The Ope Podcast

Abby has Felicia York, founder of Fort Wayne Social Club, on the podcast. Felicia opens the podcast up by explaining what FWSC is. The girls give advice on how to make friends. Felicia has moved to multiple states, so she gives advice on moving and making friends in new places. She discusses the importance of building your own life when you move to a new city with a partner. They discuss confidence and being seen. Abby thinks this is the funniest episode to date. Instagram & Facebook: @fortwaynesocialclub**Follow to stay up to date on future social club eventsIG:@theopepod@abbymccarvilleTikTok:@abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has Madison Eshelman founder of Groundwork Coaching and co-founder of Self Seeking School back on the podcast. This episode is an extension of Madison's previous episodes 60 & 61. Abby opens the episode up explaining how Groundwork Coaching has positively impacted her life. Madison give an overview of Self Seeking School. The ladies discuss mental health topics such as your window of tolerance, the importance of slowing down, anxious attachment, Madison's Rolodex Theory, deconstruction religion, law of detachment and manifesting, feeling your anger, and the importance of self love. Websites:https://selfseekingschool.com/https://madisonshea.com/Socials:@madison.shae_coaching@selfseekingschool@theopepod@abbymccarvilleTikTok:abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has her number one reoccurring guest on the podcast this week, Saige. The girls opened the podcast by catching up on what's new in Saige's life since the last time they recorded almost 2 years prior. They joke about the money they would be saving if weddings didn't exist and their proposal to replace bridal showers. This week the girls deep dive into the topic of red flags in relationships and the lessons they've learned by going through heartbreak in your 30s. Abby discusses her current contemplation of "what is love?" They end the podcast doing a would you rather segment and discuss their excitement for the release of Reputation (Taylor's Version). IG:theopepodabbymccarvilleTikTok:abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has Jessica Bunch on the podcast. The girls discuss the beauty of starting a friendship in your 30s. Jess goes through her painful medical journey including difficult doctors, advocating for herself, and an endometriosis diagnosis. She explains how she’s open to having a child without a partner. The girls discuss exploring sexuality and where they’re currently at with dating. Jessica gives the listeners an overview of her experience working with Planned Parenthood, losing a job due to budget cuts, and the current project she’s working on now. We end the episode with an inspiring story about the time Jess met VP Kamala Harris. Important links & socials referenced in the episode: 2025 Session Project Overview: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OihhwCZtbmsQE7Zgw8HSdfUmfyYz8uC6EU9svX7FIjs/edit?usp=sharingIGA List of all recordings & transcripts: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1iuT3qS1AFkfqnt8iGG62f6j6ZF_IkCUZ9TymNje92Y0/edit?usp=sharingMADVoters Bill Tracker:https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1-ZDP8XmrXSRTQe4Hy_nixzdaTYpwx5KgzvRhaLBFBRM/edit?usp=sharingMADVoters IG:madvoters Jessica’s creations IG:starlit.loopstherealjessica__Abby’s IG:theopepodabbymccarville TikTok: abbyjeanmccarville

Abby has her previous co-host, Nicki, back on the podcast this week for a little reunion episode. The ladies breakdown what’s changed since the last time they recorded together. They discuss the movie, Babygirl, and how they loved the overall theme of the movie. Nicki and Abby deep dive their thoughts on the men in the movie, the shame that was depicted in it, and the overall sex positive message it portrayed. The girls talk a little pop culture and give their thoughts on the Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni scandal. The girls disagree on their takes. Abby explains why she may be projecting her feelings toward the emotional abuse that was shown in the movie. Nicki tells the listener a few things that she’s currently struggling with and gives the listeners some really exciting news. The ladies end the episode discussing Timothee Chalamet’s appearance on SNL, what radicalized their politics, and Nicki Glaser.IG:theopepodabbymccarvilleTok:abbyjeanmccarville

After taking a year off from the podcast, Abby is finally back to doing her favorite thing. Yap! She has her sister, Jessica, on the podcast this week to discuss their celebrity crushes. For anyone that doesn’t know, spoiler alert, Abby’s crush is Timothee Chalamet and Jess keeps hers a mystery. Abby tells the listeners what’s changed in her life since the last time she recorded from her relationship status, therapy, and hygiene. Abby provides some insight as to why she stopped recording podcast episodes and now why she’s finally bringing it back. Jess talks about her nerves with the TikTok ban (recorded prior to the 12 hour ban) and how much she loves her BookTok community. The girls deep dive the concept of Decentering men. Thank you for checking out the episode! Love you all. IG: theopepod abbymccarville Tok: abbyjeanmccarville Guest socials :jessica_joan_reads

This is part 2 of Abby's conversation with Darby. They discuss how "Ope" and ope sound different in their heads. The ladies deep dive The Walking Dead, binge worthy second watches like Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Veronica Mars, and Gilmore Girls. Abby has a theory on Saltburn. Darby closes the episode out with one of the funniest Ope Stories.

