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Pursue HER
Author: Kelley J Bell
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Welcome to the Pursue HER Podcast, where faith meets real life for women who are juggling everything. Whether you're navigating singleness, marriage, or motherhood, this podcast is your safe space.
Hosted by Kelley J Bell — wife, mom of 4, and Kingdom Strategist — each episode combines biblical truth with practical strategy to help you Pursue HER: to be Heroic, Empowered, and Resilient as a daughter of God.
Kelley keeps it real and relatable as she empowers you to be HER. She doesn’t just teach it; she lives it, and she invites you to do the same.
Hosted by Kelley J Bell — wife, mom of 4, and Kingdom Strategist — each episode combines biblical truth with practical strategy to help you Pursue HER: to be Heroic, Empowered, and Resilient as a daughter of God.
Kelley keeps it real and relatable as she empowers you to be HER. She doesn’t just teach it; she lives it, and she invites you to do the same.
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What do you do when your adult child starts making choices you don’t agree with, and your heart feels torn between truth, fear, and unconditional love?In this episode, I’m speaking directly to Christian mothers who are navigating the emotional weight of parenting adult children. Maybe you raised them in church. You prayed. You taught them the Word. And now, their decisions around faith, relationships, lifestyle, or priorities look nothing like what you hoped or expected.Sis, you’re not alone, and you’re not failing.We talk honestly about how to respond when you disagree with your adult child’s choices without damaging the relationship or compromising your faith. This conversation will help you move from anxiety to peace, from control to trust, and from fear to faith🎧 Press play if you’re ready to parent with peace, wisdom, and grace in this next season.💡 Stay Connected with Kelley:🎙 Listen to the Pursue HER Podcast:https://www.pod.link/1534793395 🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBell🌐 Visit my website: www.kelleyjbell.com 📲 Follow me on Instagram: @KelleyJBell or @PursueHERPodcast Let’s Continue the Conversation!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Make sure you subscribe, rate, and review the podcast. It helps others find encouragement they desperately need.
When your husband is battling depression, anxiety, or emotional burnout, your role as a wife becomes even more sacred. In this episode of Pursue HER, we’re talking about how to show up with strength, wisdom, and spiritual maturity when the man you love is not okay.You’ll get biblical insight and practical strategies to help you support him through the struggle—without carrying the weight alone.Because yes, you can stand in the gap for him and still care for your own peace in the process.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBell💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast 📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this heartfelt solo episode, I am sharing an unexpected lesson God revealed to me through my son’s simple request. If you’ve been planning, organizing, and carrying the weight of everything on your own—this one is for you. I am speaking directly to the strong, capable woman who’s doing it all… but still feels overwhelmed, under-supported, or unseen.Through a powerful and personal story, I am reminding ladies that sometimes the missing piece isn’t more effort—it’s an invitation for God to step in. If you’ve ever struggled with letting go of control, trusting God fully, or simply remembering to ask—this episode will minister to your heart in the most tender way.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources:📚 Pursue HER - Living Boldly as a Daughter of God www.pursuehernow.com 💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
Sis, I know you’re busy. Between work, family, and everything in between, it feels like there's no time left for you—let alone God. But here’s the truth: intimacy with God is not a luxury, it’s a lifeline. In today’s episode, we’re diving into strategies to help you protect your time with God, even in the midst of life’s chaos.In this episode Kelley is sharing practical, grace-filled ways to stay spiritually grounded—no matter how full your schedule is. You’ll learn how to create sacred moments in your daily life, how to stop feeling guilty for “missing” time with God, and how to start living from a place of intimacy instead of exhaustion.If you’ve been feeling spiritually dry, overwhelmed, or just too busy to connect with God—this episode is for you, sis. Let’s reignite that fire together!🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellWhy “too busy” is a spiritual trapHow to create sacred moments even in a full scheduleSimple ways to prioritize God’s voice over distractionsHow to stop feeling guilty and start growing againEncouragement for women who feel spiritually dry or distantHow to recognize when you’re running on self instead of the SpiritResources: 📚 Pursue HER - Living Boldly as a Daughter of God www.pursuehernow.com 💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this powerful episode, we sit down with a wife who learned firsthand that sometimes, the breakthrough in marriage doesn’t start with your husband—it starts with you. What began as a desperate cry for her husband to change turned into a personal encounter with God that flipped everything she thought she knew about prayer, marriage, and surrender.She shares the intimate moment when God reminded her, “He’s my son before he’s your husband,” and how that truth became the foundation for a heart transformation that impacted both her and her marriage. From Ezekiel 36:26 to learning how to step back and let God lead, this conversation is full of raw truth, hope, and spiritual insight for any wife who’s been praying, waiting, and wondering if God hears her.If you're a wife navigating frustration, spiritual disconnection, or just hungry to deepen your prayer life in marriage—this episode is for you.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:🌍 Follow Keisha Bass: 📸 Instagram: @her.dope.marriage💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 How has this episode shifted your perspective on the power of praying as a wife? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
Ever been in a season where your faith feels fragile? Like you’re praying, showing up, trying to stay close to God—but you’re also just… tired? Girl, same.In this episode, I’m opening up about feeling stretched thin. I have felt weary, unsure, and honestly just trying to keep going. But even in all of that, there is still this small part of me that is trusting God is doing something—even if I can't see it yet.If you’re in a place where you love God but feel worn down, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about what it looks like to keep holding on, even when you’re not feeling strong.Because even in the stretching, God is near. And He’s not done with your story.
