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Does your child melt down over clothing tags, loud noises, or unexpected changes? You’re not alone, and you’re not failing as a parent. In this audioblog episode, Stacy continues our four-week series on sensitive and intense kids with a compassionate, research-informed look at what’s really happening beneath the surface of your highly sensitive kids and their big reactions. Learn how you can respond with grace, empathy, and confidence.
Key Takeaways:
Sensitivity is real, measurable, and valid
Curiosity opens doors empathy can walk through
Your calm presence regulates your child’s nervous system
Empathy reflects the heart of Jesus to your child
Intensity today can become purpose tomorrow
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course
Episode 195 – Strengths and Weaknesses: What a Child’s Misbehavior Tells Us
Blog Post – 3 Unexpected Parenting Strategies to Help Your Highly Sensitive Child Thrive
Hebrews 4:15-16
Romans 8:31
Psalm 139:14
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You’ve seen what the Connected Families Framework can do. What if you could bring that to other families?
Join us on May 6 at 12:30 pm CTS for a free one-hour informational webinar on becoming a CF Certified Parent Coach. No pressure. Just real information to help you take your next step.
Reserve your spot today!
Can’t make it live? A recording will be available through May 14.
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Take the course that was made for your family.
Got a child with extra big emotions? We get it. And we want to support and equip you. Raising an intense and sensitive child isn’t easy, but it can be filled with hope.
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In this episode, we unpack the surprising reasons why some children experience the world more intensely than others, and why their big emotions are rarely about what they seem to be about. You’ll discover a reframe that just might change the way you see your child’s most challenging moments, including a simple but powerful analogy that explains why your child can hold it together all day and then completely fall apart the moment they walk through your door.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated, confused, or just desperate to understand what’s really going on beneath the surface of your child’s behavior, this episode offers the compassionate insight and practical perspective you’ve been looking for.
Key Takeaways:
Anxiety often hides behind anger.
Connection calms a stressed nervous system.
Small triggers carry big invisible weight
Compassion begins with understanding the “why”
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Sensitive & Intense Online Course
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Rocks in the Backpack Video
Rocks in the Backpack PDF
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Guest Bio:
Lynne Jackson is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents, encouraging and bringing hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into brain science to equip parents and caregivers better. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy.
Lydia Rex is a registered nurse, wife, and mother of two, and has worked with families in many capacities throughout her career and personal life. She’s been a student of Connected Families since 2014 and continues to find it incredibly life-giving for her own family. Areas of her experience/special interest include foster care and adoption, attachment difficulties, developmental and learning disabilities, including FASD. She brings a trauma-informed perspective to the Connected Families Framework and the desire to see families find peace and healing even in the midst of challenges!
You’ve seen what the Connected Families Framework can do. What if you could bring that to other families?
Join us on May 6 at 12:30 pm CTS for a free one-hour informational webinar on becoming a CF Certified Parent Coach. No pressure. Just real information to help you take your next step.
Reserve your spot today!
Can’t make it live? A recording will be available through May 14.
© 2026 Connected Families
Do you have a child with BIG feelings and BIG needs?
The Sensitive & Intense Kids online course is a game changer. It’s for YOU.
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If you’ve ever wondered, “Why is parenting so hard?” this episode is for you. In this deeply personal and practical episode, Connected Families co-founder Lynne Jackson opens up about her own journey from organized perfectionist to overwhelmed mom of three. Lynne introduces the foundational layer of the Connected Families Framework, exploring three mental habits that quietly set parents up for toxic, lie-based thinking. Learn how to overcome them and transform your home.
Key Takeaways:
Asking yourself, “What’s going on in me?” can be a helpful question that can transform your parenting
Extreme thinking, perfectionism, and catastrophizing are all unhelpful thought patterns that feed anxiety, not connection
God’s truth transforms families from the inside out
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Build what comes next!
