Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools

How to Hear God's Voice for Guidance in Your MarriageAre you praying and asking God to heal your marriage and guide you in becoming a better spouse but struggling to hear His voice? This video is for you. Hi, I'm Kelly Dupee, your Christian marriage coach and author of 'Turn It Up: How to Have The Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want'. In this episode, I'll show you simple and hopeful ways to recognize God's guidance in your marriage. We discuss how God speaks to us through scripture and the Holy Spirit's prompting, and the importance of testing these thoughts against scripture. I'll also share a simple formula to help you create space, ask clear questions, and listen for God’s voice. Join me as we explore how to hear God's direction and rebuild the connection in your marriage.Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my video on how to improve your listening skills: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: Seeking God's Guidance in Marriage01:04 Understanding How God Speaks01:20 The Role of Scripture and the Holy Spirit02:15 Recognizing God's Voice03:46 Practical Steps to Hear God's Voice05:45 Conclusion: Embracing God's Guidance

Strengthening Your Marriage: Beyond Communication StrugglesAre you and your spouse having difficulties in your relationship and think it's because of communication issues? In this video I explain that communication might not be the real problem. Instead, the core issue is often a lack of connection. Drawing from Biblical principles and my experience, I discuss how drifting apart leads to negative sentiments and how reconnecting with your spouse is crucial. I offer six practical strategies to strengthen your connection, prioritize your relationship, and ultimately improve communication. Watch this video for actionable tips and Biblical wisdom to help your marriage thrive.Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my video on how to improve your listening skills: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: Understanding Communication Struggles00:43 The Real Issue: Disconnection, Not Communication03:13 The Dimmer Switch Analogy03:51 Prioritizing Your Relationship05:42 Six Ways to Reconnect with Your Spouse12:40 Conclusion: Taking Action to Reconnect

Inviting God into Your Marriage: Steps to Healing and TransformationHave you ever wondered if God is listening to your prayers to heal your marriage? In this video, I assure you that God does care and is listening. I'm Kelly Dupee, your Christian marriage coach and author, here to guide you on how to genuinely invite God into your marriage for real transformation. Discover how to truly seek God's help with seven practical steps, including admitting you need help, asking God to change you, praying with open hands, seeking wisdom, trusting God to work in your spouse's heart, expecting God to work, and getting help. Join me in taking action to heal and strengthen your marriage. Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to the video on Inviting God into your Marriage: https://youtu.be/AH41nBtWzW800:00 Introduction: Inviting God into Your Marriage01:09 Understanding God's Will for Your Marriage02:46 Seven Action Steps to Heal Your Marriage02:50 Step 1: Admit You Need Help and God04:51 Step 2: Ask God to Change You06:40 Step 3: Pray with Open Hands08:27 Step 4: Ask for Wisdom and Guidance11:07 Step 5: Trust God to Work in Your Spouse's Heart12:24 Step 6: Expect God to Work14:15 Step 7: Get Some Help16:35 Conclusion: Taking Action and Seeking HelpHave you ever cried out to God for help, perhaps for the healing of your marriage, only to feel unheard? 🙏 This video assures you that God is listening and deeply cares, suggesting we might need to approach our prayers in a different way. I encourage you to invite God into your life, asking for wisdom and divine guidance, as true change often begins with grace. For more relationship advice and support, remember to connect with me.

Transform Your Marriage with Grace and TruthHas your spouse ever told you to change or felt the need to change for a better marriage? Often, we think trying harder is the solution. However, receiving and giving grace can bring real change. I'm Kelly DuPee, your Christian marriage coach, and in this video, I'll share five ways to bring grace into your marriage. We'll explore the true meaning of grace and how it involves acceptance, unconditional love, and truth to create a safe environment where your spouse can grow and change. Ready to build a grace-filled marriage? Watch now and don't forget to subscribe for more insights on strengthening your relationship.Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/7500:00 Introduction: The Need for Change in Marriage01:26 Understanding Grace in Marriage01:44 Five Ways to Bring Grace into Your Marriage01:48 First Way: Understanding What Grace Is03:43 Second Way: Giving Grace When Someone Has Failed05:20 Third Way: Loving Your Spouse Unconditionally06:54 Fourth Way: Combining Grace with Truth07:58 Fifth Way: Grace as the Foundation for Change and Growth09:40 Action Steps and ConclusionAre you facing a moment in your marriage where change feels necessary? This message explores whether the key to a better relationship lies in trying harder or in receiving grace. It's about choosing to love "unconditionally" and fostering "accountability in marriage" to build a stronger foundation. What if the approach to growth and a thriving marriage is rooted in how you'd want to be loved and accepted?

