The D Shift

In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Marcia Mantell to talk about one of the most important and often overlooked parts of life after divorce. your financial future. Marcia brings years of experience helping women understand retirement planning, Social Security, and how to rebuild confidence around money, especially when a divorce changes everything you thought your future would look like.Together, Mardi and Marcia talk about why so many women feel uncertain when it comes to long-term planning and how divorce can leave you feeling like you are starting over. Marcia explains in clear, practical language what women often miss when they are focused on simply getting through the legal settlement and why it matters to look further ahead. She also explains the Social Security formula and how the system offers an option for women or men who have spent years out of the workforce due to children or other issues. Together, they explore how to ask better questions, how to work with financial professionals, and how to step into money conversations with more clarity instead of fear or doubt. Marcia also shares insight into the unique challenges of divorce later in life and what women need to know about Social Security timing, benefits, and creating a sustainable plan for the years ahead. Throughout the conversation, listeners are reminded that it is never too late to get informed, make empowered decisions, and build a future they feel secure in.This episode is both reassuring and practical, offering thoughtful guidance for anyone who wants to feel more confident, prepared, and at peace about what comes next financially after divorce.About the Guest:Marcia Mantell is the founder of her own small business, Mantell Retirement Consulting, which is celebrating 20 years this year. Marcia is known for taking the complicated retirement, Social Security, and Medicare rules and translating them into language we can all better understand. And she’s the author of 4 retirement books, a long-time blogger, a media columnist, and a podcast guest. Whether writing about or talking about retirement, she takes the opportunity to share as many helpful tips and tricks as possible. It’s all about making a successful transition into retirement.To connect with Marcia and access her complimentary resources: https://boomerretirementbriefs.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marciamantell/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/search/top?q=boomer%20retirement%20briefsAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to...

In this solo episode, Mardi Winder takes a closer look at why so many New Year’s resolutions fail and why they can actually leave us feeling more discouraged than motivated. Instead of pushing yourself into another year of unrealistic expectations, she invites you to explore the five big problems with traditional resolutions and what to do differently, especially if you are rebuilding your life after divorce.She shares how resolutions often come from pressure instead of intention, how they focus on perfection rather than progress, and why they rarely consider emotional healing or real-life circumstances. Mardi also shares how resolutions can trigger shame when life gets complicated, and how they sometimes distract us from the deeper work of creating lasting change. Throughout the conversation, she encourages you to move away from “fixing yourself” and toward setting compassionate, meaningful goals that actually support your wellbeing.This episode is about giving yourself permission to choose a gentler, more sustainable approach to growth. You will hear practical ideas for creating direction without the guilt of broken promises, and ways to stay aligned with your values instead of chasing someone else’s version of success.About the Host:Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

In this episode, Mardi Winder and Ron Platt explore the essential role of support and resources for individuals and families navigating divorce. The focus centers on the National Association for Single and Divorced Families, co-founded by Ron Platt, which takes a comprehensive approach to supporting not only those currently experiencing divorce but also single parents and anyone transitioning through family change.Drawing from his extensive experience in insurance and real estate, and his personal journey as a foster parent, Ron shares the motivations behind establishing the association. He highlights the gaps he witnessed in the systems designed for families, from the struggles within foster care to the challenges faced by his former business partner in escaping an abusive marriage. This firsthand understanding helped shape a service that strives to make the process of divorce less isolating and overwhelming for everyone involved.The discussion covers a variety of practical resources available through the association, from discounted childcare and mental health support to unique solutions such as child support insurance, a product that helps ensure alimony and child support payments continue even if the payer loses their job involuntarily or becomes disabled. Affordable membership gives individuals the flexibility to choose only the services they need without additional obligation.Throughout the conversation, Ron and Mardi emphasize the importance of advocacy, community, and having a strong foundation during times of transition.About the Guest:Ron Platt is the Co-Founder of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families. They provide an umbrella of products, services, support, and resources for people who are getting a divorced, currently divorced or have a single-family household. They also have the proprietary rights to Support Insured, which is the only insurance product that guarantees child support and alimony protection if the payor dies, becomes disabled or involuntarily unemployed.To connect with Ron:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NASDF.org/Website: https://www.NASDF.orgInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/nasdforg/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronald-platt-a6b49016/TikTok: NASDForgYouTube: NASDFORGAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this...

In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down with Estefana Johnson, a seasoned mental health clinician and director of clinical training at Arise Alliance Institute, to explore the complex connections between trauma, loss, and the process of healing. Through stories from her own unexpected path into behavioral health and clear explanations, Estefana shares a perspective on trauma that centers on unresolved loss, whether it is the loss of agency, safety, hope, or meaningful relationships.Together, they discuss how trauma manifests when the brain cannot process challenging experiences and how people often find themselves stuck, responding to past pain rather than present reality. Estefana Johnson explains how this can create recurring patterns that shape responses to everyday situations, both at home and at work. She introduces listeners to Critical Memory Integration (CMI), an approach designed to guide individuals beyond managing symptoms toward real resolution by helping them understand the deeper signals their bodies and emotions send, and make sense of experiences that feel overwhelming or inaccessible.The conversation also explores the concept of generational trauma, or as Estefana Johnson prefers, "generational data," and how our bodies can inherit survival adaptations from previous generations. Listeners are encouraged to be compassionate with themselves, seek support when facing discomfort, and realize that the search for clarity and healing begins with honest self-inquiry. Estefana Johnson leaves us with a hopeful message: the power to move forward and heal is within each of us, waiting to be discovered.About the Guest:Estefana Johnson, LCSW, brings over 20 years of experience in trauma and mental health care. She began her career as a Behavioral Health Technician in 2001 and later taught in Japan before moving into roles in residential treatment, medical social work, and clinical leadership. As Director of Clinical Training at ARISE Alliance Institute, she develops and delivers curricula in trauma-focused care and interventions like Critical Memory Integration (CMI™), while also practicing clinically at Lighthouse Psychiatry & TMS in Gilbert, Arizona. Estefana is actively involved in research on therapeutic uses of psychedelics and is passionate about advancing innovative, healing-centered approaches. A first-generation child of immigrants, she is committed to supporting foster and adoptive youth, leading programs that provide education and care rooted in resilience and recovery.To connect with Estefana:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estefanajohnsonlcsw/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariseallianceinstitute/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AriseAllianceInstitute/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5MyzV9KBg0eJ0uY88N-zCwAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others...

Today, host Mardi Winder has a fun and uplifting chat with Jenny Elinora, a creative empowerment coach and musician whose work centers on supporting women over 50 as they rediscover their voices and creative aspirations. Jenny shares her personal story of reclaiming creativity late in life, describing how her own divorce became a turning point that led her to publicly embrace singing, songwriting, and the arts for the first time at age thirty-three. She explains how societal expectations and cultural messages often stifle creativity, especially for women, but emphasizes that the impulse to create is innate and can manifest in many forms beyond the traditional arts, whether in entrepreneurship, caregiving, or daily living.Throughout their exchange, Mardi and Jenny touch on the importance of play, joy, and curiosity as doorways to reconnecting with one’s sense of self after significant life shifts, such as divorce. Jenny encourages listeners to believe in their own creativity and provides practical suggestions for gently reawakening creative energies, starting with small, playful experiences each day. She also candidly discusses the effects that nurturing creativity can have, including greater confidence, renewed focus, and, in some cases, bold life changes.The episode concludes with Jenny Elinora offering a resource, a collection of creative sound meditations, for listeners who are interested in taking their first steps toward a more expressive and fulfilling life. It is an engaging and supportive conversation, filled with practical encouragement for anyone seeking to reconnect with their creative spark during or after divorce.About the Guest:Jenny Elinora is a creativity empowerment coach and musician dedicated to helping women over 50 rediscover their voices and live their creative dreams. With decades of performance experience and a deep understanding of how trauma impacts creativity, Jenny’s mission is to inspire women to boldly reclaim their creative power. Her own journey reflects the challenges and triumphs of the women she helps. Silenced by early criticism and life’s traumas, Jenny didn’t find her voice until age 33 and only released her first solo project at 50. Along the way, she’s written, performed, recorded and produced 30+ original songs, and earned recognition such as Vermont's Tammie Award for Best Rock Album. Through her holistic approach— somatic practices, sound healing, community support and creative coaching— Jenny has helped 100+ women overcome self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and creative stagnation to help them reconnect with their authentic self and share their brilliance with the world.For Jenny’s gift: https://meditation.growyourwholevoice.comTo connect with Jenny:Website: https://growyourwholevoice.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jelinora Instagram: https://www.intagram.com/yourcreativewholevoice LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/projectjelinoraAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube:...

Welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond, where we tackle the real-life challenges that come with major transitions. Today, we're focusing on one issue that everyone faces, and that is your finances. Whether you’re going through a divorce, juggling single parenthood, or just want to rethink your relationship with money, this episode is full of guidance and support.Host Mardi Winder welcomes Micah Roberts, CEO and Chief Empowerment Officer of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC. Drawing from her own experiences of navigating messy divorces and financial resets with her husband, Micah Roberts has made it her mission to create a safe, shame-free space for people to work through the emotional and practical aspects of money management.Listen in as Micah discusses how emotions, family expectations, and societal pressures often complicate our financial decisions. She shares her step-by-step approach for aligning budgets with personal values, tuning out the noise, and learning to spend money intentionally and without guilt. You'll also hear about building supportive communities, where vulnerability is honored and asking for help is encouraged.This episode goes beyond dollars and cents. It’s about giving yourself permission to spend mindfully, reframing what budgeting means, and adjusting plans as life happens, whether you’re managing tight finances, dealing with unexpected costs, or learning to navigate newfound financial freedom. Join us for practical strategies, honest reflections, and empowering advice to help you redefine success and take charge of your financial future after divorce and beyond.About the Guest:Micah Roberts serves as the Chief Empowerment Officer (CEO) of Empowering Financial Coaching, LLC, bringing a wealth of experience from her background in education, ministry, and coaching. Inspired by her own financial challenges and triumphs—and the support that made a difference—Micah co-founded Empowering Financial Coaching alongside her partner, Charles Roberts. Together, they are dedicated to serving as accountability partners and cheerleaders for their clients. Their coaching program is designed to help individuals and families discover personalized strategies to achieve financial empowerment and lasting success.For Micah’s gift: promo.empoweringfinancialcoaching.com/financial-shame-detoxTo connect with Micah:Website: empoweringfinancialcoaching.com Instagram: @empoweringfinancialcoachingFacebook: empoweringfinancialcoaching About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast...

