Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children

Welcome back to "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children" Join Laine Lawson Craft as she continues with expert guest Kathy Cunningham for an eye-opening episode designed to help parents set healthy, faith-based boundaries with adult children—without guilt or shame. If you're battling with prodigal children, facing manipulation, or just need spiritual guidance, this conversation is for you. 🌟 Resources & Links Mentioned Laine's Website & Book: Warfare Parenting First 10 days free! Many other free resources available. Kathy Cunningham's Website & Membership Community Parents of Addicted Loved Ones Support Group Rate & Review: Please subscribe & leave a review to help other parents find support! 👤 Kathy Cunningham – Guest Bio Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned family coach, author, and facilitator with decades of experience helping parents navigate complex parent-child relationships, especially those involving addiction, manipulation, and emotional struggles. Her spiritually grounded advice empowers parents to set boundaries with compassion and confidence. Kathy is also the facilitator of the nationwide PAL (Parents of Addicted Loved Ones) support group, offering tools, community, and guidance for parents facing crisis situations. 🔑 Key Talking Points The spiritual and emotional necessity of boundaries for adult children How to handle manipulation and emotional abuse with faith-based strength The practical steps for boundary setting without punishment or guilt The role of forgiveness and how to approach difficult conversations calmly Warning signs that it's time to set new boundaries (resentment, anxiety, burnout) Building spiritual resilience and using biblical truth to restore family harmony Handling outside criticism and finding supportive community Short-term pain for long-term peace: enduring discomfort for lasting healing ⏱️ Detailed Timestamps 00:00:01 – Introduction & spiritual mission of the podcast 00:02:13 – Tackling emotional manipulation & abusive dynamics 00:04:52 – The role of forgiveness, calm confrontation, and reset strategies 00:08:00 – Recognizing normal conflict and emotional "red zones" 00:09:57 – Responding to repeated boundary testing and preventing burnout 00:11:42 – Emotional & spiritual warning signs for setting new boundaries 00:12:51 – Examples: Overhelping & grandparent boundary-setting 00:14:25 – Faith as an anchor for consistent boundaries (Galatians 6:2-5) 00:16:20 – Handling criticism from outsiders and building a support system 00:19:07 – Kathy's resources for parents and support group information 00:20:47 – Short-term pain for long-term peace: Kathy's boundary wisdom 00:22:49 – Conclusion: Boundaries as bridges to healing 🎬 Conclusion This episode of Warfare Parenting Podcast with Laine Lawson Craft and Kathy Cunningham offers faith-based, actionable strategies for parents struggling to set boundaries with adult children. By staying steady, kind, and spiritually anchored, you can protect your family, restore hope, and break cycles of guilt and manipulation—empowering lasting peace for everyone involved.  

Welcome to "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children" Join host Laine Lawson Craft and returning guest Kathy Cunningham for this powerful episode: Letting Go Without Losing Them: Parenting Adult Children With Peace + Prayer Whether you're facing a crisis with prodigal children, struggling to give spiritual guidance, or learning to let go of adult children, this episode is packed with hope-filled, biblical strategies and heartfelt wisdom. Laine and Kathy dive deep into emotional transitions, trust, boundaries, and practical ways to love your adult children without losing connection. Resources & Links Mentioned Laine Lawson Craft's website & FREE resources: lainelawsoncraft.com Get the first 10 days of Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child FREE! Kathy Cunningham's website & Membership Community: kathyCunningham.org Details on the Grace Restored Membership, Uncovered Grace Course, and support groups. Rate & Review the Podcast: Subscribe and review on your favorite platform to help other struggling parents find hope. Kathy Cunningham is a renowned Christian author, speaker, and parental strategist, specializing in healing family dynamics and restoring relationships between parents and their adult children. With personal experience navigating her son's 15-year battle with addiction and a heartfelt journey of releasing control to trust in God, Kathy brings wisdom grounded in scripture and real-life application. Founder of Grace Restored Membership, Kathy empowers parents through online courses, workshops, and an active support community, fostering emotional and spiritual growth. Her Uncovered Grace course delves into personal healing, breaking toxic family patterns, and rediscovering faith-based resilience. Kathy is dedicated to offering compassionate counsel, putting prayer and unconditional love at the center of her ministry. Key Talking Points How to discern between supporting and interfering with adult children Approaching concerns with humility instead of intrusion Trusting God in real time when children's choices conflict with your values The power of prayer over fear and control Loving from a healthy distance while maintaining connection Emotional transition from provider/protector to advisor/encourager Setting respectful boundaries (holidays, unsolicited advice, home visits) How to rebuild connection after "holding on too tightly" Biblical examples of godly parents letting go (Hannah, Mary, prodigal's father, Abraham) The importance of parental support groups for healing and hope Detailed Timestamps (YouTube Format) 00:00:02 – Intro: Warfare Parenting's Mission 00:00:54 – Emotional Transition: Letting Go of Adult Children 00:02:02 – Support vs. Interference Explained 00:03:39 – Gently Addressing Concerns Without Intrusion 00:05:11 – Healthy Ways to Offer Feedback 00:05:36 – Trusting God When You Disagree 00:06:48 – Prayer Over Control & Painful Experiences 00:08:47 – Loving Unconditionally Amid Lifestyle Differences 00:09:43 – Becoming Advisors and Encouragers 00:10:40 – Boundaries That Preserve Peace 00:12:34 – Family Traditions and Holiday Respect 00:14:25 – Rebuilding Connection After Overstepping 00:15:15 – Biblical Examples: Letting Go in Faith 00:17:19 – Laying Children at God's Altar 00:18:39 – Never Losing Hope—Mission of Warfare Parenting 00:19:10 – Kathy's Grace Restored Membership & Resources 00:21:23 – Final Encouragement: Grow, Trust, Join Support Groups 00:22:40 – Outro, Special Resources & Next Episode Preview Conclusion This conversation with Laine Lawson Craft and Kathy Cunningham offers a compassionate roadmap for healing, letting go, and staying spiritually anchored while parenting adult children. With honest stories and biblical grounding, you're equipped to find peace, hold on to hope, and rebuild trust. Subscribe, share, and rate to help other families grow in faith as they navigate the hardest seasons of parenting.  