6 Steps to Earn Your Wife's Respect and AdmirationIn this video, Kelly Dupee, a Christian marriage coach, explains how husbands can earn their wife's respect and admiration. Rather than attempting to change their wives, men are encouraged to become the kind of husbands that naturally deserve respect. Kelly shares six practical action steps, underpinned by biblical principles, to build the character and qualities women admire. Key points include understanding what your wife needs, building integrity through small commitments, engaging in honest self-examination, identifying areas for personal growth, making a commitment to change, and seeking help. Offering a free 30-minute strategy call and a couples communication guide, Kelly provides resources to help husbands improve their marriages.Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my video on how to improve your listening skills: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: Earning Your Wife's Respect02:11 Understanding Your Wife's Needs04:14 Building Integrity Through Small Commitments05:46 Self-Examination for Personal Growth08:13 Identifying Areas for Improvement09:09 Making a Commitment to Change10:45 Seeking Help and Support11:50 Conclusion and Action PlanEvery husband desires his wife's respect and admiration. This video offers practical marriage advice, suggesting that true respect comes from self improvement and becoming the kind of husband who embodies a strong mindset. By focusing on personal growth and pursuing God, men can cultivate a success mindset that naturally earns their wives' honor. This approach fosters healthier relationships and deeper connection, rooted in christian motivation.

4 Simple Steps to Be a Good Spouse and Strengthen Your MarriageIn this episode, I'm sharing four simple steps to help you become a better spouse and strengthen your marriage. Discover how to apply biblical principles to everyday relationship challenges, learn the importance of listening, responding with patience, and taking initiative. I'll also guide you in asking your spouse what they need and inviting God into the process for transformative change. Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to get your free copy of my book, Turn it Up - how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want: https://turnitup.coach/75Here's the link to my video on how to improve your listening skills: https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: The Key to a Better Marriage01:22 Understanding the Challenge: Are We Really Good?02:41 Step 1: Defining Goodness in Marriage03:26 Practical Examples of Being a Good Spouse10:14 Step 2: Communicating with Your Spouse12:07 Step 3: Seeking Divine Help15:29 Step 4: Taking Action16:27 Conclusion: Your Path to a Stronger Marriage

3 Steps to Reconnect Your Marriage After Christmas |Christmas is over and the post-Christmas stress might be impacting your marriage. In this video, I offer you three simple steps to recover your connection: talk about what happened, rebuild intentional moments of connection, and make a plan for next year. These steps, backed by biblical wisdom, will turn any holiday tension into breakthroughs. Let's make your marriage stronger together!Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call00:00 Introduction: Post-Christmas Reflections00:42 Meet Your Coach: Kelly Dupee01:32 Step 1: Talk About What Happened04:43 Step 2: Rebuild Your Connection06:17 Step 3: Make a Plan for the Future09:43 Conclusion: Your Marriage is Worth Fighting For

How to Protect Your Marriage from Christmas StressFeeling the weight of Christmas stress? You're not alone. In this video, I share practical ways to protect your marriage during the festive season and make your Christmas more meaningful. From prioritizing each other and setting boundaries to rediscovering the true reason for the season, I'll guide you on how to keep your connection strong. My name is Kelly DuPee, Christian marriage coach and author of 'Turn It Up: How to Have The Lifelong Marriage that You Really Want.' Join me as I offer advice backed by biblical principles and practical tips to help you navigate the demands of Christmas joyfully and stress-free. Don't forget to download my free couples communication guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call00:42 Meet Your Guide: Kelly DuPee00:55 Understanding Christmas Stress01:24 Tip 1: Prioritize Each Other02:48 Tip 2: Set Boundaries03:48 Tip 3: Communicate Expectations04:48 Tip 4: Remember the Reason for the Season07:31 Final Tips and Encouragement08:28 Conclusion and Further ResourcesThe holiday season, meant for closeness, can sometimes bring disconnection and stress to couples. If you're navigating the pressures of Christmas, this video provides essential `marriage tips` for a truly `stress free christmas`. Discover practical ways to improve your `mental health at christmas`, focus on `building connection`, and ultimately `strengthen marriage` during this special time. ✨🌲👉 Ready to make this Christmas a time of joy and connection? Type CALL in the comments to schedule your FREE 30-minute strategy session!