Book – Tired of Trying to Measure Up by Jeff VanVonderen
Matthew 12:34
Ephesians 4:15
The Connected Families Framework
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
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Guest Bio:
Lynne Jackson is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents, encouraging and bringing hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to equip parents and caregivers better. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy.
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What we believe about ourselves shapes how we parent, for better or worse.
In this opening episode of the Grace and Truth for Every Parent series, host Stacy Bellward talks with Connected Families’ Content Manager, Laura Way, about the beliefs that quietly keep parents stuck. Laura shares her own journey, including a pivotal moment with CF co-founder Lynne Jackson that helped her trade a crushing lie for a grace-filled truth that transformed her parenting.
If you’ve ever struggled with feeling like a bad mom or like you’re just not enough, this one’s for you.
Key Takeaways:
Your weaknesses can become your greatest parenting strength.
Parenting surfaces the beliefs you didn’t know existed.
Receive God’s grace first, then pass it on.
You are loved far beyond your best behavior.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Blog Post – 5 Lies That Keep Parents Stuck (And the Biblical Truths That Set You Free)
Give – Grace & Truth for EVERY Parent!
5 Lies That Keep Parents Stuck PDF Resources
Grace and Truth for Moms Online Course
Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart Online Course
Trash Truth Treasure Online Course
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Guest Bio:
Laura Way serves as the host for The Table, Connected Families’ monthly donor program, and as the Content Manager. She first found Connected Families as a young discouraged mom, living overseas with her family from 2014-2019. She lives with her husband, Aubrey, and their two vibrant and Sensitive and Intense daughters in Orlando, FL.
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What if family meetings for kids can be as simple as a weekly gathering with snacks and a game? In this warm and practical episode of the Connected Families podcast, host Stacy Bellward sits down with Certified Parent Coaches Corrie and Alan Thetford to unpack the transformative power of intentional family meetings. Spoiler: no gavel required.
Key Takeaways:
Nagging builds dependence; meetings build responsibility
Fun snacks and games to help connection grow
‘Practice time’ prevents reactive ‘game-time’ chaos
Kids can solve problems better than parents expect
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The Power of Questions Online Course
Free Resource – Family Meeting PDF
Connected Families Parent Coaching
The Table Monthly Giving Program
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Guest Bio:
Alan and Corrie have four children and are Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches and instructors for CF coaches-in-training. They are passionate about multiplying the gospel by helping families transform power struggles and conflicts into opportunities for gospel messages.
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Every parent knows the feeling: you need the dishes done, the toys picked up, or the laundry folded… and your child is nowhere near motivated to help. What if the key to raising genuinely responsible kids isn’t about enforcing compliance, but about understanding what actually drives motivation from the inside out? In this mini-episode, host Stacy Bellward chats with Katie Wetsell, pediatric nurse turned Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, to explore the brain science and research behind growing responsibility in children. Learn some practical, grace-filled tools you can start using today!
Key Takeaways:
Motivation can be complicated for all of us, because we are human
Learn how building kids up in the short term can help with long-term goals of raising capable, responsible adults
Learn about the three pillars of self-directed motivation
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The Power of Questions Online Course
The Entitlement Fix Online Course
Blog Post – Want to Know Your Child’s Strengths?
Blog Post – Help! How On Earth Do I Get My Kids to Do Chores?
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Guest Bio:
Katie Wetsell has always had a calling on her heart to care for children. She has worked as a pediatric oncology nurse and pediatric nurse practitioner. After experiencing the benefits of parent coaching through Connected Families, Katie later resigned from nursing and became a Certified Parent Coach. She and her husband have four children (three boys and a girl) through birth and adoption. Katie is also trained in SPACE treatment to help parents learn how to support their children struggling with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorders. You can learn more about Katie at parentwithhope.org, and on Facebook @parentwithhopecoach and Instagram @parentwithhopecoach
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Join Connected Families’ Director of Education & Equipping, Chad Hayenga, in this audioblog about Family Meetings. These are two words that might make you cringe or add to your mental “should-do” list. But what if they could actually become the highlight of your week? In this episode, explore how family meetings can be transformed from dreaded obligations into enjoyable, meaningful gatherings that build teamwork, grow responsibility, and deepen your family’s sense of purpose.