🎙️ Welcome to "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children"! In this heartfelt episode, host Laine Lawson Craft sits down with author and speaker Edie Melson to explore how grief can transform, not drown, us—and how God's creativity can help heal our hurting souls. If you're a parent or grandparent struggling with loss, a family crisis, or a prodigal child, this conversation is full of faith-driven encouragement and hands-on strategies for healing. RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED: Laine Lawson Craft's Website: lainelawsoncraft.com Free first 10 days of "Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child": Download Here Edie Melson's Website & Books: ediemelson.com Soul Care for Weary Creatives (FREE starter kit): Download Here Find Edie on Amazon: Edie Melson on Amazon Rate & Review the Podcast: Wherever you listen—Apple, Spotify, Google Podcasts! GUEST BIO: Edie Melson Edie Melson is an author, blogger, and international speaker passionate about helping others find God's comfort through creativity, especially in seasons of grief and weariness. With a legacy of creative parents (her mother a watercolor artist), Edie brings a fearless approach to healing through words, photography, and hands-on exercises. Her acclaimed "Soul Care" series, including Soul Care When You're Grieving, empowers readers with practical tools for emotional and spiritual restoration. Through workshops, books, and her blog, Edie inspires countless individuals to embrace healing, hope, and creative expression. KEY TALKING POINTS: How creativity can be a catalyst for healing during deep grief Edie's personal testimony of losing her daughter-in-law and how God prepared her Practical ways to start creative soul care—journaling, photography, walks The myth of "stages" of grief being linear Why everyone's grief process is uniquely their own How to draw closer to God through prayer, journaling, and creative play The power and importance of bringing emotions into the light Creating connection points with loved ones through creative activities Edie's "Soul Care" series—help for weary, grieving, creative, and empty nester souls Encouragement that joy does return after grief DETAILED TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Intro: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents 00:55 - Meet Edie Melson: Author & creativity as healing 02:11 - Edie's backstory & divine timing of grief 04:20 - Losing her daughter-in-law & God's preparation 06:00 - Creativity and grief: Edie's farm walks, finding God in the "frozen" moments 07:49 - Defining creativity and why everyone is creative 10:33 - How to start creative healing in grief: the "one word" exercise 12:22 - Do the stages of grief really happen in order? 14:25 - Grief as a unique, personal journey 15:22 - The lifelong process of grief and healing 18:29 - How journaling leads to healing and creativity 20:53 - Edie's Soul Care books & creative exercises 21:10 - Using prayer for creative connection with God 22:49 - Asking God to reveal new creative gifts in hard seasons 23:45 - Handling hard emotions, letting God into the mess 23:57 - Bible study's role in soul care 25:54 - Where to find and connect with Edie Melson 27:02 - Edie's closing words for those grieving 27:46 - Conclusion: Soul care isn't selfish, it's sacred 28:35 - Laine's final encouragement and free resources CONCLUSION This episode reminds us that our deepest grief can become a sacred place of encounter with God, especially when we embrace creativity as healing. Edie Melson's wisdom and practical tips offer hope that joy does indeed return, and caring for your soul isn't selfish—it's part of God's healing plan. Don't forget to check out Laine's resources and Edie's website for more support. You're not alone!

Welcome Listeners! Dive into a brand new episode of "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children"—hosted by Laine Lawson Craft with special guest Edie Melson. This episode is titled: "Too Weary to Pray? How Creativity Became My Lifeline to God." Join Laine and Edie as they explore how creative practices like journaling, coloring, and play can offer a sacred avenue for healing when faith seems hard to reach and everyday life leaves you drained. Resources & Links Mentioned Laine Lawson Craft's Website & Free Resources: https://lainelawsoncraft.com Get the first 10 days of her book "Warfare: A daily battle plan to fight for your child" FREE! Access additional free parenting resources. Edie Melson's Website, Facebook Group & Books: https://ediemelson.com Find all Edie's books, including the Soul Care series, on Amazon. Support the Podcast! Subscribe and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform to help other struggling parents find hope and guidance. About the Guest: Edie Melson Edie Melson is a renowned author, speaker, and creative soul with a passion for helping others find spiritual rest and healing through creativity. With a background shaped by an artistic family—her father a musician and photographer, her mother an internationally known watercolorist—Edie learned to blend art with faith early on. She's the creator of the popular Soul Care devotional series, offering practical ways to reconnect with God during times of weariness, grief, or change. Edie is also the mother of a Marine, an experienced caregiver, and leads ongoing workshops and online communities guiding countless individuals toward spiritual renewal. Key Talking Points The reality of soul-weariness in parents facing battles with children Edie's journey: Caring for her father, finding God in the margins through small creative acts Why soul care is essential, not optional Creativity as a God-given trait in everyone—cooking, art, music, moving, even doodling Journaling, naming emotions, and the healing process How negativity and anxiety can be processed via creative outlets Edie's powerful testimony as a Marine mom and how journaling brought comfort and clarity The Soul Care book series—topics include weariness, grief, creativity, and empty nesting Prayer as an ongoing, relationship-based conversation with God Encouragement for listeners: Even in exhaustion, God is present and ready to meet them Detailed Time Stamps 00:00:01 — Laine introduces Edie and sets the stage for weary listeners 00:02:14 — Edie shares how she turned to creativity during tough caregiving years 00:04:52 — The importance of self-care for weary parents 00:05:20 — Edie's creative upbringing and family background 00:06:33 — Inspiration for the Soul Care book series 00:07:49 — Creative acts break tension and let God's truth in 00:09:28 — Journaling and naming emotions: Essential for healing 00:10:19 — Everyone is inherently creative—ways to discover your unique outlet 00:11:38 — Overview of the Soul Care series 00:12:37 — Journaling through a Marine son's deployment—processing fears 00:16:50 — Turning personal journals into books that serve others 00:17:08 — Edie's journey to a genuine, ongoing prayer life 00:18:49 — Refusing to disconnect from God in weariness 00:19:09 — Soul Care workshops and Facebook group 00:20:26 — Where to find Edie's resources and connect online 00:21:20 — Final encouragement: God meets you in the in-between moments 00:22:29 — Laine's closing: Creativity as a holy path to healing Conclusion No matter how weary you are, creativity can be your lifeline to God. From journaling and doodling to embracing any personal form of creativity, Edie Melson gently reminds us: soul care is essential, not optional. Subscribe and share your feedback—your support helps others find hope!  

🎙️ Welcome listeners to the latest episode of "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children" Ready to reclaim your family's faith in today's turbulent world? You're in the right place! Join Laine Lawson Craft and renowned guest Lauren Green as they explore urgent threats facing Christian parents in 2025—including the erosion of faith in public schools, dangers online, and spiritual strategies to shield today's teens and adult children. Resources and Links Mentioned Laine Lawson Craft's Website & Free Resources Download the first 10 days of "Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child" for free! Lauren Green's Books: "Light for Today" and "Lighthouse Faith" available on Amazon and Christian booksellers Broad Street Publishing and HarperCollins Fox News - Lauren Green (for articles and podcast info) Rate and subscribe on your favorite podcast platform to support fellow parents! About Lauren Green Lauren Green is the Chief Religion Correspondent for FOX News, known for her profound insights at the crossroads of faith, culture, and public life. With decades of journalistic experience, Lauren investigates major faith-driven issues shaping society and empowers families to hold fast to biblical values amidst modern chaos. She is also the acclaimed author of "Light for Today" and "Lighthouse Faith," blending journalism and spiritual guidance to inspire hearts nationwide. Key Talking Points The hidden secular agendas in today's public schools and how parents can respond The strategic removal of Christian values from education: historical context and current impact Practical, biblical steps to reclaim parental authority and spiritual influence at home The digital battlefield: protecting children from online threats, bullying, and harmful content Why developing Christ-centered values trumps tight control of tech and screens Insights into raising the next generation (Generation Beta) in the AI era The critical importance of fathers and strong family structures, and the legacy of the sexual revolution Honest discussion about countercultural purity, resilience, and passing on faith-driven values Developing hope and daily faith habits as armor for the everyday parenting "grind" Detailed Time Stamps 00:00:01 – Introduction: The spiritual battlefield for modern parents 00:02:12 – Lauren Green on today's top family challenges: schools, values, and media 00:05:50 – Biblical principles: How parenting starts at home 00:06:35 – Navigating bullying, teen mental health, and open conversations 00:09:16 – Digital dangers & spiritual armor for kids in the age of AI and smartphones 00:11:29 – Should kids have phones? Parenting wisdom for tech boundaries 00:14:00 – Raising Gen Beta: AI, biblical discernment, and family practices 00:17:02 – Everyday challenges, fathers' importance, and influence in the home 00:22:32 – Addressing the impact of the sexual revolution & restoring biblical standards 00:25:19 – Teaching value and purity in a countercultural world 00:26:40 – Lauren's final encouragement: Knowing God above all else 00:28:04 – Conclusion, free resources, and closing encouragement Conclusion This episode equips parents with faith-driven, practical strategies to withstand the escalating pressures facing families in 2025. Whether you're grappling with public school influences, digital threats, or everyday overwhelm, Laine and Lauren offer hope, biblical wisdom, and decisive steps to safeguard your child's spiritual legacy. Be sure to visit lainelawsoncraft.com for your free resources, to subscribe and rate the podcast, and to equip yourself for victory in today's family battlefield.

