We Talk Back

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam get candid about their personal dating experiences before diving into the buzz around Cardi B’s new album and its impact on the music industry. They also unpack the ongoing debates about freedom of speech, spotlighting the controversy surrounding David Anthony Burke. They also embracing the fall season, from wellness practices and seasonal rituals to cozy home décor ideas. The episode concludes with a guided meditation designed to welcome autumn with clarity and intention. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and Tam Bam open up about personal grief and ongoing health challenges. The conversation explores the weight of political violence, systemic racism, and the pressures of Black excellence in today’s society. They also reflect on generational differences in work ethic, highlighting how cultural expectations around productivity often clash with the need for self-care and they also emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, prioritizing mental health, and redefining success on their own terms. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Black Effect Presents... We Talk Back! This week, AJ and Tam Bam kick things off by sharing their weekend highlights, including AJ diving into a new reality series her friend is producing. In the S.I.N.S of the week, they break down the latest drama from The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Then, they take a nostalgic trip back to the ‘90s with a review of A Thin Line Between Love and Hate, unpacking the film’s portrayal of toxic relationships and the traits that fueled the chaos. Lets discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam celebrate the fifth anniversary of the Black Effect Podcast Network while diving into an honest conversation about love, dating, and self-discovery. They reflect on recent concert experiences and family visits, then shift into the realities of modern relationships—unpacking societal expectations, trust, and the challenges of commitment. The hosts explore the difference between loneliness and solitude, the power of communication, and the importance of choosing the right partner.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holliday and Tam Bam unpack a mix of cultural and personal themes, weaving their weekend reflections into a deeper conversation about relationships, loyalty, and shifting values. They explore the public perception of marriage in light of Offset’s recent controversial comments, while also examining the concept of snitching within hip hop culture and the fading relevance of street credibility in today’s society. They highlight the importance of family, accountability, and moving away from destructive cycles toward building healthier, more positive community values. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into an engaging discussion on relationships, dating, and the societal pressures tied to beauty standards. They explore the emotional connections that sustain healthy relationships, the costs and commitments of self-care, and the fine line between self-love and self-sabotage. The conversation expands into consumer culture, financial awareness, and the ways social media continues to shape self-image. Blending humor, personal anecdotes, and listener stories, the hosts offer thoughtful reflections on how modern pressures influence love, identity, and self-worth.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this lively episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam share weekend updates before diving into cultural commentary on media figures like Amanda Seales and the intricacies of celebrity relationships, including Georgia Rain’s campaign for David Banner. The conversation spans judicial missteps in the courtroom, body image in the film industry, and the rituals of cuffing season. With humor and honesty, the duo unpacks the biological, cultural, and emotional layers of seasonal dating, from holiday pressures and winter blues to trial relationships and Valentine’s Day expectations. They also highlight the importance of companionship, self-awareness, and playfulness in navigating modern relationships. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam dive into celebrity headlines, the influence of Black women on Black men, and the layered complexities of identity within the LGBTQ community. Special guest Philip Miller opens up about his experiences as a Black gay man, offering perspective on societal challenges, coming out, and navigating public perception. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, authenticity, and embracing one’s truth despite external pressures. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

AJ Holiday and TamBam sit down with special guest Chantelle Chevon for a powerful conversation on  self-discovery. They explore the intersections of spirituality and sexuality, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the role of community in healing. The discussion highlights the importance of intuition, self-love, and accountability in love and intimacy, while unpacking cultural beliefs around growth, connection, and spiritual alignment. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @_asecretgarden_See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by guest Vanity Wear for a wide-ranging conversation that blends real talk with professional insight. They unpack the nuance of declining fertility rates, the 'Tea' app controversy, and the nuanced realities of modern dating. Vanity shares her experiences as a Black woman in tech, shedding light on burnout, code-switching, and the value of staying authentic in corporate spaces. They also explore the blurred lines between therapy and life coaching, how self-worth extends beyond job titles, and the subtle ways financial control shows up in relationships. With humor and depth, this episode offers a roadmap for navigating both career and connection with intention. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @adore_coachvanitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ and TamBam reflect on recent travels and the value of rest amid the pressures of American life. The conversation moves from the joys and risks of vacation to a heartfelt tribute to the late Malcolm-Jamal Warner. They explore modern masculinity, highlighting how environmental and emotional stressors affect men’s health and behavior. The hosts emphasize the importance of vulnerability, accountability, and emotional intelligence in both friendships and romantic relationships. Through candid dialogue, they advocate for therapy, intentional communication, and the power of expressing love as tools for healing and connection. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, hosts AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the meaning of the "soft life" for Black women, exploring how it intersects with cultural narratives, gender roles, and personal well-being. They examine the origins of the trend, the weight of the “strong Black woman” archetype, and how social media has reshaped perceptions of ease, luxury, and femininity. The conversation also dives into relationship dynamics, the economics of independence, and the importance of self-care and mental health. Throughout, the hosts emphasize that softness isn’t defined by material comfort—but by a mindset rooted in peace, boundaries, and intentional living. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into everything from their weekend recaps to the messy realities of modern relationships. They unpack Diddy’s latest legal troubles and the ripple effects of abuse and scamming within the community. The conversation takes an unfiltered turn into the idea of “dixcipline”—the practice of sexual discipline—and why it matters. Exploring the push and pull between masculinity and femininity, the hosts reflect on the state of the Black community and the power of self-awareness. With their signature humor and honesty, they wrap up with a reminder to stay mindful, stay disciplined, and make choices that align with self-respect.  Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this week's episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack the latest SINS—from David Banner’s viral take on cheating and accountability to Cardi B’s album announcement and Offset’s unexpected celebrity crush on Sabrina Carpenter. Later, they’re joined by Emmy-nominated journalist Simone Boyce for an insightful conversation on authenticity, representation, and resilience in media. Simone reflects on her journey as a biracial journalist, the challenges of freelance reporting, and the evolving influence of social media and AI in shaping public narratives. With humor and honesty, the discussion explores what it takes to navigate the industry with integrity—ending with a rapid-fire round that puts a modern spin on the state of journalism today. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 @simoneboyceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their weekends before diving into their S.I.N.S. of the week—starting with the lawsuit against Tyler Perry (and you know TamBam had something to say about that). The conversation takes a serious turn as they reflect on the heartbreaking news of former MTV VJ Ananda Lewis's passing from breast cancer, emphasizing health awareness and the benefits of natural products. The hosts also lighten the mood with hilarious takes on workplace harassment and a wild story of divorce deception. For the main discussion, they honor Juneteenth by exploring its historical roots, the ongoing fight against historical erasure, and the power of community in preserving cultural identity. It’s a call to action, reflection, and celebration—because real freedom means knowing your history. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam kick things off with a recap of AJ’s birthday festivities and weekend highlights. During their S.I.N.S. of the week, they cover everything from Keith Sweat’s comments on modern women to Coco Gauff’s big win, and Kevin Hunter’s tell-all about his relationship with Wendy Williams. TamBam also makes it known—don’t come for Tyler Perry in her presence. That leads into this week’s movie review: Acrimony. The ladies dive into themes of sacrifice, mental health, loyalty, and the emotional toll relationships take on Black women. Through it all, they challenge the expectations placed on women and explore what it really means to love, lose, and let go. Let’s discuss. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on the pod, Tambam and AJ Holiday break down their S.I.N.S of the week, starting with a new study claiming women prefer traditionally masculine men. They also unpack recent comments from rapper and media personality, Cam’ron on the Diddy trial, adding their own insights to the ongoing conversation. Later, the duo dives into the difference between “clinical” thinking and what they cheekily call “clitical” thinking—highlighting how emotions, intuition, and logic show up differently in decision-making. You ever heard of clitical thinking? Let’s discuss.  Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, AJ Holiday and Tambam kick things off by recapping their weekend, including a stressful ER visit for AJ’s beloved cat. During their S.I.N.S. segment, they unpack the public fallout between Remy Ma and Papoose, and weigh in on a couple who made headlines for charging guests to attend their wedding. The conversation then shifts to Dawn Richard’s controversial testimony in the ongoing Diddy trial, sparking a deeper dialogue around loyalty and accountability. Later, the hosts dive into the main topic—examining the roles and expectations in romantic relationships. Is it wise to take on “wifey” duties without the ring? Tap in as they explore the pros, cons, and cultural pressures surrounding partnership dynamics. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tambam unpack their S.I.N.S of the week, including public reactions to the Nottoway Plantation burning down, the custody battle involving Halle Bailey and DDG, and the bizarre story of a woman found alive after missing for three weeks in the California mountains. The conversation then shifts to a deeper analysis of the legal controversies surrounding Sean “Diddy” Combs and Tory Lanez. The hosts explore layered topics such as abuse, victimhood, power, and complicity—raising important questions about accountability, celebrity culture, and public empathy. They also examine the nuances of false accusations and the long-term impact of high-profile legal battles on survivors and the accused alike. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week on We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tambam dive into their S.I.N.S. of the week, unpacking everything from Toni Braxton’s headline-making graduation outfit to a recent stabbing incident involving Tory Lanez. They also reflect on Marlon Wayans’ relationship with his mother and how it may have shaped his perspective on commitment. The conversation then shifts to the rise of social media panhandling—where people request money online, sometimes from total strangers. With humor and honesty, the hosts share personal stories, question the ethics of digital fundraising, and explore the fine line between need and manipulation in the era of GoFundMe culture. Tap in and join the conversation. Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.