The Free Lawyer

In this podcast episode Gary dives into the important topic of hearing from our past. He discusses the negative impacts of past experiences and provides practical advice on how to overcome them. He focuses on four major impacts: limiting beliefs, shame, resentment, and regret. Gary encourages listeners to replace limiting beliefs with positive thoughts, make amends and seek reconciliation for past actions, overcome resentments through understanding and acceptance, and free themselves from regret by acknowledging, forgiving, and learning from it. He emphasizes the importance of expressing feelings, taking constructive action, and practicing gratitude. If you would like support in healing from your path, reach out to Gary here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer" podcast, host Gary interviews Valentina Flores, CEO of Red Sentry. Valentina shares her journey from law enforcement to leading a proactive cybersecurity company, emphasizing the importance of ethical hacking and prevention for law firms. She offers practical tips—like enabling multi-factor authentication, limiting data access, and preparing response plans—to help lawyers protect sensitive information. Valentina also discusses the collaborative nature of cybersecurity, the human element in defense, and aligning security practices with core values, making cybersecurity accessible and actionable for legal professionals.Valentina Flores is the CEO and Co-Founder of Red Sentry, a proactive cybersecurity company that breaks into your network, so hackers never get the chance. Before protecting companies, she served as a detective on joint federal task forces, tracking cybercriminals through digital back-alleys. Now a public speaker on hacker psychology, a two-time award-winning cybersecurity leader, and a fierce advocate for women in tech, Valentina is redefining what leadership looks like in the industry, championing smarter and more accessible security for all.Transition from Detective to Cybersecurity (00:01:33) What is Penetration Testing? (00:02:56) Success Rate and Client Vulnerabilities (00:03:35)Understanding Hacker Psychology (00:05:30) Why Law Firms Are Targets (00:06:38) Triggers for Law Firms to Seek Help (00:07:46) Compliance vs. Proactive Security (00:09:09) Human Element in Cybersecurity (00:10:16) Making Clients Comfortable with Ethical Hacking (00:11:55) Emerging Threats and the Future of Cybersecurity (00:13:25) Cybersecurity for Small and Medium Businesses (00:14:43) Diversity in Tech and Cognitive Diversity (00:16:37) Awards and People-First Leadership (00:17:27) Leadership in Cybersecurity vs. Traditional Business (00:18:20) Role of Coaching and Mentorship (00:19:28) Annual Testing and Follow-Up (00:20:21) Prioritizing Cybersecurity in Law Firms (00:21:13) Collaboration vs. Competition in Cybersecurity (00:22:17) Top Three Cybersecurity Actions for Lawyers (00:23:29) First Steps for the Unprepared (00:25:39) What is Penetration Testing? (Clarification) (00:26:39) Freedom and Work-Life Balance (00:27:06) Aligning Practice with Values (00:27:51) You can find The Free Lawyer Assessment here- https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWould you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a complimentary call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer" podcast, host Gary interviews Anusia Gillespie, a lawyer-turned-novelist and yoga instructor. Anusia shares her journey from high-pressure legal roles to writing her debut novel "Soul Toll," which explores the personal costs of professional success. The conversation delves into legal innovation, leadership, and the importance of integrating joy, purpose, and authenticity into legal careers. Anusia offers practical advice on self-awareness, values alignment, and using coaching or mindfulness to create a more fulfilling path, encouraging lawyers to redefine success on their own terms.Anusia Gillespie is a lawyer-turned-novelist and RYT-200 certified yoga instructor whose debut contemporary fantasy, Soul Toll, blends corporate ambition with personal awakening. Her writing is shaped by a career at global law firms, legal tech companies, and Harvard Law School Executive Education—offering a sharp, insider perspective on high-performance culture and the personal cost of chasing success.Well known in the legal industry for her insight on leadership and transformation, Anusia now channels those themes into fiction that invites readers to question the lives they’ve been told to want. In Soul Toll, a high-achieving attorney’s search for clarity pulls her into a hidden world, and a battle for something far more meaningful than success.Anusia holds a JD and MBA from Boston College and a BS in Management from Tulane University. She lives north of Boston with her husband, young son, and old dog.Defining Moment for Writing "Soul Toll" (00:01:20) Meaning of "Soul Toll" (00:02:35) Anusia’s Personal Soul Toll Experience (00:04:25) Transitioning Careers and Lessons Learned (00:06:18) High Achievers and the Cost of Success (00:08:16) Common Tolls Lawyers Pay (00:08:32) Skepticism Toward Meaning and Fulfillment (00:10:04) Anusia’s Approach to Legal Transformation (00:11:36) Integrating Joy and Seriousness in Law (00:12:46) Importance of Coaching for Lawyers (00:15:02) How Coaching Shifts Lawyers’ Focus (00:16:55) Recent