Welcome, listeners, to this heartfelt episode, Praying With Joy: Even When Your Adult Child Is Breaking Your Heart, where we dive deep into the journey of parenting, letting go, and rediscovering hope. Join host Laine Lawson Craft on the "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children", and special guest Mary DeMuth as she offers faith-driven insights, encouragement, and practical strategies for all parents struggling with wayward teens and adult children. Whether you're in the thick of a parenting battle or seeking support for your faith walk, you'll find warmth, wisdom, and real-life tools to reclaim joy and strength in your prayers. Mentioned Resources & Links: Mary DeMuth's website: marydemuth.com Free year of prayers for your adult kids: marydemuth.com/LPL (Love Pray Listen) Laine Lawson Craft's daily battle plan book & free first 10 days: lanelawsoncraft.com About Mary DeMuth Mary DeMuth is an acclaimed author, international speaker, and passionate advocate for families in the trenches of parenting challenges. Drawing on her personal journey and biblical wisdom, Mary has authored over forty books, including "Love, Pray, Listen: Parenting Your Wayward Adult Kids With Joy." She equips parents to navigate disappointment and guilt, pointing them toward faith-rooted hope, resilient love, and transformative prayer. Mary's compassionate voice and practical insights have encouraged countless families to persevere through heartbreak, embrace community, and find God's joy and strength in every season. Key Talking Points The grief of unmet parenting expectations and its impact Moving from guilt and self-blame toward freedom and forgiveness The essential framework: Love, Pray, Listen How to infuse prayers with genuine joy, even in pain Why listening is crucial for healing parent-child relationships Shifting from controlling outcomes to trusting God's timing Building strength through community and persistent, faith-filled prayer Letting go of parenting formulas and embracing dependence on Jesus Writing, journaling, and processing as tools for parental growth Redefining love—honesty without enabling, boundaries with compassion Time Stamps 00:00 - Welcome & Episode Introduction 01:02 - Meet Mary DeMuth: Journey & Inspiration behind Love, Pray, Listen 02:09 - Grieving Lost Expectations: Where Joy Begins 05:01 - The Framework: Love, Pray, Listen Explained 06:31 - Loving the "Unlovable" & Conditional Love 07:43 - Facing Parental Guilt & Letting Go of Self-Blame 10:23 - The Power of Holy Curiosity & Listening 12:30 - Fear-Based vs. Joyful Prayer: Biblical Perspective 13:57 - Taking the Long View: Patience in Prayer and Waiting 15:51 - Standing Firm without Compromising Convictions 17:37 - Letting Go: Faith, Expectations, and Returning Children 18:48 - Joy & Heartache: Learning to Let Go and Lean on God 19:56 - Importance of Community for Parents 21:30 - Daily Practices for Hope & Strength 22:35 - How the Book Changed Mary's Parenting & Prayer 24:06 - Lasting Impact: Letting Go of the Idol of Family 25:37 - Where to Find More from Mary DeMuth 26:20 - Mary's Final Encouragements 27:36 - Episode Conclusion & Free Resources Conclusion Thank you for joining Laine Lawson Craft and Mary DeMuth in this powerful conversation on finding joy amid parenting heartbreak. Remember: your prayers, infused with hope and grounded in faith, can transform not just your child's journey—but your own. Dive deeper with "Love, Pray, Listen" and the resources linked above to strengthen your spirit, reclaim joy, and never lose hope.  

What One Survivor Wants Every Christian Parent to Know About Trauma, Forgiveness, and Healing in Jesus' Name Welcome to this powerful episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children with host Laine Lawson Craft. In today's conversation, we walk courageously alongside guest author Mary Demuth as she revisits her harrowing journey from childhood sexual abuse to breathtaking healing and unshakeable faith. With compassion and openness, Mary shares the keys every Christian parent needs to break cycles of pain, find hope, and guide families into God's redeeming embrace. Whether you're struggling with your own traumas or seeking biblical wisdom for your children, you'll find light and strategy here for even the darkest moments. Resources & Links Mentioned: MaryDeMuth.com – Explore Mary's website for her books, resources, and more. Love, Pray, Listen (book page) – Learn more about the book featured in this episode. Laine's website: lainelawsoncraft.com Book: "Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child" — First 10 days free on Laine's website About Mary DeMuth Mary DeMuth is an international speaker, podcaster, and author of over forty books, whose message of healing, faith, and hope has touched thousands worldwide. As a survivor of severe childhood abuse and neglect, Mary uses her story to encourage those wounded by trauma—helping them move toward redemption through Jesus. Through honest conversations, books, and resources, she equips parents and individuals to address deep wounds, walk the long journey of forgiveness, and find true wholeness in God's grace. Key Talking Points Mary's early experiences of abuse and family instability How trauma, secrecy, and shame shaped her self-worth and relationships The intersection of faith and healing: coming to Christ as a teenager The role of community, prayer, and support in her recovery Unique and varied journeys of healing—therapy, prayer, EMDR, brainspotting The layered, personal process of forgiveness versus misconceptions How parents' healing impacts their children and generational cycles Practical signs of child abuse and effective, compassionate response Anchoring Scriptures and biblical truths Mary clings to during darkness Ongoing journey of healing and encouragement for those still in pain Time Stamps 00:00 – Introduction by Laine Lawson Craft 01:12 – Mary DeMuth's story of abuse and resilience 03:18 – Family instability, homelessness, early abuse 07:35 – How secrecy and shame broke Mary's self-image 08:54 – Suicidal thoughts and the start of healing 09:46 – Faith as the turning point: meeting Jesus, finding community 11:16 – The role of therapy, support, and prayer in recovery 14:07 – EMDR, brainspotting & unique ways God heals 14:22 – The complexity and layers of forgiveness 16:52 – Challenges and freedom of sharing her testimony publicly 18:19 – Scriptural anchors for healing and hope 19:54 – How Mary's healing impacts her own parenting 22:07 – Warning signs of child abuse; how parents can respond 24:28 – What Mary would tell her younger self 25:47 – Ongoing healing and encouragement for survivors 27:00 – Where to connect with Mary DeMuth and further resources 27:33 – Final encouragements and conclusion Conclusion Mary DeMuth's story illuminates the fierce power of faith and the lifelong, deliberate journey toward healing and forgiveness. If you've ever felt too broken or lost in trauma, know there is hope, redemption, and practical help available. Be encouraged—your story isn't over, and God's grace runs deeper still.

