Women of Impact

What’s up, guys! It’s Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I’m joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we’re talking about eeeeevery woman’s WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you’re NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I’m telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You ever wonder how people in power keep getting away with horrifying crimes… somehow slipping through the cracks, even when "justice" is supposed to have our backs? And why, more often than not, it’s OTHER WOMEN helping them keep it all covered up?! Homie, THIS is the episode you’ve been waiting for. Breaking news, jaw-dropping clips, and unfiltered Q&A… today’s Live is all about the manipulation, the marketing, and the female betrayal fueling one of the darkest scandals in history.  Buckle up, because we’re diving DEEP into: Cover-Ups, Congressional Chaos & Female Betrayal Manipulation Tactics EVERY Woman Needs to Spot Jay-Z, Super Bowl Drama & Kids Used as Props The Dark Tetrad: Unmasking Evil in Plain Sight Epstein Files: The Names You Never Thought You’d See The Real Trap: Women Helping Women — Into Hell Virginia Giuffre: Survivor, Hero, & Was Her Death Really An Accident? Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Microperfumes: 60% off at https://microperfumes.com/woi FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you thought Part 1 was wild, wait for this. In Part 2, we get down and dirty… religion (yep, my dad said NO to Tom), smashing gender roles, why chores start so many fights, what’s ACTUALLY happening in the bedroom after 25 years, and how we survived me going from silent-housewife to boardroom boss. We’re talking about how we keep our marriage spicy (even when hormones go haywire), why I still make Tom’s snacks (well, sometimes), and the honest truth on resenting each other about laundry and dishes and “who does more.” If you’ve ever wondered how to totally rethink your love life, face the little annoyances, and STILL want to rip each other’s clothes off (most days) after decades, get in here. SHOWNOTES Sex, porn, and mismatched drives – the honest realityHow we handle rejection, desires, and open communication Why I don’t resent Tom for the “chores” & the Will Smith moment Perimenopause, hormones, and why divorce rates skyrocket How to argue, course-correct & never stop growing as a couple Who leads? Masculine/feminine balance and not losing yourself From stay-at-home to business partner – surviving identity shifts Chores, resentment, and division of emotional labor The “how do you stay in love?” secret Thank you to our sponsors:  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Microperfumes: 60% off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Follow Tom Bilyeu:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Newsletter: https://tombilyeu.com/billion-dollar-principles Starting a business? Join me inside Zero to Founder: https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

To my Ladies, Today’s episode was such a difficult one for me, but I felt called to record it because these issues are tearing soooooo many couples and families apart, and it's time we talk about it! This is me being really extremely vulnerable as I have a conversation with my husband about something that’s been sitting heavy for a long time. I run a female empowerment channel. I love this show. I love you guys. I’m here to encourage women to be freaking badass. And yet… my husband voted for Trump. A man I despise!  And when that came out publicly? The backlash was real. And I’ve been navigating our relationship, our differences, and how the hell I even talk about this… for almost a year. So today, I’m bringing my hubby on because we’re finally having the conversation no one wants to have. The conversation people are too afraid to touch.  I’ve had so many women come to me quietly like, “Lisa, don’t tell anyone, but…” and then it’s either their partner voted for Trump and they’re terrified of the backlash, or they voted for Trump themselves and feel like they have to stay silent. And when that many people feel like they have to hide? Something is wrong!!! Relationships can’t thrive when you’re walking on eggshells and pretending. So I wanted to be real. I wanted to be honest. And I wanted to show you what it looks like to love someone deeply and still have differences… politics, religion, all of it. I’m Greek Orthodox, he’s atheist. We’ve navigated this for 25 years. It hasn’t always been easy… but it’s been doable. And here’s the key: we’ve never lost respect for each other and we’ve never abandoned ourselves! I don’t expect everyone to “love” this episode. I get it. Everyone has their opinions. But this isn’t about politics. This is about how you stay connected when you don’t agree. How you actually hear your partner. How you handle different views without trying to tear each other down. Because let me be really real, I love my husband more than anything on this planet and his political and religious beliefs hasn't and won't ever change that.  