Setting Healthy Biblical Boundaries with Parents & In-Laws: 6 Practical StepsHave you ever felt caught between your spouse and your parents or in-laws? In this episode, I share six practical steps to help you establish healthy biblical boundaries with your parents and in-laws to protect your marriage while honoring God. Learn why boundaries matter, how to pray for wisdom, unite as a couple, communicate clearly, offer alternatives, stay consistent, and respond to pushback gracefully. By setting boundaries with love and clarity, you not only protect your marriage but also set a healthy example for your children and extended family. If you'd like help on this journey, type 'guide' in the comments for a free Couple's Communication Guide or use this link: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideI'm also offering a free 30-minute strategy call for personalized help on how to set and maintain healthy boundaries.Schedule your free Strategy call today at by calling or texting 626-804-1731or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call00:00 Introduction: Navigating Family Dynamics01:09 Understanding Boundaries in Marriage03:15 Step 1: Seek Divine Guidance04:24 Step 2: Unite as a Couple05:17 Step 3: Communicate Clearly and Kindly06:11 Step 4: Offer Alternatives06:48 Step 5: Stay Consistent07:31 Step 6: Respond with Grace09:11 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

How to Maintain a Strong Parenting Team: Tips for Unity and Effective ParentingIn this video, you'll learn valuable insights on maintaining a cohesive parenting team with your spouse. Learn how to stay united with your spouse, protect your marriage from parenting stress, and build a calmer, more connected home. Key principles include focusing on your marriage, avoiding 'shoulding' on each other, committing to parenting in unity, showing appreciation and accountability, and evaluating your parenting strategies regularly. Additionally, this recording covers the importance of connecting before correcting, building structure and routine, training kids on life skills, allowing them to learn from failures, and effective co-parenting with an ex-spouse or in a blended family. I'm offering a free 30-minute parenting strategy call for personalized advice.Schedule your free Strategy call today at https://www.turnitup.coach/ or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the links to my other parenting videos:Blending your Parenting Styles - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIParenting as a Team - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIDisciplining without Yelling - https://youtu.be/ASWQhAwpx7oBe the Parent your Kids Love - https://youtu.be/hQJWc85eax000:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Maintaining Progress00:45 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide to a Stronger Marriage01:28 The Importance of Focusing on Your Marriage02:36 Stop 'Shoulding' on Each Other03:16 Commit to Parenting in Unity03:52 Appreciation and Accountability in Parenting04:36 Evaluating Your Parenting Strategies05:49 Additional Tips for Strong Parenting07:58 Co-Parenting and Blended Families08:42 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

What if the fastest way to feel closer to your spouse isn’t fixing a problem, but noticing a blessing?In this video, Christian marriage coach Kelly DuPee shares how one simple shift—gratitude—can lower tension in your home, soften sharp reactions, and help you feel more connected to your spouse, starting today.You’ll discover: - How a daily gratitude practice can quietly transform the way you see your spouse - Why gratitude calms stress and helps you respond instead of react - How it gives your marriage a steadier foundation during conflict and busy seasons - A powerful biblical perspective on giving thanks *for* everything (Ephesians 5:20) - The surprising way gratitude becomes a “protective shield” for your relationship Kelly will also give you a **7‑day gratitude challenge** for your marriage: writing down three things you’re grateful for about your spouse each day to begin changing the emotional climate in your home.If you’re feeling distant, irritated, or just “off” in your marriage, this video will help you: - Shift your focus from what’s wrong to what’s working - Notice the small, everyday kindnesses you’ve been walking past - Bring more peace, warmth, and emotional safety into your relationship May God bless you, your marriage, and your family this Thanksgiving season.

