of Mixed Emotions
01:15 Health Scares and Wake-Up Calls
02:35 Upcoming Live Event
04:25 The Importance of Humility
07:54 Teaching Sons About Relationships
13:07 Balancing Advice and Experience
25:55 The Dangers of Removing Safety Nets
26:55 Balancing Arrogance and Confidence
27:54 Building a Business: Timing and Preparation
29:19 Educating Youth on Business Realities
33:37 The Importance of Accountability and Self-Awareness
35:14 Lessons from Personal Experiences
41:58 Navigating Fatherhood and Family Dynamics
48:24 Concluding Thoughts and Announcements
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Better Together - Episode 2 | Exploring Growth, Challenges, and Purpose
In this engaging episode of Better Together, our hosts dive deep into their personal and professional journeys. They discuss their thoughts and experiences on collaboration, the importance of purpose, handling adversity, and navigating new spaces. From entrepreneurial challenges to maintaining relationships, this episode encapsulates the essence of growing and thriving together. Join us for insightful conversations, practical advice, and a celebration of unity and individual contributions. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to our channel and leave a comment on your favorite part of the episode!
00:00 Introduction and Initial Setup
00:25 Discussing Shooting Schedules
00:56 Momentum and New Beginnings
02:09 The Importance of Activity and Engagement
03:03 Navigating Transitions and Challenges
06:43 Personal Growth and Maturity
12:42 Balancing Relationships and Responsibilities
15:53 Communication and Partnership
28:11 Asking for Help and Collaboration
31:03 Overcoming the Victim Mentality
31:15 The Power of Reaching Out
33:17 Assessing Capacity in Entrepreneurship
36:14 Delegation and Team Building
41:22 Balancing Joy and Growth
43:44 Staying Aligned with Purpose
47:39 Navigating Life's Forks in the Road
54:01 The Importance of Being Present
56:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Trust The Process: Growth, Family, and the Dear Son Show's Journey
Welcome to The Dear Son, Show! In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jeyblac dive deep into meaningful conversations concerning life, growth, and fatherhood. They discuss the inspirational journey of the show, the importance of trusting the process, and the significant transitions happening in their personal lives. The hosts also touch on the balance between professional and personal commitments, and share insights on creating a nurturing environment at home. Join them as they reflect on the show's beginnings, their experiences from their recent live show, and their excitement for the future. Don't miss this engaging discussion and remember to like, share, and subscribe!
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show
00:30 Studio Updates and Personal Reflections
03:23 Trust the Process
04:17 Live Show Success and Audience Engagement
11:47 The Importance of Diverse Perspectives
15:33 Building a Network and Expanding the Platform
20:19 Engaging with the Audience
21:18 Meaningful Conversations and Personal Connections
21:59 Parenting and Community Influence
22:50 Inclusivity in the Dear Son Network
25:54 Consistency and Growth in Podcasting
35:27 Trusting the Process in Personal and Professional Life
45:48 Excitement for Future Live Shows
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships
On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:13 First Live Show Excitement
01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome
02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions
07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons
10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences
21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love
26:07 Lessons from My Marriage
27:11 The Importance of Communication
28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships
32:21 The Role of Accountability
35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections
37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards
48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Mastering Emotional Intelligence in Fatherhood with Jason Schnitzer | The Dear Son, Show
Join us for a profound episode of 'The Dear Son, Show' as host D Johns engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Jason Schnitzer. You’ll explore the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and how previous life experiences shape who we become as men and fathers. Jason shares his own journey from aspiring Major League Baseball player to emotional intelligence coach, offering invaluable insights on regulating emotions, effective communication, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're a father, soon-to-be father, or simply interested in self-growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Don’t miss it! Remember to subscribe and share your favorite part in the comments below.
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show
00:17 Guest Introduction: Jason Schnitzer
01:28 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
04:40 Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences
07:56 Marriage and Personal Growth
22:12 Coaching and Self-Reflection
30:35 Reflecting on Near-Death Experiences and Fear
31:09 Parenting Challenges and Passing on Wisdom
31:53 The Impact of Social Dynamics and Shame
33:38 Navigating Fear and Emotional Suppression
35:49 The Struggle with Failure and Identity
38:05 Overcoming Past Failures and Embracing New Challenges
39:39 The Journey from Baseball to Personal Growth
46:25 Helping Others Navigate Emotional Challenges
54:09 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Dear Son: Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself - Meaningful Conversations for Men
On this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a dynamic and heartfelt discussion on the theme 'Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself.' They delve into personal and family life, sharing how they balance personal growth with maintaining their true selves. The episode covers a broad range of topics including the importance of physical and mental health, navigating relationships, parenting strategies, and maintaining individuality in the face of societal and personal pressures. With an emphasis on real-life experiences and personal accountability, this conversation is designed to inspire and provide practical advice to both men and women on their individual journeys. Tune in for an engaging, humorous, and insightful episode.