and Future Changes in Legal Profession (00:18:26) Technology, Boundaries, and Lawyer Well-being (00:20:35) Patterns of Lawyers Who Build Soul (00:23:38) Message and Purpose of "Soul Toll" (00:25:08) Finding Personal Fulfillment in Law (00:27:23) Advice for Miserable but Successful Lawyers (00:29:08) Advice to Her Younger Self (00:31:30) Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a complimentary call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callYou can find The Free Lawyer Assessment here- https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Eric Ritter, CEO of Digital Neighbor and digital marketing professor, about law firm growth through effective SEO and branding. Eric shares his journey into legal marketing, the importance of defining an ideal client, and how law firms can stand out in a crowded market. They discuss AI’s impact on legal marketing, the value of continuous learning and coaching, and practical strategies for work-life balance. Eric emphasizes building authentic brands and sustainable marketing systems, offering actionable advice for lawyers seeking fulfillment and long-term success.Eric Ritter is the CEO & Founder of Digital Neighbor, a nationally recognized SEO and digital marketing agency specializing in law firm growth. With over a decade of experience, Eric is a leading authority in legal marketing and AI-driven client acquisition. Known as "The SEO Sommelier," he simplifies complex digital strategies to drive growth for law firms.Eric is an adjunct professor at the University of South Florida, teaching digital marketing. He has also been featured in Authority Magazine, Search Engine Watch, and Porch. He hosts The Search Bar Podcast and leads Sip & Search, a networking series for attorneys.In addition to his professional work, Eric is actively involved in the community, serving on multiple nonprofit boards in the Tampa Bay area.Eric’s Journey into Legal Marketing (00:02:10) The SEO Sommelier Concept (00:03:07) Myth 1: The Ideal Client Profile (00:04:28)SEO Focus and Resource Allocation (00:06:11)Standing Out in a Crowded Market (00:06:56) Myth 2: All Cases Are the Same (00:09:08) Consistency and Lawyer Involvement in Marketing (00:10:48) Digital Neighbor’s Differentiation (00:12:44) Teaching and Staying Current (00:13:46) AI’s Impact on Digital Marketing (00:15:06) The Future of Digital Marketing (00:16:58) Answer Engine Optimization (00:20:17) Sustained Law Firm Growth vs. Burnout (00:21:15) The Value of Coaching and Professional Development (00:22:44) Lawyer Fulfillment and Avoiding Burnout (00:24:19) First Steps for Established Law Firms (00:25:04) Work-Life Balance and Delegation (00:26:16) Recharging and Hobbies (00:28:02) Transformation Through Marketing (00:29:44)Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a complimentary call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-freeYou can find The Free Lawyer Assessment here- https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessment

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary Miles interviews Casey Berman, founder of Leave Law Behind. Casey shares his journey from burned-out attorney to career coach, detailing how he helps lawyers transition into fulfilling non-legal roles. They discuss overcoming the "golden handcuffs" of legal careers, identifying transferable skills, and taking small, practical steps toward change. Casey emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, actionable coaching, and redefining personal success. The episode offers hope, resources, and concrete advice for attorneys seeking more meaningful, aligned careers outside the law.Casey Berman is the founder of Leave Law Behind (www.leavelawbehind.com), a nationally recognized coaching and content platform that helps unhappy attorneys leave the legal field and transition into non-law careers they love. Leave Law Behind has been featured in or covered by the Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, The Atlantic, The Guardian, among other publications. A former attorney himself, Casey launched Leave Law Behind over a decade ago to help lawyers overcome fear, rediscover their transferable skills, and find roles that align with their strengths, values, and lifestyle goals. He’s helped hundreds of attorneys break free from burnout and self-doubt and take confident steps toward more fulfilling, sustainable careers.Casey is a speaker, writer, and entrepreneur based in Maui, where he lives with his wife and two children. He brings a thoughtful, down-to-earth perspective to conversations about career change, entrepreneurship, mindset, emotional resilience, and building a life that works for you.Casey’s Defining Moments Leaving Law (00:02:46) Transitioning Out of Law (00:05:44) Transferable Skills & Golden Handcuffs (00:07:31)Overcoming Feeling Stuck (00:11:19) Incremental Steps to Change (00:12:30) What Sets Leave Law Behind Apart (00:15:11) Unique Genius Framework (00:16:29) Who Leave Law Behind Serves (00:17:28) Paralysis by Analysis & Perfectionism (00:18:22)Changes in Lawyers’ Motivations & Opportunities (00:21:05) Ripple Effect of Career Fulfillment (00:23:39) TPractical First Steps for Dissatisfied Lawyers (00:25:12) Importance of Coaching & External Support (00:27:48) Redefining Success & Authenticity (00:31:40) Transforming Your Current Practice (00:33:23) Magic Wand: More Options & Less Feeling Stuck (00:35:39) Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a complimentary call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callTake The Free Lawyer Assessment (10 minutes, completely free):https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWhat you'll get immediately:✓ Your Professional Freedom Score (out of 300 points)✓ Breakdown across Internal Authority, Sustainable Excellence, and Authentic Practice✓ Personalized action plan in your inbox✓ Specific steps you can take this week