Feeling tempted to cheat on your husband? You’re not alone—and you’re not beyond help. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into what every wife needs to consider before crossing a line that could change everything. Whether you're emotionally drained, feeling neglected, or simply curious about "what else is out there," this conversation is your wake-up call.We unpack the real reasons behind the temptation, the emotional and spiritual consequences of cheating, and the overlooked but powerful tools God gives us to restore what feels broken. If you're a wife feeling distant, discouraged, or on the edge—pause and listen to this first.This episode isn’t here to shame—it’s here to save: your heart, your marriage, and your future.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:Marriage Counseling - www.psychologytoday.com 📖 A Guide to Transforming Your Marriage- https://kelleyjbell.kit.com/5af1f1488c 📚 God’s Marriage or My Marriage - www.kbconsultingforher.com 💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com 📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
Are you feeling spiritually drained, under attack, or unprepared for life’s battles? In this episode, we dive deep into Ephesians 6:10-18 to uncover how God has equipped us with powerful spiritual armor. Each piece is designed to help us stand firm against the enemy and walk in victory. We’ll break down the purpose of each part of the armor—truth, righteousness, peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God—and explore how to actively wear them in our daily lives. Get ready to strengthen your faith, step into your God-given authority, and stand strong in any battle you face!🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📖 Ephesians 6: 10 - 18 📚 Pursue HER - Living Boldly as a Daughter of God www.pursuehernow.com 💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 Did you learn anything new about the Armor of God in this episode? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast 📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
Feeling anxious about your kids? You’re not alone, mama. In this episode, I’m sharing 7 powerful prayers to help you parent with peace instead of fear. These prayers will cover your children and transform your heart. If you’re ready to stop stressing and start trusting, this one’s for you. 🙏💖🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📖 Scripture to Declare: Isaiah 54:13 – "All your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children."💻 For additional resources, visit www.kbconsultingforher.comThis week, I challenge you to pray over your child every day—whether they’re an infant, a teen, or an adult. 🙌📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell and @PursueHERPodcast 📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this episode, we’re getting real about the benefits of being married—not just the emotional perks, but the real-life stuff backed by research and stats. But don’t just take our word for it! We’ll share eye-opening statistics, heartwarming insights, and practical wisdom that will make you appreciate the beauty of marriage even more. Whether you’re married, single, or just trying to figure it out, you’ll walk away with a better understanding of the joys of marriage, and maybe even a renewed appreciation for commitment, love, and partnership.💍❤️🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBell📊 Marriage Stats That Might Surprise You:Married people are 58% more likely to say they’re happy in their relationship compared to cohabiting couples.Those in healthy marriages are more likely to report excellent mental health and lower stress.Marriage is tied to longer life expectancy and stronger financial well-being.Resources Mentioned:📖 A Guide to Transforming Your Marriage https://www.kbconsultingforher.com/shop📚 God’s Marriage or My Marriage : https://www.kbconsultingforher.com/shop 💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 What are some reasons why you enjoy being married? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🎧 Hit play, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear that marriage can still be beautiful, powerful, and full of joy.
Have you ever felt like you’re just going through the motions in your faith—relying on sermons, devotionals, or what others say about God instead of truly knowing His Word for yourself? If so, this episode is for you.Today, I’m joined by Erica Berry, author of Stupid Christians, a bold and thought-provoking book that challenges believers to stop outsourcing their faith and start taking ownership of their relationship with God. We dive into:- The surprising meaning behind the title Stupid Christians- Practical ways to build confidence in studying the Bible for yourself- Encouragement for those who feel intimidated or stuck in their spiritual journey.This conversation will challenge, encourage, and equip you to take your faith deeper. Don’t miss it!🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📖 Get Erica’s book: www.ericaberry.org 🌍 Follow Erica: 📸 Instagram: @_ericaberry_Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 How has the word of God changed your life? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most important topics in biblical parenting today: how to raise godly kids who can stand strong in their faith and resist peer pressure. As Christian parents, we’re not just raising children—we’re raising Kingdom warriors in a world that constantly pushes them toward compromise. From school environments to social media, the pressures are real—but so is God’s power to equip us as parents.If you’ve been asking, “How can I protect my child from peer pressure?” or “How do I teach my kids to live for Christ when culture says otherwise?”—this episode is for you.We’ll walk through faith-based parenting strategies, and biblical encouragement to help you parent with clarity, courage, and conviction.🌟 What You’ll Learn:The hidden ways worldly culture influences your childWhy Christian parenting must be intentional in today’s worldPractical ways to help your kids develop spiritual discernmentHow to lead your child to choose faith over fitting inLet’s Continue the Conversation!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 📣 Call to Action:If this episode blessed you, please rate, review, and share it with another mom who wants to raise kids who love Jesus out loud.📚For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell @PursueHERPodcast📘 Facebook: @Kelley J Bell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this deeply thought-provoking episode, we tackle a topic often shrouded in silence—why some pastors' wives remain in unhealthy marriages. Drawing on real-life experiences and expert insights, we unpack the spiritual expectations, emotional burdens, and societal pressures that contribute to these decisions. Discover practical encouragement, resources, and the hope of healing as we shine a light on a subject that’s been kept in the shadows for too long. Whether you’re in ministry, supporting a pastor’s family, or simply curious about the unique challenges they face, this episode will inspire understanding, compassion, and action.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📚 God’s Marriage or My Marriage visit www.kbconsultingforher.com ☎️ Schedule a Discovery Call - www.kbconsultingforher.com☎️ Schedule an Introductory Call - www.kelleyjbell.com💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Listener Challenge!💬 This week, pray intentionally for our ministry leaders’ marriages.📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
