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Got a situation? Steve Harvey and Shirley Strawberry deliver unfiltered advice on love, relationships, family, work, and life. Send your letter, subscribe, and get real talk every day!


Every weekday, the Steve Harvey Morning Show tackle a listener-submitted “Strawberry Letter”... a real-life dilemma ranging from romantic entanglements to career choices, family drama to money struggles, and everything in between.


With a blend of wisdom, wit, and brutal honesty, they offer candid commentary and heartfelt guidance, often sparking conversation (and laughter) among the rest of the morning show crew.


Submit your Strawberry Letter at www.steveharveyfm.com for a chance to be featured, and get the truth, Steve Harvey style!

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Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily.  I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur.  Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Paul Dashevsky. Serial entrepreneur and founder of Maxwell, a platform focused on Accessory Dwelling Units (ADUs), also known as tiny homes: 🎯 Purpose of the Interview To educate listeners on the growing trend of Accessory Dwelling Units (ADUs), their practical uses, legal considerations, and how platforms like Maxwell help homeowners navigate the process of building or buying tiny homes—especially in light of new options like Amazon’s prefab homes. 🗝️ Key Takeaways What Are ADUs? Formerly known as tiny homes or granny flats, ADUs are small, secondary housing units built on residential properties. They range from 150 to 1200 square feet and serve various purposes: rentals, studios, housing for aging parents, or personal retreats. Growing Popularity Driven by housing shortages and affordability issues, especially in states like California. Governments are easing restrictions to allow more ADUs to be built, including San Diego’s initiative to allow unlimited ADUs if they’re affordable. Use Cases Rental income Housing for retirees or aging parents Studios (music, yoga), guest houses, or nanny quarters Amazon’s Entry Amazon now sells prefab two-story tiny homes under \$50,000. While appealing, buyers must understand the additional costs and logistics: foundation, utilities, permits, and construction. Legal & Practical Considerations ADUs must be permitted and built to code to be safe and legally rentable. Homeowners should consult their city’s building department before starting. A certificate of occupancy is required for someone to legally live in the unit. Maxwell Platform Offers resources, videos, and guidance for anyone interested in building or buying ADUs. Helps users find reliable contractors and understand the full scope of building an ADU. Impact on Property Value ADUs generally increase property value by adding rentable living space. They are a viable wealth-building strategy through real estate investment. Social Impact ADUs could be a solution to homelessness by providing affordable housing options. Cities like San Diego are already exploring this potential. 💬 Notable Quotes “You’re not building a Lego kit here.” — Paul Dashevsky on the complexity of constructing ADUs “There’s no success without sacrifice.” — Rushion McDonald, echoing the theme of entrepreneurship “Go down to your building department at your city and ask them what guidelines they have.” — Paul’s advice on starting an ADU project “If you invest in real estate… that’s a great way to build wealth.” — Paul on the financial benefits of ADUs “I wish America would look at the possibilities of seeing what ADUs can do for the homeless community.” — Rushion McDonald on the social potential of tiny homes #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily.  I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur.  Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Yasmine Cheyenne. 📝 Summary of the Interview Yasmine Cheyenne, an Air Force veteran, mental wellness advocate, and author, joined Rushion McDonald to discuss her journey from a disadvantaged upbringing to becoming a published author and wellness coach. She shared insights from her books—The Sugar Jar and her latest, Wisdom of the Path—which focus on boundaries, healing, and self-empowerment. The conversation explored her military experience, personal transformation, and how she helps others confront fear and reclaim their lives. 🔑 Key Takeaways 1. Overcoming Fear and Taking Risks Fear of failure and disappointment keeps many people stuck. Yasmine encourages people to confront fear and take action anyway. Her own decision to join the Air Force was a leap of faith that changed her life. 2. Military Discipline and Life Lessons The Air Force taught her discipline, consistency, and resilience. She applies these lessons to her personal and professional life. Quote: “Do you want to bet on yourself? Be willing to believe in yourself.” 3. Writing as Empowerment Her first book, The Sugar Jar, focuses on boundaries and self-care. Her second book, Wisdom of the Path, is about using past experiences as wisdom, not shame. Writing helped her transform her life and inspire others from similar backgrounds. 