Real Love Scenario

👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here:https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenarioWe’re not just splitting bills — we’re breaking cycles.In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we explore the powerful connection between money and love in the Black community — from unspoken financial expectations to rewriting generational patterns.Whether you’re dating, committed, or trying to build legacy, this episode gives you the tools and language to approach money with clarity, honesty, and care.💵 Topics We Cover:First money talks, credit surprises, and family obligationsWealth gaps, entrepreneurship, and breaking financial shameHow to merge love + money without losing trust or freedomThe 4 P’s: Past, Partnership, Practical, Protection🟢 Green flags: Transparency, shared budgets, financial literacy, prenups & plans🔴 Red flags: Secret debt, financial control, avoiding money convos🛠️ Try This:When dating: “Before we merge anything, let’s align on goals and guardrails.”Once committed: Schedule regular Money Dates with a 60-minute agenda that includes hard numbers, future plans, and accountability check-ins.💬 Tell us in the comments: What’s your favorite budget tool or financial literacy book that changed your relationship with money?✅ Like, comment, share, and subscribe for more real conversations about love, growth, and partnership.

👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here:https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenarioIs silence kinder than a “no”… or just easier?On this episode of Real Love Scenario, we’re tackling the breakup epidemic known as ghosting — and asking whether it’s a self-protective act or just emotional avoidance.We define the difference between ghosting, the slow fade, and healthy closure — and break down what each one really costs on the path to love.💔 Topics We Cover:Ghosting vs. clean break vs. slow fadeThe wildest breakup lines we’ve heard (and said 👀)How to deliver kind, honest closure without doing damageWhy ghosting hurts more than it protectsWhen blocking is self-care💡 The 4 C’s of Healthy Closure:Clarity (say what you mean)Courage (lean into discomfort)Compassion (truth without cruelty)Cost (ghosting erodes self-trust too)🟢 Green flags: Timely “no,” fair reasoning, no dragging🔴 Red flags: Breadcrumbs → silence, post-intimacy ghosting, avoidant exits✅ Give the grace of a clear, kind no.Try the 24-hour closure rule — and remember: blocking is an option if someone won’t let go.💬 Drop a comment: What’s the best or worst breakup line you’ve received?✅ Like, comment, subscribe, and follow us @RealLoveScenario for more real conversations on love, growth, and healing.

👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenarioWhy does seeing soft, joyful, ordinary Black love matter so much? On this episode of Real Love Scenario, we unpack the power of representation — how seeing love that looks like us, lives like us, and heals like us can transform what we believe is possible. From media portrayals to the couples in our own communities, we explore the 4 R’s: Representation, Reflection, Repair, and Re-imagination — and how they shape our relationships in real life.🖤 Topics We Cover: • Why seeing soft, healthy Black love changes the narrative • Couples we looked up to and how they shaped our standards • How toxic media cycles impact what we settle for • The power of reflection and reimagining what love can be • Why we need more examples of rest, joy, and co-leadership in love🟢 Green flags: Media that shows care, growth, and tenderness🔴 Red flags: Sensationalized toxicity and recycled stereotypes✨ Practical Tips: • Curate your media intake • Celebrate real-life couples who inspire you • Host discussion dinners or start mentorship circles rooted in healthy love 💬 Tell us in the comments: What Black love story gives you hope?✅ Like, comment, subscribe, and follow us @RealLoveScenario for more honest conversations on love and relationships.

Are they keeping you warm… or keeping you stuck? This week on Real Love Scenario, we’re talking breadcrumbing — the slow, subtle heartbreak that comes from being led on just enough to stay… but never enough to grow. We break it all down using our 4 P’s: Pattern, Proximity, Payoff, and Power — and help you recognize whether someone’s offering respectful pacing or just dangling you for their own benefit.🔥 Topics We Cover: • Breadcrumbing vs. casual clarity vs. real interest • “Hey stranger” texts, flirty reacts, and holiday pop-ins • The addiction loop of mixed signals • The red flags of emotional manipulation • How to stop the cycle and reclaim your power🛑 Red flags: “Soon” with no plan, late-night-only vibes, public flirt/private ghost✅ Green flags: Clear timelines, consistent actions, defined intentions 💡 Use our 3-response menu to call it out and move forward: Clarify — “What’s your intention here?”Cap — Set limits with timelines 3. Close or Continue — Walk away or stay with clarityPoll Time: Are you Team Mirror (match the energy) or Team Exit? Let us know in the comments.✅ Like, comment, subscribe, and follow us on socials @RealLoveScenario. New episodes every week!👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario00:00 Episode Intro01:47 Welcome to Real Love Scenario02:16 Understanding Bread Crumbing02:51 Personal Experiences with Bread Crumbing07:58 The Concept of Respectful Pacing12:00 The Framework of Bread Crumbing22:34 The Psychology Behind Breadcrumbing23:48 The Dangers of Manipulative Relationships24:46 Healthy Power Dynamics in Relationships26:10 Recognizing Green Flags in Dating30:58 Identifying Red Flags and Vague Behavior33:18 Practical Takeaways for Navigating Relationships42:04 Consistency: The Key to Real Love43:13 Final Thoughts and Social Media Plugs