Becoming the Parent Your Kids Want to Be Around | 4 Key Shifts for Lifelong ConnectionHave you ever thought that parenting is more about becoming the parents your kids want to spend time with? In this video, I explore the transformative goal of not only raising good kids but becoming parents they love being around. I share four key shifts that will help build lifelong connections with your children: moving from controlling to coaching, from perfection to presence, from correction to connection, and from worry to faith. Stick around to learn how these shifts can bring you closer to your kids and keep your relationship strong as they grow. I’m Kelly DuPee, and as a pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, I’ve learned that parenting shapes our character just as much as it shapes our children's. I also offer a free 30-minute parenting strategy call to help you strengthen your family dynamics. Schedule your call today at turnitup.coach or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the links to my other parenting videos:Blending your Parenting Styles - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIParenting as a Team - https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFIDisciplining without Yelling - https://youtu.be/ASWQhAwpx7o00:00 Introduction: The Goal of Parenting00:56 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide01:36 Shift 1: From Controlling to Coaching02:29 Shift 2: From Perfection to Presence03:57 Shift 3: From Correction to Connection05:24 Shift 4: From Worry to Faith06:28 The Power of Prayer in Parenting08:08 Final Thoughts and Free Offer09:36 Closing Prayer and BlessingsDo you ever feel like the goal of parenting isn't just about raising kids you like to be around, but also becoming parents they want to be around too? This video explores a deeper dimension of parenting motivation, focusing on building meaningful relationships that last into adulthood. By fostering strong parent child bonding, we can cultivate adult children relationships where our kids choose to spend time with us, contributing to a peaceful parenting environment that benefits everyone. ✨And if you want to strengthen communication in your marriage so you can parent more effectively together, type GUIDE in the comments and I’ll send you my free couples communication guide.#ChristianParenting #FaithTok #ChristianMarriage #GentleParentingTips #ChristianCouples #BiblicalParenting #MarriageAdvice #PeacefulParenting #ParentingTips #ParentTok #ChristianFamily

Effective Parenting: Calm Discipline Without YellingIn this video, I share techniques for disciplining your kids calmly and effectively. You will learn how to create a peaceful home, maintain unity with your spouse, and teach your kids responsibility without power struggles. I also discuss important parenting resources, including the books 'Boundaries with Kids' by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend and '1-2-3 Magic' by Dr. Thomas Phelan, which offer valuable insights on balancing grace and truth in discipline. I provide practical tips on using the 1-2-3 Magic method, the importance of being calm and consistent, and the difference between guilt and shame. Additionally, I offer a free couples communication guide to help improve communication in your relationship.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on Parent as a Team: https://youtu.be/lHnjxCnJyZU00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Disciplining Kids00:39 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide to Effective Parenting01:01 The Power of Parenting Books01:34 Balancing Grace and Truth in Parenting02:33 Understanding Discipline: Training, Not Punishment03:49 The 1-2-3 Magic Technique05:15 Common Discipline Mistakes and How to Avoid Them07:31 Practical Tips for Effective Parenting09:19 The Role of Guilt and Shame in Discipline11:34 The Importance of Keeping Promises and Consequences13:13 Biblical Insights on Discipline14:28 Final Encouragement and Resources

Parenting Together: 6 Practical Tips to Unite with Your SpouseHave you ever felt like you and your spouse are on opposite teams when it comes to parenting your kids? In this video, I share six practical suggestions to help you parent as a team and improve unity, communication, and consistency in your home. Hi, I'm Kelly DuPee, a pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author dedicated to helping couples strengthen their marriages. Join me to learn how to make united decisions, communicate with grace, and raise your kids from the same page. Don't miss out on tips like 'Don't Decide Alone' and 'Schedule Parenting Strategy Sessions'. Plus, get your free couple's communication guide by typing 'guide' in the comments. Let's create a calmer, more consistent home together.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on How to Blend your Parenting Styles: https://youtu.be/Lw22YguYsFI00:00 Introduction: Parenting on Opposite Teams00:36 The Power of Team Parenting00:55 Meet Kelly DuPee01:18 Suggestion 1: Don't Decide Alone03:55 Suggestion 2: Schedule Parenting Strategy Sessions05:22 Suggestion 3: Practice Understanding First08:05 Suggestion 4: Aim for Win-Win Agreements10:19 Review and Final Suggestions13:08 Conclusion: Unity in Parenting

