Swing Theory

The hosts recount an eventful kid‑free weekend exploring the swinging lifestyle: a long game night that broke the ice, late‑night play with a new couple, and a club night that mixed excitement with awkward moments. The episode focuses on communication, handling insecurities, emotional debriefs after play, and how reconnecting as partners helped turn a risky weekend into a rewarding experience.

Episode 10 of Swing Theory follows Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany as they unpack what happens when a woman in the lifestyle is told “no.” The hosts discuss boundaries, communication breakdowns, emotional fallout, and the new dynamics of being a throuple. Through candid stories, therapy updates, and playful “most likely” games, the trio explores how trust, honesty, and clearer rules can help them rebuild confidence and stay active in the lifestyle together.

On episode 9 of Swing Theory, Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany dive into hard conversations about limits, boundaries, and emotional reactions within their throuple dynamic after a week of real-life complications. They cover specific playroom rules—what is and isn’t acceptable (dirty talk, domination terms, bruises/hickeys, choking, hair pulling), the challenge of distance and solo play, and the differences between same-room and separate-room play. The hosts also discuss handling unwanted advances at clubs, personal safety, and the importance of clear communication and mutual support in non-monogamous relationships.

Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany are back for a candid 2026 kickoff episode. They recap holiday break, debate trends in the swinging lifestyle, and share what they want — from better apps and local meetups to more throuple recognition, bi-play acceptance, and affordable events. The trio also swaps steamy play fantasies and plans, including MFM scenes, all-bi experiences, BDSM exploration, surprise encounters, and wild group scenarios — plus plenty of honest, unapologetic talk about communication and consent.

In Episode 7 of Swing Theory, Tink and Tiffany host a candid ladies-only conversation about taboo office hookups, the thrills and risks of kissing in the lifestyle, and how crossed boundaries compare to cheating. They unpack real experiences, safety (testing and condoms), and how communication keeps things sustainable. The hosts also discuss a chaotic hotel bar crawl that damaged reputations, share holiday plans, and invite listeners to submit anonymous stories and guest ideas for future episodes.

Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany return for Episode 6 of Swing Theory to debate seasonal swinging, recap last week’s show, and unpack common vanilla assumptions about the lifestyle. The trio compares summer pool parties to winter hotel takeovers, discusses hot-wife/hot-husband dynamics, group play, and how jealousy and boundaries show up. They also answer listener-style questions about unicorn hunting, club screenings, signaling (rings/anklets), and what to expect at events, offering practical tips for newcomers and stories from a decade in non-monogamy.

In Episode 5 of Swing Theory, Tink and Tiffany hold a ladies-only conversation about their preferences for male and female play partners, what turns them on and off, and how they navigate the swinging lifestyle. They discuss size and vibes, labels like bisexual and unicorn (and even the term "mermaid"), spontaneous vs. planned play, house parties versus clubs and hotel takeovers, and finish with a playful "This or That" segment.

Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany unpack the real challenges of non-monogamy after forming a throuple—frustration, jealousy, logistics, and how the swinger scene has shifted since COVID. They talk candidly about feeling sidelined, changing priorities, and the work of communicating boundaries and support. By the end of the episode they outline a new plan: prioritizing couple play with enthusiastic cheerleading for solo partners, staying social at events, and keeping the conversation open as they navigate what a sustainable, satisfying lifestyle looks like for all three of them.

Pedro, Tink, and Tiffany recount their chaotic week at Paradise Lakes Resort — from tense relationship conversations to unexpected sexual firsts, heavy poolside partying, and meeting new friends. The trio navigates communication breakdowns, playroom experiments, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy. Highlights include honest talk about dynamics and testing, wild pool and play deck moments, multiple physical firsts, and a renewed sense that they’re on the right track together. A candid, messy, and intimate episode about connection, community, and growing together.

In this episode the hosts unpack a cancelled Hedo trip after Hurricane Melissa, call out poor communication and refund problems with the event organizer, and explain how they scrambled for alternatives. They recount booking Paradise Lakes as a last-minute replacement, describe the resort experience (fees, staff, play areas), and share personal stories from the week—including first-time play experiences, throuple dynamics, and candid reflections on the lifestyle community.

On this weeks episode the trio talks about a recent hotel take over experience and the struggles we faced. Asking the questions of what is happening in the lifestyle, and how we can keep these dud's from happening.