4. Boundaries and Self-Prioritization Without boundaries, people become overwhelmed and resentful. Saying “no” and advocating for yourself is essential to mental wellness. Quote: “We have to get comfortable letting people be disappointed with us.” 5. Redefining “Selfish” Being selfish is often misunderstood. Prioritizing yourself is necessary for success and well-being. Quote: “Every successful person has had to be selfish at some point.” 6. Wisdom of the Path The book encourages readers to trust their instincts and take the next step. It’s not a checklist—it’s a collection of relatable stories and reflections. Quote: “Use those experiences that you’re judging yourself for as wisdom to help you move forward.” 7. Mental Wellness Practice Yasmine helps people through coaching, writing, and speaking. She emphasizes healing through storytelling and shared experiences. 8. Accessibility Her books are available in print, digital, and audio formats. She personally narrates the audiobook version of Wisdom of the Path. 💬 Notable Quotes “Even if things fail, you have what it takes to get yourself to where you want to be.” “Take the meat and leave the bone.” “You already know what the next step is. What would happen if you just took it?” “We’ve been an enemy toward ourselves for years and don’t even realize it.” #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Thursday, March 26th, 2026. Subject: "He Doesn't Care What I Do"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily.  I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur.  Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Valerie Obaze. Founder of R&R Skincare.   🎯 Purpose of the Interview The interview aims to: Highlight Valerie Obaze’s entrepreneurial journey in founding R&R Skincare. Challenge stereotypes about Africa’s capabilities and resources. Promote African-made beauty products and their global relevance. Inspire others, especially women and diaspora Africans, to invest in and build businesses rooted in African heritage. 🧠 Key Takeaways 1. Breaking African Stereotypes Valerie and Rushion discuss how Africa is often misrepresented in Western media. Valerie emphasizes that ignorance is not always malicious, but it’s time to reframe the narrative through firsthand experience and platforms like social media. “Ignorance doesn’t always have to be an insult. If you don’t know, you just don’t know better.” – Valerie Obaze 2. The Birth of R&R Skincare Inspired by the birth of her daughter, Valerie sought natural skincare solutions. She discovered liquid shea oil, which became her first product. The brand name “R&R” stands for Rebecca Rose (her daughter’s name) and also Rest & Relaxation. “I wanted to create a product that makes using these raw materials from the continent enjoyable.” – Valerie Obaze 3. From Garage to Global Valerie started in her mother-in-law’s garage, turning it into a compliant mini factory. She had no formal business plan, relying on her PR and branding background. The brand now has three stores: one in Lagos and two in Accra, including one at the airport. 4. Authenticity and African Pride Valerie insists on maintaining the African identity of her brand. She uses locally sourced ingredients and ensures cruelty-free testing. The brand supports women in the supply chain, creating economic opportunities. “We don’t intend to hide that in any way. We just wanted to make raw materials sexy.” – Valerie Obaze 5. Expansion to the U.S. Valerie is expanding R&R Skincare to the U.S., leveraging social media, activations, and PR expertise. Products are manufactured in Africa, but distributed from U.S. warehouses to ensure timely delivery. “We found our tribe over here… and this was the right time to come back to America.” – Valerie Obaze 🧴 Product Highlights Shea Oil – First product, moisturizing and healing. Body Butter – Whipped, light, and rich in essential oils. Liquid Black Soap – Modern take on traditional African cleansing. Hand Cream – Convenient and portable for dry conditions. 🌍 Big Picture Vision Valerie’s goal is to grow an African brand globally, showcasing the richness of African resources and empowering local economies. “This is just a small representative of the entire continent and what it is capable of.” – Valerie Obaze #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Listen and subscribe to Money Making Conversations on iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, www.moneymakingconversations.com/subscribe/ or wherever you listen to podcasts. New Money Making Conversations episodes drop daily.  I want to alert you, so you don’t miss out on expert analysis and insider perspectives from my guests who provide tips that can help you uplift the community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur.  Keep winning! Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Marsha Evans. A licensed mental health therapist, founder of Willow Tree Counseling & Educational Center, and creator of the FELT Experience and Marsha Listens wellness platform. The conversation centers on emotional health, nervous system education, sound therapy, community healing, and her evolution as a therapist and entrepreneur. Marsha shares her personal journey from being a competitive athlete to becoming a calming force for high‑functioning individuals dealing with burnout, stress, and emotional disconnection. She explains the origins of her signature FELT Experience, a wellness model designed to help people reconnect with themselves through somatic movement, sound healing, intentional rest, and community. She also highlights the challenges and breakthroughs in mental health—particularly within the Black community—and reflects on 16+ years of therapeutic practice. Purpose of the Interview The interview aims to: 1. Introduce Marsha Evans’ holistic mental health approach Rushion invites Marsha to explain how she blends psychology, somatics, and sound‑based healing to help people process stress differently.  