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer" podcast, host Gary interviews Susan Filan, a former legal analyst and prosecutor turned transformational speaker. Susan shares how a near-fatal accident forced her to reevaluate her life and redefine success beyond external achievements. Together, they discuss the pressures lawyers face, the dangers of burnout, and the importance of authenticity and self-care. Susan introduces her "Wake Up Call Method" for finding fulfillment and encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability, gratitude, and proactive change. The episode offers hope and practical advice for lawyers seeking greater clarity, purpose, and joy in their personal and professional lives.Susan F. Filan, Esq. is a former MSNBC Senior Legal Analyst, prosecutor, and trial lawyer who reinvented herself as a transformational speaker and life strategist. After nearly 30 years in the legal world, a near-death accident became her wake-up call, forcing her to confront what true success really means. Today, she helps lawyers and high-achieving professionals who appear accomplished on the outside but are collapsing inside. Through her signature Wake-Up Call Method, Susan guides clients from burnout and disconnection to clarity, vitality, and fulfillment. Known as the Architect of Reinvention, she is on a mission to revolutionize how lawyers and high-achievers live, love, and lead.Susan Filan’s Background & Accident (00:01:01) Early Career Choices & Legal “Off Ramps” (00:02:31)The Accident Experience (00:04:25) Rehabilitation & New Perspective (00:05:52) Shifting from Achievement to Presence (00:08:14) Life After the Accident (00:10:08) Practicing Law & Academic Transition (00:11:16) External Success vs. Internal Fulfillment (00:12:11) Ignoring Inner Signals (00:14:33) The Wake Up Call Method (00:15:29)Lawyer Well-being & Cultural Change (00:18:18)Escaping vs. Authentic Alignment (00:20:04) Facing Fear & First Steps to Change (00:21:44) Role of Coaching for Lawyers (00:22:38) Lawyers’ Resistance to Coaching (00:24:11) First Shift for Transformation (00:26:04) Aligning with True Purpose & Values (00:27:23)Susan’s Legacy & Message (00:29:24) Advice for Stuck Lawyers (00:30:23)Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callYou can find The Free Lawyer Assessment here- https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Jonathan Cohen—attorney, speaker, and former IDF soldier—about mental fitness, resilience, and burnout in the legal profession. Jonathan shares his journey from military service to law, highlighting lessons on overcoming self-doubt, managing stress, and building purposeful routines. Together, they discuss practical strategies for active recovery, combating self-sabotage, and creating a holistic “stress management ecosystem.” The episode emphasizes self-awareness, setting boundaries, and developing a clear vision to help lawyers thrive, not just survive, in their careers and personal lives.Jonathan Z. Cohen is an attorney, speaker, podcaster, and philanthropist. Jonathan’s background includes 5 years of public service in 2 different countries as a Bronx Special Victims Division Criminal Prosecutor and IDF Infantry Combat Soldier. With over 1,000 legal and business professionals trained, Jonathan educates, inspires, and shares actionable insights to help thousands of ambitious professionals lead a purpose-driven life through stories, frameworks, and systems.Jonathan’s Background and Pivotal Moments (00:01:00) Defining Mental Fitness and Transformation (00:02:08) Military and Legal Service: Lessons in Resilience (00:06:31) Resilience vs. Mental Fitness, Strength, and Toughness (00:11:06) Speed to Recovery and Burnout in Law (00:13:06) Root Causes and Elements of Burnout (00:14:05) Early Warning Signs of Burnout (00:20:33)Active Recovery for Lawyers (00:23:27) Self-Sabotage: Recognition and Frameworks (00:28:26) Stress Management Ecosystem (00:34:34) Mindset Shift: From Surviving to Thriving (00:39:14) Crafting a Vision and First Steps to Mental Fitness (00:43:05) Take The Free Lawyer Assessment (10 minutes, completely free):https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWhat you'll get immediately:✓ Your Professional Freedom Score (out of 300 points)✓ Breakdown across Internal Authority, Sustainable Excellence, and Authentic Practice✓ Personalized action plan in your inbox✓ Specific steps you can take this weekWould you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Brit Nicole, a coach who empowers high-achieving women—especially lawyers—to build fulfilling, purpose-driven careers. Britt shares her journey overcoming challenges in male-dominated industries, battling burnout, and rebuilding after setbacks. The conversation covers overcoming imposter syndrome, aligning work