Discover ways that family meetings don’t have to be boring
How to start with fun to set a positive tone
Learn how family meetings can help shift ownership of responsibilities to your kids
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The Power of Questions Online Course
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Family Meetings PDF
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
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Why are chores such a struggle in families? Join Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches, Katie Johnson and Marni Love, to unpack why it’s hard, and what to do about it. They discuss the biblical foundation for meaningful work and offer practical strategies for turning daily tasks into opportunities for connection and growth. You’ll be encouraged by their own personal stories as they share grace-filled wisdom for navigating teaching kids responsibility.
Key Takeaways:
Scaffolding chores into small, manageable steps.
Avoid using chores as consequences for misbehavior.
Model and narrate tasks alongside your children.
Celebrate incremental growth, not just perfect results.
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The Power of Questions Online Course
Homeschool Discipline: 4 Ways to Cultivate Calm, Connection, and Confidence
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Genesis 1
Psalm 90:17
Colossians 3:23-24
Ephesians 2:10
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Guest Bio:
As a former teacher turned homeschool mom with a sensitive & intense child, Katie Johnson came to Connected Families at the end of her rope. As a CF coach, she now helps struggling families adopt a whole-Bible, whole-brain approach for Christ-centered transformation. She loves providing practical tools to help families apply the CF framework to their unique situations. Katie lives in Madison, WI, with her husband, three young kids, a dog, and three chickens. Katie holds a Master’s in Education and has a special passion for supporting families with toddlers.
Marni Love is a former public school teacher who has been a home educator for 14 years. She is a Homeschool Mentor, a Certified Connected Families Parent Coach, and an instructor for CF coaches-in-training. Marni enjoys spending time with her husband, Eric, and their three sons in the beautiful mountains and beaches of Northern California. You can connect with her through her website, marnilove.com.
© 2026 Connected Families
Less arguing. More wisdom.
That’s what you get with the Power of Questions online course.
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In this special announcement episode, host Stacy Bellward welcomes Chad Hayenga, Connected Families’ Director of Education and Equipping, to introduce an exciting new program: The CF Intensive! This new parent training program is a six-session, small-group experience! It’s designed for parents, caregivers, and ministry leaders who want to move from head knowledge to heart transformation using tools from the Connected Families Framework™. Is this for you? Listen to find out…
Key Takeaways:
The CF Intensive accelerates Framework growth through a hands-on, community deep-dive into Connected Families tools
The CF Intensive is about depth, not crisis intervention
Community transforms learning because growth happens together
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The CF Intensive – For One Person
The CF Intensive – For Two People
Book – How to Grow a Connected Family
The Connected Families Framework
Connected Families Certified Parent Coaching
Become a Parent Coach
The Table Monthly Giving Program
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Guest Bio:
Chad Hayenga joined Connected Families in 2005. He is married to Carma and has three adult daughters and two sons-in-law. Chad oversees coaching and the Parent Coach Certification Program, which continues to grow in its reach across North America and worldwide.
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We are thrilled to announce a new partnership with Communio! Tune in to hear how Communio is strengthening families through data-informed strategies for local churches. In this episode, host Stacy Bellward and Cindy Wilson, the Ministry Partnership & Research Program Manager at Connected Families, sit down with J.P. DeGance, founder and president of Communio and author of Endgame: The Church’s Strategic Move to Save Faith and Family in America. J.P. shares his personal journey into family ministry, the compelling research behind Communio’s approach, and how this partnership will bring Connected Families’ parenting resources into churches across the country, equipping more families with biblical, research-informed tools that transform families for generations.