2. Explain the FELT Experience and its healing framework Marsha details her signature F.E.L.T. model—Free, Expand, Listen, Transform—and why embodied emotional experience is key to healing.  3. Share her personal journey She discusses how sports, music, and modalities like breathwork and yoga helped her turn stress into purpose.  4. Encourage new perspectives on mental health in the Black community She and Rushion address the stigma, evolution, and growing acceptance of mental health support.  5. Showcase community‑centered healing Marsha emphasizes connection, shared experiences, and intentional spaces that allow vulnerability and transformation.  Key Takeaways 1. Healing Requires Intentionality Marsha explains that activities like massage or yoga can be therapeutic—but only when approached with intentionality, presence, and consent to release emotional tension.  2. The Body Holds Stories (“The body keeps the score”) She emphasizes that the body stores emotional experiences, and modalities like breathwork, sound healing, and somatic movement help release what the mind can’t articulate.  3. The FELT Framework The FELT Experience moves participants through: F – Free: Permission to just be (coloring, resting, arriving without expectations) E – Expand: Allowing the body to open and receive L – Listen: To one’s own body, movement, and emotional cues T – Transform: The hardest phase—moving from chaos to peace  4. Safe Community Spaces Accelerate Healing Marsha’s events often result in participants forming friendships, emotional breakthroughs, and even planning outings together—an indicator of her program’s power.  5. People Are Conditioned to Avoid Emotions Growing up, she was taught to hide emotions in competitive sports—especially tears as a sign of weakness. Her therapeutic mission now is to help others unlearn similar conditioning.  6. Cultural Shifts Around Mental Health Marsha highlights major strides in the Black community, especially post‑COVID, as more people (including athletes) publicly acknowledge mental health struggles.  7. Therapy Isn’t Just Talking She incorporates nonverbal tools like: Play therapy Sand tray therapy Sound healing Somatic movement YogaThese help clients who can’t articulate their emotions—especially those conditioned to suppress them.  8. Human Connection Still Matters—even in an AI World Marsha is open to exploring AI in mental health but insists that physical presence, touch, and human empathy are irreplaceable.  Notable Quotes (from the transcript) On her calming presence “I think laughter is good for the soul… just being able to find peace has been really big for me… It’s just a God‑given talent.”  On coping mechanisms “As long as I had some type of music or some form of therapy… I could navigate any stressful environment.”  On cooking as therapy (reflecting Rushion’s habits) “You’re creating new neural pathways… recalibrating your nervous system.”  On intentional healing “Yoga and massages can be therapeutic, but you have to be intentional.”  On the purpose of the FELT Experience “In order to release whatever your body is experiencing, you have to have a felt experience.”  On the challenge of transformation “We are used to chaos… but we’re not used to healed environments.”  On the evolution of her practice “I wanted to understand the whole person… and help them change the dial on their dashboard to fit their calling.”  On mental health in the Black community “People perceive admission as a flaw… but healing is about understanding your story.”  On creating safe spaces “By creating a space of safety and healing… people get to live the life they desired and not a life from survival.”  #SHMS #BEST #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, March 25th, 2026. Subject: "Don't Rock The Boat"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Tuesday, March 24th, 2026. Subject: "I Love My Two Men Equally"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Monday, March 23rd, 2026. Subject: "He Brought Home Bedbugs"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, March 18th, 2026. Subject: "Number 2 Will Never Be Number 1"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, March 18th, 2026. Subject: "Up & Down All The Time"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Tuesday, March 17th, 2026. Subject: "I Don't Know My Parents Anymore"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Monday, March 16th, 2026. Subject: "I Can't Imagine Him With Big Mama"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Friday, March 13th, 2026. Subject: "My Ex Was on My Couch "See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Thursday, March 12th, 2026. Subject: "She Put It On Me"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday, March 11th, 2026. Subject: "I Feel Homeless At Home"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Tuesday, March 10th, 2026. Subject: "I'm Submissive, But He Is Worth It"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Monday, March 9th, 2026. Subject: "He Won't Stay Out of My Stuff"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Friday, March 6th, 2026. Subject: "She Only Wants To Be A Baby Mama"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
