Lady and The Harlot™

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss "Workplace Romance Vs Online Dating." Originally this episode was suppose to be about workplace romance only; but quickly we realized its really a question of what do we prefer, Workplace Romance or Online dating.  Please Join us and let us know what do you prefer. 

In this week’s special episode of a Lady and the Harlot, we are rolling in Greece. unfortunately we’ve been so busy since you’ve joined us in our last recorded episode. but now we are back joining from Beautiful Elounda Crete Greece! That’s right LATH is going global. In our travels we talk about vacation flings, how hot the men of Greece are and peace and the tranquility that comes along with being here. Please join us as we talking about Rolling in Greece.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to discuss a topic near and true to us, "Black women's hair and things you should know about it." As two ethnic women who have been in interracial relationships, there are certain rules we have to put in place when it comes to thing we can and can not do with our hair. We know that we can in no way speak for the entire Black/Hispanic race when talking about our experiences but at the very least provide a starting perspective and understanding. Especially for those men who are dating a woman of ethnicity. Please join us as we dive into " Black Women's Hair & Dating."

In this weeks episode of the Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Losing the V-Card (Virginity) and womens sexuality. Losing your virginity/ V-Card means having sex for the first time. The idea of virginity can apply to people of any gender or sexual orientation. The most important thing is that you decide when you're ready to have sex. Also learning about your sexuality is different for everyone. It is important to recognize that we are all different and the things that feel right for us may not feel right to someone else . At the end of the day, we should all feel comfortable to explore our sexuality in a safe, consensual and responsible way. Please Join us as we share our experiences of "Losing the V-card."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss a previous post about 6 examples of Micro-Cheating and what that might look like to some people. Since we received so many mix reviews/comments based on the topic of Micro-Cheating, we decided to dive in further and explain how we see it from our point of view. Please Join Us! If you haven't seen the post yet on our page, please check out our Instagram and Facebook to view the post on 6 examples of Micro-Cheating.

In the weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Settling for less in a relationship. So what does settling for less mean? Letting go of the very things that define you, the beliefs that reflect who you are, and the values that are at your core. Its about stifling your own voice with in a relationship. Its about accepting something less than what you want or deserve, even if it makes you unhappy. Join us as we dive into how we have settled for less in our own personal relationships and the impact it has taken on our lives.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss would we prefer, "Separate Beds or Separate Homes?? Sleeping apart is more common than one might think. There are no rules out there saying couples have to sleep in the same bedroom, especially if your partner snores and is keeping you up at night, etc. The same goes for separate homes, There are some couples who are in a committed relationship but choose to live separately for various reasons. Weather its because they love their solitude and space or because they feel like not being together constantly actually strengthens their bond. Either way, Sleeping in separate beds or living apart might offer some relief to couples who value their individual space as well as each other. At the end of the day, it really up to both individuals and if they are on the same page. Please join us as we discuss, Separate Beds or Separate Homes??

In the weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we posted a video on our Instagram page, which brought up the topic, "Would you let your partner hang out with friends of the opposite sex alone?" There are two guys in the video, one seems to be fairly confident in allowing his girlfriend to do so, while the other one says its not an insecurity thing but its all about respect. Tell us what do you think? as we dive into, "Crossroads Between Confidence & Insecurities."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we discuss a video we came across from Dr. Jeff Guenther. He brings up 12 valid personal questions to ask before going on a first date if you are looking for a serious relationship and don't want to waste your time. Listen in as we discuss where we stand on this topic. Please join us as we dive into "Important Questions You Should Ask On A First Date."

This weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot is called "Crossing Boundaries." Crossing/Overstepping boundaries means someone has crossed the imaginary lines we've created for ourselves. Here are some overstepping examples to give you an idea. Physical boundary: This is usually an easy one to tell. It's when someone has invaded your personal space, including your office, home, and even yourself. When your partner oversteps your boundaries, it's usually accidental sometimes – but it's often destructive just the same. Much is left unsaid, feelings are hurt, emotional distance widens and the result can be an unsatisfying relationship that has largely broken down. Nevertheless, Boundaries need to be respected in order for any situation to work. Please join us as we dive into, "CROSSING BOUNDARIES."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we decided to play Tonight's Conversation Cards - Relationship Debates yet again!! We just cant get enough of this game that takes us to the heart of how we may see the world through exciting Q&A on spicy relationship scenarios. We also decided to call these questions of the heart. At the end of the day, we all want to know where our partners head is at when it comes to relationships and if we are on the same page. Are you ready to join us and state your case? I know we are!! Tune in on the fun and let us know some of your responses to these questions, while we play the game “RELATIONSHIP DEBATES”. 