Parenting Harmony: Blending Grace and Truth in Your Parenting StylesIn this recording, I'm going to address the common tension that arises in marriages due to differing parenting styles. You'll learn how to blend grace and truth in your parenting approach to create a more peaceful and united home environment. Learn how to make united decisions without power struggles, affirm each other's strengths, establish shared parenting values, and discuss discipline strategies ahead of time. I'll share personal experiences and practical tips to help you and your spouse work together as a team, reflecting God's heart to your children. Additionally, I'm offering a free Couple's Communication Guide and a 30-minute strategy call to further assist you. Let's bring peace back into your parenting and strengthen your marriage.Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to parent together as a team? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video on How to Improve your Listening Skills - https://youtu.be/6j_LXfKKLCU00:00 Introduction: Navigating Parenting Differences01:19 Understanding Grace and Truth in Parenting04:59 Recognizing and Balancing Your Parenting Style06:59 Affirming Your Spouse's Strengths08:05 Creating Shared Parenting Values09:05 Discussing Discipline Ahead of Time11:35 Seeking Wisdom Through Prayer12:23 Letting God Shape Both Parents14:00 Conclusion: Unified Parenting ApproachNavigating different parenting styles can be tough, especially when one parent is strict and the other is more lenient. Learn practical parenting advice to create harmony and address parenting issues without constant conflict. Discover the different types of parenting and how they impact family dynamics.

Do you feel like you and your spouse are more like roommates than a married couple? In this video, you're going to learn seven practical, Bible-based steps to deepen emotional and spiritual connections with your spouse and move from roommates to reconnected. Drawing upon my expertise as a marriage coach, I provide actionable advice on fostering gratitude, resolving conflicts, and making intentional efforts to reconnect. I emphasize the importance of turning towards each other, discussing emotions, scheduling quality time, praying together, and making your marriage a priority. Don't forget to use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!00:00 Introduction: Are You More Like Roommates?01:00 Understanding the Dimmer Switch in Marriage02:08 Step 1: Turn Towards Each Other03:40 Step 2: Talk About Feelings, Not Just Facts05:50 Step 3: Put Connection on Your Calendar08:12 Step 4: Practice Gratitude and Serve Each Other10:22 Step 5: Resolve What's Separating You12:28 Step 6: Pray Together and Invite God into Your Marriage14:01 Step 7: Make Your Marriage a Priority and Get Help16:00 Conclusion: Renew Your ConnectionHere's the links to videos mentioned in the recording:How to Confront: https://youtu.be/n_3gh9LyPFQHow to Apologize effectively: https://youtu.be/kKUgGgV2M9cHow to Invite God into your Marriage: https://youtu.be/AH41nBtWzW8Ready to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!

4 Steps to Effectively Change Your Marriage Without ConflictHave you ever wanted to change something in your marriage without starting an argument? I'm Kelly Dupee, pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach. In this video, I teach you a four-step progression to bring up changes in your marriage that build connection instead of conflict. Learn how to make a suggestion, express a wish, make a request, and set a healthy boundary. Watch till the end for specific instructions on how to implement these strategies in your marriage right away. Timeline: 0:00 - Introduction and purpose of the video 1:12 - Step 1: Making a suggestion 2:32 - Step 2: Expressing a wish 4:15 - Step 3: Making a request 6:20 - Step 4: Setting a boundary 12:03 - Biblical references for effective communication 14:05 - Exercise for the week 15:32 - Conclusion and final thoughts Don't forget to type 'guide' in the comments or use the link https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide to get my free couples communication guide. Build connection and improve your marriage today!Ready to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to the video on How to Calm Down: https://youtu.be/hQrselw-zcAHere's the link to the video on How to Make a Request: https://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCg

6 Biblical Ways to Show Respect to Your Husband: Combat Disrespect in MarriageHave you ever wondered why a simple question or suggestion to your husband can sometimes lead to an unexpectedly hostile or distant reaction? In this video, I explain why men often equate respect with trust and how a perceived lack of trust can deeply hurt them. I share six biblical strategies for effectively communicating respect to your husband, helping build a stronger, more loving marriage. These strategies include watching your tone, expressing confidence, and making requests instead of accusations. Join me, Kelly Dupee, as I delve into ways to improve your marital relationship through respect, trust, and understanding. Plus, explore an offer for a free strategy call and download a couple's communication guide.Here's the link to my free couples communication guide that will help you connect with your spouse better. https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: Understanding the Issue00:24 The Root of Disrespect: Lack of Trust02:19 Biblical Insights on Love and Respect03:40 Six Biblical Ways to Show Respect03:48 1. Watch Your Tone04:51 2. Express Your Confidence06:08 3. Let Your Husband Help You07:59 4. Make Requests, Not Accusations09:44 5. Give Him the Freedom to Do It His Way11:53 6. Pray, Don't Push14:23 Conclusion: Building a Respectful Marriage15:41 Final Thoughts and ResourcesReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my videos on How to Respect your Husband: https://youtu.be/LBTNols1P3M andhttps://youtu.be/tqdy5FzGrOE

Be the Spouse Your Spouse NeedsIn this episode, Pastor Kelly DuPee discusses the transformative power of focusing on becoming the spouse your partner needs you to be, rather than trying to change them. Emphasizing the importance of a prayer asking God to help one become the best spouse, Kelly shares five Bible-based steps to improve your marriage. He addresses common relationship challenges, such as assumptions and defensiveness, and offers actionable advice, including asking curious questions, listening without defending, paying attention to stress points, learning your spouse's love language, and staying flexible. The video encourages couples to focus on their own growth and improvement, reflecting the love and grace of Jesus in their marriages. Kelly also offers a couple's communication guide for further support.Here's the link to my free couples communication guide that will help you connect with your spouse better. https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Key to Transforming Your Marriage00:40 The Power of Self-Change in Marriage00:51 Meet Kelly Dupee: Your Marriage Coach01:07 The Problem with Trying to Change Your Spouse01:28 Biblical Insights on Marriage02:22 Understanding Your Spouse's Needs02:53 Step 1: Ask with Curiosity03:57 Step 2: Listen Without Defending04:39 Step 3: Pay Attention to Stress Points05:46 Step 4: Learn Their Love Language06:36 Step 5: Stay Flexible07:25 Conclusion: Reflecting the Love of Jesus in Your MarriageReady to build the fulfilling marriage you deserve? Schedule a free, no-obligation strategy call with me. In 30 minutes, we'll create a three-step roadmap to set you on the right path. Just text 626-804-1731 or go to https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-call today to schedule yours!Here's the link to my video that will help you change how you pray for your spouse: https://youtu.be/w4K3Qw7sKIY

Navigating Marriage Through Grief and Loss: Bible-Based GuidanceHave you ever wondered how your marriage would be affected by a major loss? In this video, I discuss how loss can change a marriage and provide Bible-based steps to help you and your spouse navigate grief together. From giving each other space and grieving together to guarding your connection from resentment and focusing on the hope in Jesus Christ, I offer practical advice and spiritual guidance to strengthen your relationship during challenging times. Don't forget to request your free couple's communication guide to improve your relationship. Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguideWould you like a free 30 minute strategy call to strengthen your relationship? Call or text 626-804-1731 or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-strategy-callHere's the link to my video  how to support your grieving spouse: https://youtu.be/GGlIbKYMwqc00:00 Introduction: Facing Loss in Marriage00:35 Meet Kelly DuPee: Your Guide Through Grief01:08 A Real-Life Example of Grieving Together01:49 Understanding Grief: Emotions and Reactions02:16 Healthy Grieving: Embrace and Express02:31 Communication and Support in Grief03:15 Practical Steps to Navigate Marriage After Loss04:57 Guarding Against Resentment06:13 Finding Hope in Jesus Christ08:36 Conclusion: Strengthening Your Bond Through Grief09:08 Final Words and Prayer