The Strawberry Letter heard on The Steve Harvey Morning Show Thursday, March 5th, 2026. Subject: "He's Not Welcome Over Here"See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Bamidele Farinre Founder of No Ceiling Consulting, a biomedical scientist, STEM expert, agile project manager, and advocate for professional development, mentorship, and removing internal and systemic limitations (“ceilings”). They discuss her STEM background, the evolving role of AI in science, the meaning of “no ceilings,” navigating personal and professional barriers, mentorship, setbacks, agile leadership, and how individuals—especially people of color—can create opportunity even in the face of bias and structural limitations. 🎯 Purpose of the Interview The purpose of having Bamidele on the show was to: 1. Highlight her work at No Ceiling Consulting Her firm helps individuals and organizations unlock potential, elevate performance, and lead with purpose, specializing in STEM leadership, DEI, professional development, and agile project management. 2. Explore the concept of “No Ceilings” She provides a framework for breaking through personal and professional barriers—emphasizing that many “ceilings” are internal, learned, or based on access and systemic issues. 3. Discuss STEM, AI, and the future of work She explains the growing role of automation and AI, how it reshapes STEM roles, and why professionals must upskill, adapt, and embrace professional development. 4. Provide strategies for career advancement Her insights include mentorship, persistence, self‑advocacy, managing setbacks, and adopting agile mindsets. 💡 Key Takeaways 1. STEM + AI = New Opportunities, Not Job Loss Automation and AI enhance efficiency, reduce manual labor, and create new roles—especially in labs and diagnostics. Instead of replacing workers, AI demands that professionals upskill and leverage technology for faster, better outcomes..txt).txt)  2. “No Ceilings” Means Removing Internal + External Barriers Bamidele distinguishes between: Personal ceilings Internal doubts Imposter syndrome Feeling “not enough” despite capability Learned perceptions from bias or discouraging environments Professional ceilings Being overlooked for opportunities Lack of access to resources (even when resources exist) Systemic barriers, bias, and limited upward mobility “No ceilings” means operating from a mindset of possibility, not limitation. 3. Mentorship Is the Missing Link in Many Careers Mentorship provides: Guidance Access A blueprint from those who have “been there” Confidence building She explains that while mentorship is more visible today, access to the right mentorship still matters. 4. Setbacks Are Strategies in Disguise She argues setbacks can redirect you to more aligned paths. Her personal example: She failed her A‑level science subjects in the UK A lecturer told her to “rethink her career” Instead, she re‑enrolled, tried again, and succeeded Setbacks force reassessment, new strategies, and new paths—if you don’t let them define you. 5. Professional Success Requires Initiative and Advocacy She emphasizes: Don’t wait for opportunities—go after them Knock on multiple doors Apply for roles even if you don’t feel 100% ready Learn from interviews even if you don’t get the job Rushion supports this point with his IBM story: opportunity started when he stopped complaining and clearly shared his goals. 6. Agile Leadership Applies Beyond Technology Agile principles help leaders: Think quickly and adapt Focus on collaboration and accountability Encourage self‑management Support teams through “servant leadership” Reflect and iterate rather than waiting for perfect plans Agile mindset = resilience + responsiveness. 7. Faith, Vision, and Purpose Drive Her Journey Bamidele speaks candidly about: Faith guiding her through rejection and setbacks Conversations with God grounding her Believing her life is a “living testimony” of grace and perseverance 🗣 Notable Quotes (with citations) On AI and automation “Automation makes life easier… without it, manual methods take hours, weeks, months to get results.”.txt) [Bamidele F…(Podcast) | Txt] On embracing AI “AI is not taking your jobs, but those that ignore the AI will be left behind.” On personal ceilings “You’re thinking to yourself, ‘I can’t do it,’ even though you have the evidence to show you can.” On professional ceilings “You may have access, but you don’t have access to access.” On initiative “I don’t wait for opportunities—I always go for it. Worst case, you’ll say no.” On setbacks “When you have a setback, you’re thinking: what can I do? This can’t stop me.” On mindset “Life is all about risk. You have to look for solutions; there has to be another way.” On faith “Grace carried me to where I am today… my life is a living testimony.” On the meaning of ‘No Ceilings’ “Why do we even have a ceiling in the first place? Let’s operate in a world where we don’t see the ceiling—only possibilities.”.txt)  #SHMS #STRAW #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Wavelyn (WavyWav)