Welcome listeners to this heartfelt episode, "When Healing Hurts: A Mom's Journey Through Boundaries, Backlash, and Breakthrough," on Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. Host Laine Lawson Craft is joined by guest Tammy Kennington for an authentic and faith-filled look at healing after family crisis, setting boundaries, facing setbacks, and discovering hope during the messy "in-between." If you're struggling with a prodigal child or are in a fragile season of healing, this episode offers community, powerful strategies, and reminders that restoration is possible. Resources & Links Mentioned Tammy Kennington's Website: www.tammykennington.com   Connect with Tammy on Substack: tammykennington.substack.com   Laine Lawson Craft's Website & Book: lainelawsoncraft.com   Warfare Parenting Small Groups Info: Visit lainelawsoncraft.com   Warfare Parenting Book (first 10 days free): See website for details About Tammy Kennington Tammy Kennington is a passionate advocate, speaker, and writer dedicated to supporting families navigating mental health challenges, trauma, and the journey of healing. As a mother who has faced her own family's crises—including her son's struggle with complex PTSD—Tammy shares openly from her experiences to break stigma and offer hope. She encourages others to anchor their faith in God as they walk through dark seasons and is committed to building supportive communities for parents and caregivers. Learn more or connect with Tammy at tammykennington.com and on Substack. Key Talking Points The vulnerability and emotional turmoil experienced in the aftermath of a crisis with a child   The surprising length and complexity of the healing process   Navigating boundaries: creating, enforcing, and managing backlash from your child   Setting black-and-white consequences to provide clarity for parents and children   The role of community support, and the challenge of finding nonjudgmental allies   Building trust with your child again, one small step at a time   Coping with setbacks and relapses as a normal part of the recovery process   Staying grounded in faith and scripture through uncertainty and fear   The reality of parental self-doubt, exhaustion, and secondary trauma   Encouragement that God is working in the "messy middle," even when breakthroughs seem far off Detailed Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction: The aftermath and the "in-between" season of healing 01:37 – Welcome & guest introduction: Tammy Kennington's story 02:28 – Recap of Tammy's crisis and beginning recovery steps 02:53 – What the first few weeks post-crisis looked like 04:11 – The biggest surprise in the recovery journey 04:48 – Discussion on boundaries and handling backlash 06:21 – Parental self-doubt and relying on community 07:14 – Staying grounded despite emotional upheaval 08:20 – Relapses and setbacks: handling them emotionally and spiritually 10:12 – Helping children reframe setbacks as part of the process 10:41 – The role (and sometimes absence) of community and overcoming stigma 12:10 – Learning to trust your child again 13:34 – Overcoming the lowest points and where strength came from 15:22 – Key scripture for strength: "He will restore the years the locust have eaten" 16:04 – Encouragement for parents in the middle of the struggle 17:07 – Building community: info on Warfare Parenting small groups 17:56 – How to connect with Tammy Kennington 18:14 – Final encouragement: God's faithfulness and your child's testimony 19:41 – Closing: hope in the messy middle and resources for parents 21:00 – Outro and invitation to subscribe Conclusion Even when healing feels slow and hope seems fragile, you are not alone. This episode reminds us that God is working, especially in the messy middle. Hold on, seek out supportive community, and remember—your journey and your child's healing are not over yet. Tune in, subscribe, and share to help other parents find hope and strategies for their own battles.

Welcome to "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children" Hosted by Laine Lawson Craft with Special Guest Tammy Kennington 🔗 Resources & Links Mentioned Tammy Kennington's Substack — Connect, read Tammy's writing, and request prayer   Laine Lawson Craft's website — Free resources, "Warfare Parenting" book, and the 10-Day Parent's Battle Plan 👤 Guest Bio: Tammy Kennington Tammy Kennington is a dedicated mental health and life coach, author, and advocate for families walking through trauma and crisis. Drawing from both her professional expertise and profound personal experience, Tammy uplifts parents struggling with their child's mental health with compassionate, faith-fueled support. After navigating her own son's battle with trauma, depression, and addiction, she now writes and blogs at Substack, offering hope, practical strategies, and prayer. Tammy's story is one of resilience, faith, and the unwavering belief in God's ability to restore and heal even the most shattered families. 🔑 Key Talking Points The Crisis Call: Tammy's life-changing midnight phone call about her son contacting the suicide hotline   Recognizing the Signs: Early indicators of trauma and depression in teens   Parental Guilt & Faith Struggles: Tammy's battle with self-blame and spiritual anger   The Science of Trauma: How trauma affects the adolescent brain and behavior   Immediate Steps: The difficult decision to seek hospital care and subsequent recovery interventions   Community & Church Support: The power of community and faith in fostering healing   Practical Boundaries: Implementing a family "contract" for accountability and support   Caring for the Whole Family: Maintaining marriage, nurturing siblings, and self-care for parents   Battling Lies with Truth: Overcoming shame and false beliefs through scripture and reframing   Encouragement for Parents: Hope-filled, faith-driven guidance for moms in crisis ⏱️Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction & Setting the Stage 01:32 - Meet Tammy Kennington 02:00 - The Night Everything Changed: The Crisis Call 03:22 - Hotline Protocol & Support 04:13 - Early Signs of Trauma in Tammy's Son 05:38 - Guilt, Blame, and Faith Under Fire 06:49 - The Impact of Trauma on the Brain 08:30 - Faith Breakdown and Restoration 09:42 - Tough Parenting Decisions & Hospitalization 11:13 - Community and Church Support 12:19 - The Family Contract: Setting Boundaries 14:08 - Caring for Siblings and Marriage 16:08 - Self-care and Counseling for Parents 18:03 - Confronting Lies and Embracing Truth 19:50 - Encouragement for Moms in Crisis 21:57 - How to Find and Connect with Tammy 22:38 - Final Words & Faith for Struggling Parents 23:55 - Resources and Closing 🔚 Conclusion Tammy Kennington's powerful story is a beacon of hope for families facing their darkest seasons. Whatever heartbreak or battle you're in, remember: you are not alone. With faith, practical tools, and support, healing is possible. Keep praying, keep fighting—God is not done with your story. Don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review if this episode offered hope or insight! Visit all resources above for more help on your parenting journey.