Key Takeaways:
Announcing the partnership with Communio and Connected Families
Learn about the background of Communio and the research study that reduced divorce rates in Jacksonville, FL
Discover the impact marriage has on multi-generational church attendance
Hear how growing in parenting skills can complement our spiritual growth
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Communio
Book – Endgame: The Church’s Strategic Move to Save Faith and Family in America
The Jacksonville Case Study
Matthew 22: 36-38
Contact Communio – Platform@communio.org
Connected Families Small Group Resources
Connected Families Workshop Speakers
The Table – Monthly Giving Program
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Guest Bio:
J.P. De Gance is the founder and president of Communio and co-author of “Endgame: The Church’s Strategic Move to Save Faith and Family in America.” He leads Communio’s work equipping pastors and churches with data-informed strategies to strengthen congregations through relational health. This approach has been proven through a $20 million initiative that reduced the divorce rate among a network of churches in Jacksonville by 24% between 2016 and 2018. Under his leadership, Communio earned the Heritage Foundation’s 2023 Innovation Prize for its groundbreaking research and church partnerships. J.P. is a husband and father, and lives in Virginia with his wife and 8 children.
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Today’s audioblog explores what’s really happening beneath the surface when kids laugh when in trouble or get silly during correction. Learn practical ways to use the Connected Families Framework™ to build wisdom instead of shame when kids seem to avoid accountability through humor.
Key Takeaways:
Silliness is often an escape hatch, not disrespect
Check your own heart first
Connect before you correct, try stepping into your child’s shoes with playfulness
Build the value of reconciliation in a way that they feel good about
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The Power of Questions online course
Sensitive & Intense Kids online course
Blog Post – Your Child Laughs When in Trouble? How to Build Wisdom, Not Shame
Blog Post – Have You Experienced the Benefits of Child-Led Play?
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
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In this thoughtful conversation, host Stacy Bellward sits down with Certified Parent Coach Katie Wetsell and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Jody Goldie to explore how parents can help their children navigate fear and find security when the world feels uncertain and scary. Drawing from Katie’s personal experience supporting her family through a Nashville school shooting and Jody’s clinical expertise in trauma, this episode offers grace-filled guidance for parents walking alongside children through difficult circumstances.
Key Takeaways:
Starting with calm and security in your own heart first
Create space for your child’s emotions
Learn how curiosity helps when your child feels unsafe
Pointing your kids to faith and hope in God’s plan in the midst of painful sin
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Episode 124 | Empowering Your Differently-Wired Child
Psalm 46:1
Jeremiah 19:5
Thursday Parenting Tips Emails – Sign up now!
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Guest Bio:
Katie Wetsell is our online course moderator. She is also a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, pediatric nurse, and mom of four through birth and adoption. She is passionate about encouraging and empowering parents to love their family with confidence and connection. Building on her bedside experience, she has also been trained in SPACE treatment (Supportive Parenting for Anxious Childhood Emotions) to help parents support their children in overcoming anxiety. Her website is www.parentwithhope.org.
Jody Goldie is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and received her Master’s degree in Counseling from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. She approaches the therapeutic relationship with warmth and the belief that all people have the ability to heal. She works with clients who have experienced complex trauma, post-traumatic stress, anxiety, and depression. Her training includes a family systems approach and incorporates that into the understanding of work with individuals and couples. Jody enjoys incorporating spirituality into therapy if that is desired by the client. You can find her at: www.mwtraumacenter.com.
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¡Escucha este nuevo episodio en español del pódcast de Familias Conectadas! Esther Reich conversa con Luisa Wendt acerca de una de las diferentes formas en las que como padres usamos las consecuencias en la crianza. A través de sus historias reales te sentirás inspirado a usar las consecuencias como medio de restauración y vehículo de paz para tu familia.
Temas mencionados en este podcast:
Marco de referencia para una familia conectada
Blog Post: 3 señales de consecuencias poco útiles y que hacer al respecto.
Descubre más recursos que te apoyarán en la crianza.
