How to Ruin Your Own Reputation

Detroit prosecutors referred to Khalil Ray Jr. as a dangerous radical extremist with ties to ISIS who had made violent threats against a church, among other things. His lawyer described his case as the perfect example of the improper use of FBI undercover agents and informants. Which one was it? After being incarcerated for over five years and experiencing the atrocities of the prison system, Khalil became an outspoken advocate and activist for prison reform. What’s it like to be part of a high profile case getting a ton of media coverage accusing you of horrible things? What role did being a lonely kid, wanting a girlfriend play in Khalil’s story? Was the FBI justified in the methods they used to arrest him? What kind of stigma do former inmates face when trying to rejoin society? I could’ve continued the conversation for hours! Khalil shares his story and insight all over social media and in a documentary on YouTube. He also answers questions and comments on Instagram and TikTok. Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 IG: @khalilrayjr 🔗 TikTok: khalil-ray-jr 🔗 YouTube: @Khalilrayjr ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

TW: Self Harm Mike, also known as @Detoxpodguy on Instagram, describes himself in a way that I completely relate to, which is: Radically Honest. Mike hosts the podcast Detoxicity, which asks the question: What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century? The podcast is designed to explore the many possible answers to that question by covering a wide range of topics with thoughtfulness, sensitivity, and humour. Mike is also a mental health advocate and sexuality educator. What are “harmful masculine norms”? What impact are they having on young men in our society? Listen in and find out. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 IG: @detoxpodguy 🔗 LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/detoxpodguy 🔗 Podcast: https://detoxpod.podbean.com ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Cherie Cohen is a twice divorced, 51 year old woman with a 6 year old son who found herself single and being thrust back into the dating world once again. This time she broke ALL of the traditional dating rules and do things her own way by focusing on HER wants and HER needs, including exploring her varied sexual kinks and interests. Cherie shares why she firmly believes that dating in your 50s is a whole lot more fun than any other time and how the dating pool is so much deeper than e realize. 🎙️ Audio only version: https://anchor.fm/marci-warhaft Disclosure: some links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 IG: @15up15down ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Meet Jonathan Pritchard 🌟 Jonathan is one of the best corporate mentalist in the world. For over 18 years, Jonathan toured the world as an entertainer specializing in reading minds, predicting the future and instant Hypnosis. His journey took him from 19,000 performances at Universal Studios to an appearance on America’s got talent. Eventually, he realized that his skills could go beyond entertainment, which is when he became a force as a speaker and consultant with some of the largest companies in the world. Jonathan is the founder of Zavant  enterprises and the author of multiple books, focused on the power of applied psychology. Can he really read minds? How do his skills as a mentalist transfer into success in the business world? Has he ever tried his mind reading trucks in Vegas? Listen and find out! 🎙️ Audio only version: https://anchor.fm/marci-warhaft Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 Website: https://www.jonathanpritchard.me/ 🔗 James Randi Foundation: https://web.randi.org/ ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Casey and Jason are a happily married couple with an interesting hobby. They are active participants in what’s referred to as a “HotWifing”. HotWifing is when a wife has sex with multiple partners with the full knowledge, consent, and encouragement of her husband. A few weeks ago, I had Casey on the show discussing their lifestyle and popular OnlyFans account. This week I’m talking to Jason to get his perspective on things.- What exactly is his role in the relationship? - How does this differ from “cuckolding”? - Does he get jealous? - How do they find the men for Casey to have sex with? Listen to find out more! ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 ☕️ Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Meet Steven Benedict! As a professional track and field athlete and Olympic Trials Qualifier, Steven Benedict has run in some of the worlds most prestigious events. He’s been Featured in 50 national and international magazines such as Train, ESPN Magazine, Mens Fitness, Mens Health and Fitness RX. These accomplishments were not what was expected based on his early years. Steven’s childhood began in an abusive home which resulted in he and his brother’s placement in foster care. Over the course of his first 8 years, he was moved between homes and motels with little certainty of what the next day would bring. At age 8, he and his brother were adopted by an incredible couple which possessed traits of joy, humility, sacrifice and unconditional love. Steven defied the odds and is back stronger than ever to be proof that experiences in life are nothing more than another day of training in becoming a champion for others. He is passionate to set the pace for the coming generations as an example of what relentless strength and faith can accomplish. **Steven is the founder of “[Fostering Success](http://www.fosteringsuccess.co/)” an organization that pairs Professional Athletes with Foster Kids to create awareness, offer mentorship and support ongoing opportunities for fostered and adopted children nationwide.** Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 IG: @stevieyb22 🔗 Website: http://stevieyb.com ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