Are you being soft launched… or straight-up hidden?👀 In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we dive deep into the Soft Launch Debate — from cryptic Instagram stories to the full relationship reveal. Is it healthy privacy or a red flag in disguise? We break it all down with the 4 P’s: Privacy, Pace, Protection, and Proof-of-Life — and unpack the difference between healthy boundaries and digital secrecy.🔥 Topics We Cover: • What is a soft launch vs hard launch in relationships?• Funny “Instagram detective” stories• The signs you’re being honored vs. hidden• Green flags and red flags of launching love• Tips for navigating social media and love with intention💬 Drop your take in the comments: How do you prefer to launch love online?✅ Don’t forget to like, comment, subscribe, and follow us on socials @RealLoveScenario. New episodes every week!👉 Want us to answer your real love scenario? Submit it here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario

On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome Journalist and Creative Producer, @krysfranklintv joins Real Love Scenario to discuss reimagining healthy love after abandonment, dating while in the entertainment industry, and things even get a little spicy🌶️🥵!Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it HERE!📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakesRelationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredKrystal Franklin: @krystalfranklin If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome CEO and Co-Founder of CarpeDM and Professional Matchmaker Naza Shelley to talk about what men want in relationships, tips on improving communication in relationships, ways to show appreciation in relationships + more.We also discuss his Real Love Scenario, how he wrote letters to his son at an early age, waiting for marriage and moving in with his wife.💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it HERE!📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakesRelationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome Dr. Kris Marsh to talk about her Real Love Scenario.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it HERE!📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakesRelationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

On this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre & Rhonda welcome back Amanda Seales to talk about her Real Love Scenario.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakesRelationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this special episode of Real Love Scenario, Rhonda and Dre hit pause on the usual format to have a heartfelt conversation about where relationships stand in 2025. As they prepare to take a short break from the show, they reflect on the cultural shifts, challenges, and recurring patterns they’ve seen in love, dating, and commitment this year. From the impact of social media to evolving gender roles and emotional intelligence in relationships — nothing is off limits. Tune in for an honest, insightful, and forward-looking conversation that sets the tone for where Real Love Scenario is headed next. Let’s talk about what’s real — and what we hope to restore.🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more real love scenarios and honest conversations. Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