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Acerca de Esther:
Esther Reich es Asesora de Crianza Certificada por Connected Families. Ella es enfermera profesional especializada en asesoría de lactancia materna y ella y su esposo, Roberto, tienen tres hijos y sirven como misioneros con Serge en Guatemala desde 2018. A través de enfrentar retos en la crianza de sus hijos acudieron a Connected Families para recibir coaching/apoyo. El apoyo que recibieron de Chad Hayenga y de Lynne Jackson les ayudó a ver cambios significativos en ellos mismos y en sus hijos. Todavía hay mucho espacio para crecer como familia, pero la diferencia de antes y después de la intervención de Connected Families es significativa. Además de servir con otros ministerios en Guatemala (Sigo Vivo y Servant Harts), apoyan a padres e iglesias a través de talleres y coaching/apoyo individual para los que enfrentan retos en su crianza de sus hijos incluyendo los que son muy sensibles o intensos. El correo de Esther es esther.e.cummings@gmail.com
Acerca de Luisa:
Luisa Wendt es Asesora de Crianza certificada por Connected Families nació en Bogotá, Colombia y vive en Iowa con su familia. Luisa y su esposo Jarrett tienen seis hijos, tres en el cielo y tres en la tierra. Dos de sus hermosos hijos llegaron a su familia a través de la adopción. Durante un momento muy complejo en la crianza Connected Families los asesoró y continua asesorandolos y guiandolos en el camino de una crianza basada en la gracia de Dios y la confianza y conexión con sus hijos. Jarrett y Luisa tienen un ministerio que se llama Built on Rock Parent Coaching que nació con el gran deseo de compartir esas enseñanzas con tantas familias como sea posible. Te invitamos a seguir su canal de YouTube, donde todos sus videos tienen subtítulos en español: https://www.youtube.com/@builtonrockparentcoaching Para más información acerca de su historia, ministerio y unas lindas fotos de su familia pueden visitar su página de internet: www.builtonrockparentcoaching.org. En este momento toda la información se encuentra en ingles pero si desean contactarlos para más información o asesorías de crianza en español pueden escribirles a jarrettandluisa@builtonrock.org
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Strong on correction but struggling to connect? In this third episode of the “Don’t Stay Stuck” series, host Stacy Bellward and Certified Parent Coach Katie Wetsell take on a challenge many who value strict parenting face: how to soften without losing structure? If you value obedience but want warmer relationships with your kids, this episode offers hope and practical next steps.
Key Takeaways:
Understanding the God-given strengths of parents who lean toward the top of the Connected Families Framework™
Rethinking immediate obedience
Living out loud and setting an example for your children
Pitfalls of high-demand and low-compassion parenting
Practical tools for getting unstuck and finding balance in your parenting
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Katie Wetsell – Connected Families Certified Parent Coach
Free Parenting Assessment PDF
Blog Post – First-Time Obedience: Should I Require Immediate Obedience from My Child?
Ephesians 6:4
Galatians 6:1
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Guest Bio:
Katie Wetsell has always had a calling on her heart to care for children. She has worked as a pediatric oncology nurse and pediatric nurse practitioner. After experiencing the benefits of parent coaching through Connected Families, Katie later resigned from nursing and became a Certified Parent Coach. She and her husband have four children (three boys and a girl) through birth and adoption. Katie is also trained in SPACE treatment to help parents learn how to support their children struggling with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorders. You can learn more about Katie at parentwithhope.org, and on Facebook @parentwithhopecoach and Instagram @parentwithhopecoach.
© 2025 Connected Families
Dare to dream of peace again.
It’s not hopeless. You can ENJOY YOUR KIDS AGAIN.
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In this second week of our Don’t Stay Stuck series, we’re shifting our focus to parents who are “stuck” at the bottom of the Connected Families Framework™. Being naturally bent toward compassion is a God-given superpower, but what happens when parents are consistently overly permissive? Setting boundaries with kids can be challenging at times. Listen in as Stacy chats with Katie Wetsell, a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, to encourage you to be kind and firm.