This week, I had a TRULY enlightening conversation with Chris Angel Murphy, who is an LGBTQ+ trainer, community organizer and podcast host. Chris Angel is also proudly neuroqueer, transgender and nonbinary. They understand the challenge of trying to figure out who you are while also figuring out where you fit in. It’s an experience that a lot of us go through in different ways. I learned so much from this conversation and know you will too! Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 Email: gendersexualityinfo at gmail.com 🔗 Podcast: https://pod.link/allyshipisaverb 🔗 Website: https://www.chrisangelmurphy.com ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

** Guest Links ** 🔗 I Married A Thrill-Seeker: A cautious wife's memoir of her husband's risk-taking and their long road to recovery: https://amzn.to/40BOJt1 🔗 Website: https://www.imarriedathrillseeker.com ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 ☕️ Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Everyone loves love. Sex is pretty great too. But when does pleasure become a problem? Gary McFarlane is the founder of The Kairos Changement Programme which has been instrumental in helping hundreds of people recover from Sex, Porn & Love Addiction. He works with Individuals, Couples & Groups providing Mediation, Relationship counselling, Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction & Love Addiction Therapy and Women partners groups & individual support for partners of sex addicts – all of which are undertaken by Vsee/Skype, telephone and face to face with clients from all parts of the country and abroad. Contact Gary and let him know you heard him on our show to take advantage of an introductory conversation and assessment at a reduced rate! From Gary: I shall be pleased to provide a post-podcast discounted Initial Assessment & Provisional diagnostic 50mins session to listeners - of £60 (rather than an average fee of around £81). 🎙️ Audio only version: https://anchor.fm/marci-warhaft Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 Website: https://www.kairos-centre.com/sex-therapist ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Do you see dead people? Do you hear them? Bob Ginsberg has been investigating mediumship and other evidence of life after death since 2003. He’s an author, radio host, founder of The Forever Family foundation and is featured in the Netflix docuseries “Surviving Death”. It was his own personal experience with grief and loss that inspired his deep dive into the topic of life after death. During our conversation I ask Bob: Can mediums really communicate with lost loved ones? Can they visit us in our dreams? What happens during near death experiences? Tune in and decide for yourself. 🎙️ Audio only version: https://anchor.fm/marci-warhaft Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase. Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 http://www.beyondthefivesenses.com 🔗 http://www.foreverfamilyfoundation.org ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Polyamory: The practice of engaging in multiple romantic relationships, with the consent of all the people involved. Let’s face it, even the most traditional relationships can be complicated, so the thought of trying to cultivate and nurture several relationships at the same time can sound absolutely impossible. That being said, polyamorous relationships are becoming more and more popular every day. My guest today is Jacki Yovanoff, a self described bisexual/pansexual/queer, cis, non-monogamous, brash feminist who loves talking about relationships. She’s a speaker, educator, advocate, research nerd, settler, partner & parent of four - and so much more.  Jacki and her partner have been in a polyamorous relationship for over 10 years and know what it takes to make it work. Jacki explains how open communication and complete honesty is the key to thriving in a situation where multiple romantic connections are involved. Can you really love more than one person at the same time? Does jealousy ever become a problem? Tune in and find out! Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase.  Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links ** 🔗 The Ethical Slut (third edition): A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy - https://amzn.to/3LGhQXx 🔗 Building Open Relationships: Your Hands on Guide to Swinging, Polyamory, and Beyond! by Liz Powell - https://amzn.to/3TvYWo9 🔗 Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson - https://amzn.to/3ZR0sUa 🔗 Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern - https://amzn.to/3TgixZ4 🔗 It's Called "Polyamory": Coming Out About Your Nonmonogamous Relationships by Rebecca Hiles and Tamara Pincus - https://amzn.to/3LqVWaA ** Follow Us ** 🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Who would have thought that something like Pronouns could become such a controversial issue, and yet, here we are! During this episode, we dive into what feels like a sudden influx of new ways for people to identify themselves and why it’s important to respect them. Our guest, Ocean Atlas, explains what it means  to be non binary and why we don’t have to understand a person’s identity to be a good ally. Ocean Atlas is the Amazon bestselling author of Nonbinary For Beginners: Everything you’ve been afraid to ask about gender, pronouns, being an ally, and black & white thinking. Just within the last decade, Ocean has lived several previous lives including MBA and management consultant at a top firm, yoga teacher and Reiki master in healing circles, and solo traveler and backpacker in Central America, to name a few. Ocean has ruined their reputation several times over and has never felt better about it. Their pronouns are they, she, he, or no pronouns. 🎙️ Audio only version: https://anchor.fm/marci-warhaft Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase.  Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links **  🔗  Nonbinary for Beginners: Nonbinary for Beginners ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

This is an easy one, right? Cheating is wrong. Simple as that. Or is it? What defines “cheating”? Can you be cheating with someone you’ve only met online and never in person? Does there have to be physical intimacy for it to be considered cheating or is sharing an emotional connection cheating too? Why are people unfaithful? Is monogamy unrealistic? Giovanna has spent the last 10+ years travelling the world, observing human behaviour and asking what truly makes us happy, healthy and fulfilled. She is a people-lover, travel-goer, neuroscience-enthusiast, philosopher at heart- and ultimately calls herself: A HUMAN CONNECTION EXPERT. Pulling from her background in Communications, Human Rights, NLP and Holistic Medicine, she is beyond passionate about creating a world where people can communicate effectively, lead consciously, resolve conflict gracefully, and ultimately connect deeply and meaningfully in all relationships.  She empowers professionals to build meaningful connections with anyone, anywhere, at anytime and communicate consciously in order to overcome conflicts in their relationships from work life to family, friends and romance. She does this through her life-changing 9-key system called “The Connection Code.” Connect with her today, and learn more about what she does! Disclosure: Some of the links below are affiliate links. This means that, at zero cost to you, we will earn an affiliate commission if you click through the link and finalize a purchase.  Thank you for your support. ** Guest Links **  🔗 Book a CONNECTION CALL: https://calendly.com/-connectioncall/30min 🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giovanna.fjm.elias/ 🔗 Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/relationships-communication-coach/ 🔗 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/theconnectioncode 🔗 Linktree https://linktr.ee/GiovannaElias ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Meet Phyllis Taylor, “The Prison Lady” Phyllis openly and honestly shares her experiences of going from teaching technology to lawyers to counseling prison inmates. For 20 years Phyllis was teaching technology to over 500 lawyers and support staff at a high profile international law firm. Then life took her in a different direction where she’s delivered motivational workshops at several Ontario prisons. Phyllis has commanded the largest prison audience in Ontario and won awards for her dedication, innovation, and inspirational work. Coaching and counselling marginalized people, while guiding them on their healing journey is what Phyllis calls, “Making her Dream a Reality!” Read more in Phyllis’ book, “The Prison Lady”. Amazon links displayed below may be affiliate links: ** Guest Links **  🔗 Book: The Prison Lady - https://amzn.to/3xKfVsv ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️ Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