What would you do if the love of your life from college reached out a decade later with a handwritten letter? In this emotional episode, a listener shares how her old flame—now a father and no longer engaged—came back into her life in the most unexpected way. After ten years of silence, she’s asking: Is it ever too late for love? Dre and Rhonda weigh in on whether this is a risky backslide… or a rare shot at real, grown-up love.💌 Share your thoughts in the comments — is she romantic or reckless?🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe for more real love scenarios and honest conversations. Join theRelationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community! 🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this week’s Real Love Scenario, we’re unpacking a deeply emotional and complex situation—how do you support a friend who’s living in denial? Our listener shares the story of a close friend who’s been pretending to be married to her ex for years. From wearing a ring to using his last name and even planning to speak publicly about relationships, she’s built an entire life around a lie. But with the ex now in a serious relationship with someone else, the stakes are higher than ever. Is this a cry for help rooted in fear and unmet emotional needs? Or is it a dangerous path that could lead to public embarrassment and personal heartbreak?Join us as we explore: 💬 When honesty becomes an act of love🧠 How to approach tough conversations with compassion💔 The cost of protecting someone from the truth We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments—What would you do?💬 Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation! Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this Real Love Scenario, we dive into a relationship dilemma that’s all about boundaries—or maybe double standards. Her boyfriend has a rule: no new friends after the relationship starts. The catch? He already had close female friends, but she didn’t have many friends at the time… and now she’s expected to just accept that. Is this a fair boundary or a one-sided control tactic? How do you get your partner to understand when something feels emotionally imbalanced? And where do we draw the line between respect and restriction in a relationship?💬 Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation! Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we unpack a heartbreaking story from a listener who gave everything — emotionally, financially, and mentally — to someone who couldn’t give the same in return. After a long-distance relationship turned live-in, she discovered he was still entertaining his ex and other women. Despite her love and support, he chose to leave without a word and claimed he preferred relationships that required “less.” Now in therapy and on a journey to heal, she’s left asking the question so many of us face after a painful breakup: Was it me? Or was he never capable of loving me in the first place?💬 Let us know in the comments: What do you think — was she asking for too much, or was he not ready for real love?🧠 Topics Discussed:• Emotional labor in relationships• Long-distance love & false promises• Being the giver in a one-sided relationship• Healing, therapy, and self-worth• When love isn’t enough💬 Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation! Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this insightful episode of Real Love Scenarios, our co-host Rhonda is joined by special guest Mac Stanley Cazeau, a licensed mental health counselor with a focus on couples therapy, communication skills, and infidelity recovery. As they navigate a listener's heartfelt dilemma involving a possible separation and the future of their 7-year-old son, Mac provides expert advice on prioritizing the child's well-being. They delve into the importance of therapeutic communication, the emotional needs in relationships, and the often-overlooked impacts of infidelity.Tune in for a thoughtful discussion aimed at fostering healthy, sustainable relationships even in the face of significant challenges.💬 Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation! Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, we tackle a tough question from a listener who’s dealing with a boyfriend who has a serious issue with her wardrobe. He claims her style disrespects their relationship — but is this about love and boundaries… or control and insecurity? Rhonda and Dre dive deep into the difference between expressing preferences in a relationship and crossing the line into controlling behavior. Is it ever okay to ask your partner to change how they dress? How do you tell the difference between healthy compromise and manipulation? If you’ve ever questioned whether your partner’s “requests” are reasonable or a red flag, this conversation is for you.💬 Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community! 🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestored If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this raw and emotional episode, we dive deep into the realities of toxic love and the cost of carrying more than you should in a relationship. A 22-year-old woman wrote to us, sharing her heartbreaking story of emotional trauma, financial burden, and ongoing betrayal.We talk candidly about:• Why staying in toxic relationships keeps us stuck• The mental toll of financial stress in love• The danger of taking on too much, too soon• What real support looks like when you’re healing This conversation isn’t just for her—it’s for anyone who has ever stayed too long, loved too hard, or felt too responsible for someone else’s potential.💬 Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more at www.relationshiprestored.com/community!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it at www.relationshiprestored.com/reallovescenario📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this episode of Real Love Scenario, Dre and Rhonda unpack the emotional fallout of a listener’s 30-day relationship that started with intense passion and ended without warning. What happens when you move fast, believe it’s real, and get left holding the emotional weight alone? They explore the dangers of rushing connection, the importance of emotional sobriety, and how to protect yourself from manipulation masked as love. They also answer a powerful viewer question: “How do I know if what I’m feeling is trauma… or truth?” — and share why therapy might be the most important part of healing.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it HERE!📲 Connect with us: Dre on IG: @itsdresmith Rhonda on IG: @rhonicakes Relationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this raw and deeply personal episode, we explore the story of a man caught between ambition and intimacy. As he navigates the pressures of a demanding master’s program, a casual relationship has unexpectedly turned into something much more complicated. When your time, energy, and emotional bandwidth are maxed out, how do you decide between what you need and what someone else wants? Dre and Rhonda unpack the reality of modern relationships, emotional responsibility, and the hard decisions that come when timing just isn’t on your side.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it HERE!📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakesRelationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!

In this powerful episode, Dre and Rhonda dive deep into the complexities of intimacy in relationships. They tackle a listener’s dilemma about not enjoying oral sex from her otherwise perfect boyfriend, emphasizing the importance of honest communication in the bedroom. Dre breaks down the 80/20 rule in relationships and why non-sexual intimacy is just as crucial as physical connection. The hosts share practical tips on how to talk about your desires without awkwardness and why setting realistic expectations is key to a fulfilling love life.Tune in to our LIVE STREAM on YouTube every Tuesday at 8 PM for more real love scenarios and to join the conversation!💬 Join the Relationship Restored Online Community or learn more HERE!🎙️ Have your own relationship question or scenario? Submit it HERE!📲 Connect with us:Dre on IG: @itsdresmithRhonda on IG: @rhonicakesRelationship Restored IG: @relationshiprestoredIf you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to like, comment, and leave a review! Your support helps us keep the conversation going!