So if you’re that person, if you want to understand your partner and navigate differences while still being incredibly happy and solid, please listen with open ears, open eyes, and an open mind. Because if we can learn to have honest conversations with grace, love, respect and without trying to destroy each other? Oh my God… I truly believe we can build a different world. And it all starts with being brave…. Much Love, Lisa B SHOWNOTES Trump, feminism, and the fallout – surviving public backlash The “North Star” in marriage vs. politics Economic collapse, history lessons & ugly truths Abortion – my story, my shame, and working through pain together Globalization, jobs, and why immigration is so damn messy What if Trump “turned” on me? – loyalty, fear, and family first Can you be a Women’s advocate AND married to someone with opposite views? Building on CORE values, not political headlines Interfaith marriages – Greek Orthodox vs. Atheist & mutual respect Raising kids (if we had them!) and value collisions Sex, porn, and mismatched drives – the honest reality Thank you to our sponsors:  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Microperfumes: 60% off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Follow Tom Bilyeu: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Newsletter: https://tombilyeu.com/billion-dollar-principles Starting a business? Join me inside Zero to Founder: https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with urologist & pelvic surgeon, Dr. Rena Malik.   Dr. Rena continues debunking the lies we’ve been told about sex, (like bigger is better, you’ll get loose from too much sex, etc.), and shedding light on important sexual health misconceptions that are setting us up for failure in the bedroom.  We also cover why mediocre sex is a GOOD thing and why a sex toy is juuuuuust like a microwave!!  So tune in now and learn how to have more pleasure, more orgasms and better relationships!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Rena Malik: Website: https://renamalikmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renamalikmd Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another super powerful episode of Women of Impact, and today get ready to have alllllll your questions about sex (that you’re too embarrassed to ask) ANSWERED.  Sex is NOT a taboo subject here!  I’m joined by the unbelievably knowledgeable and compassionate urologist & pelvic surgeon, Dr. Rena Malik. And she is SPILLING THE TEA on soooo many topics, like: - How masterbating effects health & longevity - Does sex actually cure headaches? - The truth about morning sex - Is it normal NOT to orgasm every time?  - How to tell if he’s faking an orgasm and what it MEANS - The sock trick that makes you climax faster  - The links between your overall health and sexual health - What to do if your man has ED - How your stress is messing with your pleasure Dr. Rena and I also get into why it's crucial to plan intimacy & communicate sexual preferences in long-term relationships, so you can prioritize pleasure and connect on a deeper level!  This episode is PACKED with VALUABLE information about sex and the sexual health of women AND men, and knowledge is power guys!! So tune in to Women of Impact now! Follow Dr. Rena Malik: Website: https://renamalikmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renamalikmd Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From the unsealing of the Epstein files (hello, chaos), to the tidal wave hitting Jay Z, Beyonce, and even Melinda Gates, we’re asking the stuff nobody wants to touch: Did she know? Is standing by your man being an accomplice? What happens when the most famous people on the planet get called out… and lose millions of followers OVERNIGHT? We’re breaking down the blueprint for how powerful men (and, yes, powerful women too) silence, manipulate, and trap us… and how you can stop it from ever happening to you or your daughters. SHOWNOTES Why You Can’t Just “Blame Men” for Abuse (Yes, Women Too) The Epstein Files: Jay Z, Beyonce…Did She Know? Melinda French Gates & Bill Gates: When You’re Blindsided by the Person You Trusted Most Survivor Stories: Heartbreaking and Empowering Tales from Real Women How Powerful Men Silence Women (and the Tactics You NEED to Know) Nicki Minaj, Industry Sabotage, and Why Speaking Up Still Costs Women The Most Powerful Cult in the World: How Manipulators Trap Victims Gisèle Pelicot: The Woman Who Broke France’s Silence on Rape How Fathers Can Empower Daughters… and Sons How to Heal, Rebuild, and NEVER Let Them Silence You Again Thank you to our sponsors:  LELO: 20% off with code LISA20 at https://lelo.to/LELOVDAYxLISA OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Quince: Free shipping and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/impactpod FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When you’ve been hurt by someone you trusted, it feels impossible that you’ll ever let go of the pain and shame around what happened and be able to stand in your power again. The truth is that though you feel like a victim, and you feel taken advantage of, or like you’re completely broken, it is possible to move past this situation and open yourself to love and safety without fear. Najwa Zebian has joined us on Women of Impact multiple times and each time she’s been able to put words to the pain that has blindsided many women and offer a new perspective through which we can move out of survival mode and truly start healing.  She’s the bestselling author of Welcome Home, Mind Platter, Sparks of Phoenix and so much more. As a woman she’s experienced the difficulties of life, going against culture, and being open and vulnerable with the wrong people.  In this episode, Najwa and Lisa are bringing you a fresh look at setting boundaries. It’s not about keeping people out or giving other people a set of rules to follow, it’s about your personal value and how you see your self-worth. Being a people pleasing woman may have landed you in painful situations, but you can make peace with that version of you and ask yourself the one question that will bring you to tears, healing, and freedom. Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: ⁠https://najwazebian.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/najwazebian⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.cokkfdlk dfmlkfd m/najwazebian⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/najwazebian1⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://najwazebian.com/stories-of-soul-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when your gut screams “he’s lying, ”but everyone else believes him? We break down the exact body language, tactics, and psychological games toxic men use to dodge accountability, gaslight victims, and control the narrative. Today I’m joined by former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, who teaches you how to spot deceit in real time, even when the world wants you to second-guess yourself. We’re analyzing infamous interviews with Harvey Weinstein, Andrew Tate, and Prince Andrew. We dig into the truth behind the denials, and give YOU the tools to see through manipulation, reclaim your voice, and never shrink again. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How to “read” body language and spot deception instantly The subtle cues that reveal when someone is building a story vs. recalling real memories Tactical scripts used to invalidate women and re-write “the facts” How to protect yourself (and your loved ones) from gaslighting, fraud, and emotional traps Show Notes Spotting Lies: Harvey Weinstein’s Denial and Gwyneth Paltrow’s Truth Dismissing, Minimizing, and Gaslighting - Harvey’s Playbook Ashley Judd’s Story: Vulnerability, Shame, and Escape Breaking Down Weinstein’s Strategy: Avoid, Deflect, Repeat Andrew Tate: Rehearsed Innocence, Narcissism, and Priming the Audience The Patterns of Manipulation: Controlling, Diminishing, and Distracting Prince Andrew’s Infamous Interview: Anchoring, Rehearsed Stories, and Deceit Thank you to our sponsors:  LELO: 20% off with code LISA20 at https://lelo.to/LELOVDAYxLISA OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Quince: Free shipping and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/impactpod Follow Andrew Bustamante: Want to learn more from Andrew? Find your Spy Superpower: https://yt.everydayspy.com/4po5Mul  Read Andrew’s CIA book ‘Shadow Cell’: https://geni.us/ShadowCellBook    Follow Andy on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@Andrew-Bustamante  Explore Spy School: https://everydayspy.com/   Support Andy's sponsor Axolt Brain: https://axoltbrain.com/andy  Listen to the podcast: https://youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The second part of this conversation with Cindy Trimm on Women of Impact is just as packed with gems of wisdom as the first part. In this half, we move into the power of boundaries, brokenness, and the gift of communication in every one of these areas. “Every crisis is a gift, every problem is an opportunity, and every adverse circumstance is my most valuable teacher.” -Cindy Trimm If you've ever wondered, "Is staying single worth it?" Before you settle for that partner your gut keeps warning you about, you HAVE to listen to this episode. This heart-to-heart with Cindy Trimm, a woman who turned her broken pieces and unstoppable ambition is a powerful inspiration for anyone. Cindy got married at 60 (yes, you read that right!), proving that it's never too late to find happiness. She believes that we attract who we are, not who we want. So, if you're dreaming of an amazing partner, let’s get back into this conversation with the unstoppable Cindy Trimm.! Follow Cindy Trimm: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Women of Impact ! This two-part conversation with Cindy Trimm is PACKED with wisdom bombs you wish you heard 10 or 20 years ago. Cindy shares her story of transforming her broken pieces into powerful lessons, and how she found love at 60! We unpack the value of being single and why you never want to settle. The encouraging part in all this is that you attract who you are, not who you want. Cindy gives practical tips and gems  on how to make yourself the priority and not the option. We dive deep into Cindy's 20-year vision plan and how she developed the mindset of choosing adventure over security. We discuss hard-hitting questions like, "Can he handle all that you want to grow and evolve into?" It's time for you to stop playing the supporting role in other people's stories. “Your feet will never take you where your mind has never been.” -Cindy Trimm If you're ready to step into your own story as the leading lady, this episode is a must-listen! Remember, you're worthy of happiness, and we're here to help you achieve it. Stay unstoppable, ladies! Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review for more empowering conversations like this one. Follow Cindy Trimm: Website: ⁠https://iweighcommunity.