Key Takeaways:
How our parenting defaults can actually come from God-given gifts
What does it look like to get stuck at the bottom of the Framework: Am I too soft?
How balance helps kids build wisdom and resilience in their long-term relationships
Concrete examples you can use to add more firmness to your parenting
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Free Parenting Assessment
Helpful Truths and Hurtful Beliefs PDF download
Katie Wetsell – Connected Families Certified Parent Coach
Ep. 98 – Can You Parent Well When You’re Anxious?
Ep. 99 – How Can I Identify Anxiety In My Child?
2 Timothy 1:7
Blog Post – Am I Too Soft? Finding The Strength To Be Both Kind and Firm
Blog Post – First-Time Obedience: Should I Require Immediate Obedience from My Child?
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!
This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
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Guest Bio:
Katie Wetsell has always had a calling on her heart to care for children. She has worked as a pediatric oncology nurse and pediatric nurse practitioner. After experiencing the benefits of parent coaching through Connected Families, Katie later resigned from nursing and became a Certified Parent Coach. She and her husband have four children (three boys and a girl) through birth and adoption. Katie is also trained in SPACE treatment to help parents learn how to support their children struggling with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorders. You can learn more about Katie at parentwithhope.org, and on Facebook @parentwithhopecoach and Instagram @parentwithhopecoach.
© 2025 Connected Families
Dare to dream of peace again.
It’s not hopeless. You can ENJOY YOUR KIDS AGAIN.
CONNECT WITH A PARENT COACH
Ever wonder why you keep defaulting to the same old parenting habits? Stacy Bellward and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Lori Menikheim explore what causes parents to get stuck, and how to find their way forward. Join us as we begin this 3-part series, Don’t Stay Stuck, and gain some practical insights for developing balance in your parenting journey.
Key Takeaways:
Hear stories of what getting stuck looks like
Learn about the 4 messages of the Connected Families Framework and how it helps to move forward
Learn how developing balance transforms the parent-child relationship
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Free Parenting Assessment
My Child Refuses to Listen: A Compassionate Approach to PDA | Ep. 282
Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Program
Luke 1:17
Power of Questions Online Course
Ebook – What Kids Need: 4 Messages That Build Identity
Lori Menikheim – Connected Families Certified Parent Coach
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Book – How to Grow a Connected Family
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Guest Bio:
Lori Menikheim is a wife, mom of two strong-willed teenage girls, and Kids Ministry leader with over 15 years of experience. When she discovered Connected Families, she finally found the language, tools, and hope to parent well and lead ministry well. Now she loves connecting with parents and ministry leaders who want to partner with God in reaching the next generation.
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Happy New Year! Welcome back to another year of exciting content that we pray will leave you equipped and ready for the unique calling of parenthood you’ve been gifted with this year.
You may be wondering, “What is pathological demand avoidance (PDA)?” When your child refuses to listen, it may not be defiance but rather a dysregulated nervous system. In this most-downloaded episode of 2025, hear from Connected Families Content Manager, Laura Way, and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and homeschooling mom, Lydia Rex, as they unpack PDA. Learn how to partner with your child through these challenging moments, using a graceful approach and practical tools from the Connected Families Framework.
Key Takeaways:
How the Connected Families Framework applies to parenting a sensitive or intense child
Simple things you can do now to support your child
Discover ways to shift your perspective and view your experience as a gift
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Connected Families Sensitive & Intense online course
Connected Families Power of Questions online course
Hebrews 4:15
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Guest Bio:
Lydia Rex is a registered nurse turned Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner and parent coach to families with young kids, especially those who have sensory needs or developmental trauma. No stranger to the challenges of parenting, Lydia offers empathy, encouragement, and a deep commitment to walking alongside parents through the Connected Families Framework. It’s her joy to see God’s grace healing the hearts of parents and children. Lydia, her husband Kyle, and their two kids live in Iowa, where they enjoy homeschooling, outdoor activities, and reading lots of books.