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:32 Catching Up on Life
01:17 School and Future Plans
02:34 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Don't Lose Yourself
03:14 Personal Reflections and Podcast Journey
07:08 The Importance of Seeking Help
13:18 Parenting Challenges and Approaches
20:57 Teaching Life Lessons to Young Men
26:13 A Father's Awareness and Involvement
27:23 Balancing Work and Family Life
28:13 The Importance of Being Present
30:21 Navigating Relationships and Expectations
32:25 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth
37:34 The Impact of Change on Identity
42:48 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans
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Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, Show
In this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships.
00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show
00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates
00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections
03:26 Live Show Announcements
04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did
06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons
11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men
16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons
20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times
21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom
22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth
27:37 Communication and Responsibility
40:57 Aligning Actions with Words
45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Seeds of Growth: Building Bonds, Overcoming Challenges, and Embracing Obedience
In this heartfelt episode of the Dead Sun Show, hosts Joe T, Jey Blac, Reggie George, and D Johns delve into the importance of accepting help, the impact of past experiences, and the power of genuine connections. They share personal stories of struggle and resilience, discuss the significance of obedience, and offer powerful messages about trust and community. Join them as they reflect on growth, celebrate progress, and look forward to the collective success of their journey. Don't miss this inspiring conversation, and be sure to subscribe to the channel and leave a review!
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene
00:33 Reflecting on Connections and Serendipity
02:04 Welcoming Guests and Sharing Stories
03:17 The Power of Genuine Connections
08:28 The Importance of 'Why' and Personal Motivations
19:56 Learning to Ask for Help
27:07 The Struggles of Asking for Help
27:39 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships
30:23 Dealing with Grief and Loss
35:37 Building Skills Through Adversity
38:29 The Importance of Communication
49:26 Encouragement and Moving Forward
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations
In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most!
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show
00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark
00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics
01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons
04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives
08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections
26:01 Learning Through Experiences
26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility
26:45 Navigating New Experiences
28:28 Conversations About Relationships
29:24 Blended Families and Parenting
29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline
41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy
46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood
51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner
In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below.
00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes
00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood
02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz
04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You?
05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family
21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy
27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots
27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture
28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel
31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth
36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics
41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth
42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps
47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development
53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes
#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk
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Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken Desires
Welcome to the Dead Son Show, where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts De John and Jay Black delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show!
00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show
00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement
01:50 Excitement and Reflections
02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes
05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices
08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics
12:16 Balancing Self and Family
16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment
22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations
23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling
23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability
25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities
28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams
35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment
44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments
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Navigating Parenthood with Love and Discipline
In this engaging episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns share exciting news about their first-ever live show scheduled for January 18th, 2026 in Mansfield, Texas. They discuss the importance of meaningful conversations for young boys and men, reflecting on lessons learned and sharing fatherhood experiences. Key topics include setting boundaries, expressing love while addressing wrongdoings, and preparing children for adulthood. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they delve into personal anecdotes, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics and the significance of clear communication.
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:42 Exciting Announcement: First Live Show
02:10 Reflecting on Past Events and Relationships
04:27 Parenting Challenges and Responsibilities
08:01 Managing Expectations and Responsibilities
12:48 Addressing Family Dynamics and Communication
23:41 Facing Rejection and Adjusting Expectations
24:38 Learning Self-Reliance from a Young Age
25:15 The Impact of Over-Nurturing on Independence
26:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships
28:56 The Consequences of Leading with Money
30:46 The Importance of Communication and Sharing Perspectives
32:26 Navigating Life's Challenges Together
41:21 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Plans
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In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part resonated with you the most in the comments section!
00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show
00:17 Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation
01:23 Childhood Reflections and Family Background
03:14 Navigating Adolescence and Parental Relationships
05:31 High School Challenges and Relocation to Texas
10:39 Understanding Parental Struggles and Personal Growth
14:33 Transition to Adulthood and Early Fatherhood
20:04 Parenting Challenges and Personal Reflections
31:26 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Identity
31:55 Facing Emotional Vulnerability
33:02 The Pressure of Performance
34:28 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Sacrifices
36:14 Rebuilding Relationships and Self-Discovery
39:24 Co-Parenting and Acceptance
41:58 Generational Reflections and Parenting Wisdom
57:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most!
00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:44 Holiday Season Excitement
01:05 NAACP Event Recap
01:30 Community Engagement
03:06 Support and Viral Success
04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun
04:50 Navigating Life's Storms
10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges
11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments
22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations
25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story
26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines
28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support
30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms
33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times
34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships
38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems
41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity
44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes
51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned
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In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a raw and meaningful conversation designed to help young men and boys understand the lessons they wish they'd known earlier in life. They open with reflections on holiday experiences and the importance of managing expectations and stress. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into the concept of 'labels'—how we define ourselves and the impact of societal and self-imposed labels on our well-being. The hosts also explore how parents can better support their children's true passions and talents rather than imposing career labels that may not fit. Furthermore, the episode addresses the significance of maintaining core values through life transitions, and offers thoughtful advice on navigating relationships and friendships. Don't miss the insights packed into this episode. Make sure to like, comment, share, and subscribe to 'The Dear Son, Show' for more inspiring discussions.