he eating that berry...

Sep 2nd
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Neenah Beenah

He shouldn't have gotten with her and had a baby if it bothered him so much. That doesn't give him a free pass to cheat for the entire relationship

Jan 30th
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Eighttwo Faye

Sounds like he needs to pick a struggle - not work or trash sex. 🫣🫣🫣

Oct 2nd
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Eighttwo Faye

I think the “joint custody” of the dog is his way of staying in the wife’s life.

Jul 1st
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MIKE SHIELDS

the ignorance and hypocrisy in the responses to this letter is hilarious. you old folks funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Jan 29th
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Tshetshe Moatshe Khosi

Hey everyone! Loving the podcast all the way from South Africa! Cracking up everyday. Thank you all.

Sep 14th
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Samantha Green

#UngratefulHeffer

Jun 15th
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Why don't we do it in the road?

Steve's British accent sounds like Bill Cosby lmfao.

Nov 2nd
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Rhonda Brown

this is the nasty of nasties...they were flirting from jump street . .he could have stopped it at the beginning ....nasty self

Oct 26th
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Lakisha Brown

Has she EVER been around a child? She trippin

Oct 13th
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Shae La Vie

girl, what in thee hell. run, this man is crazy!!!!

Jun 12th
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Rhonda Brown

Mom-ma daddy got another wife in Brazil! I would tell, momma probably know he got a side-chick, but don't know they married...

Jun 2nd
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Shae La Vie

Nope. Don't comprise. Celebrate with your own mama on mother's day. she's selfish.

May 13th
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Shae La Vie

whaaat? this man needs to explain a little more.

Apr 13th
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Samantha Green

Men are so damn dumb! If u want her to initiate sex, help her with dishes or vacuum the whole house. Try scrubbing some toilets & sweeping/mopping floors. Make sure u ain't talking rude to her without realizing it. Ask for feedback from her, or anyone who spends time around y'all. Give her a back rub without expecting sex! FOR REAL DON'T EXPECT IT! If u really can do that & get thru the night, sexless, do the same thing next day, bet she jumps on u! Just do anything u can to make her life easier. And don't do it for sex. Do it for her. Promise u if u can do this without ultior motives, she'll want u so bad u won't be able to get her off u.

Apr 12th
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Stephanie Woods Johnson

he is stupid!!!! he fell for it and now he is going to lose his wife 🤔

Apr 10th
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Samantha Green

Leave Shirley alone! I found out about Furries on an episode of CSI Miami when in the 1st few seasons.

Mar 21st
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Samantha Green

Steve sure is taking this one personal! Wonder why, LoL

Feb 6th
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Rhonda Brown

She knew exactly what she was doing, bc why would she call him and ask why he wasn't angry, she wanted drama to see if he had feelings for her...games will get you no where, at least if she play lotto she has a better chance of winning. She mad bc he killed it and she can't stop thinking about it. She's crazy!

Jan 22nd
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Rhonda Brown

This was planned they were already messing around. She got the "no good" to ask her husband if he can stay with them. I see this clear as day. That was too easy, there is always a back story, the husband just didn't know the back story. He's a habitual cheater, biw he gonna cheat with her cousin...she is super, duper dumb!!

Jan 15th
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