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/jameelajamil⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From emotional cheating and red-hot debates on onscreen “love” (looking at you, Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi), to AI deepfakes, Paris Hilton’s epic advocacy, and the TRUTH about why women’s stress skyrockets with a messy house…. Nothing is off limits in this live, jam session. Whether you’re here for the spicy gossip, the “WTF do I do if my friend is touchy with my partner?” Q&A, or just want to finally hear the science behind why you can't sit down if there’s a dirty kitchen, this episode is your safe space, your hype house, and your wake up call all-in-one. SHOWNOTES Margot Robbie, Jacob Elordi & the steamy marketing machine… where’s the line between acting and actual attraction? “My (married) friend won’t stop touching my husband. Help!” How AI deepfake porn is invading women’s (and CHILDREN’s) lives - 90% of non-consensual AI porn targets women The resentment trap: How unspoken housework divides lead to relationship apocalypse (literally. The Gottman Institute has the receipts) PROOF it’s never too late: One badass woman’s viral story to inspire you to take the leap and change your life—no matter your age or circumstances Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you ever looked at your family, friend group, or workplace and thought, “How am I the ONLY ONE who sees the toxicity?” This second half is for YOU. Let’s talk solutions… how to unmask narcissists, reclaim your sanity, and navigate the fallout when no one else gets it. Dr. Ramani comes in HOT with real-life scripts, strategic boundaries, and deep wisdom for escaping the sticky residue narcissists leave behind. We get into the six key ways to unmask a narcissist (and why calling them out never works), how NOT to fall for their gaslighting or blame-shifting, and why “no contact” with family isn’t about revenge, it’s about healing. Plus, we play Red Flag/Green Flag with some of the most COMMON dating scenarios. This episode is your hands-on toolkit for real boundaries, radical self-compassion, and breaking free from those manipulative emotional webs. SHOWNOTES  6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out) Why Conflict with Narcissists Is Never Equal  Letting Narcissists Expose Themselves: Not Your Job to Fix Why Telling the Truth Never Sets You Free (With a Narcissist) Red Flag/Green Flag: Rapid-Fire Relationship Scenarios Community Q&A: How to Protect Yourself & Spot Red Flags Slowing Down, Trusting Your Body, and Journaling for Self-Discovery  The Truth About No Contact (and Estrangement) with Parents Healing Your Inner Wounds & Creating a New Family Narrative  Final Steps for Adult Children and Parents Looking to Heal  Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Dr. Ramani:Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever looked at a relationship and thought, “Surely this isn’t narcissism, he’s so sensitive”? Or wondered how narcissists can show up NOT as the obvious arrogant bad boys, but as gentle, emotionally tuned ‘soft boys’ who turn your world upside down? Oh, you’re NOT alone. This episode is packed with the truth bombs you need to spot the real signs of narcissistic partners and understand the psychological traps that keep women stuck, confused, and questioning their reality. I’m joined by THE Dr. Ramani — psychologist, best-selling author, and the ultimate expert on narcissistic relationships.Today, she lays out the new faces of narcissism, teaches us the universal warning sign you can spot, and reveals the insidious behaviors that keep you feeling guilty and stuck. For every woman who feels crazy because “no one else sees it”—this is your permission slip to trust yourself. SHOWNOTES The Soft Boy Trap: Why ‘Sensitive’ Men Can Still Be Narcissists Vulnerable Narcissists: How Empathy Is Weaponized What Darvo Is & How Narcissists Flip the Script The Resentful Martyr: How Help Turns Toxic Why Setting Boundaries with Narcissists Never Works Grudge-Holding and Self-Righteous Narcissism Why You Feel Crazy: Why No One Else Sees It  6 Reasons You’re the Only One Who Sees It  Communal Narcissists, Enablers, and Powerful Dynamics  6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/ Dr. Ramani Network: https://doctor-ramani.com/drn/ The Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.com/the-healing-program/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this amazing episode of Women of Impact with my girl Rahdi Devlukia-Shetty with more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! In part 2, we’re getting into:  - How to respond and stand strong when everyone has an opinion - Releasing emotions & feeling proud - Listening to & trusting your body  - Tactics for not allowing negativity energy into your life - And so much more! You won’t want to miss the conclusion of this incredible episode!  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What up, guys! It’s Lisa here with another BOMB episode of Women of Impact and if you’re practically a walking masterclass on people pleasing and questioning yourself, this episode will help you finally stop the validation-seeking behaviors and break the “Nice Girl” habits that keep you stuck in your comfort zone.   Today my girl Radhi Devlukia-Shetty is back for another super honest & inspiring conversation about the power of facing your fears, not allowing anxiety to stop you, and standing strong when everyone has an opinion. In case you didn’t already know – Radhi is a mission-driven entrepreneur, a fitness & well-being enthusiast, a plant based cook and recipe developer, and a trained dietitian, nutritionist and ayurvedic student & counselor.  In this episode, we’re diving into: - Breaking the bad habits that keep you playing small - The secret to taking action even when you want to run in the other direction - Separating love from the boundaries you need to have for yourself without feeling guilty - Combating negative self-talk - Comforting food for the mind and body - And so much more! And that’s just in the first part! Make sure you catch the rest of my convo with Radhi in part 2 for more practical tips to help you prepare for the moments when you get knocked down so that you can get back up one.more.time., better and stronger than before! Follow Radhi Shetty: Website: ⁠https://www.joyfullbook.com/⁠  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you KNOW you’re self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you’re “too much” or “not enough”… but you can’t figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone. Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE. I’m coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time. No therapy jargon here. We talk: Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy) What to do when YOU’RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie) The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere) The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it’s not the same and we break it DOWN) Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step) How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know) If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love. Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com FOLLOW THAIS GIBSON: Website: https://personaldevelopmentschool.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready for the real talk? In part two, Dr. Spirit and Lisa Bilyeu get even deeper, unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of love, boundaries, and all those “why does he DO that?!” questions you’ve probably vented about to your girlfriends. They get into everything from why it’s so hard to walk away, to how to communicate without losing yourself, and the sneaky ways gaslighting shows up (yep, even Taylor Swift can relate). With juicy listener questions, viral video clips, and laugh-out-loud moments, Spirit dishes on how to spot performative affection vs. the real deal, why relationships fall apart when you stop trying, and why it’s totally OK to expect (and get!) more from love.  SHOWNOTES Infidelity, ownership, and why it’s NOT your fault The hard convo: when “life stuff” gets in the way of intimacy The MANY forms of infidelity, yes, emotional and financial too The ultimate red flag: when you start to shrink Why the real offense is when you stick around Take your power back, he doesn’t need to change for you to leave Why we crave validation from the very people that hurt us Are your “forevers” even aligned? Are you his partner, or his mom? (Breaking down viral “mental load” drama) The relationship falls apart when you stop trying, now what? How to spot real love from fake affection (for the romantics) Spirit’s nonprofit: how to get involved and give back   Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a seriously honest and empowering episode of Women of Impact! In this first half, Lisa Bilyeu sits down with superstar relationship expert Spirit, who brings her no-nonsense wisdom and some hard-hitting truth bombs about love, dating, and why so many women end up feeling stuck in relationships that are less than they deserve. If you’ve ever found yourself over-analyzing “red flags,” settling for someone’s “potential,” or just wanting someone to help you finally decode men’s confusing behavior, you’re in the right place. Spirit breaks down the real difference between care and control, why settling never works out the way you hope, and how to finally stop repeating patterns you hate. Grab a notebook, this is the relationship reality check you didn’t know you needed. SHOWNOTES “Marry Him or Move On”—Red flag vs. green flag game!Is he too involved or just thoughtful? Why it’s so easy to fall for potential (and why that’s dangerous) Chasing the fantasy vs. living in reality Defining true safety and partnership Red flags: when things move too fast Stories we tell ourselves to justify staying The “almost compatible” trap Raising your standards: how to break the cycle When toxic partners echo your worst fears Spirit gets personal: Surviving a narcissist Healing from emotional abuse and reclaiming confidence The official red flag checklist: how to spot if something’s wrong Why “I’ll change” is usually just a line Why men avoid hard conversations (brains and emotional muscles explained) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back for part 2 of this mind-blowing conversation on Women of Impact, where my homie, trauma-informed psychologist, Mariel Buque PhD continues to expose the world of manipulation.  Stick around and dive deep with us into the idea of holding a relationship funeral to ensure toxic exes stay in the past where they belong. Discover how relentless a manipulative partner can get to keep you under control, and learn how to break free from their grasp. Mariel shares insights, tools, and strategies that will help you see through the manipulation, set up manipulator proof boundaries and reclaim your sense of self.  Get ready for a revelation-packed episode that will leave you feeling stronger and more confident than ever before. If you’re ready to deep dive on healing intergenerational trauma and breaking the toxic cycles you find yourself in, check out Mariel’s book, Break the Cycles: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593472497⁠?  “Everyone should know what narcissism looks like, what manipulation looks like, the ways that these people hoover their way into your life, how they suck you into cycles, we should all feel some kind of protection from these experiences in relationships.” -Mariel Buque Follow Dr. Mariel Buque: Website: ⁠https://www.drmarielbuque.com/⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://breakthecyclewithdrmariel.buzzsprout.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/dr.marielbuque/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKa79peiy6CJf2RDI13YNeQ⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  X: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices