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Find The Joy With Jenn LDS Divorce Podcast

Find The Joy With Jenn LDS Divorce Podcast

Author: Jenn Zingmark

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Hi there, I'm Jenn,

I am an experienced, certified professional Latter-day Saint life and divorce coach who mentors men and women in challenging times to find joy through faith-filled coaching. I can help you find the joy in your journey!
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Temple sealing cancellations after divorce can feel overwhelming — especially when you’ve built your life around eternal family. If your temple marriage ended and you’ve found yourself wondering: What happens to my sealing? Are my children still sealed? Who will they be with in eternity? Does a sealing cancellation change everything? You are not alone. In this deeply personal episode, I share my own experience walking through a sealing cancellation and the concerns I had about my children and eternity. I also discuss what I learned from the Director of Temple Ordinances and Policies at the BYU Life After Divorce Conference — including a simple explanation that brought me real peace. We’ll talk about: • Birthright blessings for children born in the covenant • What the Church Handbook actually says • Why imperfect Church leaders don’t determine your eternal destiny • How resentment can weigh us down — and how the love of God lifts it If you’re navigating LDS divorce and struggling with temple sealing questions, this episode will help you anchor your faith in what matters most: a just, merciful, covenant-keeping God. We may not get all the answers in mortality. But we can choose to trust that He will make all things right. 📌 Share This With Someone Who Needs It You never know who may be quietly walking through this right now. 👍 If this video was helpful, give it a thumbs up 💬 Share your thoughts or questions in the comments 🔔 Subscribe for more faith-centered conversations on relationships, healing, and finding joy • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Divorce is emotional. Divorce is spiritual. Divorce is also very legal. In this episode, I’m sharing the basic legal realities I wish I understood before going through my own divorce — not as an attorney, but from real-life experience and from helping many others navigate this difficult season. If you are preparing for divorce, going through it right now, or supporting someone who is, this episode will help you understand the mindset, preparation, and spiritual perspective needed to walk through the legal side of divorce with strength and clarity. Inside this episode, we talk about: • Why you need to hire an attorney (even if your divorce seems “simple”) • Why the legal system isn’t always fair — and where to put your trust instead • How taking the high road protects your future (not just your peace) • How God is aware of even the legal details of your life • Why divorce timing varies — and how to trust God’s timing in the process • A personal story about when my divorce timeline fell apart… and how it led to unexpected blessings If you are feeling overwhelmed, confused, or scared about the legal side of divorce, you are not alone — and you do not have to navigate this season alone either. 💛 Want Support Walking Through Divorce? If you’re realizing you want clarity, peace, and guidance before making big life decisions, I offer a free Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-centered space where we help you identify where you are, where you want to go, and one practical next step you can take right away. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession If this episode helped you, please share it with someone who may need it. And if you haven’t already, follow or subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future episodes designed to help you heal, rebuild, and find joy again. 📌 Share This With Someone Who Needs It You never know who may be quietly walking through this right now. 👍 If this video was helpful, give it a thumbs up 💬 Share your thoughts or questions in the comments 🔔 Subscribe for more faith-centered conversations on relationships, healing, and finding joy • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
If you’ve been doing everything “right”… but something still feels off, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, I unpack 10 common lies good, faithful Christians often believe about why they feel stuck, disconnected, burned out, or like something must be wrong with them. Maybe you’ve thought: “I just need more faith.” “I should be past this by now.” “If I were more spiritual, I wouldn’t feel this way.” “I’m the problem.” “I just need to try harder.” But what if you’re not broken… just misaligned? Using the analogy of following directions that no longer match your destination, I’ll help you see how many of us are disciplined, obedient, and committed — yet quietly disconnected from our identity, joy, and internal clarity. This episode is for men and women. For the married, divorced, single, or rebuilding. For anyone who feels like they’re holding it together… but missing the joy. You’ll walk away with: A fresh perspective on misalignment Practical questions to assess where you are living reactively Encouragement rooted in faith and truth A reminder that clarity — not condemnation — leads to peace You are not broken. You are not behind. And you are not alone. 