Have you ever found yourself comparing your marriage to someone else’s? Maybe you’ve scrolled through social media and thought, “Why isn’t my relationship like that?” In today’s episode, we’re diving into the dangers of comparison in marriage, why it can be so harmful, and how to break free. Your love story is unique, and it’s time to embrace it!🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📚God’s Marriage or My Marriage www.kbconsultingforher.com📚A Guide to Transforming Your Marriage www.kbconsultingforher.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 What is one thing you are thankful for in your marriage? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!📚For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @Kelley J Bell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
As mothers, we face numerous responsibilities, yet we must not let our daily tasks overshadow the importance of being present for our children. In a world where connections are often made through screens, let’s remind ourselves that our bond with our children is sacred. Your presence is a vital gift in their lives, no matter their age. Join Kelley in this episode as she inspires us to actively engage in meaningful activities with our children.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📚 Raising Kingdom Minded Children www.kbconsultingforher.com 🎧 [Related Podcast Episodes]💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 How will you choose to be intentional in being present in your child’s life? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Taliah Webb, a passionate disciple-maker and follower of Jesus Christ, who shares her powerful testimony and practical insights on creating disciples. Through her experiences, Taliah demonstrates how women can embrace their unique callings, step into leadership roles, and cultivate meaningful relationships that lead others closer to Christ. Whether you’re just beginning your journey in discipleship or seeking new ways to mentor others, this episode is packed with encouragement and actionable advice.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellGuest Information: Taliah Webb - visit https://www.taliahwebb.com or 📸 Instagram:@taliahwebb💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 How are you living out the Great Commission? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
Being a daughter of God is an incomparable privilege. Many women, however, may not fully grasp what it truly means to be His daughter. As daughters of God, we are destined to be heroic, empowered, and resilient. When life’s challenges arise, we must remind ourselves of our incredible power simply because we are His daughters. If you are ready to embrace your identity as a daughter of God and discover its true essence, tune in to this episode—you won't want to miss it!🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📚 Pursue HER - Living Boldly as a Daughter of God www.pursuehernow.com 🎧 Related Podcast Episodes - Season 3 Episode 3💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 What does it mean to you to be a daughter of God? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
As an educator, I encounter students every day who face challenges in bouncing back from adversity. Many struggle with managing stress, overcoming peer pressure, and adapting to changes in their relationships. They often have an unrealistic view of life, believing that everything should be perfect at all times. However, we, as adults, recognize that life is not always easy. To empower our children to withstand life's challenges, we must teach them these vital skills—and we need to start earlier rather than later. Tune in to today’s podcast as Kelley inspires us with actionable ways to make a difference.🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📖 Raising Kingdom Minded Children (Download) - https://www.kbconsultingforher.com/shop💻 For additional resources, visit www.kelleyjbell.com Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 How do you display resiliency to your children? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com 🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
I understand that marriage can be challenging, but I want to inspire you to keep fighting for your relationship. While many in our society choose divorce for various reasons, this doesn’t have to be everyone’s story. The institution of marriage is powerful, and we must unite and uplift each other in safe spaces like this. Tune in and discover the strength within!🎥 Watch this chat (and others) on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@KelleyJBellResources Mentioned:📚 God’s Marriage or My Marriage Book and Workbook - https://www.kbconsultingforher.com/shop💻 For additional resources for wives, visit https://www.kbconsultingforher.com/coaching-for-wives Let’s Continue the Conversation!💬 How are you being intentional about fighting for your marriage? Share with us in the comments!📩 Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at info@kelleyjbell.com🔔 Subscribe & Leave a Review – Your support helps others find this message!Follow Us:📸 Instagram: @KelleyJBell📘 Facebook: @KelleyJBell🎥 YouTube: @KelleyJBell
In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, we sit down with Dorcas, a Christian mother who courageously shares her journey of overcoming mental health challenges while raising her children. Dorcas opens up about the struggles she faced, the lessons she learned, and how her faith in God carried her through even the darkest moments.
This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, faith is a foundation for resilience, and no mother has to face these challenges alone. Whether you’re a mother, someone supporting a loved one, or simply seeking encouragement in your faith walk, this episode is filled with wisdom, hope, and practical insights.
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