with personal values, building confidence, pricing services, and embracing failure as growth. Britt offers practical advice for women lawyers to stop shrinking, lead authentically, and create joyful, sustainable practices. Listeners are encouraged to take bold action, prioritize well-being, and pursue happiness on their own terms.Brit Nicole is a coach, creator, and builder of big things — from scratch. She’s scaled multiple businesses, including two 6-figure photography brands, and rebuilt again after betrayal and burnout. Today, she helps high-potential women finally build the business or brand that’s been on their heart — with real strategy, grounded support, and the kind of momentum that turns “someday” into sold out. She’s known for her story of reinvention, STRONG resilience, her no-fluff approach to getting things moving, and her ability to turn stuck energy into serious traction.Brit Nicole’s Background & Story of Reinvention (00:01:00)Shrinking in Male-Dominated Industries (00:01:48)Imposter Syndrome & Proving Yourself (00:04:37)Aligning Career with Personal Values (00:06:48)Burnout: Tired vs. Needing to Rebuild (00:09:09).Reconnecting with Purpose (00:11:42)Confident Leadership for Women (00:13:52)Owning Your Worth & Pricing Services (00:16:20)Rebuilding After Burnout (00:19:01)Taking Action Without Certainty (00:20:19)Mindset Shifts for High-Stress Professions (00:24:46)Wins Journaling & Processing Stress (00:26:39)No Shrinking: Expanding in Traditional Firms (00:29:41)Moving from Scarcity to Abundance Mindset (00:32:10)Stepping Into Your Next Bold Chapter (00:34:34)Take The Free Lawyer Assessment (10 minutes, completely free):https://www.garymiles.net/the-free-lawyer-assessmentWhat you'll get immediately:✓ Your Professional Freedom Score (out of 300 points)✓ Breakdown across Internal Authority, Sustainable Excellence, and Authentic Practice✓ Personalized action plan in your inbox✓ Specific steps you can take this weekWould you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer" podcast, host Gary interviews guest Ana Juneja, an IP lawyer and entrepreneur. They discuss Ana’s journey from law firm associate to media company owner. Ana shares how she sold her media business to focus on law and explains how AI has revolutionized her firm’s transactional work, enabling a small team to serve clients efficiently. She offers insights on trademark protection, debunks common IP myths, and highlights the importance of early trademark registration. The episode highlights the importance of innovation, transparency, and leveraging AI and social media to empower lawyers and improve client service.As an award-winning intellectual property attorney and the founder of Ana Law®, Ana Juneja is redefining how attorneys leverage AI to create impactful social media content.She empowers celebrities, athletes, influencers, start-ups, entrepreneurs, and corporations to not only protect their brands and ideas but also amplify them across digital platforms using cutting-edge AI-driven strategies.Ana Law® is the first and only law firm offering flat-fee, 100% guaranteed patent, trademark, and copyright services, with Ana maintaining a 100% success rate.Beyond traditional legal work, she speaks widely on the intersection of AI, law, and social media, helping professionals understand how emerging technologies can safeguard and scale their influence.AI’s Impact on Legal Practice (00:03:04)Scope of IP and Transactional Work (00:04:20)Scaling with AI (00:05:47)Lawyers’ Resistance to AI (00:06:42)AI in Transactional vs. Litigation Work (00:07:37)Best Uses of AI in Litigation (00:09:23)Lawyer Hesitancy and AI Psychosis (00:10:26)Big Law Firms and AI Adoption (00:11:41)Prompt Engineering and Lawyer Skillsets (00:14:10)Ana’s Background at USPTO (00:16:02)IP Protection for Businesses (00:17:09)]Basic IP Protections for Businesses (00:19:06)Automating Client Communication with AI (00:21:39)Common IP Misconceptions (00:23:25)Client Types and Fee Structure (00:24:11)Service Guarantees in Legal Practice (00:26:02)Advice for Lawyers New to AI (00:26:54)Personal Freedom and Business Systems (00:27:49)Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of The Free Lawyer podcast, host Gary interviews Jessie Brown, a former attorney turned career and executive coach. Jessie shares her journey from big law to coaching, discussing her experiences with burnout and how she found balance by aligning her work with her values. The conversation explores redefining success, managing stress, and practical strategies like energy audits, mindfulness, and setting boundaries. Jesse offers insights on overcoming financial fears, reconnecting with authenticity, and prioritizing well-being, providing valuable guidance for lawyers seeking fulfillment and sustainable careers without burnout.Jessie Brown practiced law for 15 years, primarily in Big Law, before becoming a career and executive coach for lawyers. She specializes in helping attorneys navigate career decisions and transitions and learn how to succeed on their own terms without burnout. Before becoming a coach, Jessie navigated balancing a demanding career as a litigator while raising young kids. She created the balance she sought as a Senior Counsel in Big Law, while working a reduced billable hour schedule, before deciding to resign from the law to focus exclusively on coaching. Jessie also leads transformational women's retreats and is a certified meditation teacher and forest bathing guide and has a deep love for nature, reading, and spirituality. Jessie’s Legal Background & Strengths Assessment (00:01:11) Transitioning Legal Practice Areas (00:04:27)Hospice Work & Mentoring Associates (00:06:25) Becoming a Career Coach (00:07:56) Recognizing and Experiencing Burnout (00:08:47) Finding Balance & Reducing Hours (00:09:53) JFinancial Fears & Career Transition Fund (00:10:50) Aligning Work with Values (00:12:28) Energy Audit & Burnout Prevention (00:13:43) Impact of Early Loss & Mortality Perspective (00:15:20) Mortality in Coaching & Future Visualization (00:16:51) Defining Success Beyond External Metrics (00:18:18) Rediscovering Authenticity (00:22:23) Mindfulness & Forest Bathing Explained (00:24:28) Practical Self-Care for Burned-Out Lawyers (00:28:04) Work-Life Balance & Boundaries (00:30:10) Creating Personal Freedom & Focus (00:32:57) Advice to Her Younger Self (00:35:15) Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer" podcast, host Gary interviews Casita Simpson, founder of Simpson Associates LLC and expert in law firm systems and automation. Casita shares her journey from paralegal to operations consultant, highlighting common inefficiencies in law firms and the transformative impact of centralized systems and automation. They discuss how to choose the right case management tools, overcome resistance to change, and implement practical steps to streamline operations, improve client experience, and boost profitability. Casita encourages firms to start small, embrace technology, and continuously improve their processes.The Problem: Disorganization in Law Firms (00:03:22) The Solution: Implementing Systems & Automation (00:06:10) Pushback & Cost of Inefficiency (00:09:04) Common Inefficiencies in Law Firms (00:10:39) Why Lawyers Resist Automation (00:12:38) Choosing the Right Case Management System (00:14:34) Mistakes in Implementing New Systems (00:17:43) Process of Working with Casita (00:20:03) Quick Wins Without New Technology (00:22:36)First Steps for Firms Getting Organized (00:23:41) .How Systems & Automation Enable Scaling (00:25:14) Measuring Success of Implemented Systems (00:26:39) How Quickly Results Are Seen (00:28:06) Overcoming Fear of Change (00:29:04) Personal Example of Trying Something New (00:32:42) Casita Simpson, featured in Legal Management Magazine, is a sought-after speaker, CRM Consultant, and the founder of Simpson & Associates LLC, a virtual operations hub. Casita is a Systems and Automations Queen who helps service-based businesses (law firms, doctors, real estate agencies, financial practices, nonprofits, and more.) patch the leaks in their operations, untangle disorganized processes, and eliminate time-sucking manual tasks. By streamlining internal systems and automating daily operations across marketing, sales, HR, and administration, she closes costly gaps from a lead's first touchpoint to client delivery, that drain time, money, and team morale so businesses can scale efficiently and confidently.Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of The Free Lawyer podcast, host Gary interviews Cecilia Ju, a Washington-based family law attorney. Cecilia shares her journey from immigrating to the U.S. to founding her own successful law firm, highlighting challenges faced by Asian immigrant families and clients in the tech industry. She discusses the emotional toll of family law, the importance of mentorship, and strategies for work-life balance. Cecilia and Gary explore the value of community, resilience, and cultural understanding in legal practice, offering practical advice for attorneys seeking fulfillment and support in their careers.Cecilia’s Upbringing and Values (00:02:18) Immigration Journey and Law School Challenges (00:04:24) Decision to Start Her Own Law Firm (00:06:58)Early Challenges and Successes as a Firm Owner (00:08:41) Emotional Demands of Family Law (00:11:11) Work-Life Balance and Self-Care (00:13:12) Serving Asian Immigrant Families (00:16:16) CNavigating Cultural Differences in Family Law (00:18:49) High-Tech Industry Divorce Considerations (00:20:29) Handling Custody Fears and Client Emotions (00:22:19) Mentorship and Career Clarity (00:25:24)Benefits of Coaching and Overcoming Solo Practice Challenges (00:30:30) Mindset Shifts and Personal Growth (00:33:09) Advice for Family Lawyers: Support and Passion (00:35:51) Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of The Free Lawyer podcast, Gary interviews Brianna Beski, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst at Raymond James. Brianna shares how her parents’ divorce inspired her career and discusses the financial complexities of divorce, including common misunderstandings about retirement accounts and asset valuation. She explains the critical role of financial clarity, collaboration with attorneys, and tailored support for high net worth individuals and business owners. Brianna emphasizes empowering clients to make informed decisions, reduce stress, and confidently rebuild their financial futures after divorce.Brianna’s not just a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)— she’s someone who truly understands the emotional weight of divorce and how it impacts every area of life. Her unique backgroundallows her to:✔️ Provide financial clarity in emotionally charged situations, helping clients avoid fear-driven decisions they’ll regret later.