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Narcissistic abuse is a huge problem in today's society, yet it is rarely talked about, even though the effects are devastating. If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, you will have suffered at their hands. At the beginning, they are charming and intoxicating, but over time they become controlling, manipulative and they will drain you emotionally and financially. This podcast is to help other people heal from narcissistic abuse! I know all about it because I suffered a lot from narcissism in my family. If you are suffering then visit: https://innertoxicrelief.com. We are healing together!
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Narcissism develops following childhood experiences in which the narcissist buried what they consider to be a defective true self and replaced it with a false self. They infused this false self with grandiose ideas, and they use manipulation and control to get others to support the distorted image they present to the world. This is what lies at the heart of why narcissists fear intimacy. There are several feelings that intimacy invokes in the narcissist, all of which make them very nervous about getting too close to anyone. Here are 8 of the most common underlying reasons why narcissists will do almost anything to avoid intimacy.
Narcissists lie easily and frequently. They learn early in life that lying is an effective manipulation tool, and they have no compunctions about using it. They lie to get you to do what they want, but they also lie because it gives them a feeling of power. They realize they can control you and the situations in their life with lies, and they don’t seem concerned about what will happen if you find out they lied. But how can you tell when they’re lying?
It can be as difficult to tell if a narcissist is lying as it is with anyone else, but there are some common signs to look for that indicate they are likely lying. Here are 11 red flags to be aware of.
If you have to continue to live with a narcissist in your life, you’ll find that it’s a constant battle for power. Narcissists love to feel as though they are all-powerful and in control of everything around them. If they do have power, they are usually abusive to anyone who is under their control. Dealing with a narcissist is difficult for many reasons, but their propensity to abuse power is probably one of the most problematic issues you’ll face.
Let’s explore in this episode how you can take away their power over your life.
When you’re in an argument with a narcissist, it can be a little like navigating through a labyrinth as they change directions and say sometimes outrageous things to misdirect and distract you. They will use various manipulation techniques as well to discourage you from pursuing a subject they don’t want to discuss. They also will say things just to get a rise out of you or trigger you into reacting emotionally. It’s all designed to make them feel powerful.
Narcissists will say the most frustrating things to make you lose control so they can gain the upper hand in an argument. Today we are discussing 9 of the most infuriating things a narcissist will say in an argument.
When you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, there’s no question that it changes you. The kind of emotional abuse they put you through has several long-lasting effects no matter what happens to the relationship. The narcissist will lie to you, gaslight you, and use other manipulative techniques that can have a detrimental effect on both your physical and mental health. To truly understand how the narcissist can cause such dramatic changes in your life, you need to watch this video until the end. So, let’s dive in deeper.
Narcissism is an extremely destructive personality disorder that can literally ruin your life. If you’re in a relationship of any kind with a narcissist, they will take advantage of you by using manipulation to control you. They can leave you with low self-esteem, take all your money, and even have you doubting your own sanity. It’s critical to know how to respond to their abusive manipulation tactics so they won’t ruin your life, but how?
Listen to this episode to discover several techniques to stop the narcissist from ruining your life.
When engaging in an argument with a narcissist, it often escalates rapidly to a point where they threaten to leave, which may seem contradictory considering their need for others to provide them with narcissistic supply and boost their self-esteem. Despite their reliance on others, even minor conflicts can trigger the narcissist to make such threats. Listen to this episode to learn about the reasons behind this seemingly contradictory behavior, so you will better be able to respond to these kinds of threats.
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is often characterized by the narcissist's persistent refusal to accept responsibility for their actions when things go wrong. They effortlessly transfer blame onto others, engaging in complex mental maneuvers to attribute their own mistakes to someone else, even in situations beyond anyone's control. But why do they insist on finding a scapegoat? If you find yourself trapped in a relationship with a narcissist, it's crucial to comprehend the underlying motivations driving their tendency to shift blame onto others. Being subjected to a narcissist's blame game can significantly impact your self-esteem. Explore this episode to uncover the reasons behind this behavior and gain a deeper understanding of the complex dynamics involved.
If you've endured a relationship with a narcissist, you're familiar with the intense abuse they inflict. Manipulation, control, lies, gaslighting, infidelity, blame-shifting—they employ a range of tactics to dominate and confuse you. The question arises: how can such an abusive person maintain a long-term relationship? This episode unravels the stages, explores narcissism's impact on relationships, and sheds light on why some choose to stay. Gain insight and understanding by watching this enlightening content.
You may have undoubtedly observed that narcissists tend to surround themselves with a sizable entourage of companions. They frequently maintain an extensive network of friends and acquaintances, with whom they are in constant contact, despite not necessarily labeling them as friends. After experiencing the darker aspects of a narcissist's personality, it's natural to question how they manage to accumulate such a large circle of friends. In this episode, we will discuss seven compelling reasons that shed light on why narcissists are remarkably adept at sustaining friendships.
Hoovering, much like the functioning of a Hoover vacuum, is a tactic employed by narcissists to reel you back into their sphere of influence. It occurs typically after the cycle of narcissistic abuse has run its course, and you have severed contact with the narcissist, regardless of whether you initiated the "no contact" or if you were discarded by the narcissist. Inevitably, they will resurface in your life, initiating the hoovering process. If you wish to avoid falling back into the clutches of the manipulative narcissist you have bravely left behind, this episode will provide you with insights into the hoovering techniques they employ to draw you back into their web.
If you find yourself dealing with a narcissistic loved one, you may have observed a puzzling phenomenon: while they may subject you to raging outbursts, the silent treatment, or belittlement, they can simultaneously display exceptional kindness and charm towards others. It's akin to witnessing the duality of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. One moment, they're hurling hateful words at you, and the next, they're engaging someone with such charisma and benevolence that you start questioning your own perception. This episode will explore seven reasons behind the contrasting behavior of narcissists, unveiling why they can appear charming to others while revealing their ugly side.
It doesn't take long to notice the striking resemblance between narcissists and the behavior of young children. Their self-centeredness, constant neediness, and profound lack of empathy or understanding for others become glaringly apparent. When faced with challenges or frustrations, they unleash tantrums of rage, seemingly oblivious to the consequences of their actions. These unmistakable childish characteristics raise an intriguing question: why do adult narcissists exhibit such juvenile behavior? Today we discuss 9 reasons why narcissists are so childish. These all result from the childhood trauma that caused their mental disorder. Let’s get started.
When it comes to narcissists, infidelity is an all too familiar theme. Their insatiable hunger for external validation often leads them to seek connections outside of their committed relationships. However, the covert narcissist presents a unique challenge, as their mental disorder isn't as overtly apparent as that of their grandiose counterparts. Spotting the signs of a covert narcissist's infidelity can be trickier, but fear not, for there are discernible patterns that may catch your attention. It's essential to equip yourself with knowledge about covert narcissism, as these elusive individuals can be harder to detect. Are you ready to unravel the enigma? Let's embark on this eye-opening exploration.
If you find yourself entangled in a relationship with a narcissistic partner, it's natural to question what initially drew them to you. It's easy to fall into the trap of self-blame, wondering if there's something inherently wrong with you that attracted their attention. But let's not jump to conclusions just yet, for the dynamics at play are far more intricate than meets the eye. Prepare yourself for an enlightening journey as you delve into this captivating video. Unlock the secrets of the narcissist's selection process and how specific traits in their potential spouse work cunningly to their advantage. Discover the intriguing truth about how certain positive qualities can unwittingly pave the path for the narcissist to enter your life. Don't wait any longer—press play and embark on this illuminating exploration.
If you find yourself entangled in a relationship with a narcissist, the moment of revelation can feel nothing short of emancipating. Suddenly, everything clicks into place, and you may be tempted to share this newfound understanding with them, hoping they will experience the same enlightenment. But should you actually confront a narcissist about their devastating personality disorder? Approaching a narcissist with such delicate information requires careful consideration and preparation. Before you embark on this courageous endeavor, take a moment to explore your motives and grasp the potential responses that await. Embark on a journey through this captivating video, as it unravels the intricacies of telling a narcissist the truth. Brace yourself and let's dive in.
When in the company of a narcissist, it doesn't take much time to recognize their affinity for drama. Simplicity is a rarity in their presence, as they take pleasure in constructing a chaotic atmosphere and then leisurely observing the ensuing spectacle. But what drives this affection? What do they gain from it? Certainly, it is not a figment of your imagination that the narcissist in your life revels in drama. Let's discuss ten reasons why they embrace it.
If you’ve been involved with a narcissist in any kind of relationship, you know how their manipulation and emotional abuse leave you feeling. They are experts at targeting the strengths of their victims and using your own fears against them. Often, this has devastating consequences for your well-being and self-esteem. In fact, it can ruin your life. Today we will show you 7 ways in which narcissistic manipulation and emotional abuse can ruin your life. Let’s get started.
Narcissism is a complicated personality disorder that involves the construction of a false self to replace what the narcissist truly believes to be a worthless true self. In defiance of the shame and self-loathing they truly feel, the narcissist infuses the false self with grandiose ideas of superiority that require an almost constant supply of external validation. Because of that reliance on external sources of adoration, aging is a complicated process for the narcissist.
Apologies from narcissists are a rare occurrence, and even when they do happen, they often serve as mere manipulative tactics. It is understandable if you find it difficult to believe in the sincerity of their apology, as more often than not, it is insincere. Instead of verbally expressing remorse, narcissists tend to rely on actions that attempt to mend the situation. Unfortunately, this is not always a viable option. Regardless of the type of apology they offer, the crucial question remains: How should you respond? In the episode today we’ll explore what to look for to see if they really meant it or were they just using it to placate you. Let’s get started.
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