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Relationships Are Underrated

Author: Tripp Kramer, Jonathon Aslay

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Tripp Kramer is a dating coach for men and Jonathon Aslay is a dating coach for women. Together they will combine their expertise and experiences to help you develop healthier communication skills so you and your partner can face and overcome your biggest relationship challenges.

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The conventional wisdom for moving in with the person you're dating is to wait. But is it really better to let so much time to pass before learning if you're compatible? We'll go over why moving in together now is the most effective way to learn if your partner is really the one.
I got a DM from a listener whose girlfriend wants to text him all day and he wants to know how much is too much and what the best amount is. So we'll go over how often to keep in touch with your SO to keep the desire alive based on your living situation and type of communication.
The Honeymoon Phase of a relationship is an exciting, emotional and also risky place to be. When your mind is overwhelmed with emotions and lust, logic and self-awareness tend to go by the wayside so it's important to reign yourself in and avoid making serious decisions too soon.
Whether or not to marry your girlfriend is one of the most important decisions you will make in your life. So let's discuss how to know if she is wife material, if you are husband material and if getting married is a good idea or not so you don't become another divorce statistic.
Your community and family both help to keep your relationship strong and give it the best chance of lasting. But these days, personal connections are at their lowest. So we'll go over the roles people play, how to impress new family, and how long to wait to introduce to children.
Whether or not you want to have kids, how many you want to have, when to have them, and how to raise them, are important talks to have with your partner before things happen. We'll discuss these and more so you enter parenthood prepared and committed, not naive and dysfunctional.
One of the most painful experiences you can have is being in a situationship that you hope will become long-term but your partner does not. So let's discuss how to ask where you're going, what to do if they're not into you and the best way to find someone on the same page as you.
It can be confusing and even heartbreaking when you and the person you're dating are on different pages with your relationship and what you want. So we'll go over how to be clear on your relationship, how to say what you want and don't want and how long to wait before having sex.
Women say they want men to be more vulnerable, but do they really? Will sharing your real feelings cause her to lose attraction or will it deepen your connection? We go over the pros & cons of being vulnerable with women so you can be your true self while being the man she wants.
Most people try to avoid difficult conversations at all costs. But to have the type of relationship most people envy, then it is critical that you learn how to bring up and resolve touchy subjects with your partner. You'll also learn a much better way of saying "we need to talk".
Most people settle for mediocrity in their relationships, sitting on opposite ends of the couch, and staring at their phones in silence. This is for those who want a relationship that is jovial and stimulating. You'll learn how to eliminate apathy and have a "friendship on fire".
A relationship that makes you feel happy to be alive and creates joyous moments from "the little things" is one where you have a true friendship with your partner. You'll learn how to create this by playing, being authentic, and bringing out your inner kid that laughs and smiles.
Jealousy can ruin your experience of an otherwise happy relationship and if expressed immaturely it can even end it. So we'll cover the root causes of jealousy, the source of abandonment issues, and how to prevent the green eyed monster from roaming free and ruining a good thing.
We discuss some of the most common reasons people give for their breakup or divorce, how to communicate more effectively with your partner when they occur, how to avoid most of these problems in the first place, and how to identify patterns in yourself that can lead to a breakup.
Having different views around religion, spirituality, and routines can obviously cause problems in a relationship. But even if you and your partner have different faiths, you can still have the type of relationship where you're growing together and not living in different worlds.
When you talk about money with your partner, what it symbolizes to you, and the different ways value is created in your relationship, you can let go of your past script around money and write a new one together so you can meet your financial goals and live the lifestyle you want.
Sexless relationships are depressing, lack of sex causes arguments, and the best reliever of stress is good sex. Which is why talking about it, sharing your preferences, and even scheduling it are crucial if you want to have a relationship that is healthy, intimate, and exciting.
Unshakeable trust between you and your partner is the foundation of a sustaining and fulfilling relationship. But rarely do couples discuss this issue before there's a problem. We'll talk about how to be trustworthy, share your expectations, and repair trust that has been broken.
Long distance relationships have few upsides and many downsides. We'll discuss what qualifies as a LDR, the inherent challenges they come with, and 2 things you must have in place if you want your LDR to survive the distance and one day become a happy and fulfilling relationship.
Moving in together is one of the biggest and riskiest steps you can take in a relationship. And if taken lightly, things can quickly lead to conflict and fighting. So let's go over reasons not to move in, topics you should discuss beforehand and how long is the best time to wait.
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ForexTraderNYC

guys eventually couple run out of things to talk about n start to resent their partner. It may be natural part of relationship. I feel tripp will soon find out if he already hasn't. My partner left me becuz I gave her too much attention n love..she started to take me for granted n desiring a loser to fix n standby for the love of thrill of being in struggle. a happy medium is don't overdo( giving attention) it keep it genuine n don't be overly sweet n as a man wear the pants or women will walkout with your pants n be found sleeping in another dude's pants. my experience just sharing.

Dec 20th
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ForexTraderNYC

love this podcast! the batman n robbin of relationships.. the way these guys complete each other in discussing key subjects of relationships..n being so open n vulnerable shows the authentic nature of it. i feel nothing is scripted this sounds open n spontaneous..loving every minute of it..these r my elders to be respected...thx for sharing ur wisdom guys! best podcast in relationships section definately!

May 22nd
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