✔️ Help high-achieving professionals maintain control over their financial future, especially when assets, businesses, and long-term planning are at stake.✔️ Act as a calm, strategic advocate—helping clients navigate complex financial decisions while prioritizing their well-being and their family’s future.Brianna’s Personal Divorce Experience (00:02:11)Career Path and Olympic Aspirations (00:04:14) BEmotional Impact of Divorce (00:05:27) Common Retirement Account Mistakes (00:05:44) Valuing Pensions and Retirement Assets (00:07:44) When to Use a CDFA (00:09:39) Case Example: Settlement Misconceptions (00:11:26) Role of CDFA in Divorce Process (00:13:37) Client Support and Financial Clarity (00:16:05)Unique Challenges for High Net Worth and Business Owners (00:18:55) Transformation Through Financial Clarity (00:22:16)Advice for Lawyers Hesitant to Use Financial Experts (00:24:13)Maintaining Self-Worth After Asset Division (00:26:31) Finding Personal Freedom After Divorce (00:29:48) Advice for Lawyers Going Through Divorce (00:30:49) Financial Planning for Married Couples (00:32:41) Advice to Her Younger Self (00:35:10)Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews neuro coach and Neuro Savvy founder Keshawn Hughes. Drawing from her own experience with burnout, Keshawn shares how neuroscience-based coaching can help lawyers and other professionals manage stress, improve leadership, and foster healthier workplace cultures. The conversation covers practical tools like the SCARF model, breathwork, and visualization, emphasizing self-awareness, intentional breaks, and connection. Keshawn encourages listeners to find fulfillment beyond competition and perfectionism, while Gary highlights the importance of collaboration and self-care for a more rewarding legal career.Keshawn Hughes, M.S. is a NeuroLeadership Strategist, Executive Coach, and Founder of NeuroSavvy® Leadership, a Women's Business Enterprise National Council (WBENC)- and Women-Owned Small Business-certified firm transforming workplaces through brain science and authentic leadership. With two decades of experience guiding global brands, Keshawn integrates neuroscience, communication, and business strategy to help corporations improve employee productivity, retention, and engagement.Known for her ability to make complex brain science deeply practical, Keshawn equips HR and Tech leaders with proven strategies to enhance well-being, fuel performance, and develop cultures of high-impact leadership. She is certified by the International Coaching Federation (ICF) and actively involved with the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) and the Association for Talent Development (ATD).Based in Atlanta, Georgia, Keshawn lives with her husband and daughter, and brings heart, clarity, and bold insights to every stage she steps on.Here is her free Breakout from Burnout Guide- https://keshawnhughes.com/breakout-from-burnout-guideKeshawn’s Background and Burnout Journey (00:00:54)What is Neuro Coaching? (00:04:16).Neuroscience for Managing Lawyer Stress (00:06:24)Keshawn’s Personal Burnout Story (00:10:00)Why Lawyers Struggle with Communication and Leadership (00:13:14)The SCARF Model and the “SCARF Trap” (00:16:43)SCARF in Law Firms: Competition and Perfectionism (00:17:57)Threat Detection and Decision-Making Under Stress (00:22:19)Applying Neuroscience to Difficult Interactions (00:23:51)Practical Tools: Nature, Breathwork, and Box Breathing (00:26:38)Visualization and the Brain (00:29:42)Connect Before You Correct: Feedback and Delegation (00:31:40)Building Trust and Overcoming Micromanagement (00:34:27)Finding Fulfillment and Mindfulness Practices (00:37:13)Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Joel Chorny, a veteran criminal defense attorney and former public defender now running a solo practice in Tucson. Joel discusses his transition to solo work, the emotional toll of public defense, and the challenges of building a client base. He shares insights on self-care, mental health, setting boundaries, and the value of coaching and community. Joel also highlights the importance of culturally informed advocacy and honest client communication, offering practical advice for lawyers seeking a more fulfilling and sustainable legal career.Joel Chorny is a veteran criminal defense attorney and former public defender who has spent over a decade standing up for individuals caught in the harshest corners of the criminal system. Fluent in Spanish and committed to culturally informed advocacy, he now runs a thriving solo practice in Tucson. Joel also teaches trial advocacy at the University of Arizona’s James E. Rogers College of Law, where he trains future lawyers in the art of compelling courtroom storytelling. Outside of his legal work, he’s a devoted husband and father, an avid cyclist, and a student of improv comedy—skills that sharpen both his presence in the courtroom and his perspective on life.Joel’s Background and Transition Catalyst (00:01:06)Emotional Toll and Decision to Leave (00:03:06)Mentorship and Planning the Transition (00:05:01)Accelerated Transition and Office Opportunity (00:06:11)Starting Without Clients and Early Advice (00:07:36)Building a