💛 Want Support Walking Through Divorce? If you’re realizing you want clarity, peace, and guidance before making big life decisions, I offer a free Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-centered space where we help you identify where you are, where you want to go, and one practical next step you can take right away. If this episode helped you, please share it with someone who may need it. And if you haven’t already, follow or subscribe to the podcast so you don’t miss future episodes designed to help you heal, rebuild, and find joy again. ✨ Subscribe For More Support Like This If you’re navigating divorce, healing after divorce, or rebuilding your life, make sure you subscribe so you don’t miss future videos. 📌 Share This With Someone Who Needs It You never know who may be quietly walking through this right now. 👍 If this video was helpful, give it a thumbs up 💬 Share your thoughts or questions in the comments 🔔 Subscribe for more faith-centered conversations on relationships, healing, and finding joy • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Today, we’re talking about how to prepare for divorce financially, how to avoid common pitfalls, and how to move beyond survival into stability—and even hope. Special Guest Shell Sawyer: https://findingstrengthwithshell.com/ Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Join me for a >>FREE<< Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session (Free Consult): https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session
Emotional Affairs Explained: Signs, Damage, and How to Heal a Marriage Emotional affairs can be confusing, painful, and easy to dismiss—especially when there’s no physical betrayal involved. But emotional affairs can quietly erode trust, intimacy, and connection in a marriage, sometimes causing as much damage as a physical affair. In this episode, we take an honest, compassionate look at what emotional affairs really are, how to recognize the warning signs, and why they’re often a symptom of deeper challenges within a relationship—not the root problem itself. You’ll learn how emotional intimacy gets redirected, why secrecy matters, and what emotional affairs may be revealing about unmet needs, communication breakdowns, or unresolved resentment. Most importantly, this episode offers hope. Before rushing toward divorce, many marriages can be given a real opportunity to heal, grow, and rebuild—especially when emotional affairs are addressed early and intentionally. Through a faith-filled lens, we talk about truth, accountability, boundaries, and the possibility of restoration. Whether you’re worried about your spouse, recognizing patterns in yourself, or simply seeking clarity, this conversation will help you slow down, breathe, and take your next steps from wisdom—not panic. If you’re navigating this season and want support, I work with both men and women facing these challenges. You’re invited to start with a free Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session—a private, faith-filled space to gain clarity, direction, and a practical tool to move forward with confidence and joy. ✨I’m opening up a few 15–20 minute Women’s Experience Interviews over the next two weeks—no selling, just listening—as I build The Joyful Covenant Woman. 👉 https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/womens-experience-interview • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Have you ever wondered why, even when you’re doing everything “right,” life still feels exhausting, stuck, or unfulfilling? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, we explore the three roles women often fall into—the Victim, the Manager, and the Partner—and how these roles quietly shape our relationships, confidence, and sense of joy. This conversation is for all women—single, married, divorced, separated, or remarried—who want to live empowered lives, build healthy relationships, and experience lasting joy regardless of circumstances. We’ll talk about: Why these roles develop and how they keep us stuck How waiting or controlling can block confidence and connection What it really looks like to lead yourself with clarity and grace The role that creates grounded confidence, healthy relationships, and true joy This episode isn’t about judgment or fixing anyone else. It’s about awareness, self-leadership, and choice—and stepping into the version of yourself who no longer waits or manages, but leads. If you’re ready to stop surviving and start living with intention, this episode is for you. 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode, and if this podcast has been helpful, please take a moment to leave a 5-star rating and review—it helps more women find this support. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
After a divorce, many people notice something unsettling: their mind feels more negative, more guarded, and quicker to expect the worst. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, we explore positivity bias—the brain’s natural tendency to notice and expect good outcomes—and why that bias often weakens after divorce. Drawing on brain research highlighted by psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen, we’ll talk about how trauma and emotional loss shift the brain into survival mode, making negativity feel automatic—not because something is wrong with you, but because your brain is trying to protect you. We’ll also look at how healing happens—not through forcing positivity or denying pain, but by gently retraining the brain to recognize safety, hope, and goodness again. From a faith-centered perspective, we reflect on the steady optimism of President Gordon B. Hinckley, who taught the importance of believing that tomorrow can be better than today—even when life feels heavy. If you’ve been wondering why hope feels harder after divorce—and how to rebuild it without guilt or pressure—this episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical encouragement. ✨ If this podcast has been helpful to you, make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss an episode. And please consider leaving a five-star rating and review—it helps others find this support when they need it most. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
What do you do when you love God, want to do the right thing, and still don’t know whether to stay or leave your marriage? For many people, the question of divorce isn’t about giving up — it’s about discernment. It’s about wanting peace instead of panic, clarity instead of guilt, and confidence that God is walking with you in the decision, not waiting on the other side of it. In this episode, Jenn explores how to approach the divorce decision with faith and intention — without rushing, self-abandonment, or fear-based pressure. Rather than focusing on external timelines or cultural expectations, she offers a different compass: measuring the emotional and spiritual climate of your life and listening for God’s guidance in patterns, not perfection. You’ll hear compassionate insight on: Why January often brings clarity around marriage decisions The beliefs that keep people stuck in limbo How betrayal changes the discernment process The difference between choosing from fear and choosing with God How to move forward — whether you stay or leave — with integrity, peace, and faith This episode isn’t about telling you what choice to make. It’s about helping you trust yourself, trust God, and choose on purpose. If you’re standing at a crossroads, you’re not behind — and you’re not alone. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
What do you do when life brings you to the edge of something you never planned—and there’s no safe way down? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I share a powerful experience from my recent trip to São Miguel Island in the Azores, where I found myself standing on a 30-foot boulder, faced with a decision that required courage, surrender, and trust. That moment became a striking metaphor for divorce—especially for those trying to remain faithful while navigating fear, uncertainty, and grief. In this episode, we talk about: What it means to stand on the edge when divorce wasn’t part of your plan Why fear grows when we fixate on the fall instead of the next step How faith doesn’t always remove the pain—but sustains us through it The power of support and why you don’t have to do this alone How seeing others build joyful, meaningful lives after divorce can restore hope If you’re navigating divorce and trying to trust God in the middle of it—this conversation is for you. You are not weak for feeling scared. You are not faithless for struggling. And you are not alone. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
As a new year begins, many people feel pressure to “start fresh.” But what if you’re stepping into this year after divorce, betrayal, or a life that didn’t turn out the way you planned? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, Jenn invites you to slow down and look at starting over through a different lens—one rooted in perspective, purpose, and support. Using the powerful true story from The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind, Jenn explores what it really takes to rebuild when resources feel scarce, confidence feels shaky, and joy feels far away. This episode is for anyone who feels stuck, behind, or unsure how to move forward. Jenn shares why divorce is not a failure, how the stories we tell ourselves shape our healing, and why guidance can make all the difference when you’re navigating a difficult season. If you’re beginning this year longing for clarity, peace, and a sense of direction—but don’t know where to start—this episode will meet you right where you are and remind you that your best chapter may still be ahead. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
The holidays are supposed to be joyful—but after divorce, they can feel heavy, lonely, and deeply triggering. In this Christmas episode, Jenn Zingmark speaks directly to faith-filled men and women navigating divorce during the darkest season of the year—emotionally and literally. As the world celebrates light, Jenn invites you to rethink what light really means when life feels broken. This episode is for you if: This is your first Christmas after divorce, You’re splitting time with your children or spending part of the holidays alone, You feel pressure to be “okay” when you’re not, You’re trying to hold onto faith while grieving what was lost. Through scripture, reflection, and gentle truth, Jenn reminds us that we were never meant to be the source of the light—Jesus Christ is. And even when your light feels dim, healing, quiet, or incomplete, it is still enough. This is a message about hope without pretending, peace without perfection, and faith that meets you exactly where you are. You are not alone this holiday season. And the Light still shines—especially in the dark. 🎄❤️ • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