🎧 Welcome, listeners! In this insightful episode of "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children," host Laine Lawson Craft sits down with Leslie Nunnery to tackle the pressing issues of technology, social media, and how parents can set healthy boundaries in a digital world. 🌐 Resources and Links Mentioned Pick up "Faith That Sticks: Five Real-Life Ways to Disciple Your Preteen Today" by Leslie Nunnery & Tricia Goyer wherever books are sold.   Visit Laine's website: lanelawsoncraft.com for free resources and the first 10 days of her new book, Warfare Parenting, at no cost. Leslie Nunnery Leslie Nunnery is a passionate advocate for intentional, biblically grounded parenting. As co-founder of Teach Them Diligently and co-author of "Faith That Sticks: Five Real-Life Ways to Disciple Your Preteen Today," Leslie has inspired countless families to embrace discipleship at home. A mother of four and now a proud grandmother, Leslie's real-life experience, combined with deep scriptural insight, enables her to encourage parents to grow strong, faith-filled relationships with their children. Whether addressing everyday struggles or big technology challenges, Leslie equips parents to foster faith that lasts a lifetime and helps families build resilience, hope, and strong connections in today's constantly evolving world. 📌 Key Talking Points Understanding the rapid brain development and emotional changes in preteens and teens (and how it impacts tech use)   The overwhelming influx of digital content and the importance of parental engagement—not avoidance   Practical boundaries for social media, phone/computer usage, and modeling intentional habits   Helping kids develop self-regulation and providing "ways of escape" from harmful situations online   Starting digital safety conversations early—even "as soon as they're out of your sight"   Using positive family time to offset digital distractions   The power of explainable rules—helping kids understand the "why" behind tech boundaries   Modeling healthy technology habits as parents (phones off during meals, being present, etc.)   Building strong relationships through conversation, service, and shared activities—offline!   Embracing mistakes, apologizing, and starting fresh in your parenting journey ⏱️ Detailed Time Stamps 00:00 - Intro: Transformations in preteens & parental influence 02:14 - Meet Leslie Nunnery and her parenting journey 04:39 - What parents need to know about preteen brain development 06:18 - The impact of digital content & social media on today's kids 09:39 - Strategies for setting healthy, effective digital boundaries 13:11 - When and how to start preparing kids for the digital world 15:13 - Practical steps for managing anger & big emotions in preteens 18:05 - The five pillars of faith that sticks: Prayer, Bible, Conversation, Service, Relationships 20:49 - Making scripture relevant & actionable for preteens 22:55 - The difference between hearing and truly listening 25:12 - Modeling intentional tech habits as a family 28:43 - Serving together: Family activities away from screens 30:37 - Navigating concerning friendships and building discernment 32:19 - Encouragement for parents who feel they've missed the mark 34:17 - Final encouragements and closing insights 36:06 - Resources and how to connect further 📝 Conclusion Leslie Nunnery reminds us that technology doesn't have to rule our homes; with faith, relationship, and intentional boundaries, parents can guide their children to navigate the digital age with wisdom. Show up authentically, model the behaviors you wish to see, and remember—every fresh start counts. For more resources, visit lanelawsoncraft.com. Subscribe and leave a review if you found this episode helpful!

  Struggling with your teen or adult child? Join us on "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children" where host Lane Lawson Craft and guest Dane Kamala share how faith and honest prayer can bring hope, healing, and renewed strength—even in the darkest moments. 👉 Resources & Links Mentioned Dayne Kamela's Social Media: Instagram: @litwithprayer   Dayne's Book: Choose Prayer, Not Despair on Amazon   Host's Book & Resources: Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child (First 10 Days FREE) About Dayne Kamela Dayne Kamela is a faith-based author, speaker, and mental health advocate whose personal journey through bipolar diagnosis, psychiatric hospitalization, and ultimate healing serves as a powerful testimony to the intersection of faith and mental health. For the past nine years, Dayne has remained medication-free, reaching millions globally through his social media ministry (@litwithprayer). As the author of "Choose Prayer, Not Despair," he encourages others with practical biblical tools to overcome anxiety, fear, and despair, offering honest guidance for parents and individuals navigating mental health crises. 📌 Key Talking Points Dayne's story: overcoming bipolar diagnosis and psychiatric challenges through faith and prayer   The transformational role of Dayne's mother's faith-filled, non-coercive parenting   Real-world tactics: choosing prayer over despair in daily mental health battles   The influence of unseen spiritual and digital forces on mental health   How to pray honestly and use scripture in the healing process   Addressing skeptics: perseverance in prayer and redefining spiritual expectations   The unique mental health challenges facing Gen Z and social media's effect   Vision for integrating faith and mental health resources in churches and counseling   Advice for parents and professionals seeking holistic approaches ⏱️ Detailed Time Stamps 00:00–01:02 - Introduction by Laine Lawson Craft; episode overview and guest intro   01:02–01:55 - Recap of Dayne's journey and the power of prayer in mental health battles   02:20–04:19 - Dayne discusses inspiration for his book and the importance of authentic testimony   04:19–05:32 - Challenges of sharing mental health experiences and writing vulnerably   05:44–07:41 - Biblical figures who faced despair; Dayne relates most to King David   07:58–09:42 - Unseen forces: tech, social media, and spiritual influences on the mind   09:42–11:59 - Dayne's practical prayer strategies for confronting anxiety, fear, and stress   11:59–14:28 - Addressing skepticism around prayer as a tool for mental wellness   14:28–15:59 - Prayer as relationship, not formula; Jesus as the ultimate example   16:07–18:37 - Gen Z's struggles with status, social media's impact, and filling the void with faith   18:37–20:29 - Dayne's perspective on fame, authenticity, and purpose-driven platform   20:44–22:09 - Vision for faith-based mental health support in churches   22:25–23:22 - Integrating prayer and therapy: Dayne's advocacy for holistic Christian counseling   23:40–24:22 - Final encouragement for readers of "Choose Prayer, Not Despair"   24:22–26:47 - Host's closing reflections, resources, and where to find Dayne online   26:51–end - Podcast wrap-up, subscription encouragement, and resources link 📝 Conclusion This episode of Warfare Parenting offers profound hope and biblical wisdom for parents and families navigating mental health battles. With vulnerability and authenticity, Dayne Kamela shows that prayer and faith can be transformative tools in facing despair. His story is a testament to the power of honest relationship with God and the importance of community support. Don't forget to grab Dayne's book and connect for ongoing encouragement!

Welcome to a brand new episode of "Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children." I'm your host, Laine Lawson Craft, and today, we're diving deep into a story of hope and resilience in "Set Free: How One Mother's Faith Broke the Chains of Mental Illness." In this powerful conversation, I'm joined by our special guest, Dayne Kamela, who bravely shares his journey through a devastating bipolar diagnosis and the overwhelming darkness that followed. Through it all, one constant remained—his mother's unwavering faith and the transformative power of prayer. Whether you're facing a family crisis, navigating a prodigal child's struggles, or searching for spiritual strategies to reclaim your child's destiny, this episode will equip and encourage you on your own path to healing and victory. Let's step into this faith-filled journey together. Resources & Links Mentioned Connect with Dayne Kamela on Instagram: @litwithprayer Join live Bible studies, prayer sessions, and encouragement at litwithprayer.com Find additional support, encouragement, and community for faith-driven parenting at Laine Lawson Craft's Website About Dayne Kamela Dayne Kamela is a faith-based speaker, author, and founder of the popular platform "Lit With Prayer." After experiencing a powerful deliverance from bipolar disorder through faith, Dayne has dedicated his life to encouraging others and sharing hope with parents and families facing spiritual and mental health crises. Through candid storytelling and actionable faith strategies, Dayne inspires audiences to embrace surrender, identity in Christ, and the persistent power of prayer. His journey demonstrates that freedom from bondage is possible for anyone—even when hope is hard to find. Key Talking Points The intersection of spiritual warfare and mental illness, including Dayne's own battle with bipolar disorder How personal development pursuits without spiritual grounding can be a doorway for the enemy The critical role of Dayne's mother's unwavering faith and prayer during his darkest times The experience of being delivered from spiritual oppression through church prayer Why standing in faith—even amid difficult diagnoses—can reshape your child's destiny Practical encouragement and biblical strategies for parents fighting for their children's freedom The importance of Christian community, support, and collaboration with professionals Detailed Episode Timestamps 0:00 – Introduction by Chris Rappazini and overview of spiritual warfare in parenting 1:05 – Dayne Kamela explains his belief in spiritual attack and the origins of his bipolar diagnosis 2:23 – Recounting Dayne's teenage bicycle accident and spiritual turning point 4:59 – Did early trauma lead to Dayne's manic episode? 5:44 – Discovering purpose through surrender and finding gifts from God 6:48 – The enemy's attack precisely targeted Dayne's spiritual growth 7:36 – Early signs of attack: Influence of the personal development/self-improvement world 10:18 – The progression from subtle oppression to full-blown mania 13:12 – Hospitalization, diagnosis, and initial treatment for bipolar disorder 14:41 – Consulting a Christian psychologist and standing in faith for healing 17:26 – Deliverance in church: Details of the moment Dayne was set free 19:59 – Powerful testimony: No family history, healed within months 21:44 – Direct encouragement from Dayne to parents in crisis 23:58 – The vital importance of a parent's steadfast faith in their child's deliverance 24:23 – Final encouragement and closing remarks Conclusion This episode is a raw, honest look at how faith, prayer, and relentless parental love can break mental and spiritual chains. Dayne Kamela's story offers hope and real strategies for parents facing the heartbreak of a child in crisis. Remember, the darkest battles can lead to the most powerful testimonies. Stay encouraged—your prayers and faith can change everything.