Today, Mardi Winder sits down with wellness practitioner Olya Piccirillo for an eye-opening conversation about healing from trauma and embracing true well-being after complex life changes, such as divorce.Drawing from her personal experiences with chronic illness, profound loss, and her own healing journey, Olya reveals how unresolved emotional wounds, sometimes stretching back to childhood or rooted in family and ancestral patterns, can quietly impact not only mental health but physical health, weight, relationships, and the way we navigate life. She explains why so many of us in Western cultures reach for quick fixes, like medication, to cope with pain, and how those solutions often overlook the deeper mind-body connection that is crucial for genuine recovery.Throughout the episode, Mardi and Olya discuss common patterns that show up in moments of stress or trauma, from self-sabotage and unhealthy relationships to emotional eating and low self-worth, and why recognizing these habits is the first step toward positive change. Olya Piccirillo shares practical strategies for tapping into self-compassion, reframing old stories, and moving beyond the “scarred, not broken” mindset that keeps so many people stuck.You will discover the powerful links between trauma, everyday choices, and physical well-being, and why addressing emotional blocks can unlock lasting transformation. As a special offering, Olya Piccirillo provides access to her emotional detox assessment, designed to help you identify wounds that may need healing and guide you toward becoming your best self.About the Guest:Olya Piccirillo is Wellness Practitioner who helps people release the emotional and energetic blocks that impact their health, weight, and well-being. Her work explores the deep mind-body connection and how unresolved trauma—including ancestral and spiritual influences—can silently shape our health and life choices. Olya empowers women to heal the past so they can transform their future.For Olya’s gift, The Emotional Detox Checklist: https://emotionaldetox.bio-matrix.net/checklistTo connect with Olya:Central link site for Olya: https://olya360.comAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show...

This episode will focus on the personal transformations and empowering journeys that come after some of life’s biggest transitions. Today, host Mardi Winder is joined by the insightful Joann Malanga, a soul integration coach with a rich background in healthcare and expertise in a wide range of healing modalities.In this deeply personal and thought-provoking conversation, Joann shares how her own path, from feeling numb and unfulfilled in a high-stress healthcare career to battling depression and chronic illness, ultimately led her to a vibrant new chapter focused on holistic wellness and spiritual growth. Through stories from her own life and her work with clients, Joann shares the concept of “thresholds”, those difficult but transformative moments that demand growth and self-reflection, such as divorce, moving, or major life changes.You’ll hear her thoughts on how traditional approaches to healing, like talk therapy, can sometimes keep us stuck in old stories, and why modalities like energy clearing, hypnotherapy, and meditation can create real breakthrough by helping us connect with our intuition and release generational patterns. Mardi and Joann also discuss how to cultivate inner peace, especially through challenging seasons like the holidays, and why learning to trust yourself is the most powerful tool for moving forward.With practical advice and a compassionate perspective, this episode is for anyone seeking to break free from old patterns, find support through life’s transitions, and step boldly into a more joyful, authentic life. Whether you’re navigating divorce, healing from trauma, or simply seeking inspiration to make a change, you’ll find wisdom and encouragement in this uplifting conversation.About the Guest:Joann Malanga, Soul Integration Coach, Universal Rays Practitioner- RTT Hypnotherapist-Shamanic Practitioner- Shadow Integration Specialist, Reiki, IET, and Supports energy clearings/extractions and land clearings. She has multiple certifications as well, Reiki Mastery, Student of the Universal Path of Light, Love and Mystery School Under In’Easa Mabu Ishtar, Teacher and Guide as well as a Teacher of the Shadow Box Project teaching many to do their shadow work. Joann helps people remove subconscious blocks so they can be empowered and move out of trauma and addiction consciousness. Joann is a medical intuitive and supports the ASCENSION process of humanity, while supporting the shift in identity through life transitions. Where her career stopped in the Modern Healthcare spectrum, her mission now is to awaken many more fellow humans and help them be empowered in their powers and loosen the grip of being controlled by the old life stories. She is taking COOs, Executives, high-level Directors and humanity to a whole new upgrade of integrating spirituality, and business…creating the whole integrated spiritual being walking in the now. Joann Malanga holds the capability of understanding life challenges, transition, integration of shadow and the expectations that life places on us. She takes conscious living to the next level. With her keen self-awareness, strong intuition, and servant leadership skills, she can relate on profound levels with all people, at any age, and every religion and every ethnic background. Her ancient wisdom of healing can uproot many traumas that we suppress from childhood all too often causing physical /mental manifestation of pain. She shows you ways to unfold into your everyday life, as opposed to resisting it. She carries the energy to support you to move your consciousness to the next level as she has.For Joann’s gift: www.theintegrativeconsciousvibe.comTo connect with Joann:Website: www.theintegrativeconsciousvibe.comInstagram: joannmalanga3 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/joannmalanga Facebook-The Integrative Conscious VibeAbout the Host:...

Welcome to the holiday kickoff episode of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce and Beyond! This week, your host Mardi Winder is joined by bestselling author, speaker, and empowerment coach Cheryl L. Wright for an honest conversation about one of the most overlooked but stressful times of the year for those navigating divorce or recovering from toxic relationships: the holiday season.Drawing from her personal journey of overcoming narcissistic abuse, Cheryl sheds light on why the holidays can bring out the worst in narcissists and other toxic personalities. Together they explore the dynamics that make this time of year particularly challenging—whether it’s co-parenting with a difficult ex, attending family gatherings where emotional traps are set, or simply feeling isolated while everyone else appears joyful.In this episode, you’ll learn to recognize the subtle red flags of manipulation and chaos that often flare up around holiday traditions and family events. Cheryl introduces her practical three-step approach, recognize, retreat, and resolve, to help listeners identify toxic patterns, set healthy boundaries, and intentionally create their own pockets of peace and joy, no matter the circumstances. They also discuss the power of volunteering and giving back as a way to reclaim your sense of purpose and community during this potentially triggering season.Whether you’re newly divorced, dealing with ongoing toxicity, or simply seeking strategies to navigate the holidays with more strength and clarity, this episode is packed with compassionate guidance and actionable tips to help you through the holidays. Getrude’s final message resonates: never regret your past, but use those experiences as stepping stones to growth and transformation. About the Guest:Cheryl L. Wright is a bestselling author, speaker, and empowerment coach who helps others recognize narcissistic abuse, break free from toxic relationships, and reclaim their identity. Through her book Swimming with Alligators and personal story of transformation, she inspires others to pivot from pain to purpose and choose healing, strength, and self-worth. She lives in Arizona with her partner and two daughters.To connect with Cheryl:Website: https://swimmingwithalligators.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/swimmingwithalligators Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swimming_with_alligators/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clwright/About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You...

Today, Mardi Winder welcomes Getrude Matshe, a truly remarkable guest whose story radiates resilience, empowerment, and the healing power of sharing. As an international speaker, author, three-time TEDx presenter, and founder of the Her Story Circle movement, Getrude has impacted hundreds of thousands of women worldwide, helping them find strength and community after major life challenges.Getrude candidly discusses her experiences growing up in Zimbabwe, building a life in New Zealand, and twice facing the pain of divorce, including the emotional fallout and health struggles that followed. It was through this turmoil that she found the spark for Her Story Circle, a safe, supportive space for women to share the stories that shape them. She recounts how a simple Facebook post about starting over at fifty resonated with thousands of women globally, revealing the common challenges of isolation, loss, and the need for healing after a major life change.Together, Mardi and Getrude explore the benefits of storytelling—not just as a tool for personal catharsis but as a lifeline for others navigating similar paths. They discuss important topics like the mental and physical health impacts of divorce, the challenges of rediscovering love, and the lessons learned from missteps in relationships. Getrude inspires listeners with her journey to international thought leadership, including how her TEDx talks and her unique approach to building community led to opportunities to lecture around the world and empower others to find their voices.Getrude’s final message resonates: never regret your past, but use those experiences as stepping stones to growth and transformation. About the Guest:Getrude Matshe is an international speaker, celebrated author, and three-time TEDx speaker known for her radiant presence and inspiring mission to uplift others. A Rooney International Scholar and Philanthropy Consultant, she helps individuals discover their life purpose and unleash their full potential. She is the founder and Global Curator of the HerStory Circle and DiversityConnector Podcast, platforms dedicated to amplifying underrepresented voices. With a background in IT and entrepreneurship, Getrude has launched successful ventures in medical recruitment, real estate, tourism, talent, and film—providing ethnic extras for films like King Kong and Avatar. As a “book writing midwife,” she mentors aspiring authors to share their stories with the world. She has spoken at the United Nations and on global stages, weaving wisdom as storyteller, poet, filmmaker, and cultural ambassador. A proud mother of three and grandmother, Getrude is deeply committed to women’s empowerment and generational legacy.For Getrude’s gift: 🎤 TEDx Idea Analysis Quiz https://forms.gle/vqKS7Yf6ptwu99pj6To connect with Getrude :Website: www.HerStoryCircle.com LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/getrude-matshe-1a65a614/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HerStoryCircleTVAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube:...

Let’s talk about building our personal success! Today, Mardi Winder gets real about something we all deal with, and that is our habits. You know, those little routines that can either make our lives easier or trip us up, especially when we’re going through big changes like a divorce.Mardi chats with Ronnie Loaiza, life coach, personal trainer, journalist, and honestly, just an all-around inspiring person. Ronnie shares her own story of how she turned her health around and discovered the power of habits in every area of life.Together, they break down simple ways to ditch old habits that don’t serve you, build new ones that actually stick, and why tiny changes make the biggest difference. From self-care to money mindset, there’s something here for everyone, whether you’re divorced, thinking about it, or just want to create some positive changes.Mardi and Ronnie take a dive deep into why habits are so hard to change, how our brains are wired to resist anything new (even if the old ways aren’t serving us), and the secret to building habits that truly stick—hint: it’s all about starting small and making it realistic for your own life. They cover everything from that classic “New Year’s resolution” gym rush (and why it fizzles out) to the ways scrolling on your phone or careless spending can become invisible routines that eat up time and energy.You’ll definitely pick up practical tips, maybe a few laughs, and feel empowered to make your own shifts. Plus, Ronnie’s got a special freebie for listeners and shares how you can reach out to her if you want more support. So grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s get started!About the Guest:Ronnie Lo Life Coach (Ronnie Loaiza) – Habits & Celebrative Accountability. Master Certified Professional Coach with a Holistic - Mind/Body/Psyche Connection. Ronnie helps people create natural thus lasting habits – in eating, exercise, self-care, daily work, finances and productivity. Ronnie focuses on a science-backed habit-building process, with easy actions that form into habits that don’t rely on tough discipline, forced motivation, or bouts of willpower! – all of which leave you with the Big-B burnout. Ronnie also works with people’s 'Habitual" or Default way of thinking – You change your thought, and you change your behavior! This is true for how you behave or react to situations at work, socially, at home, and when alone. Along with coaching, Ronnie loves dancing, movies, strength-training (herself and others) and traveling. Learn more about Ronnie in 'About' at www.ronnielolifecoach.com Also see her method of tailored coaching and how you can form habits that change your life! Certified Professional Life Coach (ICF Accredited) Certified Personal Trainer with Accreditation in Corrective Exercise, Behavior Change, Senior Fitness, Women’s Fitness, Mental Toughness, and Nutrition.For Ronnie’s gift: PowerHabitClaritySession GiftTo connect with Ronnie :Calendar: https://calendly.com/ronnielolifecoach/zoom-or-phone-analysis Website: www.ronnielolifecoach.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ronnielolifecoach/ Substack: https://substack.com/@ronnieloaiza Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ronnielolifecoach/About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are

Hey everyone, welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! In this episode, Mardi Winder is joined by her friend and returning guest, Dr. Alana Sharps—a trauma specialist, high-conflict divorce expert, and now, the author of a brand new book that just dropped today!You’ll hear Dr. Alana Sharps open up about her personal journey out of a toxic marriage and how journaling led her to write her first book, "Was It My Fault?" That honesty opens the door for so many folks to feel less alone in their own struggles. The conversation covers everything from breaking free of abuse (not just physical, but emotional, verbal, and so much more) to what happens after you finally leave—and how to start picking up the pieces.If you’re dealing with divorce, co-parenting challenges, or trying to understand high-conflict situations, you’ll get loads of practical tips—from self-care and healing practices to setting boundaries and recognizing signs of distress in your kids. Alana shares why it’s so crucial to create a safe, loving space for yourself and your children—even when you can’t control what happens at the other parent’s house.Whether you’ve been through it yourself or you’re supporting someone else, this episode is packed with insight, validation, and a whole lot of heart. Don’t forget to check out Dr. Alana Sharps’s new book Unbroken Ground (available on Amazon at https://a.co/d/7zoa5z7)for more guidance, and stick around for a really honest, thoughtful chat about redefining your life after divorce.About the Guest:Dr. Alana Sharps, founder of SurThrive Tribe, is a 2x International Best-Selling Author, Trauma Specialist, and Certified High-Conflict Divorce Consultant. Her expertise is rooted not only in professional credentials but also in profound personal triumph. Having navigated the complexities of a toxic marriage marked by domestic abuse, Alana emerged as a committed advocate for those facing similar trials. Her transformative journey from victim to empowered survivor fuels her dedication to guiding others through the challenging landscape of domestic strife. As an educator in domestic abuse and trauma healing, Alana brings the same passion from her advocacy into her coaching. She connects the dots between psychology, human behavior, and personal experience, offering a unique and insightful perspective. This approach, combined with her unwavering commitment, creates an enriching and supportive environment where her clients can heal and grow.For Dr. Alana’s gift: https://www.surthrivetribe.com/free-guideTo connect with Alana:https://bio.site/alanasharps About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from...

In this episode of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond, host Mardi Winder-Adams is joined by expert Dr. Pamela J. Pine for a frank and sobering discussion on the lasting impact of family conflict and abuse on children. Drawing on Dr. Pamela J. Pine’s decades of work in preventing and mitigating child sexual abuse and addressing adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), the conversation centers on how trauma in the home—whether high, moderate, or even low levels of conflict—can shape a child’s development, mental health, and future wellbeing.The episode challenges misconceptions around domestic violence and explores the strong correlation between abuse in the home and lifelong consequences, including neurological damage, chronic health issues, and cycles of addiction. Mardi Winder-Adams and Dr. Pamela J. Pine underscore the importance of community awareness, intervention, and support, emphasizing that silence and secrecy can exacerbate harm.This episode offers not just statistics and facts, but critical guidance for parents and caregivers facing these difficult situations. It provides straightforward language for supporting children, highlights the dangers of staying “for the kids,” and urges listeners to recognize that being proactive and informed can break the cycle of trauma. For anyone seeking to understand, help, or heal, this conversation is both an urgent warning and a compassionate resource.About the Guest:Pamela J. Pine, PhD, MPH has been an international health, development, and communication professional throughout her adult life, supporting the lives of poor and otherwise underserved groups, with a two-decade specialty on preventing and mitigating child sexual abuse (CSA) and other adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). She is the Founder/Director of Stop the Silence® - A Department of the Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma (IVAT). She is also a professor, best-selling and award-winning author, and a multimedia artist, which she uses in her work to open hearts and minds.To connect with Dr. Pine:Website: https://www.ivatcenters.org/stop-the-silence, Website: https://www.drpamelajpine.com, Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stopcsa, Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrPamelaJPine2/, Email: pamelap@ivatcenters.orgAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely...

In this powerful episode, host Mardi Winder sits down with speaker, author, and certified somatic trauma-informed coach Darla Ridilla to explore the complex intersection of divorce, toxic relationships, and the journey to self-love and truly finding yourself again after divorce and breakups. Together, they delve into the real-life challenges high-achieving women face when divorcing narcissistic or high-conflict partners, especially when balancing a professional persona while feeling emotionally exhausted at home. Darla Ridilla shares her own story of her divorces, including her experience with a narcissistic partner, and provides invaluable insight into the process of recognizing abuse, breaking trauma bonds, and rebuilding one's sense of self.From practical tips on reclaiming independence, like taking yourself out on solo adventures and date nights, to the importance of having grace with yourself during the healing journey, this episode is packed with supportive advice for anyone navigating the aftermath of a toxic relationship. Whether you're questioning your situation, seeking new ways to reconnect with your true self, or simply looking for hope and community, this episode offers empathy, resources, and encouragement to help you thrive on the other side of divorce.About the Guest:Darla Ridilla is a certified somatic trauma-informed coach, self love mentor, and relationship expert who helps high-achieving women stop settling in love and start leading in life. As a former executive assistant turned trauma expert, Darla understands what it’s like to appear successful while silently navigating toxic relationship patterns and emotional exhaustion. Her own healing from narcissistic abuse ignited a mission to guide women in breaking free from codependency, regulating their nervous systems, and finally feeling empowered in their relationships. As a speaker, published author and podcast host, she draws on deep somatic wisdom and personal transformation. Darla helps her clients reclaim their worth, set powerful boundaries, and build relationships that align with the strong, capable women they truly are.For Darla’s gift “Reclaiming You Free Guide”: https://www.highvaluewoman.info/reclaiming-you-guideTo connect with Darla:Website: https://www.highvaluewoman.info Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61550835718631 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/highvaluewoman7/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HighValueWoman-m7w Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/highvaluewoman7/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darla-ridilla-3179b110/About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section...

Hey there, and welcome back to The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond! In this episode, your host Mardi Winder sits down with Charles Jamieson, a seasoned attorney who's spent over 40 years navigating the ups and downs of family and marital law. Based in West Palm Beach, Charles Jamieson isn't only an expert in high-conflict divorce but also specializes in helping individuals protect themselves and their futures through prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.If you think prenups are only for the rich and famous, think again! Mardi and Charlie are here to set the record straight, explaining how modern prenups can be practical, thoughtful, and even empowering for couples at every stage. Charlie gets real about why these agreements matter, especially for second marriages (spoiler alert: divorce rates are higher the second time around), and how tough money conversations upfront can save you years of headaches and a whole lot of cash down the road.Together, they dive into some of the most frequently asked questions, like whether prenups can cover things like child custody, what happens if a big inheritance or lottery win comes along, and what you actually need to bring to your attorney to get the process started. They also explore postnups, why some couples choose them after marriage, and how both types of agreements can fit into bigger conversations around aging, illness, or blending families.About the Guest:Charles D. Jamieson is the founder and driving force behind The Law Firm of Charles D. Jamieson, P.A., with over 40 years of experience in marital and family law. Beginning his legal career in Maine, he has become a trusted advisor to clients across more than 20 states. Board Certified in Marital and Family Law, Charles is widely recognized for his expertise in high-conflict divorce, parental rights, and child custody matters. A Dartmouth graduate with high honors and a Juris Doctorate from the University of Maine School of Law, he co-chaired the Moot Court Board and competed nationally and internationally. Throughout his career, Charles has championed families, often working alongside mental health, financial, and medical professionals to support his clients’ best interests. Based in West Palm Beach, Florida, he remains a respected figure in the legal community and continues to be a passionate advocate for justice, equity, and compassionate representation.To connect with Charlie:Website:www.cjamiesonlaw.com IG: @CharlesjamiesonlawFB: https://www.facebook.com/DivorceWPB/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cjamiesonlaw/About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you...

