DO IT BAD

Death Becomes ThemIn this very special episode of Do It Bad, we hold a séance for our special guest Tumi Moloto, contacting their spirit in the underworld to discuss Tumi’s recent experiences going through a death portal. * We invite you to be aware that this episode discusses suicidal ideation and death. Please choose wisely if listening is right for you at this time. It is not for the faint of heart, but will move you in ways you can’t possibly imagine. *In this episode, we communicate with Tumi's soul about: - Normalising death through the micro-dosing of death, walking with death, and metaphorical deaths- The concept of existential kink as described by Carolyn Elliot and how it relates to Tumi’s death portal experience - The active choosing of life through choosing metaphorical death - The idea that fear is the part of desire that we aren’t in approval of yet - The eros of death, and how death and sex are deeply intertwinedYou can find Tumi via Instagram – Instagram.com/tumimoloto777 “Evolution only happens from the willingness to do it bad.”

Do you remember your first kiss? Or your best kiss… or your worst - We do and we are sharing all of it in with full juicy details in this episode on kissing. We discuss:What makes a super deluxe kiss and also what makes an unpleasant oneYour inner teenager’s shame around bad kissingHow 6 second kisses have been shown by science to improve your relationshipsThe surprising difference between communication in the bedroom compared to kissingWhy being present and in your body is so important for kissing consent… and also BDSM because we are kinky gals. Throwing your old Cosmo magazines in the bin and being present and responsive instead.

Normal is boring! Turns out the secret sauce to life is embracing your intensity - especially if you are a neurodivergent, highly sensitive, and emotional being. In this episode we welcome our very first guest speaker Katie Kozlowski, an energy and embodiment coach who uses her skills to help create dream lives!We discuss:- The way society and academia treat neurodivergence and intense emotions- Why feeling the depths of your emotions is powerful- The magic of being neurodivergent/highly sensitiveIf you loved Katie, she can be found at katiekozlowski.com and on Instagram @iamkatiekozlowski. Her links for Five Min Fix are available there, and her embodiment camp is available at embodimentcamp.com

When you find out that--surprise!--you're super gay.We discuss:· growing up Christian and how, somehow, that made us gayer· how "finding yourself" and "being yourself" are lies, and you're never any one thing· WTF is queer theory?! · The gay scale (Kinsey Scale) and the Gender Unicorn· how to have the BEST RELATIONSHIPS EVER, and WTF queerplatonic means· never feeling gay enough· some very cool philosophical shit, actually.· how we bullied for being gay before we even knew we were gay, lol

Why showing up badly might be even better than showing up well. ;)We discuss:· The humiliation of not being ready and doing it anyway· The humiliation of having a podcast and admitting we really care what you think· Our magical ass relationship and how we met· Why doing it bad is the best thing for your mental health and productivity · How showing up cringe can actually be super fun