Caseload and Court Appointments (00:08:29)Cultural Background and Language Skills (00:09:42)Managing Emotional Weight and Self-Care (00:11:00)Accepting Limits and Caseload Realities (00:13:12)Choosing Clients and Setting Boundaries (00:14:19)Control, Outcomes, and Client Expectations (00:16:14)Challenges of Attracting Clients and Marketing (00:19:49)Doubts, Optimization, and Imposter Syndrome (00:21:12)Dealing with Career Anxiety and Support (00:22:07)Work-Life Balance and Transition Rituals (00:24:41)Quality Time and Family Anchors (00:26:54)Teaching Trial Advocacy (00:27:52)Value of Coaching and Seeking Support (00:31:08)Breakthroughs from Coaching (00:33:42)Advice for Lawyers: Support and Community (00:39:27)Giving Back and Building Community  (00:41:57)Would you like to learn what it looks like to become a truly Free Lawyer? You can schedule a courtesy call here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-callWould you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer" podcast, host Gary Miles interviews Frank Rekas, a financial expert and partner at Palm Wealth Partners. Frank shares insights on helping law firm owners simplify finances, minimize taxes, protect assets, and grow wealth using his NPG (Minimize, Protect, Grow) system. The discussion covers common financial blind spots, the importance of proactive planning, and practical strategies for attorneys to achieve financial clarity and confidence. Frank emphasizes a client-centered, honest approach and encourages lawyers to prioritize their financial well-being for long-term security and peace of mind.Law Firm Owners’ Financial Challenges (00:04:16) Top Financial Concerns for Law Firm Owners (00:05:32) Law Firm vs. Personal Budgeting (00:07:04) \The MPG System: Minimize, Protect, Grow (00:07:57) Common Financial Blind Spots (00:10:36) Benefits of Non-Retirement Investments (00:12:41) Working with Attorneys: Challenges and Benefits (00:13:44) Serving, Not Selling: Client-First Philosophy (00:14:50) Personalized Financial Planning (00:17:01) Law Firm Owners’ “Aha” Moments (00:18:25)Building Financial Confidence (00:20:24) First Steps for Overwhelmed Law Firm Owners (00:22:12) Commonly Missed Tax Strategies (00:23:31) Year-Round Tax Planning (00:25:03) Achieving Financial Confidence and Freedom (00:25:27) Advice for Stressed Law Firm Owners (00:27:21) Money Mindset and Family Background (00:29:40) Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Jennifer Kupferman, a former big law attorney turned psychotherapist specializing in lawyer well-being. They discuss common mental health challenges in the legal profession, such as anxiety, perfectionism, and chronic stress, and explore the stigma surrounding these issues. Jennifer explains her transition to therapy, the neuroscience behind anxiety, and introduces somatic therapy and EMDR as effective tools for lawyers. The conversation offers practical insights and encouragement for lawyers seeking support, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, emotional regulation, and social connection.Jennifer Kupferman is a former Biglaw attorney, who’s now a psychotherapist in private practice in New York City. She specializes in working with lawyers across a range of issues including anxiety, depression, work stress, and building self-confidence. She’s also a regular contributor to the New York Law Journal on issues related to lawyer health and wellbeing, and a public speaker on these matters.Mental Health Challenges in Law (00:03:12)Isolation and Loneliness in Legal Profession (00:04:45) Why Work with Lawyers? (00:05:51) Thinking Like a Lawyer vs. Emotional Well-being (00:06:09) Stigma and Vulnerability in Law (00:07:29) Trends in Lawyer Mental Health (00:08:08) Generational Shifts in Work-Life Integration (00:08:54) Law Firm Resistance to Mental Health Initiatives (00:09:46) Neuroscience of Anxiety and Stress (00:10:49Why Anxiety Persists for High Achievers (00:13:12) Chronic Stress and the Nervous System (00:14:15) HBreaking the Stress-Zone Out Cycle (00:16:13) Therapeutic Approaches: Parts Work (00:17:05) IWhat is Somatic Therapy? (00:19:22)How Somatic Therapy Works (00:21:02) Evidence-Based Somatic Techniques (00:23:43)Introduction to EMDR Therapy (00:24:38) How EMDR Works in Practice (00:25:40) Addressing Skepticism about EMDR (00:27:53) Reframing Self-Criticism and Therapy Readiness (00:30:13) Signs It’s Time to Seek Support (00:31:44) The Importance of Connection (00:32:46)Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Steve Steckler, a veteran marketing and leadership coach for lawyers and author of Think Like a Lawyer, Act Like an Entrepreneur. They discuss practical strategies for lawyers to overcome marketing challenges, emphasizing behavior change, authenticity, and relationship-building over traditional sales tactics. Steve shares insights on balancing legal work with business development, the impact of the billable hour, and leveraging AI tools. The episode offers actionable advice for lawyers to grow their practices, reduce burnout, and achieve greater personal and professional freedom.Steve is a seasoned marketing, career, and leadership coach with 20+ years of experience working with 100’s of partners, associates, and in-house counsel. He advises attorneys on advancing their careers and coaches them on taking actions that will help them reach their goals.  