Abby has Darby on the podcast this week - part 1 of their conversation. The ladies open the episode up by discussing the drama with Darby's almost released podcast. Abby makes a confession on the podcast that she's never opened up about publicly. They discuss being confident at work and how to ask your boss for a raise. Abby opens up about her midlife crisis and the girls deep dive their thoughts on being creative as a career. They reveal their age when discussing the social media platforms they had when they were in high school (myspace). They close the episode out discussing their future musical plans together.

Abby has Jose on the podcast again this week for part 2 of their interview. They open the episode by discussing how they've learned to treat people no matter what their status is. They discuss their upbringings and what it's taught them. Jose and Abby deep dive a few of their favorite comedian and podcasts that they listen to and random fact they've learned from them. Abby tells a story about how birth control affected who she's attracted to.

Abby has Jose on the podcast this week (part 1). They open the episode up by discussing how they became friends. Abby thanks Jose for being a true platonic guy friend. The two deep dive how to not be creepy as a male friend to women and their thoughts on losing male friends after a woman gets into a relationship. They discuss parts of Jose's relationship. Jose and Abby open up about not wanting to parent the way their parents did.

TW: Suicide / Ketamine Abby finishes her interview with Lavendelle in part 2 of the podcast. The ladies get into more personal topics in this episode. Lavendelle opens up about her relationship, personal struggles with mental health, and how ketamine infusion therapy has positively impacted her life. The ladies play a rapid fire question and answer segment. They end the episode with an Ope Story that includes a wardrobe malfunction. Resources discussed in the episode: https://dancesafe.org/ Socials: @lavendelleburlesque  @abbymccarville @theopepod

Abby has Lavendelle, burlesque artist, also known as The Purple Princess on the podcast this week. She explains how she created Lavendelle and the difference between her two personas. The ladies discuss trusting your intuition and following your gut. Abby and Lavendelle deep dive social media including the amazing community that comes with it. In addition, they talk about the scary parts of the internet. The ladies wrap up the episode discussing Lavendelle's confidence on stage.

Despite this being the 69th episode, it has nothing to do with the position. Abby has Mads on the podcast again this week. The girls deep dive Abby’s love coma. She explains how she’s learning to trust that some people stick around. Maddie deep dives her thoughts on vowing to be with someone forever. The ladies discuss what it’s like to watch your partner to have a relationship with your parents.

Abby has Maddie Gerrity on the podcast this week. Abby opens the pod by explaining how the girls became instant work besties several years ago. They discuss Maddie's confidence from a young age, their thoughts on bachelorette parties, and owing people money. Abby closes the episode with a story about being in the same room with Shaq.

Abby has Saige on the podcast again this week for part 2 of her interview. The ladies open up the podcast by discussing Barbie and Oppenheimer. Saige is very interested in the marketing case studies that went into promoting the Barbie movie. Abby deep dives two TikTok dating scenarios that have captivated her; a nightmare dating app story and a high school crush. Abby has a BIG announcement for the listeners. Saige takes over the podcast and does the interviewing to let the listeners in on it! Saige closes out the episode with her Ope Story which includes a wedding and 23 year old.

Abby has Saige on the podcast for the 300th time. The girls breakdown everything that's happened in Taylor Swift's world since the last time Saige came on the podcast. This includes discussing the Speak Now album and the Eras Tour. The ladies discuss The Golden Bachelor. They end the podcast discussing their confusion regarding Selena Gomez. Are they too old for her??

Abby has Jess on again this week. They open the episode up by discussing the Jonah Hill controversy. They discuss the reason behind posting on social media. Jessica tries to describe her type on the pod (again). The ladies deep dive what they would do if the "airplane lady" was on a flight they were on. Abby lets the listeners know how Jess has ruined Dark Romances for her. The girl's Ope Story includes a friend from Jess' past and Tacobell.

Abby has Jess on the podcast this week. They discuss their thoughts on "good girl conditioning." As always, Abby talks about a new song from Speak Now (Taylor's Version) that she thinks Jess will relate to (Long Live). Abby deep dives Jury Duty.

This is part 2 of Abby's conversation with Madison. Abby opens up about her experience with therapy. Madison gives advise on the different types of therapy. The girls deep dive grief and where it lives in the Change Triangle. Madison deep dives how she has done inner child work. Abby reveals something new on the podcast. She explains how she's experienced repressed memories. Madison's Ope Story includes getting your period at the worst possible time.

(TW: Suicide) Abby has Madison Eshelman on this week's episode of the pod. Madison is the founder of Groundwork Coaching, an emotional wellness coach. The episodes opens up with Madison telling the listeners how she became a wellness coach. She opens up about her life story; deconstructing religion, divorce, and the loss of her ex husband. She explains the importance of being seen and how that has lead her to do what she loves i.e. helping others. She explains how the Change Triangle changed her life and how we can use it to uncover and heal deep repressed emotions. Abby opens up about her experience and reaction to guided meditation and how difficult it is due to her trauma. Madison tells the listeners how she works with her clients that have complex traumas. **Part 1 & Part 2 with Madison cover sensitive topics. I want everyone to feel like my podcast is a safe space, so please only listen if you're comfortable and have the emotional capacity. Please turn off the podcast if it becomes too much for you. I want everyone to keep themselves safe. XOXO Part 2 will be released on 7/10. For more info: madisonshea.com