Welcome listeners to this powerful episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven Strategies for Struggling Parents of Teens and Adult Children, hosted by Laine Lawson Craft and featuring special guest Dayne Kamela. Today's conversation dives deep into how unwavering faith, persistent prayer, and gentle parenting transformed Dane's journey through mental illness, ultimately bringing hope and restoration for his entire family. Resources & Links Mentioned Lit With Prayer on Social Media — Resources on prayer and faith-based encouragement (find on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok). LaineLawsonCraft.com — Free resources and the first 10 days of Laine's new book, Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child. Guest Bio: Dayne Kamela Dayne Kamela is a faith-based mentor, speaker, and founder of the popular online ministry Lit With Prayer. Once diagnosed bipolar and hospitalized in his early twenties, Dane was told he'd require medication for life. Through the steadfast prayers of his mother and a transformative, personal commitment to Christ, Dane experienced a radical breakthrough—he has now lived medication-free for nine years. Today, Dane reaches millions online, sharing practical biblical wisdom and powerful strategies for overcoming mental health struggles, walking in freedom, and equipping others to deepen their relationship with God. His journey proves that with faith, hope truly does have the final word. Key Talking Points How Laine's guest Dayne Kamela overcame a bipolar diagnosis and psychiatric hospitalization (00:00-00:07)   The transformative role of Dane's mother's faith, prayer, and gentle guidance (00:02:03-00:05:38)   The importance of not forcing faith, but creating space for children to grow spiritually (00:04:48-00:05:38)   Lessons on battling anxiety and worry through scripture and encouragement (00:06:17-00:07:19)   Creating a home environment of vulnerability and honesty for children struggling with mental health (00:07:53-00:08:58)   The significance of sowing seeds of faith, even if the harvest is delayed (00:10:53-00:11:59)   The value of never giving up on prodigal children or those facing mental illness (00:12:12-00:14:03)   Practical tips Dane will take forward as a future parent (00:14:33-00:15:59) Detailed Time Stamps 00:00:01 – Laine introduces Dane's breakthrough story   00:01:02 – Podcast core focus & faith-driven strategies overview   00:02:03 – Dane shares his mother's unique parenting approach   00:04:48 – The long-term foundation of prayer over children   00:06:17 – Addressing childhood anxiety and the spiritual role of parents   00:07:53 – Approaching mental health struggles with transparency at home   00:10:53 – The impact of a praying parent and the delayed harvest of faith   00:12:12 – Perseverance through difficult seasons; never giving up on children   00:14:33 – Dane's vision for faith-filled parenting in the next generation   00:17:07 – How to connect with Dane and resources for further encouragement Conclusion Dayne Kamela's journey from mental health battles to freedom reveals the life-changing power of a mother's faith, honest communication, and persistent prayer. As Laine and Dane emphasize, even when results are slow to appear, never underestimate the seeds parents plant. Stay hopeful, keep praying, and remember—God's timing is perfect. Don't miss part two of this inspiring series! Ready to share hope and strategy with every struggling parent! Subscribe for more at LaineLawsonCraft.com and connect with Dane at Lit With Prayer!

Feel like you're walking on eggshells or being taken for granted? This episode reveals why setting boundaries isn't rejection—it's redemption. Learn how to set limits with love, stop enabling dysfunction, and build a stronger, more respectful relationship with your adult child through faith-filled courage. Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children with your host Laine Lawson Craft and special guest Kathy Cunningham. Join us as we dive into setting healthy boundaries with adult children, overcoming guilt and fear, and using faith as a roadmap to lasting peace in your home. Resources & Links Mentioned LaneLawsonCraft.com – Free resources, book: Warfare: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child (first 10 days free)   Sign up for Laine's Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com   Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net   Kathy Cunningham on Instagram –   Parents of Addicted Loved Ones (PAL group): palgroup.org Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and boundary-setting expert with over 30 years of experience helping parents navigate tough relationships with their adult children. Drawing from her personal journey and years of professional coaching, Kathy specializes in equipping families with biblical, practical tools for healthier, more respectful connections. She leads support groups for parents of addicted loved ones and recently launched an online community for parents seeking guidance and mutual support. Kathy's mission is to empower parents to stand in love, foster independence in their children, and restore hope in families by setting boundaries grounded in faith and compassion. Key Talking Points Boundaries protect relationships, not damage them—why clarity and love go hand-in-hand   Common boundary issues: finances, living arrangements, and emotional involvement   How healthy boundaries foster respect, responsibility, and growth in adult children   Steps to set and communicate boundaries effectively, especially after years of loose limits   Managing parental guilt, fear of conflict, and emotional pushback when boundaries are enforced   Handling manipulative behaviors and staying consistent to build trust   Boundaries as a foundation for healing in addiction and recovery   Common mistakes: moving too fast, using boundaries to control, or being inconsistent   The importance of community and support for parents Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction: Why Boundaries Matter 2:19 - Why Parents Must Set Boundaries With Adult Children 3:38 - How Boundaries Build Mutual Respect 4:30 - First Steps to Setting Healthy Boundaries 5:30 - Communicating Boundaries Effectively 6:44 - Examples: Financial, Living, and Emotional Boundaries 8:48 - Navigating Negative Emotions: Guilt & Fear 11:22 - Responding to Pushback & Manipulation 13:12 - The Power of Consistency 14:51 - Tracking Progress & Adjusting Boundaries 16:28 - Boundaries Build Independence & Growth 17:31 - Boundaries in Addiction & Recovery 20:05 - The "Guardrail" Analogy 20:46 - Misconceptions About Boundaries 23:12 - Common Mistakes to Avoid 24:37 - Healthy Parents Raise Independent Adults 25:37 - Kathy's Community and Support Resources 27:44 - The Importance of Support and Community 28:24 - Conclusion: Faith, Boundaries & Hope 29:02 - Where to Find Kathy Cunningham & Free Resources Conclusion Setting boundaries is not a sign of rejection but an act of profound love that brings healing and hope to families. By embracing faith-filled courage and consistent action, you can foster respect, clarity, and lasting independence in your adult child—while finding peace in your own heart. Remember, you're not alone on this journey.