00:00 Welcome to the Dear Son, Show
00:31 Holiday Reflections and Lessons Learned
02:36 Football Talk: Celebrating Wins and Rivalries
03:21 Promoting the Book and Special Offers
05:03 The Importance of Labels and Identity
08:57 Parenting: Balancing Labels and Passions
17:03 Encouraging Children's Interests and Outlets
21:57 The Role of Labels in Self-Worth and Identity
22:59 Navigating Life Transitions
23:45 The Importance of Core Values
25:11 Embracing New Chapters
26:05 Reflecting on Personal Growth
29:03 The Pressure of Expectations
31:42 The Role of Support Systems
33:19 Managing Emotional Reactions
37:08 The Value of Communication
44:51 Concluding Thoughts and Gratitude
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In this heartfelt episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the empowering theme: 'My Ceiling Is Your Floor.' Highlighting the importance of setting up future generations for success, the hosts explore how fathers can use their own experiences, both good and bad, to be a springboard for their children's achievements. Covering meaningful topics such as handling emotions, the impact of words, and the critical role of adaptability in today's ever-changing world, this conversation is both enlightening and motivational. Tune in to uncover valuable insights on how to shape the future for our sons and daughters through thoughtful guidance and intentional parenting. Don't miss out—join the conversation and be sure to like, share, and subscribe to our channel!
00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show
00:17 Hosts' Banter and Water Intake Challenge
01:40 Today's Topic: Dear Son, My Ceiling is Your Floor
03:01 Fatherhood Reflections and Advice
06:18 Emotional Regulation and Communication
17:02 Adapting to Change and Technology
21:09 Projecting Fears and Playing Small
22:34 The Power of Words and Fear Projection
23:02 Avoiding Negative Predictions
23:26 Encouraging Risk-Taking and Growth
24:21 Personal Experiences and Lessons
26:16 Teaching Resilience and Adaptability
26:58 Fostering Creativity and Ownership
34:42 Sibling Competition and Development
37:39 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Awareness
39:34 Parenting Reflections and Future Hopes
43:11 Cherishing Moments and Living with Children
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Welcome to the Dear Son Show, where hosts Jey Blac and D Johns delve into real-life, meaningful conversations designed to help young boys and men learn the lessons they wish they had known earlier. In this powerful episode, the duo discusses the essence of 'seeing it through,' the importance of internal motivation, and the challenges faced by young Black boys struggling with anxiety and depression. They also touch upon personal anecdotes about fatherhood, resilience, and the impact of maintaining open and loving communication with their families. Join us for a candid and eye-opening dialogue that can change lives. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay engaged with our empowering content!
00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter
00:26 Health and Wellness Journey
01:48 Fraternity Life and Personal Growth
05:42 Seeing It Through: The Importance of Perseverance
06:45 Parenting and Personal Accountability
12:37 Community and Relationships
17:47 Motivations and Adjustments
24:29 The Burden of Being Wrong
25:09 Personal Growth and Humility
26:01 Parenting Challenges and Mistakes
29:19 Finding Your 'Why'
35:47 Supporting Young Black Boys
39:53 Encouraging Open Communication
51:13 The Importance of Internal Motivation
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There's plenty of conversations that explore the "pitfalls" of marriage and parenthood, often leaving the audience with a negative perspective of both. Some of the clips from this show explore those challenges, and don't provide full context of our personal experiences. Yes, marriage and parenthood require work (plenty of work). Also, we've found the process to be fulfilling and the net assessment is that it's still worth it.
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Follow Jermaine: https://Instagram.com/jermainelnelson https://damagedbutdelivered.com#Raisingboysandgirls #FamilyTalk #singleparents #adultchildren #Parenting #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk Follow James: https://instagram.com/jeyblac Also, if you've made it this far, don't forget to:1. subscribe to the channel, 2. turn on the notifications,3. like this video, 4. leave a comment, and5. share this content with someone who needs it.The DSP: https://thedearsonpodcast.com Support the podcast by supporting our sponsors: Shop DSN Merch: https://dear-son-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/the-dear-son-show Love Kisha J Studios: https://lovekishaj.com My ebook: https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/20lifepromptsv1My book (physical): https://thedearsonpodcast.com/dsp-merch-%26-digital/ols/products/dear-son-what-i-wish-my-father-told-me-physical-copyLet’s connect socially: https://instagram.com/thedearsonpodcast https://facebook.com/thedearsonpodcast The Three Foundational Pillars of the DSP Community1. Reveal trauma 2. Heal from trauma3. Help through telling stories of it all“Better Man. Better Father.”The Dear Son, Network ®Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-son/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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