NSFW:  Casey is the author of three erotic lifestyle memoirs, adult content creator, part-time nudist and swinger. Her memoirs detail the emotional, mental and physical aspects of discovering my sexuality in the lifestyle over the past 18 years from a shy Catholic girl, to insatiable unicorn, to a happily married hotwife vixen. At 40, Casey pushed her boundaries by creating an OnlyFans page and it has truly been one of the most rewarding experiences of her life. ** Guest Links **  🔗  IG: @inbedwithstrangers.official 🔗  OnlyFans: @HotWifeLife869 ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Neil is a magnetic and empowering visionary leader, father, digital media creator and author. He is the founder of Stolen from Africa and Reason with Logik, two outlets rooted in artistic expression and knowledge of self, promoting tangible change. Established in 2004, initially piloted as a street apparel campaign, Stolen from Africa has developed into a nationally incorporated, non-profit arts education organization focusing on cultural and historical awareness of the African Diaspora. The organization has executed Ontario-wide projects inclusive of documentaries, youth-led research projects, curriculum development, community collaboration, and strategic outreach. “Why do I do this? Because it's my calling. I'm a humanitarian, and I own it. I don't know anything else. If you're into astrology, it's written in the stars. I'm a Virgo sun, Aquarius rising, with my moon in Taurus. Nuff said." ** Guest Links **  🔗  Reason with Logik on Spotify - https://anchor.fm/reasonwithlogik 🔗  Stolen from Africa - https://www.stolenfromafrica.org ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 🗣️  Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Since I am a self-professed love/relationship skeptic, who better for me to have on my show than a professional matchmaker and dating coach? Jolene has matched and coached over 20,000 people and has created a dating challenge and written a book to help even more.    What makes someone an “expert” in dating? Is there a science behind making love matches? What are the common mistakes we’re making that might keep us from meeting our “person”? Can we be happy without a partner in life? Listen in and find out! ** Guest Links ** 🔗  Jolene's Linktree: http://linktr.ee/jolenebeaton 🔗  Dating Explained Book: https://a.co/d/1pUsdxa ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 Send us a voice message: https://www.speakpipe.com/Reputation ☕️ Enjoy the podcast? Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Imagine dedicating years of your life to a career that you can’t tell anyone about. Imagine meeting someone new and having to completely lie about what you do for a living. Now Imagine trying to keep all of your lies straight. Keeping secrets is a big part of living life as a spy. Andrew Kirsch served as an intelligence officer with Canadian Security Intelligence Service for just under a decade. In his book, “I Was Never Here: My True Canadian Spy Story of Coffee, Codenames and Covert Operations in the Age of Terrorism”, he tells us the truth about his life as a spy. ** Guest Links **  🔗 Website: https://kirschgroup.ca/ 🔗 Book: https://amzn.to/345KEov ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 Send us a voice message: https://anchor.fm/marci-warhaft/message ☕️ Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Priestess Francesca is a ProDomme who spent 12 years working as a mechanical engineer until a senior manager discovered her side job, reported her and ultimately got her fired! Interestingly, she believes that it’s her work as a dominatrix that contributed greatly to her success in the corporate world. Instead of quitting sex work, she doubled down and now helps and heals others as a PROFESSIONAL DOMINATRIX. BUCKLE UP and get ready to hear about healing through kink in ways that will probably surprise (and shock) you. ** Guest Link **  Francesca is offering a FREE extended 45-minute consultation call for our podcast listeners! Contact Francesca here: 🔗  https://www.priestessfrancesca.com Make sure you write: Ruin Them in the subject line of your email. ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 ☕️ Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft

Meet Vic Ferrari 🌟 Vic is a retired twenty-year NYPD detective who moved to Florida and became a writer! With an impressive five books under his belt, he takes readers behind the scenes with stories of the good, the bad, and the ugly realities of working in auto theft and narcotics.  I had a lot of questions, and Vic was FULL of stories that kept me informed and entertained. What was the biggest bust he was involved in? What happens when an officer is forced to take drugs while undercover? What tv cop show does Vic think comes the closest to getting it right? Check it out! ** Guest Links **  🔗 Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/Vic-Ferrari/e/B01IIQXLBC/ref=aufs_dp_mata_dsk 🔗 IG - https://www.instagram.com/vicferrari50/ 🔗 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/vicferrarinypd ** Follow Us **  🔗 Marci's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/marciwarhaft 🔗 Chantal's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/chantal13 ☕️ Buy us a coffee: https://ko-fi.com/marciwarhaft