Struggling to step back as your child steps into independence? This powerful episode unpacks the grief no one talks about, the fear of losing connection, and how to release control while staying rooted in love, trust, and God's purpose for both of you. Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this empowering episode, host Laine Lawson Craft is joined by Christian coach and ministry leader Kathy Cunningham to tackle the silent struggle of mom guilt. Whether you're a working mom or stay-at-home, Kathy helps define mom guilt, reveals how social media and unrealistic expectations contribute, and shares practical faith-based strategies to reclaim peace and confidence in your parenting. Resources & Links Mentioned Laine Lawson Craft's Website & Free Resources:lanelawsoncraft.com Download the first 10 days of Laine's book Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child for free   Kathy Cunningham's Membership Community: Support for parents of adult children (details via Kathy's coaching platforms)   Local Church Resources: Community and support groups for moms in various seasons of parenting About Kathy Cunningham (Bio) Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and family restoration expert with over 30 years of experience. She specializes in helping parents—especially mothers—navigate the complex emotional challenges of parenting teens and adult children. Kathy facilitates group workshops, provides personalized coaching, and runs a thriving membership community for parents of adults. Known for her deep faith, practical wisdom, and compassionate approach, Kathy equips families to find healing, restore hope, and step boldly into God's purpose for their lives.

Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this empowering episode, host Laine Lawson Craft is joined by Christian coach and ministry leader Kathy Cunningham to tackle the silent struggle of mom guilt. Whether you're a working mom or stay-at-home, Kathy helps define mom guilt, reveals how social media and unrealistic expectations contribute, and shares practical faith-based strategies to reclaim peace and confidence in your parenting. Resources & Links Mentioned Laine Lawson Craft's Website & Free Resources:lanelawsoncraft.com Download the first 10 days of Laine's book Warfare Parenting: A Daily Battle Plan to Fight for Your Child for free   Kathy Cunningham's Membership Community: Support for parents of adult children (details via Kathy's coaching platforms)   Local Church Resources: Community and support groups for moms in various seasons of parenting About Kathy Cunningham (Bio) Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach, ministry leader, and family restoration expert with over 30 years of experience. She specializes in helping parents—especially mothers—navigate the complex emotional challenges of parenting teens and adult children. Kathy facilitates group workshops, provides personalized coaching, and runs a thriving membership community for parents of adults. Known for her deep faith, practical wisdom, and compassionate approach, Kathy equips families to find healing, restore hope, and step boldly into God's purpose for their lives. Key Talking Points What is mom guilt? Why feelings of inadequacy and comparison plague all moms   The harmful role of social media and unrealistic standards   Societal pressures: "Perfect mom" myths vs. God's grace-filled reality   How guilt manifests for both working and stay-at-home moms   The impact of chronic mom guilt on mental health and child development   Effective strategies: Identifying and reframing guilt with scripture   Practicing self-care without guilt   Saying "no" and setting boundaries   Seeking community and biblical truth   Replacing criticism with compassion   The difference between conviction from God and guilt from the enemy   Importance of a supportive faith-based community Detailed Timestamps 00:00:01 — Introduction & defining mom guilt   00:02:37 — Kathy's definition and real-life manifestations   00:04:14 — Social media's impact and societal expectations   00:06:13 — Protecting mental health in a digital age   00:07:03 — Common triggers for mom guilt   00:08:25 — Working vs. stay-at-home moms: similarities and differences   00:09:39 — Health consequences of chronic mom guilt   00:10:44 — How mom guilt affects kids and family dynamics   00:11:43 — Healing strategies: recognition, community, scripture   00:13:02 — Reframing with truth, practical exercises   00:14:35 — How to manage pressure to "do it all"   00:16:04 — The power of saying "no"   00:17:01 — Addressing misconceptions about mom guilt   00:18:17 — Kathy's support community for parents of adult children   00:19:03 — Conclusion & encouragement for moms Conclusion Mom guilt isn't from God—it's a burden created by impossible worldly standards. Kathy and Laine remind us healing begins when we replace self-criticism with self-compassion, grounded in God's truth and grace. Remember, taking care of yourself is vital, you're not alone, and you're doing better than you think. Join a community, seek God's wisdom, and parent with peace, not pressure.

Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children, hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this heartfelt episode, "When They Walk Away: Healing from Estrangement with Your Adult Child. Discover why more adult children are cutting ties, the hidden grief parents carry, and how to rebuild connection without compromising truth. Real talk, faith-filled hope, and practical tools for every hurting parent" Laine welcomes special guest Kathy Cunningham—a Christian coach with 30+ years in ministry and private practice. Together, they explore the painful and seldom-discussed topic of estrangement between parents and their adult children, offering faith-based strategies, hope, and healing. Resources & Links Mentioned: Kathy Cunningham's Instagram: @kathycunningham717   Uncovered Grace Course & Grace Restored Membership: Link in Kathy's Instagram bio   Laine Lawson Craft's Website: lainelawsoncraft.com (Free 10-day devotional & resources)   Laine's website and free resources: lainelawsoncraft.com (First 10 days of her book Warfare Parenting free)   Sign up for Laine's Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com   Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net About Kathy Cunningham: Kathy Cunningham is a seasoned Christian coach with over 30 years of experience in ministry and private practice. She's a mother and grandmother passionate about family relationships, specializing in helping parents of adult children navigate challenging seasons with grace. Kathy empowers families through personalized coaching, workshops, her Uncovered Grace course, and her Grace Restored membership community. She focuses on emotional resilience, spiritual growth, and practical tools for reconciliation and healthy boundaries, fostering hope and restoration for hurting families. Key Talking Points: Why estrangement between parents and adult children is increasing   Common reasons for estrangement: value clashes, trauma, unmet emotional needs   The influence of social media and modern therapy language (e.g., "gaslighting," "narcissistic parent")   Cultural and generational shifts fueling family breakdowns   Emotional impact on parents (shame, grief) and adult children (initial relief, later grief)   The role of self-work, empathy, and healthy boundaries in preventing/reconciling estrangement   Prevention strategies and the importance of emotional maturity   When reconciliation is possible—and when loving from afar is healthiest   The necessity of community and spiritual support for parents Time Stamps: 00:00 — Introduction to estrangement and emotional toll   02:20 — Most common reasons for adult child estrangement   04:06 — Is estrangement on the rise or just more visible?   05:53 — Emotional impact on parents and adult children   07:02 — Mental health, trauma, and past hurts   09:33 — Societal norms, therapy trends, and social media's effect   10:46 — Differences by culture, race, and family structures   11:41 — Prevention, reconciliation, and repair steps   13:34 — Navigating mismatched perceptions and memories   15:24 — When reconciliation is not possible or desirable   16:24 — Top reasons for estrangement and how parents can prepare   18:25 — Kathy's resources and importance of community   19:47 — Closing encouragement and hope for parents Conclusion: Estrangement from an adult child is a profound wound, but it doesn't have to be the end of your family's story. Laine and Kathy offer hope, practical tools, and reminders of God's love and grace. Whether you're grieving, seeking healing, or working toward reconciliation, remember: you're not alone, you can grow, and new beginnings are possible—sometimes even after long silence.