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, we talk on the topic of the abuse of filters to try to hook a potential partner. Ever go on a dating site and was instantly attracted to someone's appearance and then when you met them they look NOTHING like their picture?? How does that make you feel that you've just been catfished but in a different way. Do you continue to get to know this person you seem to have a connection with? Or do you call them out on their bullshit? Are you the one using a filter for every picture you post? If so, why? Tune in and hear us dive into the topic of, "CATFISHING FILTERS"

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, we discuss the games we still encounter in the dating world. By games we mean, when we meet someone and they want to play games instead of keeping it real to us and themselves. The older we get the more we can see through the bullshit. If you found the “perfect person” then why continue to be on multiple dating sites and still looking? It starts to make you wonder; “When will we start getting real and stop with the games?” Join us as we dive into the discussing “THE GAME: The guide to Bullshit Artist”.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to get back to the Harlot side of matter and talk about Boosting your Sexual Libido-stimulation. Libido is a persons sexual desire, arousal or appetite. Everyone's libido is different, and the same person's sex drive might fluctuate over time, depending on circumstances. Sometimes it can be issues with communication between you and your partner or lacking emotional connection. Foreplay is a very important factor in stimulating your partner to heighten your sex drive. Either way, If you're looking to increase your sex drive or libido, there are a few things you can do to boost your desire. Understand arousal and learn what turns your partner on is a huge factor. Please join us as we dive into, "Boosting your Sexual Libido/Stimulation."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Navigating the Relationship Tree. Let’s face it.  Relationships are difficult enough and disagreements are often normal parts of a relationship. However, if arguments continually arise and consistently devolve into your partner criticizing, berating, or attempting to control you, gaslighting- there may be underlying issues. These are typical signs of narcissism. Narcissistic people are often unable to engage in normal “give and take” due to a lack of genuine empathy and reciprocal feelings. The narcissistic personality is a complex emotional defense structure typically caused by early childhood trauma and emotional pain The relationship tree is one way that may help to understand why we attract this type and choose to deal with it. The roots of the tree represent us, as an individual. At the end the day, it all about getting down to the root of the problem with in ourselves. Which means going all the way back to childhood. There is no one aspect to make a relationship healthy, but the more we are able to build ourselves up (love and cherish ourselves more) the better equipped we will be to deal and establish healthy boundaries with ourselves and others. Please join us as we dive into, "Navigating the Relationship Tree."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast, We do a Recap on last weeks episode "Story of Betrayal." We focus our thoughts and feelings about how the story unfolded and ended. We also give our opinion on the situation and how we would've handled it. At the end of the day, no one truly knows how they would react unless you're actually in the situation itself. Please join us as we "Recap Story of Betrayal." Lets dive in. Thank you to our special guest “Rockstar” for sharing his story.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast,  we have on a special guest named "Rockstar" who was willing to share his shocking story of Betrayal. Which as the story unfolds, leads into his now ex wife ghosting him.  In turn, this triggered him to catfish and ghost her in the end as pay back. We know it sounds horrible however we really wanted to hear the story that lead to this result.  Come join us as we dive into," Story of Betrayal."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we touch upon different types of relationships.  Which leads us into our next topic, Companionship vs Situationship and what does that look like. Companionship is the state of being someone’s friend or companion. It can be a platonic relationship between two people who simply enjoy each other’s company but used in the context of friendship. It’s a relationship in which both parties support each other emotionally without having sexual interest or attachment. For some, this type of relationship can be beneficial because it allows both people to rely on the other for comfort and positive reinforcement.  But when it come to Situationship, its considered to be less than a relationship, but more than a casual encounter or booty call, a situationship refers to a romantic relationship that is and remains undefined.  A situationship is that space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship. Which we think has become more of a trend now. Please join us a we dive into the different types of relationships, "Companionship vs Situationship."

In this weeks podcast of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to call this episode, “That’s What Friends Are For.” There are just some friendships which seems to stand the test of time. Recently, we had a school reunion going back over 30 years. We had such a good time reconnecting with everyone, that we decided to talk about these special people we’ve known since we were little kids in school till now. This episode is a bit different but nevertheless, still enjoyable. Please join us as we dive into, “That’s What Friends Are For.”

It’s all fun and games on this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot podcast. Big Poppa Willie joins us as our guest, while we play the game “RELATIONSHIP DEBATES”.  Tune in on the fun and let us know some of your responses to these questions.