What happens when life forces you to start over—especially as a mother? In this episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I sit down with Heather Nemelka, founder of Elavare, to talk about rebuilding confidence, rediscovering identity, and re-entering the workforce after major life transitions like divorce. Heather shares her personal journey, including how her own experiences shaped her passion for helping mothers step back into meaningful work with clarity and confidence. We talk about the emotional roadblocks so many women face after divorce, why “progress over perfection” matters, and the powerful strengths mothers often underestimate in themselves. You’ll also hear how Elavare supports women at every stage—through mentorship, practical tools, and the Elavare Foundation, a nonprofit providing scholarships and access to resources for single moms and underserved women. We close the conversation with a question I ask every guest: What does finding joy in the journey really mean? Heather’s answer is both grounding and hopeful for anyone rebuilding after a difficult chapter. If you’re a mother navigating divorce, career uncertainty, or a season of self-doubt, this episode is a reminder that you are capable, worthy, and not starting from zero—you’re starting from experience. In This Episode, We Cover: Rebuilding confidence after divorce Returning to work after a career break Identity shifts in motherhood and single motherhood. Emotional healing and practical career support Why supporting mothers strengthens families and communities What it truly means to find joy in the journey Instagram: @elavareco LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heathernemelka/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elavareco Website: https://www.elavare.com or https://www.heathernemelka.com • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Have you ever wondered why specific patterns keep repeating… or why some relationships feel stuck no matter how hard you try? In today’s episode, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about the blind spots we all have — the things we can’t see about ourselves, our parenting, and our relationships until someone lovingly shows us. Over Thanksgiving, I had all my adult children home, and a conversation unfolded that revealed blind spots I didn’t know existed. It was humbling, emotional, and honestly… life-changing. And today, I’m sharing what I learned — because these insights can help you heal, too. You’ll learn: ✨ What emotional blind spots are and why they’re so hard to see ✨ How your past divorce may have affected your children in ways you didn’t realize ✨ Why honesty and vulnerability can create a deeper connection ✨ How to invite healing conversations with your adult children ✨ The spiritual side of blind spots — and how God helps us see with new eyes If you’re navigating LDS divorce, co-parenting, blended family life, or trying to rebuild trust and connection with your children, this episode will speak directly to your heart. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Hey there, Joy Seeker — it’s Jenn, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! Regret is one of the biggest reasons people stay stuck after divorce — stuck in fear, stuck in indecision, stuck in shame, and stuck replaying the past instead of believing in the future. In today’s episode of Find the Joy with Jenn, I’m diving deep into how regret destroys your self-trust and how you can finally make peace with your past choices so you can move forward with confidence, courage, and faith. You’ll hear the story of a client who carried years of regret over decisions he made during his marriage — regret that kept him frozen and afraid to make any new choices. But when he learned how to release the shame, view his past with compassion, and trust himself again, everything changed. His transformation is a powerful reminder that God can work with any decision we make when our hearts are willing to grow. Inside this episode, we’ll explore: • Why regret keeps you stuck in fear • How self-judgment destroys your confidence • A spiritual lens for understanding your past choices • What God actually expects of you (hint: it’s NOT perfection) • A step-by-step framework to release regret and rebuild self-trust • How to move forward even when consequences are still unfolding This episode is filled with hope, scripture, truth, and practical tools to help you stop using your past against yourself. If you’re ready to choose your future with clarity and courage, this episode is for you. Keywords: LDS divorce, letting go of regret, healing after divorce, rebuilding self-trust, finding confidence again, faith-based divorce support, moving forward after regret, Latter-day Saint divorce, emotional healing, personal growth after divorce, LDS healing, divorce recovery tools, Christian divorce support, overcoming shame, choosing peace, trusting yourself again, Faith Filled Divorce coaching. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Hey there, Joy Seeker — it’s Jenn, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! This is my 200th podcast episode yall! 200 episodes- thank you for being here with me! I do this for you! I’d love to hear from you if this podcast has encouraged, helped, or supported you in some way. Please tell me! Share this episode on social media and tag me, or go to the bottom of your podcast APP right now and leave me a five-star rating and review! Today’s episode is a little different. We’re talking about three moments that define everything else that follows — the last ten pounds, the first thousand dollars, and the next six months of your divorce journey. Each of these represents a critical threshold — a place where what you do next has a bigger impact than you realize. So if you’re walking through divorce, rebuilding your life, or just trying to figure out what comes next… lean in. Because what you do in this next season will set the tone for your healing, your peace, your relationships, and even your family legacy for years to come. • Black Friday came early this year — Every single course inside the Faith-Filled Divorce Course Library is 50% off through November 30th when you use the code JOY50 at checkout. Get yours here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Hey friends, it’s Jenn — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! 