He helps lawyers to change their mindset when they are not advising clients.As an attorney who has dedicated his entire professional life to helping lawyers find more career satisfaction and achieve marketing success, Steve is “Counsel to Counsel.” What gets him excited is identifying ways to get intelligent professionals to embrace the change they want and then move past obstacles that are getting in the way.Unique Approach: Behavior vs. Mindset (00:03:08) Evolution of Legal Marketing and Coaching (00:05:21) Lawyer Personality Traits and Challenges (00:06:52) Key Behavior Changes for Lawyers (00:08:34) Client Success Story (00:10:01) Why Lawyers Struggle with Marketing (00:12:11) Authenticity in Marketing Activities (00:12:37) The “Yes, But” Disease (00:13:58) Leveraging Lawyer Traits Positively (00:15:55) The Platinum Rule (00:16:28) Building Authentic Relationships (00:17:23) Common Marketing Mistakes (00:19:24) Prioritizing Marketing Despite Busyness (00:20:38) Finding Authentic Marketing Strategies (00:21:54) Being of Service vs. Selling (00:23:30) Impact of AI on Legal Marketing (00:24:14) Key Takeaways from the Book (00:27:03) Monetizing Social Connections (00:28:57) Advice for Hesitant Marketers (00:31:05) Personal Freedom and Legal Practice (00:31:23)Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host Gary interviews Michelle Niemeyer, a former attorney turned coach, about her journey through legal burnout and her transition to helping lawyers reclaim fulfillment. Michelle shares how chronic stress and overcommitment led to health challenges, prompting her to prioritize self-care and develop her "Art of Bending Time" framework. She discusses the pitfalls of traditional work-life balance, the importance of clarity and energy management, and practical steps for overcoming burnout. Listeners are encouraged to embrace holistic well-being, set boundaries, and find joy both in and beyond their legal careers.Michelle Niemeyer is a speaker, coach and former attorney who teaches professionals how to bend time so they can stay sharp, productive and profitable – without burning out. After finding her way to burnout and back in her own high-performing legal career, Michelle created The Art of Bending Time, a framework that helps people connect the dots across work, life, and purpose to magnetize success and reclaim their joy. She helps businesses retain top talent, boost development, and keep their people energized and engaged – all while making the magic happen.Onset of Burnout & Volunteer Overload (00:05:18) Symptoms of Burnout & Misdiagnosis as Time Management Issue (00:06:29) Political Campaign & Financial Struggles (00:09:54) Financial Crisis & Law Firm Employment (00:13:04) Autoimmune Diagnosis as Turning Point (00:15:52) Rethinking Self-Care & Lawyer Wellness (00:17:57)Transition to Coaching & Health Focus (00:21:25) Final Legal Case & Full Shift to Coaching (00:23:42)Critique of Work-Life Balance (00:25:30) The Art of Bending Time Framework (00:29:15) Handling Internal & External Time Sucks (00:31:30) Gaining Ten Hours of Productive Time (00:33:32) Early Warning Signs of Burnout (00:35:06) Difference Between Time Management & Burnout (00:36:49) Applying the 80/20 Rule & Delegation (00:37:52) Connecting Work, Life, and Purpose (00:39:39) Advice to Her Past Self & Burned Out Lawyers (00:44:34) Hope for the Future of Lawyer Wellness (00:46:50) Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call

In this episode of "The Free Lawyer," host and veteran lawyer Gary Miles interviews Melissa Murphy Pavone, a Certified Financial Planner and Divorce Financial Analyst. They discuss the challenges lawyers face balancing finances, career transitions, and personal life—especially during divorce. Melissa shares strategies for financial delegation, mindful money habits, and the importance of open communication. She explains how collaborative divorce and financial planning can reduce stress and foster healthier relationships. The episode emphasizes building financial confidence, aligning money with personal values, and prioritizing experiences over material possessions for a more fulfilling professional and personal life.Melissa is a financial advisor who helps her clients balance their wealth with what matters most. With 18 years of experience, she guides clients through life's most challenging transitions with empathy and expertise.The Shift from Reactive to Proactive Financial Guidance (00:03:29) Collaborative Divorce and the Financial Neutral Role (00:06:26) Customization in Collaborative Divorce (00:10:27) .Financial Mindfulness: Meaning and Application (00:13:29) Balancing Work, Money, and Enjoyment for Lawyers (00:17:47) Delegation, Automation, and Paying Yourself First (00:22:15) Financial Planning for Career Transitions (00:23:54) Unique Divorce Challenges for Lawyers (00:27:06) Knowing Your Numbers: First Steps for Professionals (00:29:50)Time, Money, and Life Satisfaction (00:32:09) Financial Wellness, Mindfulness, and Professional Satisfaction (00:34:16) Redefining Success and Financial Freedom (00:36:37) Would you like to learn more about Breaking Free or order your copy? https://www.garymiles.net/break-free Would you like to schedule a complimentary discovery call? You can do so here: https://calendly.com/garymiles-successcoach/one-one-discovery-call