Welcome to this week's episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. On this week's episode, "Breaking Free from the Shame That Whispers 'You Failed,'" hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this powerful and uplifting episode, Laine is joined by special guest Jill Savage, bestselling author and expert in overcoming perfectionism, who shares heartfelt wisdom on moving past parenting shame and embracing grace. Resources & Links Mentioned: Jill Savage's "25 Scriptures for When Life is Hard": jillsavage.org/truth   Jill's Books: No More Perfect Moms, No More Perfect Kids, No More Perfect Marriages, Empty Nest, Full Life   Laine's website and free resources: lainelawsoncraft.com (First 10 days of her book Warfare Parenting free)   Sign up for Laine's Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com   Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net About Jill Savage Jill Savage is an accomplished author, sought-after speaker, and founder of Hearts at Home, an organization providing encouragement to moms worldwide. With a authentic, relatable style, Jill's books—including No More Perfect Moms and Empty Nest, Full Life—draw from her own experiences and struggles, helping parents release unrealistic expectations and combat the "perfection infection." Jill is passionate about guiding families to embrace authenticity, offer themselves grace, and break free from guilt and comparison, especially in challenging parenting seasons. Key Talking Points: Understanding the "perfection infection"—unrealistic expectations and comparisons on social media (2:00 – 4:30)   Steps to kick perfectionism and comparison: honest conversations, shifting mindset, self-grace, and accepting God's forgiveness (4:30 – 8:30)   Jill's viral story about sharing real-life messiness (7:42 – 9:18)   Warning signs when shame or guilt becomes toxic, and when to seek help (10:11 – 11:47)   Reclaiming your identity in Christ—not in your child's choices or behaviors (12:13 – 14:33)   Reminders that no family, house, or child is perfect—even Billy Graham's (14:33 – 15:17) Time Stamps: 00:00 — Introduction and social media comparisons   01:51 — Jill explains "perfection infection"   04:13 — Strategies to combat comparison and perfectionism   05:17 — Grace for past parenting choices and accepting growth   07:08 — Tools for breaking the comparison trap   08:29 — Jill's viral 'real life' social media post   10:11 — Warning signs when guilt turns toxic   12:13 — Restoring identity in God, not in parenting outcomes   14:33 — No perfect families: even well-known faith leaders' struggles   15:34 — Resources and final encouragement Conclusion: Shame and guilt often whisper lies to struggling parents, but as Jill Savage and Laine Lawson Craft remind us, your child's choices do not define your worth. By breaking free from unhealthy comparisons, embracing honest conversation, and finding your identity in faith, you can reclaim peace and joy in your parenting journey. Remember, you are not alone—God specializes in redemption stories, and your family's story is still being written. Be encouraged, equip yourself with truth, and never lose hope.  

Welcome to another episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children. In this heartfelt episode, Laine is joined by best-selling author and speaker Jill Savage to offer hope and practical strategies for parents navigating the heartbreak of having a prodigal child. Together, they share raw stories, biblical wisdom, and survival tools to help you rise above fear, manage anxiety, and reclaim hope—even on the darkest nights. Jill Savage: Jill Savage is an author and speaker passionate about encouraging families through life's most challenging seasons. As the author and coauthor of 14 books, Jill draws from personal experience and years of ministry to equip parents with faith-based resources and practical advice for navigating parenting struggles and personal crises. Key Talking Points: The emotional toll of "2AM calls" and fearing for your prodigal child's safety   Importance of prayer and breath work in the midst of crisis   What it means to "lovingly detach" from your adult child's problems   Practical strategies for managing anxiety and preventing burnout   Using scripture and faith to ground yourself in hope   Prioritizing self-care without guilt   Building a supportive network and not facing struggles alone Detailed Timestamps: 00:00:00 – Introduction: The pain of late-night crisis calls   00:04:04 – "You are not alone"—knowing others share your experience   00:06:44 – The power of breath work for calming the body   00:08:43 – How to lovingly detach from your child's problems   00:11:40 – Avoiding enabling and practicing healthy boundaries   00:12:05 – Using scripture for strength and calm during panic   00:13:46 – The importance of self-care for parents in crisis   00:16:40 – Building a 24/7 support system   00:17:19 – Final thoughts: Permission to care for yourself and seek support Conclusion: This episode shines a compassionate light on the silent battles parents face when walking alongside a struggling child. Laine Lawson Craft and Jill Savage provide not only validation for the pain and panic many feel, but also equipping listeners with actionable faith-driven strategies and encouragement. From practical crisis protocols to the essential practice of self-care, their conversation is a lifeline for parents who feel isolated or overwhelmed. Remember: you are not alone, and caring for your own well-being is essential, not selfish. Take one small step today to build your support system and reclaim hope—you and your family are worth it.

Welcome to another powerful episode of Warfare Parenting: Faith-driven strategies for struggling parents of teens and adult children, hosted by Laine Lawson Craft. In this episode, Laine welcomes best-selling author and ministry leader Jill Savage for a heartfelt conversation on breaking generational patterns, overcoming spiritual strongholds, and reclaiming hope in your family's story. Together, they share faith-driven strategies and practical tools for parents battling with prodigal children, family crisis, addiction, and more, offering biblical wisdom and real-life experiences to empower listeners on their parenting journey. HELPFUL LINKS: Laine Lawson Craft's book and resources: LaineLawsonCraft.com (first 10 days of her new book "Warfare Parenting" free)   FREE Resources- read the first chapters FREE, courses for FREE, and more at LaineLawsonCraft.com   Also, sign up for Laine's Inspirational Weekly emails at her site LaineLawsonCraft.com   Please email any prayer requests or needs to lainecraft@lainecraft.net   Jill Savage's books & resources: Jill Savage's Website Jill Savage Jill Savage is a nationally recognized author, speaker, and ministry leader dedicated to encouraging families. As the author and co-author of 14 books—including "No More Perfect Kids," "Got Teens?," and "Empty Nest, Full Life"—Jill candidly shares her experiences of breaking unhealthy generational patterns and navigating parenting challenges with faith and authenticity. She is passionate about practical, grace-filled resources for moms, especially those parenting teens, young adults, or facing empty nests. Jill and her husband, Mark, also host marriage intensives, equipping couples to restore hope and connection in their families. Key Talking Points Recognizing and interrupting destructive generational cycles in families   Distinguishing between correction and connection in parenting   Breaking spiritual strongholds such as addiction, depression, and divorce through faith   Family tree mapping to understand inherited patterns and triggers   Leveraging prayer (including specific strategies like the "hedge of thorns")   Simple, realistic practices for daily spiritual warfare and transformation   The importance of new rhythms, family values, and goal setting for change   Fostering hope for change at any stage of parenting or family life Time Stamps 00:00:00 – Introduction by Laine Lawson Craft   00:01:13 – Jill Savage's background and resources   00:03:32 – Personal stories on generational patterns   00:05:49 – Shifting from correction to connection in parenting   00:06:44 – Addressing family history of addiction and depression   00:10:14 – Family tree mapping and recognizing inherited patterns   00:13:06 – Understanding and working through trigger points   00:14:45 – Role of prayer and specific strategies for spiritual warfare   00:17:53 – Implementing new values, rhythms, and daily habits   00:18:48 – Setting goals and developing plans for breakthrough   00:19:51 – Final thoughts and encouragement Conclusion This episode with Laine Lawson Craft and Jill Savage is a beacon of hope for any parent struggling with generational baggage or prodigal children. Their candid discussion offers practical tools, faith-based strategies, and personal testimonies that illustrate it's never too late to change your family's legacy. From prayer techniques to creating new family rhythms, the episode empowers listeners to become "chain breakers" for their children and future generations. Whether you're just recognizing harmful patterns or are deep in the process of restoration, this conversation reassures you that freedom and healing are possible through intentional steps and God's grace.