💛 Today’s episode is extra special because I’m sharing the replay from our second Divorce Hotline Live Q&A. If you’re new here, the Divorce Hotline is where I answer real, heartfelt questions from men and women walking through all the stages of divorce — from heartbreak and healing to co-parenting, rebuilding confidence, and learning how to trust and love again. These conversations are raw, faith-filled, and full of practical guidance. My goal, as always, is to help you partner with God through your healing and find peace and purpose right where you are. And of course, I’m here to give you some Jenn Juice — that dose of hope, encouragement, and direction to keep you going when the road feels heavy. So grab a notebook, take a deep breath, and let’s jump into some of the powerful questions we talked through live during Divorce Hotline #2.” ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Hey there, Joy Seeker! 💛 Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn — the space where we grow through what we’re going through and learn to see God’s fingerprints in every chapter of our lives. Today we’re talking about something subtle but life-changing: the scripts you’ve been following — the ones you didn’t even realize were directing your thoughts, emotions, and choices. •Join me for my next Divorce Hotline Live Q&A THIS WEEK, November 13th at 12:00 PM Mountain Time / 2:00 PM Eastern and get your divorce questions answered live! Register here: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/the-divorce-hotline-with-jenn • Black Friday came early this year — Every single course inside the Faith-Filled Divorce Course Library is 50% off through November 30th when you use the code JOY50 at checkout. Get yours here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
We’re back for Part 2 of my powerful conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, LDS relationship and sexuality coach, author of That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love, and host of the Room for Two podcast. In this episode, we go deeper into the themes of desire, faith, and emotional honesty — exploring how to find peace and purpose after divorce while deepening your relationship with God and yourself. You’ll learn how to: 🌿 Heal the relationship you have with yourself and with God 🌿 Reclaim desire as a divine and sacred force for growth 🌿 Move from guilt and shame into peace and self-compassion 🌿 Discover how joy is born in truth, not perfection Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s insights are both faith-affirming and deeply liberating — a reminder that God’s plan for you is never on pause, even after heartbreak. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, be sure to start there first — it sets the foundation for this incredible, hope-filled discussion. ✨ Listen now to Episode 197: “Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 2)” ✨ Order Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s new book: That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love HERE: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/book •Connect with Dr. Finlayson-Fife using the following links: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 1) – with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife In this first half of my powerful two-part conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, we dive into the connection between desire, divinity, and emotional honesty—and how these principles can help you heal and grow after divorce. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, author of That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love, and host of the Room for Two podcast. Her wisdom and clarity are life-changing for anyone navigating heartbreak, faith, or rebuilding self-worth. You’ll learn how to: 💛 Reconnect with your true self after divorce 💛 Understand the divine purpose of desire 💛 Release shame around love, intimacy, and spirituality 💛 Begin finding joy through truth, courage, and growth This conversation is honest, faith-filled, and full of light. Be sure to tune in next week for Part Two, where we’ll go even deeper into desire, healing, and finding joy in the refining process. ✨ Order Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s new book: That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love HERE:https://www.finlayson-fife.com/book •Connect with Dr. Finlayson-Fife using the following links: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here with me today. Every week, I get to sit down with you and talk about how to find joy, peace, and healing — especially in life’s hardest moments. Have you ever felt completely brought low — like life stripped away everything familiar? In this episode, Jenn shares what she learned from Doctrine and Covenants 112:3 about being abased, and how the Lord uses those humbling seasons to refine and rebuild us. If you’re walking through divorce or heartbreak, this episode will remind you: being abased isn’t punishment — it’s preparation for something greater. 🎧 Listen to hear: The true meaning of “abased” in scripture What the refining process looks like after divorce How God’s grace lifts us when we feel broken Keywords: LDS divorce, healing after divorce, Doctrine and Covenants 112, refining process, faith after heartbreak, Christian divorce healing, humility and grace ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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