In this episode, Mardi Winder chats with Myra Salzer, the founder of The Wealth Conservancy, about what really happens when you suddenly come into a bit—or a lot—of money, whether it's from a divorce or an inheritance. Myra Salzer shares her own story of switching careers to financial planning, and how she ended up specializing in helping people who find themselves with unexpected wealth and all the questions that brings.The conversation opens up about how easy it is to make quick decisions when money first arrives—like splurging on things you never thought you’d buy—and how that can sometimes lead to regrets later on. Myra Salzer breaks down the different stages people often go through, starting from not quite believing what’s happened, to slowly learning how to manage their money, and eventually feeling confident and in control.They discuss common worries, like wondering how much is safe to spend, sorting out taxes, and most importantly, figuring out who you can trust to guide you. Both Mardi Winder and Myra Salzer highlight how building a good financial team is about more than just numbers; it’s about supporting your values and making sure your money helps you live the life you want.If the topic hits home for you, you’ll be glad to hear Myra Salzer offers a free consultation and a short coaching program to help you get started. It’s a practical and reassuring look at the ups and downs of managing a windfall and making smart choices for the future.About the Guest:Myra Salzer is the founder of The Wealth Conservancy, a team of wealth coaches and financial planners whose clients are responsible for understanding and managing their inheritance or divorce settlement.To get Myra’s gift: Free consultations for Way into Wealth ™ or financial planning www.TheWealthConservancy.comTo connect with Myra:Website: www.thewealthconservancy.com www.wayintowealth.com LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/myra-salzer Facebook: www.facebook.com/myrasalzerAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page.Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below!Subscribe to the PodcastIf you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.Leave us an Apple Podcast ReviewRatings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

In this episode, Mardi Winder has a really interesting chat with Amanda Steadman, who’s spent more than two decades helping women find confidence and independence after divorce. Amanda brings both her personal story and her professional expertise, talking about how early experiences with family loss shaped her outlook and set her on a path to unravel the connection between our minds and bodies.She shares honest reflections about navigating a tough breakup herself, after realizing her relationship wasn’t truly making her happy, even if it looked good from the outside. Through a mix of hypnotherapy, NLP, and energy work, Amanda Steadman helps women work through old patterns, like feeling unworthy or stuck, so they can move forward and start fresh. A major takeaway from the conversation is how common it is for women to worry about being “enough” after their relationships end, and the importance of letting go of childhood beliefs that might be holding them back.Amanda and Mardi touch on how important it is to take a breather after a breakup, figure out what you really want, and stop repeating the same patterns. Amanda encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and reminds everyone that you’re only one thought away from stepping into a new, more confident version of yourself. For those looking for a little extra inspiration, she’s also offering her “Awaken the Goddess Within” meditation for free, which is just a bit of added support to help you on your journey, no matter where you are in the process!About the Guest:Uncertain, and stuck. Amanda Steadman helps divorced women reclaim their confidence, rebuild their lives, and create financial independence. With over 26 years of expertise in hypnotherapy, NLP, and energy work, she guides clients from heartbreak and self-doubt to clarity, empowerment, and abundance. Amanda’s **MindGenie Method** accelerates emotional healing and personal growth, helping you release past pain, attract new opportunities, and step into your next chapter with confidence. As an Amazon No.1 bestselling author of *Connect to Authentic Success: 7 Steps to the Destiny You Deserve*, she shares powerful strategies to rediscover your worth, realign with your dreams, and create a fulfilling life—on your terms. Through private sessions, mentoring, and speaking engagements, Amanda provides the mindset and tools to help you thrive after divorce. Ready to start fresh and build the life you deserve? Time for your goddess power to kick in!To get Amanda’s gift: https://scale.amandasteadman.com/love-home-pageTo connect with Amanda:Web https://www.amandasteadman.com/ LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandasteadman/ YTube https://www.youtube.com/@MindGenieHypnotherapy Facebook https://www.facebook.com/amanda.steadman1/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/amandasteadman1/About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode...

In this episode, host Mardi Winder welcomes Dr. Robin Buckley, Ph.D., an expert in clinical psychology with a specialty in cognitive behavioral methodology and executive coaching. Together, they explore the power of applying clear, practical strategies and goal-setting to both marriage and divorce. Dr. Robin shares insights from her years of experience, reflecting on the transition from traditional therapy, focused on intervention and healing from past wounds, to her current emphasis on proactive coaching that builds toward a meaningful and intentional future.The discussion unpacks the differences between coaching and therapy, noting that coaching helps clients focus on what they can control in the present to create the future they want. Dr. Robin explains how our brains often become stuck in reactive patterns during the stress of divorce, making logical decision-making difficult. She suggests that by engaging the prefrontal cortex, people can step away from the "fight, flight, or freeze" response and approach divorce with clarity and strategic thinking.A central theme of the conversation is the concept of a "mission statement for divorce." Dr. Robin helps clients articulate what they want life to look like after divorce, whether it involves successful co-parenting, remaining friends, or setting firm boundaries for a clean break. Rather than simply aiming to finalize the legal process, couples are encouraged to envision their goals for their lives beyond the separation. This mission statement serves as a guiding compass throughout the process, helping couples navigate conflict and remain focused on respectful outcomes even in tense moments.The episode also touches on changing trends, with more people, especially in younger generations, seeking collaborative and multidisciplinary approaches to divorce. Dr. Robin shares her excitement about these supportive models, which often include financial advisors, therapists, and legal professionals working as a team. In closing, Dr. Robin introduces her new book, Marriage Incorporated, which brings strategic planning and business principles into the realm of relationships, offering readers practical tools to create stronger foundations and improve communication in both marriage and divorce.About the Guest:Dr. Robin Buckley holds a PhD in clinical psychology with specialized training in cognitive behavioral methodology and executive coaching. Through her data-driven, strategic coaching model, she helps individuals, couples, and organizations achieve personal and professional goals. Her expertise has been featured by Entrepreneur, Chief, Nike, and TED. Robin's coaching empowers clients to move beyond insight into actionable, lasting success.To connect with Dr. Robin:Website: https://drrobinbuckley.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drrobinbuckley/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-robin-buckley/About the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for...