Laura Way felt like she was drowning as a young mom overseas. She thinks that God provided Connected Families for her when she needed it most. She’s thrilled to be on the team, offering hope & help to others! Laura and her husband live in Florida with their two elementary-aged daughters. In her free time, Laura loves to read in her hammock or have coffee with friends.
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In this heartfelt year-end episode, Connected Families team members Stacy Bellward, Chad Hayenga, and Joe Dewey gather to reflect on a transformative year and share exciting plans for 2026 to continue to encourage you on your journey with intentional parenting. Along the way, they open up about their own families’ rhythms for reflecting on the year past and looking ahead. This episode has practical ideas you can try with your own family. Whether you’re curious about what’s next for Connected Families or looking for fresh ways to close out the year together, this episode has something for you.
Key Takeaways:
Ideas for family rhythms for year-end reflection
Connected Families highlights from 2025
Looking forward to 2026
Mentioned in this Podcast:
The Heart of Jesus, Dan Orland Book
Connected Families Impact Stories
Donate to Connected Families
Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Program
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This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!
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Guest Bio:
Joe Dewey is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. He has a Bachelor’s in Mechanical Engineering and has served in full-time ministry with Cru in Leader Development and Human Resources since 2010. He has been a certified life coach since 2017. These experiences and more have molded him to lead with solutions. Whether it comes to ministry or parenting, he finds clarity in the midst of complexity, providing win-win solutions.
Chad Hayenga joined Connected Families in 2005. He is married to Carma and has three adult daughters and two sons-in-law. Chad oversees coaching and the Parent Coach Certification Program, which continues to grow in its reach across North America and worldwide.
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What does it look like to live out the Connected Families Framework? What does it look like to live it out in your own heart and relationships? In this final episode of our 3-part series, Hope for the Long Haul, Jim and Lynne Jackson share how the Framework has shaped their lives over time: from finding their identity in Jesus, to marriage, to navigating the joys and challenges of parenting adult children. If you’re wondering whether this stuff really helps in the long term, this one’s for you.
Key Takeaways:
How and what the Connected Families Framework has looked like in their marriage
Learning that Jesus is our “report card”
What it looks like to keep the connection alive in marriage and in parenting
How gifts gone awry and “Foundation” messages impacted their working careers
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Genesis 12:1-3
Book mentioned – Connecting: Healing Ourselves and Our Relationships by Dr. Larry Crabb
The Entitlement Fix online course
Donate to Connected Families
Trash, Truth, Treasure online mini-course
The Connected Families Framework
Podcast – Payoffs & Accidental Rewards: How to Focus on the Right Stuff
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Guest Bio:
Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002.
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In this audioblog, we take on a topic relevant to holiday gatherings: what to do when you receive unsolicited advice from well-meaning relatives? From preparing ahead of time to helping your kids navigate criticisms, today you’ll hear some practical strategies to help you continue to parent confidently in your grace-based approach.
Key Takeaways:
How to have empathetic responses with your family members before redirecting their approaches
Confident responses to practice in advance
How to equip your kids with truth before the gathering
Mentioned in this Podcast:
Blog – How to Handle Unsolicited Parenting Advice from Family (4 Grace-Filled Tips)
PDF – Scripts for Unsolicited Advice
Holiday Family Stress? How to Actually Enjoy Family Gatherings | Ep. 276
Luke 1:17
Free E-Book – What Kids Need: 4 Messages That Build Identity
The Table Monthly Giving Program
Give a Gift to Connected Families
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This really resonates—chores always turn into a battle in our house too. I like the idea of shifting the focus from just “getting things done” to actually building connection and responsibility. It reminds me of when I was helping my kid learn basics using https://amultiplicationchart.com/ at first it felt like a task, but when we made it more interactive, it became something we actually enjoyed together. Same mindset probably applies to chores too.
wow this one is really good. Changing to be aware of our own emotions first to be able to deal with our kids. thank you guys for sharing
I was so blessed by this episode and learned so much. I immediately started praising God for my blessings.