Welcome to Swing Theory! This is the first episode of our re-brand, where we will be focusing on the swinging lifestyle nearly 100% of the time. With A new co-host, our amazing girlfriend Tiffany. You can expect more in depth conversations, spicy stories and laughter.

On this week’s episode, we go back to the basics of swinging 101 for newbies. Pedro helps a long time friend navigate the lifestyle with tips on how to interact with others and how to get okay happening. Tiff brings her perspective from being a unicorn and what she can sense from a couple with how they interact with each other. We talk about the key points to keeping your relationship healthy so that you can have a successful play experience in the LS.   We brought back a fun segment! This time we each told a descriptive sexy encounter we had in the LS and all 3 stories are very hot!

On this week’s episode Tink has rejoined us to discuss our bucket list fantasies. Tiff’s fantasy is wild and crazy and full of possibilities yet could be hard to get all together. Pedro’s is getting the ultimate hot husband surprise, while Tink wants to cream-pied all over.   Tink asks the question many poly people struggle with and that is How was the one on one time? We discussed the missing of each other, difference in communication and how each one of us handled not being all together.   In our BDSM, Tiff and Pedro discuss her journey into becoming a submissive and what she will want to get out of submission and the growth submission can give her.

n this weeks episode we are missing our beloved Tink, but Tiff and Pedro discuss preferences in the swing lifestyle and how there is a double standard with women having preferences versus men having  preferences .   In our Poly segment Tiff talks equality in a throuple as the new addition to an existing relationship. Can equality be reached? Find out what she has to say and let us know on the Facebook page what your thoughts are.   And to wrap the show up Pedro talks to Tiff about her new desire to learn about the BDSM lifestyle and where she may want to take it. Will it just be a play scenario or will she dive deep into the world of submission?  

We can’t believe it but we hit 100 episodes! It landed perfectly for us to talk about our first hotel takeover as a throuple with our gf and new co-host Tiffany! All 3 of us recapped on our overall experience at Delco Degenerates 1st hotel takeover. There was lots of fun, amazing people, tons of vendors and activities.   We were surprised to have met some other swingers who happened to be poly as well and how they navigated swinging with their relationship. Many amazing people reached out to us for some guidance or questions they had.   The Haus of Carmine put on a wonderful seminar on BDSM with their amazing tastings they offered for anyone interested in rope play, electric play, fire play and impact.

This week Pedro, Tink and Tiff take a trip Delco in PA for the first ever Delco Degenerates hotel takeover. We sit down for a live round table discussion with Jeff and Jessica, The owners and operators of the Delco Degenerates in front of 60 of our closest friends.

Pedro and Tink got to have a special guest on our show today to discuss our surprise throuple formation. Miss Tiff, a previous unicorn in the swing lifestyle has made a connection with Pedro and wanted to play. During their conversation poly was brought up and it opened a whole new chapter for all of us. As a throuple we discussed how we would like to continue being in the swing lifestyle together. Pedro, Tink and Tiff discuss Continuing to swing while being in the throuple and how we want to play all together. There are many more options that we foresee now in the lifestyle and look forward to traveling this together.   Pedro and Tink are going to be revamping the podcast once we move back to PA to be more focused on swing to advocate the lifestyle with proper information. We will continue this form of swing,poly and bdsm in short videos on Facebook and YouTube. We also will be having Tiff as a permanent new host on the podcast.

On this week’s episode Pedro and Tink dive into swinging for newbies 101 and some red flags to avoid. We had a listener ask about what to look out for and we chose a few to start with such as single dudes and single females and the behaviors that you should be Leary of.   In our poly segment Tink brings up some of the issues that she finds on the dating apps and the lack of people reading bios.   We will be posting our next episode on Christmas Day! We hope yall have a Merry Christmas 🎄

On our 96th episode (yes my bad, last week was 95) we discuss how we would handle if a condom breaks during the heat of the moment while playing with someone. We all want to be safe and always get tested but accidents like this still happen, it all comes down to how you handle it.   When it comes to our poly findings, I for one have noticed the pool is slim for my taste in women and even men (even though I am not seeking a bf). Pedro has even found that with his broad range of taste in ladies that the poly pool is much smaller for him too. It comes down to who we find attraction towards and looks are still a factor just as much as personality traits.   A new section this week is women’s health! Tink wanted to bring up ladies’ hygiene and different actions ladies can take to prevent BV and irritations from arising with new play partners. (There are some good products to use like: 1.) Happy Hoo-Haa probiotics 2.) Fantasy Box boric acid suppositories 3.) Promescent wipes for before or after play )