Today, Mardi Winder welcomes Jenni Rock, an author, speaker, and coach specializing in helping parents recover from toxic co-parenting breakdowns. The discussion focuses on the often-overlooked impact of divorce on children when one parent displays toxic or manipulative behaviors. Drawing from her personal experience, Jenni speaks candidly about the emotional challenges and long-term effects these situations can have on children, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and addressing harmful patterns before they become deeply rooted.Jenni outlines some of the common behaviors parents face in these circumstances, ranging from false allegations to parental alienation and gaslighting, and highlights how children can inadvertently become tools in ongoing conflicts. Throughout the episode, she offers insightful strategies for communication and boundary-setting, advocating for practical approaches such as limited, essential messaging, neutral handovers, and using technology to minimize emotional confrontation.Mardi and Jenni also touch on the delicate balance of honesty and emotional safety when speaking with children affected by conflict and negative influences. Jenni stresses the importance of fostering open dialogue without placing blame, and encouraging children to feel secure sharing their feelings. For parents who have lost access to their children due to toxicity or manipulation, Jenni suggests ways to heal from trauma and stay connected, including keeping a log or email account for messages to be shared later in life.About the Guest:Jenni Rock is a Co-Parenting without Conflict expert with four years of experience. Jenni has been instrumental in helping divorced parents exit toxic relationships and redefine their communication patterns to prioritize the needs of their children. Having gone through a marriage littered with Domestic Abuse, manipulation, gaslighting and coercive behaviour became the norm. Her separation from her ex was very traumatic not only for her but for her son who was age 3 at the time. When Jenni finally instated strong boundaries to protect herself and her son, there was an explosion of abuse which then had to be addressed using Police support and support not only for Jenni but for her son too. Her son became very poorly as a result of the complex PTSD, and Jenni had to contend with trying to work, support her son, and heal herself all at the same time. It's been a journey!For Jenni’s gift: https://1drv.ms/w/c/ca499b89cefc9e76/EZ9CMPRD17lBtOK8AxpIX7ABMNaVWCpnSLViwuf01kxdow?e=1NprJnTo connect with Jenni:Check out my webinar: https://pages.coparentingwithoutconflict.com/ Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenni-rock-uk-s-leading-parental-alienation-and-coparenting-breakdown-specialist-293768b2/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090676011227About the HostMardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed...

In this episode, Mardi Winder welcomes Karen McNenny for a conversation about how divorce doesn't have to be a destructive ordeal. Karen, who works as a mediator, divorce coach, and host of the Good Divorce Show Podcast, brings her own experience and her work with families to the table. She talks openly about how her own divorce shaped her career path and her belief that divorce can be handled thoughtfully and kindly, especially when kids are involved.Karen explains how the usual approach to separation, immediately involving lawyers and preparing for conflict, rarely serves families well. Instead, she advocates for reaching out to coaches and mediators first, and focusing on clear, honest communication before making big decisions, especially those involving children. Her Good Divorce Experience program helps families figure out critical next steps, from breaking the news to kids, working out living arrangements, co-parenting plans, and even involving trusted professionals when needed. Karen highlights the importance of setting the tone right from the start and ensuring everyone involved, children, teachers, friends, and family, is on the same page.Mardi and Karen also talk candidly about the intense emotions that come with divorce, such as anger, grief, and disappointment. They reflect on why even couples who want an amicable split find themselves struggling with frustration, and how self-reflection and support can make a big difference. Karen reminds listeners that the goal isn't just to end a marriage, but to create a healthy new family structure that supports the kids and lets everyone move forward.About the Guest:A dynamic speaker with over two decades of experience commanding stages across the country, Karen brings both authenticity and authority to conversations about workplace culture, effective leadership and employee engagement. She has moved audiences from intimate workshops to packed conferences Karen McNenny is a mediator, divorce coach, and therapist dedicated to transforming how families navigate divorce. Through her Good Divorce Experience™, she helps couples not only get divorced but also learn how to maintain healthy post-divorce relationships, especially when children are involved.With more than 25 years of expertise, Karen focuses on co-parenting, financial planning, and relationship literacy, guiding families towards compassionate outcomes. A TEDx speaker and host of The Good Divorce Show Podcast™, Karen draws from her own divorce journey to offer hope and healing. She lives in Missoula, Montana, with her family and dog, enjoying the outdoors in the Rocky Mountains.To connect with Karen:Website: thegooddivorce.com Website: karenmcnenny.com Facebook: gooddivorcecoachInstagram instagram.com/gooddivorcecoach LinkedIn linkedin.com/in/gooddivorcecoach YouTube: youtube.com/@gooddivorcecoachAbout the Host: Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".Connect with Mardi on Social Media:Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4womenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4womenThanks for Listening!Thanks so much for...